korean stereotyping of chinese men and women

[SunWuKong]

what's up with these stereotypes that koreans have of chinese men treating their women better than korean men do, and that chinese women are more dominating than korean women?

i don't get a sense of that from my korean friends.

[applehead]

oh yes. chinese men are putty in my hands.
putty i say!!

okay all kidding aside, i haven't heard dominating
as much as i've heard demanding.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by applehead@Apr 4 2003, 02:44 AM
oh yes. chinese men are putty in my hands.
putty i say!!

okay all kidding aside, i haven't heard dominating
as much as i've heard demanding.
take your sedatives, dear. your megalomania is kicking in, again.

i'll say what i said to my boy "ultimate korean power" dave kim, when he asked me that question, especially in regards to his cousin susan. i said to him: "son, chinese guys just hide it better. for example: we wear our wife beaters underneath our dress shirts, as opposed to korean men, who wear it in plain daylight for all to see."

another example: would be: korean dude_001 demands and barks order for his lady to grab him a beer. chinese dude_001 hints and suggests that a beer would be nice right now and how great it would be if she can get you one from the fridge.

in order to get from point A to Point B is thru the path of least resistance.


as for chinese women: chinese women, korean women same shit for women in general. they're all planning an early grave for you in the long run.

edit: i'm kidding!

[Azn Retribution]

there's a grain of truth in that...

lets not discuss how big it is

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Azn Retribution@Apr 4 2003, 09:04 AM
there's a grain of truth in that...

lets not discuss how big it is
well i would say that the one korean girl that i briefly dated was kind of quiet and submissive, whereas i've dated chinese girls from different spectrums of demanding and submissiveness. but i always thought that was an isolated case with that particular girl. don't have personal experience with how korean guys treat their women.

[golden_buns]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 4 2003, 08:13 AM
well i would say that the one korean girl that i briefly dated was kind of quiet and submissive
Meena is quite and submissive too

[applehead]

Originally posted by golden_buns@Apr 4 2003, 08:40 AM
Meena is quite and submissive too
you spelled quiet wrong.
you're a babo.
baaaaaabo!!

[TyroneK(prettypretty)]

Just to set all of you straight, Meena's independent and dominating. But she'll walk on your back without stilettos if you ask nicely.

I've heard that mainland Chinese men are good husbands since they're basically raised by their mothers. They usually have a deep respect for their wives' wishes as a result.

Taiwanese and Korean men have a more dominating reputation due to the Japanese influence that came from colonialization. They're used to a more male-dominanated situation in their households.

[golden_buns]

Originally posted by applehead@Apr 4 2003, 10:24 AM
you spelled quiet wrong.
you're a babo.
baaaaaabo!!
bah! :P

[amietron]

Originally posted by VBKao@Apr 4 2003, 10:36 AM
Taiwanese and Korean men have a more dominating reputation due to the Japanese influence that came from colonialization. They're used to a more male-dominanated situation in their households.
So, are you saying that Japanese men are the most dominating?

[mr. x]

^--- and is he saying that japanese men dominate taiwanese and korean men?

that aint right, not right at all

[golden_buns]

Originally posted by VBKao@Apr 4 2003, 10:36 AM
Taiwanese and Korean men have a more dominating reputation due to the Japanese influence that came from colonialization. They're used to a more male-dominanated situation in their households.
Nah, koreans have always had the rep of being very short tempered and aggresive. Just take a look at meena

[SunWuKong]

so waitaminute. the point of this here thread was to get to the bottom of this stereotype. are people saying that it's not a stereotype then? if so, shiieet, i'm gonna go for a korean girl. i want a woman that knows her place. that is, in the kitchen.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 3 2003, 11:37 PM
what's up with these stereotypes that koreans have of chinese men treating their women better than korean men do, and that chinese women are more dominating than korean women?

i don't get a sense of that from my korean friends.
wtf chinese women more dominating than korean women?

maybe I just hang around the wrong korean and chinese women rofl

dunno i guess...I actually have more korean female friends than chinese female friends.. but if this stereotype is true than that really sucks...i've been mind fucked more times than Ron Jeremy has been fucked in the normal sense, and I still remain gullible

[angel nympho]

All I hear is that Chinese men are rich. Because they hoard all their money and don't buy anything nice.

