Should A guy Call?

[Green_Circle]

OK ladies, I have a question; if a guy you kind of know, not too well but kind of. And the brief few times your paths have crossed and things went ok as in just chatting for a couple of minutes each time. And the last time he said, 'hey lets get together one of these nights'? And you said 'sure, why not'. Well, do you expect him to follow through because he did ask for your number and you did give it to him. Or did he say that as friends might say, 'lets chill sometime'? I mean are you expecting him to call as in a date or something or what's the deal?

:cool:

[Tao]

hey if you like her give her a call man, no harm in trying. just don't make it like a formal date thing, be more casual about it.

[BigLew]

Yeah and don't ask women for advice on women that'll get you all backwards in no time. :p

[amietron]

just be genuine. :)

[artsfartsyjanet]

Be in control. If you want to go out and chill, then do it. *shrug* Don't think too hard about it.

[Green_Circle]

Well, here's the problem; I don't know what her intentions are. Last time I saw her a couple wks ago she stopped by to drop off a movie I had lent her. She was dressed in a tube top and hot pants with spiked heels, exposing lots of flesh. I never saw her like that before. When she turned to leave I couldnt help gawking at her because she looked extremely hot. Before this I had been a good neighbor who helped her out a couple of times when her car broke down. I'd never thought of her sexually until now. I enjoy booty calls like the next guy but I'm not ready for a full blown relationship. It's my stereotype of women that they're not really into booty calls but want something more substantive. She's a nice person but I don't want a girlfriend at this point in time. I know that if I hang out with her more and she continues dressing provocatively I may be led into temptation. As I mentioned I really don't want a relationship. I'm just looking out for her welfare. Otherwise I would've called her immediately.

[teaz0r]

i never expect anything from guys.

[coagulated fat]

Either shit or get off the pot.

[artsfartsyjanet]

ditto. It's really not that complicated. It sounds like you have your intentions laid in front of you if you would just read over and over in this thread. You don't want a serious relationship other than maybe a friendship or something. Instead of giving way to impulse, it's better in the end if you guys don't rush into things and ruin the civility you currently have with each other.Either shit or get off the pot.

[BigLew]

If you try to plan the shit out oo much you'll just end up talkin yourself out of it.

[Red_Matrix]

From my past experience with meeting girls, never go heavy or too planned in the first few meetings. Just be cool and casual.

[achtungbaby]

Well, here's the problem; I don't know what her intentions are. Last time I saw her a couple wks ago she stopped by to drop off a movie I had lent her. She was dressed in a tube top and hot pants with spiked heels, exposing lots of flesh. I never saw her like that before. When she turned to leave I couldnt help gawking at her because she looked extremely hot. Before this I had been a good neighbor who helped her out a couple of times when her car broke down. I'd never thought of her sexually until now. I enjoy booty calls like the next guy but I'm not ready for a full blown relationship. It's my stereotype of women that they're not really into booty calls but want something more substantive. She's a nice person but I don't want a girlfriend at this point in time. I know that if I hang out with her more and she continues dressing provocatively I may be led into temptation. As I mentioned I really don't want a relationship. I'm just looking out for her welfare. Otherwise I would've called her immediately.Too much analysis. Just do.

[himura-dono]

OK ladies, I have a question; if a guy you kind of know, not too well but kind of. And the brief few times your paths have crossed and things went ok as in just chatting for a couple of minutes each time. And the last time he said, 'hey lets get together one of these nights'? And you said 'sure, why not'. Well, do you expect him to follow through because he did ask for your number and you did give it to him. Or did he say that as friends might say, 'lets chill sometime'? I mean are you expecting him to call as in a date or something or what's the deal?

:cool:

do you have testes? use them. :rolleyes:

"you're too much brain, not enough cock and balls"

[himura-dono]

Either shit or get off the pot.

:potty:

ab, i found a bug.... that should be a smiley going down the toilet... but the : and p are making the other smilie :p it's just not funny if it ain't goin down the toilet.

[Green_Circle]

OK people, problem is she's a sweet girl and I don't want to hurt her in any way. If she's out to seduce me by coming on to me all sexy and what not, of course I like it. What normal guy wouldn't? If I could just take the booty and run, that would be fine. But I'm sure there's strings attached. I do value her as a human being with feelings and emotions.It's just not that simple.

