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Old 05-22-2004, 07:50 PM
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China's Moms Get Postnatal Reprieve

China's Moms Get Postnatal Reprieve

After childbirth, women have long been shut away for a month, unable even to bathe. Now that's changing.

By Ching-Ching Ni
Times Staff Writer

May 21, 2004

BEIJING — For Wang Zan, nine months of pregnancy and a caesarean delivery were difficult enough. The last thing she wanted was a monthlong ordeal that her mother and generations of mothers before her had to endure afterward.

According to this tradition, the woman must stay in bed behind closed windows, cover her head, give up bathing, washing her hair and even brushing her teeth. She must avoid cold water, cold food, strangers, even other pregnant women (for fear they might somehow take away her breast milk). She must stuff herself with boiled eggs — as many as 40 a day — brown sugar and buckets of chicken and fish soup. She must minimize talking, reading, crying, anything that might deplete her energy or damage her ability to produce breast milk.

And she must live like this for a full cycle of the moon.

Older folks in China call it zuo yuezi, literally sitting through the month.

Younger people see it more like incarceration.

"I was really worried that my relatives would make me follow these rules," said Wang, 29, an office worker who gave birth to her son this month. "They definitely wouldn't have allowed me to shower for a month. I wouldn't have been able to stand that."

The tug of tradition remains strong. Despite some recent loosening of the country's draconian family planning policy, most Chinese urbanites are still restricted to having only one child. With four grandparents doting on one newborn, they usually have a lot of say in making sure young mothers do what they believe is best for their "little emperor."

The clash between the old and the new lifestyles has given rise to a new kind of hotel, a place where a mother can spend her month away from the watchful eyes of family elders. It is staffed with doctors and nurses who help the mother reinterpret the old rules without giving up modern amenities.

"We are between a hospital and a home," said Pan Xin, a Beijing-based physician who founded the nation's first New Mother Service Center in a suburb of the Chinese capital. "A hospital won't allow her to stay this long after the baby is born because she is not sick. A home won't be able to give her all the professional help we can offer here."

With an estimated 20 million babies born in China every year, about five times the number in the United States, this nation's baby care market is one of the fastest growing in the world. Western companies, from makers of disposable diapers to producers of infant food and all kinds of skin care and toiletry products, have made easy converts of Chinese parents eager to lavish their children with the latest modern concept.

The new mommy centers offer the best of the new and the old.

"I like it here," said Bao Yanzhen, Wang's mother-in-law, who inspected the facility three times before allowing her son to sign his wife up for a trial period of two weeks. "They have swimming pools for the baby, a professional cooking staff. It's better than what we can give her at home."

For Wang's mother, Cai Jinli, it's like night and day compared with what she went through after she delivered her daughter.

"I was bored to death," Cai said. "It was so hot, there was no air conditioning and no open window. I was soaking in sweat. My skin was breaking out. It was pure suffering."

For about $360 a week, her daughter gets her own room with a queen-size bed, a crib for the baby and a pullout couch for relatives who stay over. She also gets a television, telephone, refrigerator, air conditioning, a private bathroom and, most important, her own shower.

The center also sends three meals and three snacks a day to her room and provides massage, exercise and medical consultations.

If the old folks object, there is a professional to reason with them. "Americans and Europeans don't do zuo yuezi, but they pay much attention to postnatal care," Pan said. "In China, we used to pay very little attention to postnatal care. You leave the hospital and that's it."

There were reasons for the zuo yuezi discipline. Older Chinese lived under much harsher conditions. Taking a shower often meant dipping in a bucket of water out in the middle of the yard. The most nutritious food probably was a basket of freshly hatched eggs. Zuo yuezi became a way to protect new mothers.

Things are different today.

"We have to explain to them that brushing your teeth is not only not harmful but good for the mother's health," Pan said. "Bathing too is good for them, because if the mother smells bad the baby won't want to breast-feed."

