bisexuality

[karizma]

>> why does it seem like its more acceptable and even desirable for a girl to be bisexual?

>> do you think bisexuality can be just a phase?

>> if you're friend were bisexual would you display some homophobic tendencies?

>> would you "experiment"? c'mon people...dont be shy :lol:

[deez nuts]

1)Lesbians are so much more intriguing to me? And more fun to watch. I wouldn't enjoy watching two guys get it on than two girls. But to each their own.

2)I don't know about bisexuality in general. But different strokes for different folks. It can be a phase for some aka "bisexual chic."

3)No, I wouldn't experiment. I love women way too much. Then again Hugh Hefner tried it with other guys. Guess at that point your just so jaded being with and surrounded by all those beautiful women.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Aug 12 2002, 07:03 AM
1)Lesbians are so much more intriguing to me? And more fun to watch. I wouldn't enjoy watching two guys get it on than two girls. But to each their own.

are you sure you're not just thinking about fantasy lesbians as opposed to reality lesbians? because real lesbians can be scary. i guess i'm just stereotyping but it seems like everytime i meet a lesbian she's a male-hating peta freak.

[deez nuts]

I hear ya monkeyking. But in other cases there is one really fugly one and another hot one! That's from my experience, I've dated a few bi women in college, and their partners were kinda scary. There's seems to be one really butch one and another feminine one.

I mean in all honesty, I don't know why female bisexuals are more accepted than their male counterparts. I mean are they really more accepted?

[Saiko]

1) Well, you know how they say that lesbians are appealing to guys? Like, you see on tv, "Oh! Lesbian action! Sweet!" Maybe it's the lesbian part combined with the fact that guys have a chance with them.
2) Who knows? For some it can be, for others it's as built into their brain as being straight or homosexual.
3) I have one bisexual friend. I was completely fine with it when she told me. Basically because I don't care. "I'm bisexual. But don't worry! I won't hit on you!" "Oh, okay. Whatever." The bad part was she did flirt with me. "*giggle* Oh Maggie. You're so funny. *runs hand through my hair*" And see, I'm not very fond of her which makes it a even more uncomfortable.
4) Probably not.

[artsfartsyjanet]

Originally posted by karizma@Aug 12 2002, 03:50 AM
>> why does it seem like its more acceptable and even desirable for a girl to be bisexual?

>> do you think bisexuality can be just a phase?

>> if you're friend were bisexual would you display some homophobic tendencies?

>> would you "experiment"? c'mon people...dont be shy   :lol:

1. It's probably more socially acceptable for guys to approve of lesbians. The more praises by guys, the more other guys will open their minds to it. Of course, this view also depends on the individual's set of values and system of beliefs. Others, no matter how much praising goes on, may still be repulsed by being in a relationship with lesbians.

2. I personally think bisexuality is a learned phenomenon. Of course, here's this debate that genetics may play a role, but I'm not too convinced by it yet. I need substantial evidence that it does.

3. If my friend were bisexual, I would definitely not display some homophobic tendencies because I like guys way too much to go that route. Sorry gals. =) actually, no I'm not.

4. I wouldn't experiment. Sorry, no can do. ;)



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[angel nympho]

Everybody's got a little bisexual in them. I think it's more acceptable with girls because a woman's body is just more aesthetically appealing than a man's. A man's body is beautiful, but in a whole different way. Feminity and the shape of a woman's body is one of the most amazing things in the world, and I know all of you can agree with that.

I'm not trying to get all disgusting, I'm just saying...

Anyway, I could never have a relationship with another girl. But I can surely appreciate it when another girl looks good. Britney Spears? Shit, she got it goin on... :D

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Aug 15 2002, 09:50 PM
Everybody's got a little bisexual in them.

0_o.

I don't think I get the same urge when I see Brittney, J-Lo or Beyonce compared to when I see Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise or George Clooney.

Like when I see J-Lo, I'm like Daaaaaaaaaaaamn, I want that.

Brad Pitt is a good looking guy, but I don't want that.



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[tapestrybabe]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Aug 15 2002, 04:50 PM
Anyway, I could never have a relationship with another girl. But I can surely appreciate it when another girl looks good. Britney Spears? Shit, she got it goin on... :D

Yeah, I feel kinda the same way. Emotionally, I dont get crushes on girls. I have no desire in wanting to date and having a relationship with them... but i admit.. when they look good.. errr... i can easily lust after them...

[Saiko]

Yeah, everybody does have some bisexuality in them, even if they are against it. I know I have a lot of it, but not to the point where I'd fantasize about girls or even consider "experimenting" with them. I just check them out lots and make comments about them to my guy friends. I even say dumb stuff like "If I were a guy, I'd ride her anyday!"

[mizkisses]

i have a few friends who are bi. so bisexuality is nothing weird to me.

as for me, i know i'm straight. i'm as straight as straight can be. i think...?

sure, i say some girls are hot and stuff but i know i'm straight. like kristin kreuk. she's so gorgeous!! okay that was random..

my friend was wondering if she was bi. because she started to realize she really liked looking at girls and stuff. and i asked her if she ever would want to hook up with one and she said no. so, really, what is it about someone that has to make them bi? the fact that they'd do the person of the same gender? or just the fact that they're attracted to the person of the same gender?

wow it's really early in the morning and i have no clue what i've been saying.. :blink:

[ChinaLama]

bisexual? what about omni-sexual?

mmmm that air vent has a lot of holes....

[angel nympho]

I could never be bi because it takes a PENIS to please me.

But I am pretty bi-curious. Last night I was doing the cute boy while the TV was on all I heard was "Britney Spears." I turned around, saw that hottie on the TV and had a raging orgasm. :blink: Weird. ...I think it had a lot to do with the fact that Justin Timberlake was all over the TV, too.

I'd be a lesbian for a few select girls, though. Britney being one of them...

[kimpossible]

I most definitely find some women appealing and I've had the thought numerous times, but in no way could I define myself as bisexual. The idea of kissing, rubbing naked skin and touching is appealing... but in no way, shape or form am I into oral sex and another woman. Mutually getting off by other means while touching, kissing or caressing sounds like fun.

And I'm talking with a cute girl here, preferably blonde. Have to be a damn good looking woman to entice me.

[karizma]

And I'm talking with a cute girl here, preferably blonde. Have to be a damn good looking woman to entice me.

>> sooo...all i need is blonde hair right? lol