Friends...but no more than that?

[DragonKnight]

Welcome to being a fucking tool.

[returntosender]

i need to be one of those. feeling a little rusty over here.

[misschopstix]

Originally Posted by mrcfo

I have repeatedly hinted and told her that I really dont believe in the sex partner/buddy type thing (we have prolly had it twice and really I feel crap about it all) and from my POV we really havent got much to work with in terms of anything beyond a friendship.

Why aren't there more guys like you around that want a real relationship. Seems like these days, there isn't such a thing as a true boyfriend girlfriend relationship anymore. I say diss her and find someone you really enjoy being with.

[Hiroshi2]

^ that's cause it's hard to trust anybody, male or female.

Don't feel like shit. This thread is becoming full of guy angst over 'using' a girl for sex when it seems to me, based on the limited information, that the girls are doing exactly the same thing.

Yep.


Except we just want sex. Girls want sex, money, cars, clothes, etc.

[eos]

i'm of the theory that guys who use girls for sex do not care about her feelings. therefore, it's only appropriate that girls do not care about the guys' feelings either. that way, there will be no clinginess, tears, 3 AM drunken calls asking the other why he/she doesn't like him/her, etc. it will only be straight-up sex, no strings attached. if you do start feeling something for your fwb, you need to smack yourself cuz that shit ain't gonna happen.

[hooligan]

ditch her, unless you want to be her friend.

[thaite]

You know what to do.

[Azn Retribution]

Have any of you heard of ladder theory?




Supposedly. After five minutes of meeting you.
a woman decides whether she wants you on your fuckable ladder or not.

I think the less desparate guys have two ladders as well.
I know I do.

The jump from the friends ladder can be made to the fuckable ladder
but not without significant risk of hitting... the "abyss"

[eos]

on the women's ladder, are there degrees like on the men's? calvin and ed seem to be dangerously close to the....ABYSSSSSSSSS.
and why is the friends ladder depicted so differently?

[Azn Retribution]

Guys only have one ladder.
the point is that... most guys will fuck pretty much any somewhat attractive female...
friend or not. especially intoxicated

and girls can afford to be more picky and have two ladders generally.
and there probably are degrees like the men.

[enigma740]

Originally Posted by Azn Retribution

Guys only have one ladder.
the point is that... most guys will fuck pretty much any somewhat attractive female...
friend or not. especially intoxicated

and girls can afford to be more picky and have two ladders generally.
and there probably are degrees like the men.

Oh, fuck ladder theory.

Have you by any chance visited http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

[DragonKnight]

Oh yeah...