In defense of asiaphiles

[CEBA]

I have seen many derogatory remarks about non-Asians interested in Asians on this board and most of them are crap.

Some Asian girls are offended by interest from asiaphiles, which they interpret as purely sexual and fetishistic. In reality they are offended by male chauvinism.
Macho guys of all races treat girls as property, which value depends on the looks.
I suspect that Asian guys are even more often guilty of machismo.
Hey, any non-Asian, who is really interested in Asian girl can pick Asian girl online for sex or for marriage. It is cheaper then dating, simple and he can choose among thousands of willing Asian girls.
When Asian guys get angry about asiaphiles, it just demonstrates that they think of any Asian girls as their collective property “How dare you approach OUR girls?”
Wake up guys! Girls are NOT your property!
So please stop being racist and let non-Asians get to know you. If you don’t like them (as a person) just say so, but don’t say “I will never go out with you because you are not Asian”

[AliBabaIncorporated]

Wake up guys! Girls are NOT your property! So please stop being racist and let non-Asians get to know you. If you don’t like them (as a person) just say so, but don’t say “I will never go out with you because you are not Asian”

I don't get it. Are you trying to go out with guys, or girls, or both?

[thaite]

Originally Posted by CEBA

I have seen many derogatory remarks about non-Asians interested in Asians on this board and most of them are crap.

Some Asian girls are offended by interest from asiaphiles, which they interpret as purely sexual and fetishistic. In reality they are offended by male chauvinism.
Macho guys of all races treat girls as property, which value depends on the looks.
I suspect that Asian guys are even more often guilty of machismo.
Hey, any non-Asian, who is really interested in Asian girl can pick Asian girl online for sex or for marriage. It is cheaper then dating, simple and he can choose among thousands of willing Asian girls.
When Asian guys get angry about asiaphiles, it just demonstrates that they think of any Asian girls as their collective property “How dare you approach OUR girls?”
Wake up guys! Girls are NOT your property!
So please stop being racist and let non-Asians get to know you. If you don’t like them (as a person) just say so, but don’t say “I will never go out with you because you are not Asian”

Say what? On the one hand you criticize that Asian men treat Asian when as property, but on the other, you brag how a non-Asian guy can pick out an Asian woman online like any other product or commodity. You're blowing hot and cold at the same time.

Non-Asian/Asian dating doesn't annoy me. It's annoying dweebs with their geisha/anime/kungfu misstress slobbering fetishes that annoy me.

You got a lot of nerve coming here to talk like this.

[CEBA]

Originally Posted by thaite

Say what? On the one hand you criticize that Asian men treat Asian when as property, but on the other, you brag how a non-Asian guy can pick out an Asian woman online like any other product or commodity. You're blowing hot and cold at the same time.

I'm not bragging about online shopping (it is repulsive)
I'm making point that average non-Asian guy approaching Asian girl in the states usually IS intersted in HER personality.
And to turn him down becouse of his RACE is racism.

[thaite]

sounds like someone is stinging from rejection.

[CEBA]

Originally Posted by thaite

sounds like someone is stinging from rejection.

SO, other then suggest that my heart was broken by racist girl you have nothing to say about subject?

[Grasshopper]

Originally Posted by CEBA

I suspect that Asian guys are even more often guilty of machismo.

Well there's a first.

Asian guys are more likely to be classified as less macho than men of other races.

I believe men of all races and nationalities and religions get territorial about the women of their ancestral group when men from outside that group show interest.

That is called human nature.

If Asian males appear to be more territorial this way it's probably only because males of other races are entering their territory more often.

I am waiting for Hurricane Nola to give her opinion on this issue to CEBA the unappologetic asiaphile.

Nola loves asiaphiles.

[VV o n g B a]

oh yes, gotta love them harmless asiaphiles. just can't get enuf of 'em.

[Grasshopper]

Originally Posted by CEBA

I'm making point that average non-Asian guy approaching Asian girl in the states usually IS intersted in HER personality.
And to turn him down becouse of his RACE is racism.

It is not. No more than turning a man down based on religion is religious bigotry.

People have a right to their preferences and they have a right to accept or reject people for what ever reason.

It is wrong to characterize this as "racism".

It would be racism if the government created laws forbidding these relations. It's not racism if the woman rejects you by race.

You are being a manipulative loser by criticizing Asian women this way.

[CEBA]

Originally Posted by VV o n g B a

oh yes, gotta love them harmless asiaphiles. just can't get enuf of 'em.

And your point is?
I can show you number of reports of african-american guys killing white guys. Should we confine blacks to reservations?

[deez nuts]

a very touching post.

[SunWuKong]

Originally Posted by CEBA

And to turn him down becouse of his RACE is racism.

say what? what if the girl is only interested in guys who grew up in an Asian culture?

[CEBA]

Originally Posted by Grasshopper

It would be racism if the government created laws forbidding these relations. It's not racism if the woman rejects you by race.

You are being a manipulative loser by criticizing Asian women this way.

Thank you very much for your assessment of my personality.
Racism is not only government created laws it is also a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits.
Anybody in USA is free to be a racist, I'm just calling it by proper name.

[Atealtha]

You just can't see it from our perspective. I have second thoughts on inter-racial, asian women with non-asian men relationships because of what will happen to asian men if it keeps up.

Soon the message will be that asian men are so pathetic that they can't even get with women of their own race. Women want something worthy, which translates to non-asians. Seeing how you're white, I can't blame you for posting what you did.

I live in New York City where it is super diverse and I wonder sometimes if what I'm saying is just fear, uncertainty, and doubt. But then again, I hardly see asian men dating outside their race. It's always the other way around.

[CEBA]

Originally Posted by SunWuKong

what if the girl is only interested in guys who grew up in an Asian culture?

than she is racist