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hooligan

07-09-2003, 12:25 AM

i don't watch big brother at all, but to say that all asian men are the same, that's like using her as the staple of all asian women.

i think a lot of it has to do with issues within the API community with sexism and gender inequality. it's saying something that asian women are leaving relationships feeling like that, but also says volumes about how the asian american community treats asian american women. :(

golden_buns

07-09-2003, 12:56 AM

AngryABCGirl

07-09-2003, 12:58 AM

golden_buns

07-09-2003, 12:59 AM

She's 27 and her ex is 23.

ChairmanMah

07-09-2003, 07:54 AM

Originally posted by Deadpool@Jul 8 2003, 10:32 PM
Is it exclusively Asian women that seem to publically bash men of their own race. Why do they attribute bad relationship to the persons race?
i'm assuming because they think that their strict father represents all asian men.

like asian guys born in N.A. are somehow the ones carrying over the traditional bs from the far east.

i think my parents are stupid. that's why i moved out, but you don't see me bashing asian girls.

i went out w/ white girls first and have went out w/ several asians of different nationalities but they are all different.

when will the stupid females realize this. I actually don't care what these idiots do w/ their love life, but don't try to hinder mine by influenceing others.

from what i've seen and experienced, i think that many asian women at times can be the most thoughtless characters on earth when it comes to their social relationships w/ both men and women.

Like asian women will try to convince their other asian girlfriends about their misconceptions of asian guys and that type of sentiment spreads because girls are so gossipy and before you know it, there are groups and numbers of girls wanting to be "cool" w/ the crowd and do what all the other dumb bitchs are doing.

i say good riddance to all the followers. I need a leader in my life to complement my leadership abilities. And an asian whore or a geek won't cut it.

princess

07-09-2003, 08:50 AM

what a narrow minded view and pathetic excuse. not all guys are the same. sorry, im in a snippy mood rite now.

ChairmanMah

07-09-2003, 09:15 AM

Originally posted by princess@Jul 9 2003, 07:50 AM
what a narrow minded view and pathetic excuse. not all guys are the same. sorry, im in a snippy mood rite now.
i hope you're not talking to me because i never said anything about you.

If you've experienced what i've seen and heard, you'd think the same way.

Faithless

07-09-2003, 09:58 AM

Chances are if she feels that way with that attitude, she is not going to last long in the show.

Hopefully, America will end-up saying, "Good! Asian men don't need that problem anyhow!" :rolleyes:

SunWuKong

07-09-2003, 01:57 PM

has anybody ever heard an asian woman say that she doesn't date white guys because she had a bad relationship with a white guy? this isn't a rhetorical question. i'm genuinely asking.

AngryABCGirl

07-09-2003, 02:00 PM

Erendani

07-09-2003, 02:15 PM

What about a white woman who doesn't date white guys because of some bad relationships with white guys? Another genuine question.

Here's an experiment you guys can do... go to those dating sites on the internet and look at the ethnicity preferences people put. I did, and I noticed some BROAD, GENERAL trends:

White males: want white
Asian males: want asian
Black males: didn't check
Hispanic males: didn't check

White females: want white
Asian females: want white
Black females: want black
Hispanic females: want hispanic or white

What does this all mean (besides the fact that I have too much time on my hands)? Who knows.

princess

07-09-2003, 02:28 PM

Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jul 9 2003, 08:15 AM
i hope you're not talking to me because i never said anything about you.

If you've experienced what i've seen and heard, you'd think the same way.
nope. i was commenting on the topic in general and juns attitude toward asian men. one bad experience doesnt necessarily mean that all asian guys are non-datable.

just fyi: if i was gonna bash on u, id at least quote u.

Deadpool

07-09-2003, 02:54 PM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jul 9 2003, 12:57 PM
has anybody ever heard an asian woman say that she doesn't date white guys because she had a bad relationship with a white guy? this isn't a rhetorical question. i'm genuinely asking.
I haven't I bet there are but It seems that Asian women are more public about it. Like Ive know a couple of asian women like this and the entire circle of friends know about this. And they states her white preference like its her defining quality. :rolleyes:
Me: "Yea whats her name...umm yea is she cute"
friend: "Her name is so and so. She only dates white guys."
Seriously. How about tattooing that statment on your foreheads.

ChairmanMah

07-09-2003, 02:54 PM

Originally posted by princess@Jul 9 2003, 01:28 PM
Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jul 9 2003, 08:15 AM
i hope you're not talking to me because i never said anything about you.

