'i'm pregnant'

[contra_diction]

just curious, what would your reactions be to your gf telling you she's pregnant?

[MellowDrama]

the lady i'm currently seeing?

Easy.Marry her and raise the kid.

was/am probably gonna do it anyway...

someone else? get back to me on that!
:lol:

[contra_diction]

that's good, but for me, i feel that the girl i'm with now, one day i'll marry her.
but if she were to get pregnant, i just don't know how that would affect things.
i wouldn't want her to think i feel obligated, plus i'd feel hella bad for her cos i know she's not ready for a baby. she might get mad at me. would she?
plus, my parents are Catholic, fornication is a nono. so many issues to deal with.
i've thought a lot about it, but it's hard.

[tvbdude]

of course marry her and be responsible for the child. I know someone recently fathered a baby and he don't want to be responsible for it.

[MellowDrama]

I can maybe understand not wanting to stay with the girl or whatever, but to deny responsibility is unconscionable. You play, you pay, and according to the law he will probably end up paying.

[MellowDrama]

Originally posted by contra_diction@Feb 6 2003, 03:39 AM
that's good, but for me, i feel that the girl i'm with now, one day i'll marry her.
but if she were to get pregnant, i just don't know how that would affect things.
i wouldn't want her to think i feel obligated, plus i'd feel hella bad for her cos i know she's not ready for a baby. she might get mad at me. would she?
plus, my parents are Catholic, fornication is a nono. so many issues to deal with.
i've thought a lot about it, but it's hard.

I know what u mean. Ask me this question a few years ago and I woulda given you a different answer. It was still me and her but damn, we were just some dumb kids in our late teens/early 20s!

But now, we're "old folks" in our mid 20s and really know each other well. Totally different situation.

[contra_diction]

ye, i'm still a young'un. i wona do it like you did, stay 2gether a while and everything first. but the reason why i ask is cos i think... well, maybe, you know, & i was just wondering some of your opinions.

[deez nuts]

The fetus ain't mine till I get the test results back.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Feb 6 2003, 03:27 PM
The fetus ain't mine till I get the test results back.

agreed


and if it is mine, then i'll take responsibility.

[teaz0r]

/get a barf bag boys/ :luv:

i told my boyfriend i was pregnant.
and i told him that it wasn't his.
couldn't be. cuz i just started seeing
him. and i told him that i didn't know
who's it was. i knew that it'd be half
white. just not sure if it'd be half
german or half irish.
:luv:
awww. and he still wiped my tears away.
and hugged me close.
:luv:
turned out to be just a pregnancy scare.
but what was commendable was that he
still stood there by me. most guys would
have just left me to deal it on my own.
:luv:
i mean. if i was in HIS position, i'd most
likely leave too. not my kid.
:luv:
yeah. he was a really good guy. :luv:

...i think.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by pipSy@Feb 6 2003, 03:55 PM
/get a barf bag boys/ :luv:

i told my boyfriend i was pregnant.
and i told him that it wasn't his.
couldn't be. cuz i just started seeing
him. and i told him that i didn't know
who's it was. i knew that it'd be half
white. just not sure if it'd be half
german or half irish.
:luv:
awww. and he still wiped my tears away.
and hugged me close.
:luv:
turned out to be just a pregnancy scare.
but what was commendable was that he
still stood there by me. most guys would
have just left me to deal it on my own.
:luv:
i mean. if i was in HIS position, i'd most
likely leave too. not my kid.
:luv:
yeah. he was a really good guy. :luv:

...i think.

and where is he now?


right.

[amietron]

Originally posted by pipSy@Feb 6 2003, 12:55 PM
awww. and he still wiped my tears away.
and hugged me close.
:luv:

that's soo sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet.

[teaz0r]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Feb 7 2003, 03:59 AM
and where is he now?


right.

:cry: :cry:

i fucked his bestfriend?
and he dumped me!

:cry: :cry:

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by pipSy@Feb 6 2003, 04:07 PM

:cry: :cry:

i fucked his bestfriend?
and he dumped me!

:cry: :cry:

cool.

[angel nympho]

Or you guys could be like MY ex boyfriend in high school.

Beg for me not to tell your current girlfriend that we EVER slept together, EVER... and utterly deny it to anybody and everybody who even ASKS about it. And thennnn... you could refuse to ever speak to me again, blame me for what happened, and steal all my money and a few valuable belongings. Then yell at me for putting YOU through hell, lie about me to your mother, use the situation to get pity from other people, spread rumors about me, and verbally and semi-physically abuse me. Wait wait, and then don't forget to tell all your friends about how you've recently found Jesus and how you want to become a paster when you get older! Then wait 2 years to ever speak to me again, tell me you're sorry and that you'll pay me back the over $1,000 you owe me and then completely cut off all contact with me once again. Do the same thing about 3 more times within the course of a year... and now just talk to me like nothing happened.