[TyroneK(prettypretty)]

It's only what I've heard. That's all.

I'm sure it depends on the husband and wife in question.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 4 2003, 07:37 AM
what's up with these stereotypes that koreans have of chinese men treating their women better than korean men do, and that chinese women are more dominating than korean women?

i don't get a sense of that from my korean friends.
are you kidding? you know how BITCHY korean girls are. they're certainly not submissive!

[Tao]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 4 2003, 09:41 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 4 2003, 07:37 AM
what's up with these stereotypes that koreans have of chinese men treating their women better than korean men do, and that chinese women are more dominating than korean women?

i don't get a sense of that from my korean friends.
are you kidding? you know how BITCHY korean girls are. they're certainly not submissive!
ah yes, here's a man who's been in a subway car filled with korean teens. I've had my fill off these clones. You know the ones i'm talking about. the 5'6'' k-girl with her 4 friends talking and yelling at each other in korean, talking bout their "gansta" boy friends and crap like that. and then comes their shrill cries and laughter and their god awful cell phones, decked out and customized like a rice-mobile, with all the flash and class of a thailand whore house. yes they have ruined many good naps for me on the train.

[kayla]

yeah. most of my korean girlfriends are bitches. i'm trying to say this the nicest way possible. they're really high maintenance and materialistic and expect their "bad-boy" boyfriends to buy them expensive gifts. but there are exceptions too. they're not all like that.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by kayla@Apr 5 2003, 03:46 AM
yeah. most of my korean girlfriends are bitches. i'm trying to say this the nicest way possible. they're really high maintenance and materialistic and expect their "bad-boy" boyfriends to buy them expensive gifts. but there are exceptions too. they're not all like that.
yeah, meena's one of the exceptions. :)

[golden_buns]

don't hate us cuz we're beautiful :D

[Xishi]

I endured a stereotype from Korean individuals not long ago...
It was like this....
I was in Canada over the summer...My friend and I were dining in a restaurant in Korean town...these two Korean girls and one Korean guy were sitting a few tables away from us...
The Korean guy and one of the Korean girls kept on looking at me...
I thought to myself... "Yeah they know I am hot..."
My friend and I were like the only people in a room full of Koreans and we were speaking Chinese to each other...on top of that I am very Fobbish looking...

That table of 2 Korean girls and one Korean guy were so totally speaking Korean to each other until Korean girl number 1 bursted out in English with something like "Did you know that in China...they have to squat in the bathrooms....that don't flush..." The guy was like" Uh.." Then Korean girl number 2 said something like "I think... that was a long time ago"...then girl number one was like "No...that is how it is today..."
It was so obvious that the comment was designated for this listener because I looked over there and number one gave me a dirty look...

My friend and I looked at each other and apparently he thought it was kind of funny...mostly because of the blatant bursting out in English from Korean thing...

I thanked the lady that worked there when we were leaving as it is habitual to me...got the silent repsonse...probably because she was not proficient in English as she was obviously an older generation individual...

Korean international students kick ass though...!!!
Korean guys= HOT HOT... :D

[ChinaLama]

man, there's no love for Chinese men...even from Chinese women?

[Tao]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 4 2003, 11:47 PM
man, there's no love for Chinese men...even from Chinese women?
there there.....you'll always have CSB and taz :lol:

[Xishi]

man, there's no love for Chinese men...even from Chinese women?

We have a lot of Chinese Indonesian international students at our university...
They are Chinese...but grew up in Indonesia...oh my...HOTNESS...