If you've experienced what i've seen and heard, you'd think the same way.
nope. i was commenting on the topic in general and juns attitude toward asian men. one bad experience doesnt necessarily mean that all asian guys are non-datable.

just fyi: if i was gonna bash on u, id at least quote u.
ok, just a little miscommunication.

thanks

princess

07-09-2003, 03:55 PM

Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jul 9 2003, 01:54 PM
Originally posted by princess@Jul 9 2003, 01:28 PM
Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jul 9 2003, 08:15 AM
i hope you're not talking to me because i never said anything about you.

If you've experienced what i've seen and heard, you'd think the same way.
nope. i was commenting on the topic in general and juns attitude toward asian men. one bad experience doesnt necessarily mean that all asian guys are non-datable.

just fyi: if i was gonna bash on u, id at least quote u.
ok, just a little miscommunication.

thanks
np

mr. x

07-09-2003, 07:17 PM

man and she's all like "i dont wanna be portrayed in a negative light" or some shit

ChairmanMah

07-09-2003, 07:34 PM

Tonight i was watching the news and Grace Park korean golf bitch bad mouthed asian men to an reporter.

Fucking segment was about rising of Korean women on the LPGA.

Moron reporter had the nerve to ask Grace Park why there weren't any Korean Men in the PGA.

And naturally like the stupid sellout she is says something like

" Caucasian men are bigger, larger, stronger and can just hit the ball farther.. they're just better "

my heart sank....

i can believe she would say this shit on the news!! how dare she speak for asian men. And fuck the reporter for asking such a question.

why couldn't she just say that's it's not as popular for Asian Men or anything but that..

so there we are, another public diss by our own women.

golden_buns

07-09-2003, 07:39 PM

Originally posted by Erendani@Jul 9 2003, 01:15 PM
What about a white woman who doesn't date white guys because of some bad relationships with white guys? Another genuine question.

I met many girls like that in college. They're justification was that WM's were boring, dull, or unexciting. Their fetish was on the latin lover type of guys.

You can get to see plenty of women like this at salsa clubs, latin (not chicano) parties, or "on their quest" to find the perfect latin lover down in central or south america, etc

Deadpool

07-09-2003, 09:44 PM

Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jul 9 2003, 06:34 PM
Tonight i was watching the news and Grace Park korean golf bitch bad mouthed asian men to an reporter.

Fucking segment was about rising of Korean women on the LPGA.

Moron reporter had the nerve to ask Grace Park why there weren't any Korean Men in the PGA.

And naturally like the stupid sellout she is says something like

" Caucasian men are bigger, larger, stronger and can just hit the ball farther.. they're just better "

my heart sank....

i can believe she would say this shit on the news!! how dare she speak for asian men. And fuck the reporter for asking such a question.

why couldn't she just say that's it's not as popular for Asian Men or anything but that..

so there we are, another public diss by our own women.
Hooo boy......

mrazntre

07-09-2003, 10:06 PM

I saw her on BB last night or whatever, she's not that cute. She was all up in some tennis gear like she was gonna get in a match before going into the house (wusssupwidddat?). Funny shit.

Anyhow, I was thinking, it does seem disproportionate that asian women are more publicly vocal about dissing "asian males" in mainstream media. I'm saying, if you women don't like the asian brother's, big deal, don't get all uppity and start talking smack to the world. IF that's not your thing, it's all good cuz we didn't want none y'all anyhow.

This reminds me, the last issue of STUFF with Kelly Hu, she was interviewed about Samo Hung and the article writer asked if she knew if Samo was really "HUNG" her response, "Well, he's Asian, you figure it out." What the fuck kind of answer is that ? He should talk some smack back to her cuz she's nuttin but a halfie.

mrazntre

07-09-2003, 10:15 PM

Originally posted by Deadpool@Jul 10 2003, 04:44 AM
Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jul 9 2003, 06:34 PM
Tonight i was watching the news and Grace Park korean golf bitch bad mouthed asian men to an reporter.

Fucking segment was about rising of Korean women on the LPGA.

Moron reporter had the nerve to ask Grace Park why there weren't any Korean Men in the PGA.

And naturally like the stupid sellout she is says something like

" Caucasian men are bigger, larger, stronger and can just hit the ball farther.. they're just better "

my heart sank....

i can believe she would say this shit on the news!! how dare she speak for asian men. And fuck the reporter for asking such a question.

why couldn't she just say that's it's not as popular for Asian Men or anything but that..

so there we are, another public diss by our own women.
Hooo boy......
i'm bettin that tiger woods can smack the ball farther than most of them caucasian men...

and how about vijay singh?