It's not a concept all Chinese families are ready to accept. Since Pan's hotel opened in 1999, others have tried to copy its approach but have failed to overcome tradition.

Business for Pan was tough last year, because people stayed away from any kind of hospital out of fear of catching severe acute respiratory syndrome, or SARS. The superstition that the Year of the Goat was a bad time to have a baby also helps explain why the center almost shut down.

This year, however, business is booming. The fear of SARS has eased, and the Chinese consider the Year of the Monkey a good time to procreate. Pan moved into a new building, enlarging from one floor and 20 rooms to four floors and 60 rooms.

"The Chinese population is so huge," Pan said. "As long as people continue to have babies and as long as our living standards continue to improve, demand for better healthcare services like ours can only grow."
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According to this tradition, the woman must stay in bed behind closed windows, cover her head, give up bathing, washing her hair and even brushing her teeth. She must avoid cold water, cold food, strangers, even other pregnant women (for fear they might somehow take away her breast milk). She must stuff herself with boiled eggs — as many as 40 a day — brown sugar and buckets of chicken and fish soup. She must minimize talking, reading, crying, anything that might deplete her energy or damage her ability to produce breast milk.
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Holy shit. I wouldn't mind the chicken or fish soup though. Sounds harsh by modern American standards but I'm sure the regimen served solid purposes. The eggs are a really good source of protein and easy to digest along with nourishing soup. Keep the head covered for warmth. Maybe the not bathing thing was to stay warm as well. Stay in bed with the windows closed to avoid a draft.

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Re: China's Moms Get Postnatal Reprieve

Last I heard, some breastfeeding mothers in this country are being advised to avoid eggs.

There is a theory that nursing mothers with diets including eggs, peanuts, and some other foods may be increasing their baby's likelihood of developing allergies later in life.
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holy shit. i didn't know about this.

i wonder if the not bathing thing is the same thing as my mother telling me not to shower after i eat. i asked her why once, and she said she didn't know. she said that it's just what her mother told her.
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Re: China's Moms Get Postnatal Reprieve

My mom used to say the same about not showering after eating.
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Re: China's Moms Get Postnatal Reprieve

"I like it here," said Bao Yanzhen, Wang's mother-in-law, who inspected the facility three times before allowing her son to sign his wife up for a trial period of two weeks. "They have swimming pools for the baby, a professional cooking staff. It's better than what we can give her at home."

For about $360 a week, her daughter gets her own room with a queen-size bed, a crib for the baby and a pullout couch for relatives who stay over. She also gets a television, telephone, refrigerator, air conditioning, a private bathroom and, most important, her own shower.


Now this doesn't sound half bad!


As for the tradition, I'm sorry, but that is really gross. I cannot imagine going the week or more of post-natal bleeding without bathing. ICK!
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hell, post-natal or not, i can't imagine going even 2 days without showering. nevermind a week or a month.
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hell, post-natal or not, i can't imagine going even 2 days without showering. nevermind a week or a month.
Actually, I've read quite a few times that it's ideal to shower thoroughly once every 3 days and that daily showers are actually LESS healthy. Something about keeping your immune system strong and able to fight germs, I dunno...but one of my friend's little cousins...she's the only one that like never showers, and she also gets sick the least out of all her brothers and sisters, haha...go figure...
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Actually, I've read quite a few times that it's ideal to shower thoroughly once every 3 days and that daily showers are actually LESS healthy. Something about keeping your immune system strong and able to fight germs, I dunno...but one of my friend's little cousins...she's the only one that like never showers, and she also gets sick the least out of all her brothers and sisters, haha...go figure...
probably has something to do with your body's natural oils. i remember when i was little in HK, we used to only wash our hair once every few days. i think some of my friends in HK still do this.
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Most hairdressers will tell you it's better to wash your hair every other day to build up the natural oils.
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Most hairdressers will tell you it's better to wash your hair every other day to build up the natural oils.
i read somewhere once that someone asked Sarah McLachlan how she gets her hair to look so great. she replied and said that she doesn't wash it.
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