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Xishi@Apr 5 2003, 05:08 AM

We have a lot of Chinese Indonesian international students at our university...
They are Chinese...but grew up in Indonesia...oh my...HOTNESS...
see once again...chinese men are hot...only if not born in china!

well that can't be true empiricially since there are a billion chinese. :D and china's been consistently the most populated country in the world for hundreds of years. B)

[Xishi]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 4 2003, 09:17 PM
Originally posted by Xishi@Apr 5 2003, 05:08 AM

We have a lot of Chinese Indonesian international students at our university...
They are Chinese...but grew up in Indonesia...oh my...HOTNESS...
see once again...chinese men are hot...only if not born in china!


Haha oh my...you are difficult...

[Tao]

i think what he's trying to say is if you'd go out with him..

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Xishi@Apr 4 2003, 11:16 PM
I endured a stereotype from Korean individuals not long ago...
It was like this....
I was in Canada over the summer...My friend and I were dining in a restaurant in Korean town...these two Korean girls and one Korean guy were sitting a few tables away from us...
The Korean guy and one of the Korean girls kept on looking at me...
I thought to myself... "Yeah they know I am hot..."
My friend and I were like the only people in a room full of Koreans and we were speaking Chinese to each other...on top of that I am very Fobbish looking...

That table of 2 Korean girls and one Korean guy were so totally speaking Korean to each other until Korean girl number 1 bursted out in English with something like "Did you know that in China...they have to squat in the bathrooms....that don't flush..." The guy was like" Uh.." Then Korean girl number 2 said something like "I think... that was a long time ago"...then girl number one was like "No...that is how it is today..."
It was so obvious that the comment was designated for this listener because I looked over there and number one gave me a dirty look...

My friend and I looked at each other and apparently he thought it was kind of funny...mostly because of the blatant bursting out in English from Korean thing...

I thanked the lady that worked there when we were leaving as it is habitual to me...got the silent repsonse...probably because she was not proficient in English as she was obviously an older generation individual...

Korean international students kick ass though...!!!
Korean guys= HOT HOT... :D
hahah that's funny.
never had something like that happen to me though. but i did have a korean waitress keep asking me how to say things in chinese. and she got right up in my face to ask me how to say "beautiful". :P

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 4 2003, 11:47 PM
man, there's no love for Chinese men...even from Chinese women?
lama ain't getting no loving from me. i got myself a korean woman. why would i want a chinese man?

from my experience korean vs chinese girls

korean girls: emotionally high maintenance
chinese girls: financially high maintenance

of course this is from my personal experience and i have met exceptions to the rule.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Tao@Apr 5 2003, 05:40 AM
i think what he's trying to say is if you'd go out with him..
tao, you don't understand. i can't go out w/ a northern girl, esp a beijinger, b/c i'd make fun of her so much that she'd smack me upside the head!

wait, is there any ethnic group or subgroup i DON'T make fun of? shieeeet i'm gonna be alone for life unless i find a masochist.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Apr 5 2003, 07:09 AM
lama ain't getting no loving from me. i got myself a korean woman. why would i want a chinese man?

from my experience korean vs chinese girls

korean girls: emotionally high maintenance
chinese girls: financially high maintenance

of course this is from my personal experience and i have met exceptions to the rule.
no kidding.

scene fr this tuesday. meena and iris gang up on steve to give him headache :D

meena: i want pastries
steve: there's a place on main st.
iris: no. there's a difference between GOOD pastries and BAD pastries.
meena: steve, get your car in the rain and pick us up at the door NOW...

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 5 2003, 03:27 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Apr 5 2003, 07:09 AM
lama ain't getting no loving from me. i got myself a korean woman. why would i want a chinese man?

from my experience korean vs chinese girls

korean girls: emotionally high maintenance
chinese girls: financially high maintenance

of course this is from my personal experience and i have met exceptions to the rule.
no kidding.

scene fr this tuesday. meena and iris gang up on steve to give him headache :D

meena: i want pastries
steve: there's a place on main st.
iris: no. there's a difference between GOOD pastries and BAD pastries.
meena: steve, get your car in the rain and pick us up at the door NOW...
i put up a good fight, but the odds were against me.

she had to ask me three times.