Those are just my examples of non-caucasian men in the PGA as I have but a minute amount of knowledge when it comes to white sports. Grace Park is an ugly bitch anyhow....only a white guy would want her and think that she's fine. Asiaphile baby...

amietron

07-09-2003, 10:50 PM

Originally posted by mrazntre@Jul 9 2003, 09:06 PM
This reminds me, the last issue of STUFF with Kelly Hu, she was interviewed about  Samo Hung and the article writer asked if she knew if Samo was really "HUNG" her response, "Well, he's Asian, you figure it out."
I thinks that is funny. =X

tvbdude

07-09-2003, 10:58 PM

man I fucking want to kill all these sellout bitches. rape first, kill later

Faithless

07-10-2003, 01:04 AM

With all do respect, after watching a little of Big Bro, I have only one thing to say about Jun --

Arf!

maxdacat

07-10-2003, 03:19 AM

i was reading about the show on the train here in london (we like to keep up with the rest of the world especially American "culture") and i was surprised to see a korean girl in the show....the article also mentioned her ex's name which also sounded korean so maybe the inference is that this horrible korean guy pushed her into the arms of evil whitey......i wouldn't loose sleep over this one though.....it did just seem part of the contrived bitchiness the show's producers no doubt expect of their participants.

ChairmanMah

07-10-2003, 06:39 AM

Originally posted by mrazntre@Jul 9 2003, 09:15 PM
Originally posted by Deadpool@Jul 10 2003, 04:44 AM
Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jul 9 2003, 06:34 PM
Tonight i was watching the news and Grace Park korean golf bitch bad mouthed asian men to an reporter.

Fucking segment was about rising of Korean women on the LPGA.

Moron reporter had the nerve to ask Grace Park why there weren't any Korean Men in the PGA.

And naturally like the stupid sellout she is says something like

" Caucasian men are bigger, larger, stronger and can just hit the ball farther.. they're just better "

my heart sank....

i can believe she would say this shit on the news!! how dare she speak for asian men. And fuck the reporter for asking such a question.

why couldn't she just say that's it's not as popular for Asian Men or anything but that..

so there we are, another public diss by our own women.
Hooo boy......
i'm bettin that tiger woods can smack the ball farther than most of them caucasian men...

and how about vijay singh?

Those are just my examples of non-caucasian men in the PGA as I have but a minute amount of knowledge when it comes to white sports. Grace Park is an ugly bitch anyhow....only a white guy would want her and think that she's fine. Asiaphile baby...
i know. Those comments are uncalled for.

Look at mike weir for example. He's a smaller white guy.

And it's not the size and strength, it's the form of the swing.

it what she said were true, we would have golfers like wrestlers from wwe playing golf, stupid bitch.

DragonKnight

07-10-2003, 02:47 PM

Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 12:04 AM
With all do respect, after watching a little of Big Bro, I have only one thing to say about Jun --

Arf!
:lol:

Any pics? I don't get TV at home anymore. Cable prices equals 'the suck'. :angry:

Faithless

07-10-2003, 04:34 PM

Originally posted by DragonKnight@Jul 10 2003, 01:47 PM
Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 12:04 AM
With all do respect, after watching a little of Big Bro, I have only one thing to say about Jun --

Arf!
:lol:

Any pics? I don't get TV at home anymore. Cable prices equals 'the suck'. :angry:
Well, you can always surf to CBS' site, hmmm? :D

My Webpage (http://www.cbs.com/primetime/bigbrother4/guests/jun/index.shtml)

It just dawned on me that Jun might post here.

Sorry, didn't mean to offend. :ph34r: It's your personality that is Arf!

mr. x

07-10-2003, 09:39 PM

Originally posted by amietron@Jul 9 2003, 09:50 PM
I thinks that is funny. =X
easy for you to say

you're not a unhung hero :frown:

mr. x

07-10-2003, 10:08 PM

im sick of tv and movies that seem to have this agenda where they wanna give asian women (not even the prettiest ones) a platform to "vent" against us asian male oppressors. it makes me fucking sick

i swear if i ever get into whoring for hollywood i promise not to work on anything full of this kinda shit, i will throw tantrums or walk out if i have to

AliBabaIncorporated

07-10-2003, 10:14 PM

Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 06:34 PM
It just dawned on me that Jun might post here.
Given the number of lurkers we have, as compared to the entire Asian population of America, probably not. odds are worse than 10,000 to one against.

