An ex is getting married

[mrcfo]

An ex gf of mine is getting married soon and surprisingly, I openly admit that it somehow shook me. Call it being cut or pissed or whatever, but this is the girl I had a rather long and serious relationship with.

I received a call last week from her, we remained friends but somehow our long and fruitless relationship always made our friendship rather cold and uncomfortable at times. When I heard that she was going to get hitched I was somewhat shocked and if I always thought it would be me getting married first.

Anyway, I'd be lieing if I said I was truly happy for her, cause I mean she's just been dating this to be husband of hers for what 1 year, this is merely a day compared to our relationship.

Oh well, I suppose shit happens eh.

[deez nuts]

i guess it sucks to be you. but, in the immortal words of bret michaels:

now i hear you’ve found somebody new
and that i never meant that much to you
to hear that tears me up inside
and to see you cuts me like a knife, i guess

every rose has its thorn
just like every night has its dawn
just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song
every rose has its thorn

i was sleeping with an ex about a month after her wedding. she came to me and propositioned me about the arrangement. it was a good set up cuz i reaped the benefits once a week or so and the rest of the time she's the husband's problem.

who knows maybe it'll happen to you too.

[Grasshopper]

Originally Posted by Chasiubao_Boy

i guess it sucks to be you.

i was sleeping with an ex about a month after her wedding. she came to me and propositioned me about the arrangement. it was a good set up cuz i reaped the benefits once a week or so and the rest of the time she's the husband's problem.

who knows maybe it'll happen to you too.

Ah, the old Chasiubao_Boy!

I guess you got tired of that phoney sensitive, liberated man routine you were doing just to get on nola's good side.

Karma hog.

[deez nuts]

Originally Posted by Grasshopper

Ah, the old Chasiubao_Boy!

I guess you got tired of that phoney sensitive, liberated man routine you were doing just to get on nola's good side.

Karma hog.

no. this was years ago. it doesn't count.

[Faithless]

Originally Posted by mrcfo

Anyway, I'd be lieing if I said I was truly happy for her, cause I mean she's just been dating this to be husband of hers for what 1 year, this is merely a day compared to our relationship.

Oh well, I suppose shit happens eh.

God! Sucks when that happens.

I remember some friends from college that were dating / living together for a long time. Hong Kong born. Moved to Canada. Then to the Bay Area. They seemed so compatible.

Then before you know it, I lose contact, but a few years later I see the female friend with a white dude and I think they were married. (I think I saw small children too. Maybe.)

Leaves you scratching your head, totally.

[hooligan]

Good luck mang. You need to crash her wedding. ; )

[Tao]

you can always try to sleep with her mother to get back at her.

[Anaestacia]

I've got a funny, fucked up feeling I'll be in this position soon. Makes you wonder. I don't have any outright misgivings because when we were together, we brought out more of the worst in each other than the best.. It just took me much longer to realize it. Yet all the time you spent while in that rl.. bah, best not to think about it. You'll pull through.

[Craig]

Life goes on. Remember there must have been a reason you broke up.

[ChinaLama]

Originally Posted by Tao

you can always try to sleep with her mother to get back at her.

dude. mother. daughter. same time!

[Irezumi Kiss]

I sympathize. But the best way to get over an old love is to get a new one.

[Chad]

Are you invited to the wedding?
The appropriate action to take is to show up at the wedding formally dressed and then get drunk and run at them during the ceremony screaming "NOOO! I LOVE YOU!!!"

[Arex]

Originally Posted by Tao

you can always try to sleep with her mother to get back at her.

Hell, might as well go all the way and try to marry her mom. Then, whenever the two visit for dinner, you can say, "Who's yer daddy??"

RX

[Fireblade]

Was placed in this position. Oh man it sucked. Of course there were many other complications, but yes, it really does feel weird.

[thaite]

happened to me, too. It stings, but then you get on with life.