[ChairmanMah]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Apr 4 2003, 06:02 PM
All I hear is that Chinese men are rich. Because they hoard all their money and don't buy anything nice.
i hope you don't believe that.

i don't think chinese guys like me hoard our money but we have good goals like houses, nice cars and boats.

so quit s.typing. I got a tag heuer watch and rims on the ride so what you heard is bullshit.

There are millions of flashy asian guys who got the bling and show it.

everyone wants these things. Not just chinese guys

and you say you don't discriminate against asians...

[angelwiththesword]

i'm putty in any womans hands...and they often puddy in mine

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Apr 5 2003, 02:09 AM
from my experience korean vs chinese girls

korean girls: emotionally high maintenance
chinese girls: financially high maintenance
my experience of HK girls

before they're attached to you: financially high maintenance
after they're attached to you: emotionally high maintenance

[AliBabaIncorporated]

emotionally high maintenance doesn't even begin to cover it. she wants you to run her life for her and accompany her every moment. I never understood it, they're so assertive and direct before they get attached ...

but at least your expenses will be lower than with ABC girls.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Apr 4 2003, 06:02 PM
All I hear is that Chinese men are rich. Because they hoard all their money and don't buy anything nice.
yep angel that's right.........that's why I don't buy any nifty thingies........b/c I'm so rich that I don't wanna spend any of it........... :unsure: :) :D

i actually like this stereotype..works for me! :luv: :lol:

[Napoleon Chynamite]

dunno what u guys are talking about

financial high maintenance pretty much is a stereotypical burden that you will hafta face with all types of women, we live in a world full of material girls in a material world...duh

ditto w/ emotional maintenance

my friend once told me (she's white, not korean or chinese) in exact words when we were talking about when she and her boyfriend were going to get married: 'He better be getting me a big ass diamond if he wants me to stay with him'. Anyways hey sue me, I have a cynic living within me somewhere somehow :lol:

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by golden_buns@Apr 4 2003, 08:03 PM
don't hate us cuz we're beautiful :D
when did beauty come into this argument? :lol: :confused:

neways nothing beats the latinas on a hot summer night in Miami, that's all I hafta say (minus the gigantic 7-foot she-men that i assume are probly from Haiti)

[golden_buns]

I think Korean girls in general like to see that you have nice credentials and/or money but don't make you spend it on them, although from my experience I think Doc is right; they are emotionally high maintenance

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Apr 5 2003, 02:25 PM
emotionally high maintenance doesn't even begin to cover it. she wants you to run her life for her and accompany her every moment. I never understood it, they're so assertive and direct before they get attached ...
no shit.

that's why after a while i was getting sick of local HKer girls and wanted only overseas chinese girls or international school girls. they're usually much cooler.

[AliBabaIncorporated]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 5 2003, 03:37 PM
no shit.

that's why after a while i was getting sick of local HKer girls and wanted only overseas chinese girls or international school girls. they're usually much cooler.
i hope you don't mean girls who were actually attending international school at the time you were pursuing them :P

[Napoleon Chynamite]

they're assertive and direct before u marry them b/c they are picky about who they want to run their life...it's not like picking dessert at the local buffet u know (not to say that it's not an important decision) :lol:

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Apr 5 2003, 03:39 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 5 2003, 03:37 PM
no shit.

that's why after a while i was getting sick of local HKer girls and wanted only overseas chinese girls or international school girls.  they're usually much cooler.
i hope you don't mean girls who were actually attending international school at the time you were pursuing them :P
hahahaha

oh man... the two coolest girls i met in HK, but never got to date:

1) from NYC. moved to the states when she was 4. was back in HK because she started a company with some people. reads Mao's biography in chinese. :ph34r:

2) international school educated. went to california for her undergrad. teaches ESL teachers. part-time DJ. name is Sunshine. laughs a lot when high.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 5 2003, 12:51 PM
2) international school educated. went to california for her undergrad. teaches ESL teachers. part-time DJ. name is Sunshine. laughs a lot when high.
I know a girl named Sunshine............. :unsure:

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Apr 4 2003, 05:40 AM
edit: i'm kidding!
no ur not

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Apr 4 2003, 05:40 AM
Originally posted by applehead@Apr 4 2003, 02:44 AM
oh yes. chinese men are putty in my hands.
putty i say!!

okay all kidding aside, i haven't heard dominating
as much as i've heard demanding.
take your sedatives, dear. your megalomania is kicking in, again.

i'll say what i said to my boy "ultimate korean power" dave kim, when he asked me that question, especially in regards to his cousin susan. i said to him: "son, chinese guys just hide it better. for example: we wear our wife beaters underneath our dress shirts, as opposed to korean men, who wear it in plain daylight for all to see."

another example: would be: korean dude_001 demands and barks order for his lady to grab him a beer. chinese dude_001 hints and suggests that a beer would be nice right now and how great it would be if she can get you one from the fridge.

in order to get from point A to Point B is thru the path of least resistance.


as for chinese women: chinese women, korean women same shit for women in general. they're all planning an early grave for you in the long run.

edit: i'm kidding!
yuppers

for example

instead of saying 'Make me some nachos, bitch'

you hafta use the magic word

'Make me some nachos, bitch please'

[Xishi]

A korean guy told me that in Korea....they say that:

Want beautiful women...marry Chinese....
Want women that will take care of you...marry Japanese
Want women that will love you even after you die...marry Korean...

I have also heard that...South Korean guys are better looking than North Korean guys...but more beautiful women are in North Korea...

[kayla]

Originally posted by golden_buns@Apr 5 2003, 11:43 AM
I think Korean girls in general like to see that you have nice credentials and/or money but don't make you spend it on them,
Thats right. They don't make you spend money on them. They trick you into it. So cunniving. But mabe that's most women.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by kayla@Apr 6 2003, 12:12 AM
Thats right. They don't make you spend money on them. They trick you into it. So cunniving. But mabe that's most women.
i know one korean girl who MAKES me spend money on her-- and she's not even interested in me! fucking bitch. "no jing you can't go out w/ me but you have to buy me lunch. ho."

oh but another korean girl i know jokes about making me pay but then pays for me instead. so siggh i don't have enough to make a stereotype!

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Apr 5 2003, 02:54 PM
she had to ask me three times.
she didn't ask. she COMMANDED. but at least you were a stubborn slave. :)

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@Apr 5 2003, 08:54 PM
I know a girl named Sunshine............. :unsure:
i've got sunshiiiine on a cloudy day
when it's colldd outside, i've got the month of may
i guess you'll say, what can make me feel this way
Hube's girl....

[ChairmanMah]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@Apr 5 2003, 12:54 PM
I know a girl named Sunshine............. :unsure:
me too.

[mr. x]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@Apr 4 2003, 12:25 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 3 2003, 11:37 PM
what's up with these stereotypes that koreans have of chinese men treating their women better than korean men do, and that chinese women are more dominating than korean women?

i don't get a sense of that from my korean friends.
wtf chinese women more dominating than korean women?

maybe I just hang around the wrong korean and chinese women rofl

dunno i guess...I actually have more korean female friends than chinese female friends.. but if this stereotype is true than that really sucks...i've been mind fucked more times than Ron Jeremy has been fucked in the normal sense, and I still remain gullible
tell us some stories about this mindfucking

no i dont get off on this sorta thing...

[mr. x]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 4 2003, 10:12 PM
Originally posted by Xishi@Apr 4 2003, 11:16 PM
I endured a stereotype from Korean individuals not long ago...
It was like this....
I was in Canada over the summer...My friend and I were dining in a restaurant in Korean town...these two Korean girls and one Korean guy were sitting a few tables away from us...
The Korean guy and one of the Korean girls kept on looking at me...
I thought to myself... "Yeah they know I am hot..."
My friend and I were like the only people in a room full of Koreans and we were speaking Chinese to each other...on top of that I am very Fobbish looking...