Uncle Tat

07-10-2003, 10:33 PM

What do you expect from a stupid girl grown up in a culture where white guys and asian girls are on the media all the time?

And catch phrases like "5 dolla sucky sucky me love you longgggg time" don't help either.

Sometimes I think it was better when inter-racial relationships was seen as taboo. But I guess that's the price AAs pay in order to "fit in America." Gotta sucky sucky white cock all day love them long time.

Faithless

07-10-2003, 10:59 PM

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Jul 10 2003, 09:14 PM
Given the number of lurkers we have, as compared to the entire Asian population of America, probably not. odds are worse than 10,000 to one against.
Tongue in cheek comment.

It would be interesting if Jun's relationship to Jee will be a topic of discussion.

Faithless

07-10-2003, 11:20 PM

Check-out this message boards forum for Jee:

http://forums.realitytvplanet.com/viewtopi...3&highlight=jee (http://forums.realitytvplanet.com/viewtopic.php?t=9973&highlight=jee)

Great post. You are right about Jee, but unfortunately I don't think it will matter after this week, as he will probably be evicted first.

Jun reminds me of this lady who I work with daily. I think I pissed her off about 9 months ago, and every day since then she doesn't talk to me unless she absolutely has to. Great working environment. I say good morning and I get the "eat shit and die" look. I ask a question about a job and I get beligerance. It all sums up by saying that the "I can't talk to you because you are scum" is immaturity and lack of self-confidence. Mostly immaturity though.

The worst part about this bitch I work with is that I can't get her fired because she's the bosses wife. So I know exactly how Jee feels. He can't get away from Jun, and he knows she hates his guts and he has no choice but to work with her. Man, I really do feel for the guy now.

It's women like Jun that make this world a living hell. I hope she's one of the first to get evicted after this week. Freaking ugly nasty skank!!!!

AngryABCGirl

07-10-2003, 11:51 PM

This is a scary amount of jealous anger I see from men... you know if all Asian men really acted like this I wouldn't want em either, but luckly they don't.

Faithless

07-10-2003, 11:58 PM

Jealousy or indignation? For a sister to put down her brothers based on the experience with one man. Where's the fairness in that? :rolleyes:

Should Jun and Jee have stayed together? Probably not. They were together for five years. He's 23 and she's 27. There's the age difference and the probability that the relationship got stale. There careers are in different places, too. She probably makes more money than Jee, the bookkeeper.

Napoleon Chynamite

07-11-2003, 12:25 AM

golden_buns

07-11-2003, 12:45 AM

She used to weight 180 lbs, I wonder if all that ego happenned because she suddenly got a lot of attention after losing weight.

Yup it looks like Jun is someone who's insecure and tries to make up for her weaknesses by being a bitch

golden_buns

07-11-2003, 12:48 AM

deez nuts

07-11-2003, 07:44 AM

maybe she's just bitter cuz she got played by a boyfriend that's four years younger. maybe he ninja'd the booty?

deez nuts

07-11-2003, 08:51 AM

Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 06:34 PM
Originally posted by DragonKnight@Jul 10 2003, 01:47 PM
Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 12:04 AM
With all do respect, after watching a little of Big Bro, I have only one thing to say about Jun --

Arf!
:lol:

Any pics? I don't get TV at home anymore. Cable prices equals 'the suck'. :angry:
Well, you can always surf to CBS' site, hmmm? :D

My Webpage (http://www.cbs.com/primetime/bigbrother4/guests/jun/index.shtml)

It just dawned on me that Jun might post here.

Sorry, didn't mean to offend. :ph34r: It's your personality that is Arf!
let's keep it real.

homegirl looked like she fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on her way down.

her only saving grace is that she possibly missed one or two branches on her downward spiral. why? cuz if she was 180 lbs she possibly has/had big ta-ta's.

Deadpool

07-11-2003, 10:29 AM

Originally posted by AzNBuffGrL@Jul 10 2003, 10:51 PM
This is a scary amount of jealous anger I see from men... you know if all Asian men really acted like this I wouldn't want em either, but luckly they don't.
WHat makes you say it's "Jealous" anger?
I dunno about you but I'm not amused because it's public defamation of entire racial group on national television which will directly, indirectly effect me.
I mean people should stand up if Asians get bashed as a whole but if only males get it then we should just shut up and take it?
Wow.

