Interracial Dating / Double Standard.

[SAKU!!!]

Asian males accuse their women of selling out, self hate, trying to assimulate and all that by dating Whites but, when a Asian male goes out and does the same with a White female, it is seen as an empowerment. I've read alot of comments recently from AF's accusing AM's of being hypocrites. Well, my opinion is YES!! there is a double standard in IR dating between Asians and Whites.

Generally speaking.

*AF will date a WM to: Gain social status. Because of self hate. Assimulate into the White mainstream.

*AM will date a WF to: Even the score. He has only a few choices and opportunities to begin with. To fight the stereotype society has of the desexualized Asian male.

[SunWuKong]

do i hear a can of worms being opened?

[BigLew]

I thought this can of worms stays open.

[RasFarengi]

Well if the can is open might as well empty it. ;)


Saku:

Who said your only option is dating white women?

If you really truely can't find an Asian woman, there are other types of women in this country.

Is dating a white woman pay back to the white man, or bedding down some blond prove your manhood or equal success? Trust me when I tell you white women are not that special...not anymore than any other type of woman.

If you judge your empowerment by your ability to get busy with a white girl, that sounds kind of sad, really it sounds like you put yourself in an inferior position to white people when you take that attitude. They aren't all that.

[Tao]

<!--QuoteBegin-RasFarengi+Aug 8 2003, 03:42 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (RasFarengi @ Aug 8 2003, 03:42 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Is dating a whiet woman pay back to the white man, or bedding down some blond prove your manhood or equal success? [/b][/quote]
i think we all know the answer to that :P

[Chester]

YW should just have a permanent "Inter-racial Dating = Selling Out?" forum, just so this perpetual topic can have a home of its very own.

[SAKU&#33;&#33;&#33;]

So AM's with WF's is okay as long as he knows his Asian American roots! What about AF's with WM who knows her AA roots?

*AF's with WM who knows her AA roots: Supporting the stereotype
*AM's with WF's who knows his Asian American roots: Breaking the stereotype

Sorry Ras, you blew it!!!! :lol:

[AliBabaIncorporated]

<!--QuoteBegin-Chester+Aug 8 2003, 01:00 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Chester @ Aug 8 2003, 01:00 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> YW should just have a permanent "Inter-racial Dating = Selling Out?" forum, just so this perpetual topic can have a home of its very own. [/b][/quote]
Better yet, just make it an automatic redirect to MM

Seriously, why increase our server load with this bullshit? Foist it off on someone else who wants it ...

[BigLew]

<!--QuoteBegin-Chester+Aug 8 2003, 12:00 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Chester @ Aug 8 2003, 12:00 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> YW should just have a permanent "Inter-racial Dating = Selling Out?" forum, just so this perpetual topic can have a home of its very own. [/b][/quote]
Aren't there enough Asian American sites with this forum?

[RasFarengi]

Man if all these guys had some money, I'm telling you BigLew I could get rich off of this. Mail Order Brides from Eastern Europe specifically geared toward the ANgry Asian man fraustrated with the Amerikkkan dating scene.

Shit I would be living like Rockafella.. :D

[537]

<!--QuoteBegin-SAKU!!!+Aug 8 2003, 11:09 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (SAKU!!! @ Aug 8 2003, 11:09 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Asian males accuse their women of selling out, self hate, trying to assimulate and all that by dating Whites but, when a Asian male goes out and does the same with a White female, it is seen as an empowerment. I've read alot of comments recently from AF's accusing AM's of being hypocrites. Well, my opinion is YES!! there is a double standard in IR dating between Asians and Whites.

Generally speaking.

*AF will date a WM to: Gain social status. Because of self hate. Assimulate into the White mainstream.

*AM will date a WF to: Even the score. He has only a few choices and opportunities to begin with. To fight the stereotype society has of the desexualized Asian male. [/b][/quote]
This aint a race. There is no fucking score.



I dated a Blasian (Half black, half vietnamese) girl once, and boy was she hot. It's just my preference, but I won't date a white female. Well, unless that white female is Charlize Theron. *starts fanning himself*


:lol:

[SunWuKong]

<!--QuoteBegin-Chester+Aug 8 2003, 04:00 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Chester @ Aug 8 2003, 04:00 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> YW should just have a permanent "Inter-racial Dating = Selling Out?" forum, just so this perpetual topic can have a home of its very own. [/b][/quote]
yeah i'll name it "Boring Shit".

[SunWuKong]

<!--QuoteBegin-AliBabaIncorporated+Aug 8 2003, 04:09 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (AliBabaIncorporated @ Aug 8 2003, 04:09 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Better yet, just make it an automatic redirect to MM

Seriously, why increase our server load with this bullshit? Foist it off on someone else who wants it ... [/b][/quote]
yes. that's a wonderful idea. MM.com has a forum specially dedicated to this topic. it actually beats all its other forums in terms of number of topics and number of replies.

[SunWuKong]

<!--QuoteBegin-kongjubyung+Aug 8 2003, 04:20 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (kongjubyung @ Aug 8 2003, 04:20 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I couldn't agree more! The majority are overweight and bitchy. [/b][/quote]
are you for real? what's up with this white-bashing, especially since you are white? are you just pretending to be like this?

[RasFarengi]

<!--QuoteBegin-SunWuKung+Aug 8 2003, 03:37 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (SunWuKung @ Aug 8 2003, 03:37 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> are you for real? what's up with this white-bashing, especially since you are white? are you just pretending to be like this? [/b][/quote]
:lol: I think it is called self-hate.

Damn, I thought that was a minority problem. :D White people don't want to let us have anything, we can't even have our own problems...GOD DAMN IT!!