That table of 2 Korean girls and one Korean guy were so totally speaking Korean to each other until Korean girl number 1 bursted out in English with something like "Did you know that in China...they have to squat in the bathrooms....that don't flush..." The guy was like" Uh.." Then Korean girl number 2 said something like "I think... that was a long time ago"...then girl number one was like "No...that is how it is today..."
It was so obvious that the comment was designated for this listener because I looked over there and number one gave me a dirty look...

My friend and I looked at each other and apparently he thought it was kind of funny...mostly because of the blatant bursting out in English from Korean thing...

I thanked the lady that worked there when we were leaving as it is habitual to me...got the silent repsonse...probably because she was not proficient in English as she was obviously an older generation individual...

Korean international students kick ass though...!!!
Korean guys= HOT HOT... :D
hahah that's funny.
never had something like that happen to me though. but i did have a korean waitress keep asking me how to say things in chinese. and she got right up in my face to ask me how to say "beautiful". :P
was she?

[mr. x]

i know a lotta korean girls who like picking up on chinese-isms

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by mr. x@Apr 6 2003, 06:15 AM

tell us some stories about this mindfucking

no i dont get off on this sorta thing...
whether its mindfucking or merely fucking someone's brains out, it ALL turns me on!

no, wait *literally* fucking someone's brains out would gross me out, actually. unless those brains look yummy.

[mr. x]

^---thank you for that mental image you depraved person...

[kayla]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 5 2003, 10:19 PM
Originally posted by mr. x@Apr 6 2003, 06:15 AM

tell us some stories about this mindfucking

no i dont get off on this sorta thing...
whether its mindfucking or merely fucking someone's brains out, it ALL turns me on!

no, wait *literally* fucking someone's brains out would gross me out, actually. unless those brains look yummy.
ew. gross. :gross: haha

eating your own kinds' brains can/will cause epilepsy. like giving yourself madcow disease. hope those brains still look yummy to you. :P

i know you didn't literally mean you like eating yummy brains. unless you do. haha

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Xishi@Apr 5 2003, 06:07 PM
A korean guy told me that in Korea....they say that:

Want beautiful women...marry Chinese....
Want women that will take care of you...marry Japanese
Want women that will love you even after you die...marry Korean...


all ethnicities interchangable depending on the the woman.

what a line. so versatile.

[mr. x]

Originally posted by Xishi@Apr 5 2003, 03:07 PM
I have also heard that...South Korean guys are better looking than North Korean guys...but more beautiful women are in North Korea...
i read that somewhere too but i dont get why, i mean koreans are korean right? and its not like communism makes u more/less beautiful right?

[Napoleon Chynamite]

communism gives a woman that dominatrix stiletto heel in ur back masochistic type of appeal, oh yea... :luv:

[Napoleon Chynamite]

want beautiful women: marry victoria's secret
want woman who will take care of you: marry ur mother (but ur father might hayte on u for this)
want woman who will love you even after you die: uh why would this matter to you?

:lol: :lol:

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 5 2003, 08:23 PM
i know one korean girl who MAKES me spend money on her-- and she's not even interested in me! fucking bitch. "no jing you can't go out w/ me but you have to buy me lunch. ho."
you don't talk about my meena that way

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 5 2003, 10:19 PM
Originally posted by mr. x@Apr 6 2003, 06:15 AM

tell us some stories about this mindfucking

no i dont get off on this sorta thing...
whether its mindfucking or merely fucking someone's brains out, it ALL turns me on!