Faithless

07-11-2003, 10:39 AM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jul 11 2003, 07:51 AM
Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 06:34 PM
Originally posted by DragonKnight@Jul 10 2003, 01:47 PM
Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 12:04 AM
With all do respect, after watching a little of Big Bro, I have only one thing to say about Jun --

Arf!
:lol:

Any pics? I don't get TV at home anymore. Cable prices equals 'the suck'. :angry:
Well, you can always surf to CBS' site, hmmm? :D

My Webpage (http://www.cbs.com/primetime/bigbrother4/guests/jun/index.shtml)

It just dawned on me that Jun might post here.

Sorry, didn't mean to offend. :ph34r: It's your personality that is Arf!
let's keep it real.

homegirl looked like she fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on her way down.

her only saving grace is that she possibly missed one or two branches on her downward spiral. why? cuz if she was 180 lbs she possibly has/had big ta-ta's.
Now, now. If she were lying next to you, giving what for , I'm thinking you'd be thanking her in the morn. :rolleyes:

She's got her fans.

deez nuts

07-11-2003, 10:40 AM

Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 11 2003, 12:39 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jul 11 2003, 07:51 AM
Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 06:34 PM
Originally posted by DragonKnight@Jul 10 2003, 01:47 PM
Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 12:04 AM
With all do respect, after watching a little of Big Bro, I have only one thing to say about Jun --

Arf!
:lol:

Any pics? I don't get TV at home anymore. Cable prices equals 'the suck'. :angry:
Well, you can always surf to CBS' site, hmmm? :D

My Webpage (http://www.cbs.com/primetime/bigbrother4/guests/jun/index.shtml)

It just dawned on me that Jun might post here.

Sorry, didn't mean to offend. :ph34r: It's your personality that is Arf!
let's keep it real.

homegirl looked like she fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on her way down.

her only saving grace is that she possibly missed one or two branches on her downward spiral. why? cuz if she was 180 lbs she possibly has/had big ta-ta's.
Now, now. If she were lying next to you, giving what for , I'm thinking you'd be thanking her in the morn. :rolleyes:

She's got her fans.

no way, man.

she got crazy eyes.

BeTheReds

07-11-2003, 11:38 AM

Originally posted by mrazntre@Jul 10 2003, 02:06 PM
He should talk some smack back to her cuz she's nuttin but a halfie.
Oh wow, it's so great to see that instead of defaming the woman for her irrational generalization, you lower they bar by ostracizing a large percentage of the "community" you advocate to fight for. I'm glad to see you are working for solidarity and unity. You have basically said that being mixed makes you less of a person and is plenty the reason for ridicule. THANKS! :lol:

Chinese Tourist

07-11-2003, 02:00 PM

Originally posted by golden_buns@Jul 10 2003, 11:48 PM
well, how would you feel if some asian guy became famous and started to bash AFs on interviews?
I'd laff :lol:

Chinese Tourist

07-11-2003, 02:02 PM

I would just like to say, that

...I miss vacationing...
= -and - =
... I miss my hometown...

... I miss loose hot wimmin :rolleyes:

mr. x

07-11-2003, 05:31 PM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jul 9 2003, 12:57 PM
has anybody ever heard an asian woman say that she doesn't date white guys because she had a bad relationship with a white guy? this isn't a rhetorical question. i'm genuinely asking.
see thats the thing, asian women who usually date asian exclusively arent what i would call "acting natural" but they dont really rule out white guys either.

they simply dont make an issue of it. these girls (on reality shows) always make an issue of it as if they are now "liberated" for dating outside. they act all high and mighty and shit. therefore they are insecure. im not referring to all asian outdaters of course, but you tend to notice these girls on reality shows are always mean-spirited

mr. x

07-11-2003, 05:33 PM

Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jul 10 2003, 03:34 PM
[QUOTE=ChottoMatte,Jul 10 2003, 12:04 AM] With all do respect, after watching a little of Big Bro, I have only one thing to say about Jun --

Arf!
:lol:

It just dawned on me that Jun might post here.

Sorry, didn't mean to offend. :ph34r: It's your personality that is Arf!
and why would she do that?

i figure she surfs at waspworld or somethign

mr. x

07-11-2003, 05:34 PM

coagulated fat

07-11-2003, 06:14 PM

Originally posted by Uncle Tat@Jul 10 2003, 09:33 PM
Sometimes I think it was better when inter-racial relationships was seen as taboo.  But I guess that's the price AAs pay in order to "fit in America."  Gotta sucky sucky white cock all day love them long time.
Not to get all hapa-rage on you, but do you really expect me to sit back and tolerate this shit?