[Tao]

OK people, problem is she's a sweet girl and I don't want to hurt her in any way. If she's out to seduce me by coming on to me all sexy and what not, of course I like it. What normal guy wouldn't? If I could just take the booty and run, that would be fine. But I'm sure there's strings attached. I do value her as a human being with feelings and emotions.It's just not that simple.

bah! stop thinking with your head and think with your dick.

come on the whole YW community is telling you to do it. Peer pressure man, peer pressure! Do it, do it, do it........ :poking:

[himura-dono]

OK people, problem is she's a sweet girl and I don't want to hurt her in any way. If she's out to seduce me by coming on to me all sexy and what not, of course I like it. What normal guy wouldn't? If I could just take the booty and run, that would be fine. But I'm sure there's strings attached. I do value her as a human being with feelings and emotions.It's just not that simple.

ok, here's what your first post said:


OK ladies, I have a question; if a guy you kind of know, not too well but kind of.

so how did you suddenly become so heavily emotionally invested in someone who barely knows you and you barely know her? dude, forget it, you've ruined it. face it, you will never date again. you're like my roomate now. she gets all emotional before she even really knows someone. in fact, maybe you should both date :p

[Green_Circle]

I'm just saying that if things got physical, she may have expectations. She doesn't strike me as the hit it n split it type.

[himura-dono]

you don't talk that way if you're just interested in taxin her ass. you've built her up in your head. which means i personally, wouldn't touch her anymore. if all i want is some tail, i don't let emotions get in the way. just let it go, don't really hang out with her, just move on and go bang a starbucks girl or something. i doubt this is what you want to hear, but as an outside person, i can see you're already emotionally developing it and neither of you REALLY know eachother. that's a bad combination.

[mrazntre]

OK people, problem is she's a sweet girl and I don't want to hurt her in any way. If she's out to seduce me by coming on to me all sexy and what not, of course I like it. What normal guy wouldn't? If I could just take the booty and run, that would be fine. But I'm sure there's strings attached. I do value her as a human being with feelings and emotions.It's just not that simple.

in which case... just stop pursuing her mentally and introduce ME to her.

[golden_buns]

I'm just saying that if things got physical, she may have expectations. She doesn't strike me as the hit it n split it type.

Then don't do anything.

A girl that wants a 'booty call only' relationship is one in a million.

And if u still fancy her so much then go to the toilet to do some :gamer:

[amietron]

i never expect anything from guys.
that's smart to go in without expectations.

[mrazntre]

that's smart to go in without expectations.

but we all know that rarely happens.

[Chrysalis]

First of all its great that you're so honest about only wanting her for sex. I think that you just have to ask her. Repeat after me: I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment but I think you're hot and would like to use you for sex. What do you think?

[mrazntre]

First of all its great that you're so honest about only wanting her for sex. I think that you just have to ask her. Repeat after me: I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment but I think you're hot and would like to use you for sex. What do you think?

sounds good to me.

[angel nympho]

OK ladies, I have a question; if a guy you kind of know, not too well but kind of. And the brief few times your paths have crossed and things went ok as in just chatting for a couple of minutes each time. And the last time he said, 'hey lets get together one of these nights'? And you said 'sure, why not'. Well, do you expect him to follow through because he did ask for your number and you did give it to him. Or did he say that as friends might say, 'lets chill sometime'? I mean are you expecting him to call as in a date or something or what's the deal?

:cool:

If he SAYS he's gonna call, he should fucking call. But there's nothing wrong with not saying you'll call.

And... if you're not sure, just call and if she is "too busy", then obviously she didnt care about your "lets chill sometime" comment and you're off the hook.

[mrazntre]

A girl should give out her number because she WANTS to, not because she feels "sorry" for him and then ignores his phone calls...

[Green_Circle]

Ok I bumped into her again last night and she brought over some freshly baked rolls for me to try out. I could tell she was a bit nervous around me so I just cut things briefly. However by the time she left, she was feeling quite familiar with things. So now what?

[Green_Circle]

And about the sex thing. I'm comfy just being pals but if she starts dressing and acting all slutty, how should I tackle this?

[golden_buns]

And about the sex thing. I'm comfy just being pals but if she starts dressing and acting all slutty, how should I tackle this?

So which is your priority, booty or friendship?

[Irezumi Kiss]

Let things flow naturally. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

You might be surprised at what life will give to you outside of all your thinking and all your planning.

Because how do you know SHE'S not thinking of booty-call testing YOU? That tube-top shit wasn't worn for choir practice!