no, wait *literally* fucking someone's brains out would gross me out, actually. unless those brains look yummy.
mindfucking is not fun stuff....due to my gullibility, I have been practically on my knees and ready to apologize before she burst out laughing and saying she was just joking when 'pretending' to hate me for what I did or failing to meet certain standards. So basically, I look stupid when she gets mad at me, and then I look even more stupid when I find out that she was playing around. I look like an asshole, and then like some gullible sensitive guy who overreacts, in that exact order.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by mr. x@Apr 6 2003, 11:04 AM
i read that somewhere too but i dont get why, i mean koreans are korean right? and its not like communism makes u more/less beautiful right?
hard to look conventionally beautiful when you don't have access to make-up and you're scrounging around for ur next meal in dirt and rags and you haven't showered for months in a deprived society...i.e. places in North Korea and China and Vietnam

[SunWuKong]

so what's the conclusion here? that it's just a stereotype?
i think i need to date more korean women to find out for myself... :D

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@Apr 6 2003, 10:31 PM
you don't talk about my meena that way
meena's the counterexample, foo'. B)

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 5 2003, 11:25 PM
she didn't ask. she COMMANDED. but at least you were a stubborn slave. :)
BAH!

[Fireblade]

Maaan....

chicks in general eat up emotional and finacial wealth. Doesn't matter where they're from. If you got a high maintaince girl, better cough up the cash. Otherwise... *shrug*

For the sterotyping of chinese and korean men.... whatever. There are so many exceptions to the rule in the bay area, I dunno where the cultural divide starts and ends anymore.

[mr. x]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@Apr 6 2003, 02:37 PM
hard to look conventionally beautiful when you don't have access to make-up and you're scrounging around for ur next meal in dirt and rags and you haven't showered for months in a deprived society...i.e. places in North Korea and China and Vietnam
but the stereotype said that the WOMEN from n. korea were better looking right? and they are the ones who need so much maintenance....

[golden_buns]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Apr 6 2003, 04:13 PM
so what's the conclusion here? that it's just a stereotype?
i think i need to date more korean women to find out for myself... :D
Just go to Maryland Institute College of Art, there's plenty of hot single korean girls since not many guys study art. Actually the hole place is packed of single hot women. When I went to visit my friend there I figured I should have been an art major, especially with the current unemployment rate I should have never busted my brains majoring in CS and Econ

[AliBabaIncorporated]

Originally posted by mr. x@Apr 7 2003, 07:14 PM
but the stereotype said that the WOMEN from n. korea were better looking right? and they are the ones who need so much maintenance....
hey, the one in the front's kinda cute:
http://www.tribuneindia.com/2002/20020929/sports.htm
http://www.tribuneindia.com/2002/20020929/sp4.jpg

but they seem kinda scary:
http://www.csmonitor.com/2002/1030/p06s01-woap.html
http://www.csmonitor.com/2002/1030/csmimg/p6a.jpg

[Tao]

those n.korean women troops look like middle aged house wives.....yeah defiently hotter than south koreans :rolleyes:

[himura-dono]

hey, if they looked more like the lead actress from shiri (the younger one tho)

yum. she had that whole "fuck you and kill you" look.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

There was an older woman?

Anyways Shiri was alright...it didn't do a very good job of surprising me, maybe it wasn't supposed to be a surprise....and trust me I'm pretty darn slow in terms of following plot or storyline, but I like Choi Min-Shik (the Korean Gary Oldman) and his acting versatility. :)

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Apr 7 2003, 04:44 PM
but they seem kinda scary:
http://www.csmonitor.com/2002/1030/p06s01-woap.html
http://www.csmonitor.com/2002/1030/csmimg/p6a.jpg
muahaha I luv women who don't take no shit from nobody

[ChinaLama]

FP sure whats a north korean to rise his dough!

ok sorry that did not make any sense.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Apr 7 2003, 07:42 PM
ok sorry that did not make any sense.
are you mocking me or trying to be like me?