I understand the frustration Asian men have and a sense of being betrayed by Asian women, but a) you don't want the ones that are stupid enough to fall for the white-is-better stereotype anyway and b ) much of the time you just come off as further "proof" of the woman-hating bigot stereotype that you are trying to get rid of.

Attacking all Asian women as brainwashed sellouts, or all Asian women who have ever dated a white guy for that matter, will not help bring them running to your arms.

AngryABCGirl

07-11-2003, 06:20 PM

Originally posted by Deadpool@Jul 11 2003, 09:29 AM
WHat makes you say it's "Jealous" anger?
I dunno about you but I'm not amused because it's public defamation of entire racial group on national television which will directly, indirectly effect me.
I mean people should stand up if Asians get bashed as a whole but if only males get it then we should just shut up and take it?
Wow.
I'm not amused by it either, but what's less amusing is the bunch of guys who sit around and whine on the internet all day and can't get ass. Besides, most women who say stuff like that have got to be really shallow because there is no way you can completely generalize a whole group of men based on ethnicity, any idiot knows that. Do guys really want shallow bitches like that to go after them?

mr. x

07-11-2003, 08:25 PM

true true, i think we can all agree that nobody should want a asian girl that shallow

but we do have to realize they are sending a message, and i mean how often is an asian in the media? is this really the select few soundbites we want to be played to the entire country? i mean it's our sisters and girlfriends and so on that are the ones who have to put up with some sleazy white guy on the street yelling that "sucky sucky fi dolla" shit at them, and they sure didnt pick that up from a white woman in the media

ChairmanMah

07-11-2003, 08:56 PM

Originally posted by coagulated fat@Jul 11 2003, 05:14 PM

Attacking all Asian women as brainwashed sellouts, or all Asian women who have ever dated a white guy for that matter, will not help bring them running to your arms.
as if we want them anyways.

everyone is missng my whole point and bringing it back to this hellish topic of these relationships.

It is about the public defamation ppl!

ChairmanMah

07-11-2003, 08:59 PM

thanks for all the support everybody :)

airborneranger

07-11-2003, 11:42 PM

hohoho
biggest mistake made by some asian women
is they thought getting a white boyfriend is gonna make them more attractive, do they ever see me wanting them more after the fact

AliBabaIncorporated

07-12-2003, 12:05 AM

Who cares about "public defamation" ... people who expend so much energy to care about what Almighty Whitey Media says shouldn't be breeding anyway.

coagulated fat

07-12-2003, 12:05 AM

Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jul 11 2003, 07:56 PM
Originally posted by coagulated fat@Jul 11 2003, 05:14 PM

Attacking all Asian women as brainwashed sellouts, or all Asian women who have ever dated a white guy for that matter, will not help bring them running to your arms.
as if we want them anyways.

everyone is missng my whole point and bringing it back to this hellish topic of these relationships.

It is about the public defamation ppl!
All right. I think it has to do with the fact that Asian men are often stereotyped as dominant/overbearing, so if an Asian man said something bad about all Asian women, the media would attack him for being sexist or something. But because Asian women are stereotyped as docile and submissive, their racist statements go unchecked, even appauded (as in, "yay her, Asian grrl power, she had the guts to say that").

A parallel that I can think of is, if a white guy says he only likes white women, he would be attacked for being racist. But if he said he only liked Asian or black women, he would probably be portrayed in a positive, "I welcome other cultures with open arms" light... even though it is essentially the same thing.

My Name Is...

07-12-2003, 05:23 AM

Originally posted by coagulated fat@Jul 11 2003, 11:05 PM
All right. I think it has to do with the fact that Asian men are often stereotyped as dominant/overbearing.
Side note: I think it's funny how Asian stereotypes are so contradictory.
How can Asian men be dominant and overbearing when they're also weak and effeminate?
Similarly, how can Asian women be docile and submissive when they're "dragon ladies"?
Why are Asians sometimes perceived to be just about the same as white when people don't think we're even American?
:confused:

Faithless

07-12-2003, 09:30 AM

Alas, there just a temporary novelty, anyway -- Jun and Jee.

