How do you tell if a girl likes you?

[stunninglyAsian]

I don't think there is pattern of behavior that women follow to show that they like a guy. Or is there? Are there certain things you look out for that a girl does or says that makes you believe that she likes you? And how accurate is it?

For me, nothing is an indicator that a girl likes you- flirting, hugging, going on "dates" Nothing. The only time a girl will reveal she likes me is when she says she likes me. Other than that, it's just friends. Is this the same with you?

[Hiroshi2]

That's pretty much the way I feel too..............................well maybe if she has a deep conversation (or two) with you, or shares a secret with you........................basically if she does something with you or to you that she would only do to few other people, if anybody else. You're right, flirting, smiling, kissing, hugging, compliments, none of that means shit for real.



But I think this should really be in the women's section. I don't want to hear what a bunch of dudes have to say about what a female feels and thinks.

[DragonKnight]

Hey, I think when she's driving her tongue down yer throat...I say there's a remote chance she kinda likes you.

[TB4000]

Yeah, you can never tell with these dastardly females and their wicked mind games and such. Friendly demeanor is often construed as more than that, though sometimes it is. Each girl has her own way, though...some may actually be interested in what you have to say, laugh at stupid jokes you make that are not remotely funny, and some just don't show it at all.

[stunninglyAsian]

Originally Posted by Hiroshi2

But I think this should really be in the women's section. I don't want to hear what a bunch of dudes have to say about what a female feels and thinks.

No way did I want to put it out in the women's section. I'm interested to see if any guys out there can accurately pick up vibes from women. Sure, a woman can say she says this or does this, but can the man pick up those signals? That's what I'm interested in finding out.

And so far, it looks like nobody can determine if a girl likes them short of flat out sayiing so. When you're not involved, you can see a woman liking a guy a mile away. When it's you, you can't tell.

[Hiroshi2]

Maybe you're wrong when you're the "outsider".

[John0101]

talk to her.

Everybody is different, people flirt in many different ways. I tend to ignore girls who I like and does that seem obvious to you? yeah, I didn't think so.

The easiest way is talk to her and see if u get the vibe. Maybe you can ask one of her friends, you know girls love talking n stuff.

[Hiroshi2]

Yeah how about talking indirectly? Like maybe make up a story about how you tried to hook up with some girl, and then get her to tell you how she would approach a dude or let him know that he likes her. Maybe......................now that I think about it. That might not work.

[damashii]

Ok, Im no expert, but I here this "trick" works.

When you like a girl and you want to find out if she likes you,
go up to her and say "hi". Stand around for a few seconds, look
around all non chalant, then throw a big fart.

If she laughs, you are in. If she covers her face and runs off, try try again.

Good luck

[golden_buns]

Pay attention to her body language

[truMp]

Originally Posted by golden_buns

Pay attention to her body language

Body Language = Key

I read studies on this and there are significant movements which tell you how your listener feels when you talk to them or when they speak to you.

[mrazntre]

I'm still confused.....

:(

ionoooo. I'm all clueless. It's so bad that I need a woman to tell me point blank, "I like you."

me: "Are you serious or are you joking?"
her: "I'm serious"
me: "REALLY?!?"
her: "yes"
me: "sweeeeeeet"
her: *SWWOOON*
me: "Me?"
her: "Yes you"
me: *auRRgghhhhhhhhhhghhhggghhhhhh, DOOOO-NUT*

[bluemonq]

Originally Posted by mrazntre

me: "Are you serious or are you joking?"
her: "I'm serious"
me: "REALLY?!?"
her: "yes"
me: "sweeeeeeet"
her: *SWWOOON*
me: "Me?"
her: "Yes you"
me: *auRRgghhhhhhhhhhghhhggghhhhhh, DOOOO-NUT*

that sounds like me. well, no. it's more like...

me: "Are you serious or are you joking?"
her: "I'm serious"
me: "really?"
her: "yes"
me: "really now..."
her: "grr... yes"
me: "OMG, really?!?"
her: "forget this..."

[deez nuts]

most of them just jettison themselves at my feet.

Originally Posted by mrazntre

I'm still confused.....

:(

ionoooo. I'm all clueless. It's so bad that I need a woman to tell me point blank, "I like you."

me: "Are you serious or are you joking?"
her: "I'm serious"
me: "REALLY?!?"
her: "yes"
me: "sweeeeeeet"
her: *SWWOOON*
me: "Me?"
her: "Yes you"
me: *auRRgghhhhhhhhhhghhhggghhhhhh, DOOOO-NUT*

that's cuz you have close to zero flirting skills.

DuMA!

[Hiroshi2]

Originally Posted by truMp

Body Language = Key

I read studies on this and there are significant movements which tell you how your listener feels when you talk to them or when they speak to you.

Well...........what are they?