With the original 8 housemates conspiring together to oust the exes as soon as possible, BetWWTS.com has listed most of the exes with the longest odds to win. Michelle, David's ex, and Justin, Alison's ex, are both at 12/1, while Amanda, Scott's ex, and Robert, Erika's ex, are listed at 25/1. Meanwhile, former couple Jun (15/1) and Jee (40/1) appear destined to be kicked out of the house by the other contestants.

http://www.casinocitytimes.com/news/articl...ontentID=136351 (http://www.casinocitytimes.com/news/article.cfm?contentID=136351)

sandra

07-12-2003, 10:10 AM

Originally posted by My Name Is...@Jul 12 2003, 04:23 AM
Side note: I think it's funny how Asian stereotypes are so contradictory.
How can Asian men be dominant and overbearing when they're also weak and effeminate?
Similarly, how can Asian women be docile and submissive when they're "dragon ladies"?
Why are Asians sometimes perceived to be just about the same as white when people don't think we're even American?
:confused:
the idea is that asian men are weak and effeminate outside the home (e.g., at work) and, to make up for this, they are dominant and overbearing within the home. kiss-ass to your boss and whip your wife.

for asian women, i guess the idea is that we're docile and submissive for the most part, and transform into dragon ladies in bed.

as for the 3rd one, they may think that we have some commonalities, but none that make us true americans. :confused: i don't know.

ChairmanMah

07-12-2003, 10:23 AM

mr. x

07-12-2003, 01:05 PM

like kasia said its a compensation thing, "supposedly" we are domineering towards asian women but when the white man saves her in the movies he cant stand up to the manly man

and im not just bitching, somebody obviously made the transporter, and it wasnt a asian director thats for sure

YuheiCarreau

07-12-2003, 03:54 PM

Originally posted by mr. x@Jul 12 2003, 04:05 PM
like kasia said its a compensation thing, "supposedly" we are domineering towards asian women but when the white man saves her in the movies he cant stand up to the manly man

and im not just bitching, somebody obviously made the transporter, and it wasnt a asian director thats for sure
Uh, yes it was.

Deadpool

07-12-2003, 04:35 PM

Originally posted by My Name Is...@Jul 12 2003, 04:23 AM

Why are Asians sometimes perceived to be just about the same as white when people don't think we're even American?
:confused:
I think it has to do with the model minority myth. They think we are all well off and successful which is precieved to be a white trait. "Wow they are economically stable just like us white people, not like those Black and Latinos." Thus I think thats why I think we get scoffed at if we bring up racial issue.

kimpossible

07-12-2003, 04:52 PM

I watched a bit of it and did catch where she propositioned the blonde guy about sharing his bed (to which he declined. smart fella.) and her interview footage declaring she only dated Caucasian men. I don't think she's simply a self-hater. Dunno if any of you caught this but when they went round table at introductions, Jun had a cattily jealous reaction to the Pilates instructor woman. This is my take: Jun has rather coarse looks (she's not butt ugly, but she's no beauty queen.) I think she has been and is currently using the Mee So Hornee stereotype to cash in on getting attention. She seems to count on white guys thinking she's sexy solely because she is Asian and her best defense seems to be an offense. She's not going to come out and say "Most white guys can't judge Asian looks and find me sexy primarily because I'm Asian. I'm only average, or even slightly invisible, to most Korean or other Asian guys. Therefore, I'll just take the initiative to say Asian men can't have me, not that they don't want me. And on top of that I'll make those bastards that don't want me feel inferior by excluding them in preference to white males."

For Pete's sake, the woman assured us all on the other side of the camera that she knew without fail that the others saw her as a sexy New Yorker. I don't really care if the woman has self esteem issues but that was a super shitty thing to do on national television just because she doesn't get enough attention.

Fireblade

07-12-2003, 05:03 PM

drama queens like that shouldn't even be on tv. But hell, Springer has taught us a lot about trash tv.

mr. x

07-12-2003, 10:11 PM

Originally posted by YuheiCarreau@Jul 12 2003, 02:54 PM
Originally posted by mr. x@Jul 12 2003, 04:05 PM
like kasia said its a compensation thing, "supposedly" we are domineering towards asian women but when the white man saves her in the movies he cant stand up to the manly man

and im not just bitching, somebody obviously made the transporter, and it wasnt a asian director thats for sure
Uh, yes it was.
really? hmm i thought it was the french dude. alright u got me there. well i should be more specific, it was written by whites, and even when whites are well meaning or well intentioned they CANNOT portray asians in a realistic matter, it always has to be about how they affect the main white characters.

Faithless

07-14-2003, 12:43 PM

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Fireblade @ Jul 12 2003, 04:03 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> drama queens like that shouldn't even be on tv. But hell, Springer has taught us a lot about trash tv. [/b][/quote]
Speaking of which: has Springer ever had an Asians Who Don't Their Race episode? :rolleyes:

SunWuKong

07-14-2003, 01:32 PM

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (YuheiCarreau @ Jul 12 2003, 06:54 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> </div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (mr. x @ Jul 12 2003, 04:05 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> like kasia said its a compensation thing, "supposedly" we are domineering towards asian women but when the white man saves her in the movies he cant stand up to the manly man

and im not just bitching, somebody obviously made the transporter, and it wasnt a asian director thats for sure [/b][/quote]
Uh, yes it was. [/b][/quote]
actually it was a Luc Besson movie, and Corey Yuen did the fight choreography. Luc Besson is the same dude that does all those shitty Jet Li American movies like Kiss of the Dragon. i will never understand how he manages to get huge budgets for shitty scripts. he must be a good salesman.

moJo

07-14-2003, 02:53 PM

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (SunWuKung @ Jul 14 2003, 12:32 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> actually it was a Luc Besson movie, and Corey Yuen did the fight choreography. Luc Besson is the same dude that does all those shitty Jet Li American movies like Kiss of the Dragon. i will never understand how he manages to get huge budgets for shitty scripts. he must be a good salesman. [/b][/quote]
Didn't he direct The Professional (aka The Cleaner aka Leon)? That movie was pretty cool. That's the only Luc Besson movie I've seen, I think.

As for Big Brother 4, I ahven't watched it, but on the website, that Jun girl looks like your typical high-maintenance bitchy AA chick. Gosh, I'm judgemental. Oh well. :D

mrazntre

07-15-2003, 12:17 AM

i'm not surprised that they picked a korean girl such as that ugly biatch... she displays what the powers that be want in a "minority". Perverse hatred and anger AGAINST the aformentioned ethnicity.....

simply put "conquer and divide"

i saw that bitch on another BB4 ad spot.. she's so fucking ugly....

SunWuKong

07-15-2003, 06:29 AM

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (mrazntre @ Jul 15 2003, 03:17 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> i'm not surprised that they picked a korean girl such as that ugly biatch... she displays what the powers that be want in a "minority". Perverse hatred and anger AGAINST the aformentioned ethnicity.....

simply put "conquer and divide"

i saw that bitch on another BB4 ad spot.. she's so fucking ugly.... [/b][/quote]
that does bring an interesting point. most of the Asian women as well as Asian men that i know in the US prefer to date Asian exclusively. yet you never see that this is the case in the media. why?

Faithless

07-15-2003, 09:00 AM

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (SunWuKung @ Jul 15 2003, 05:29 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> </div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (mrazntre @ Jul 15 2003, 03:17 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> i'm not surprised that they picked a korean girl such as that ugly biatch... she displays what the powers that be  want in a "minority". Perverse hatred and anger AGAINST the aformentioned ethnicity.....

simply put "conquer and divide"

i saw that bitch on another BB4 ad spot.. she's so fucking ugly.... [/b][/quote]
that does bring an interesting point. most of the Asian women as well as Asian men that i know in the US prefer to date Asian exclusively. yet you never see that this is the case in the media. why? [/b][/quote]
Maybe, because -- no one really gives a care about Asians. :frown: :luv:

ChairmanMah

07-15-2003, 09:03 AM

i think korean and japanese women are the worst for being whitewashed but that's just what i seen. <_<

SunWuKong

07-15-2003, 11:11 AM

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (ChairmanMah @ Jul 15 2003, 12:03 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> i think korean and japanese women are the worst for being whitewashed but that's just what i seen. <_< [/b][/quote]
really? i thought Korean women like to date only Korean guys more so than other Asian women wanting to date only Asian guys. (but i guess that doesn't mean they're not white-washed.)

ChairmanMah

07-17-2003, 01:27 PM

after watching the game they played last nite, they almost all agreed that jun would be most likely to use someones toothbrush to clean the toilet.

I think Jun's gonna get kicked out soon if not next. We'll see i guess. I hope she does get kciked out before Jee cuz she's a bitch.

AliBabaIncorporated

07-17-2003, 04:57 PM

</div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (SunWuKung @ Jul 15 2003, 08:29 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> most of the Asian women as well as Asian men that i know in the US prefer to date Asian exclusively.  yet you never see that this is the case in the media.  why? [/b][/quote]
The main reason is self-selection effect. You're less likely to know an Asian girl who only dates whites. Conversely, white people are less likely to know an Asian girl who only dates Asians.