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@Apr 8 2003, 03:45 AM
are you mocking me or trying to be like me?
please, i am sooo beyond your level dude. :) i am a lama. you are a pizza.

lama > pizza.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

pizza keeps lama alive

lama dies w/o pizza

not even mystical walking stick can save lama now

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@Apr 8 2003, 03:57 AM
pizza keeps lama alive

lama dies w/o pizza

not even mystical walking stick can save lama now
well, it'd have to be vegetarian pizza. plus if i die, i can always get reincarnated.

plus, the tomato is on top of the pizza. badabing bada BOOM.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Tao@Apr 7 2003, 07:57 PM
those n.korean women troops look like middle aged house wives.....yeah defiently hotter than south koreans :rolleyes:
an army of ahjummas?

scary

[applehead]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@Apr 6 2003, 02:31 PM
you don't talk about my meena that way
yeah hube. i don't think he's talking about me.
usually i call him a slut.
never a ho.

[applehead]

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Apr 7 2003, 04:44 PM

but they seem kinda scary:
http://www.csmonitor.com/2002/1030/p06s01-woap.html
http://www.csmonitor.com/2002/1030/csmimg/p6a.jpg
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
oh my..

[himura-dono]

well, if it was kim hyun jin in the first early scenes of the n.korean special forces being trained then i'm shocked. i'm pretty sure it was a different actress, although i haven't gone through my special edition set in a while.

[SunWuKong]

moving to the women forum...

[mr. x]

yeah its not like communism makes one ugly, north korea's problem is that its in an anachronistic far-from-communist society where kim holds the power. I mean its not like old fashioned korean women are uglier right? i mean koreans have been "old-fashioned" for thousands of years....

[BeTheReds]

NAM NAM PUNG YEO

“ì’j–k�—

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by BeTheReds@May 21 2003, 11:58 PM
NAM NAM PUNG YEO

“ì’j–k?
southern man northern woman? :confused:

i don't get it.

[BeTheReds]

Originally posted by Xishi
A korean guy told me that in Korea....they say that:

Want beautiful women...marry Chinese....
Want women that will take care of you...marry Japanese
Want women that will love you even after you die...marry Korean...

I have also heard that...South Korean guys are better looking than North Korean guys...but more beautiful women are in North Korea...

This comes from a Korean saying.

“ì’j–k�—
NAM NAM PUNG YEO

I don't know why they say it. I think the general idea was that farmers live in the south and all the educated scholars and rich people lived in the north. This was true for the longest time when Korea was still one.

Therefore the south would be populated with strong manly farmboys and farmgirls, while the north would have light skinned beautiful well mannered women, and wussy scholarly men who loved books and their status more than their wives.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by BeTheReds+May 22 2003, 12:08 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (BeTheReds @ May 22 2003, 12:08 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--><!--QuoteBegin--Xishi
A korean guy told me that in Korea....they say that:

Want beautiful women...marry Chinese....
Want women that will take care of you...marry Japanese
Want women that will love you even after you die...marry Korean...

I have also heard that...South Korean guys are better looking than North Korean guys...but more beautiful women are in North Korea...

This comes from a Korean saying.

“ì’j–k?
NAM NAM PUNG YEO

I don't know why they say it. I think the general idea was that farmers live in the south and all the educated scholars and rich people lived in the north. This was true for the longest time when Korea was still one.

Therefore the south would be populated with strong manly farmboys and farmgirls, while the north would have light skinned beautiful well mannered women, and wussy scholarly men who loved books and their status more than their wives.[/b][/quote]
oh alright. :)

[mr. x]

Originally posted by BeTheReds+May 21 2003, 08:08 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (BeTheReds @ May 21 2003, 08:08 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--><!--QuoteBegin--Xishi
A korean guy told me that in Korea....they say that:

Want beautiful women...marry Chinese....
Want women that will take care of you...marry Japanese
Want women that will love you even after you die...marry Korean...

I have also heard that...South Korean guys are better looking than North Korean guys...but more beautiful women are in North Korea...

This comes from a Korean saying.

“ì’j–k�—
NAM NAM PUNG YEO

I don't know why they say it. I think the general idea was that farmers live in the south and all the educated scholars and rich people lived in the north. This was true for the longest time when Korea was still one.

Therefore the south would be populated with strong manly farmboys and farmgirls, while the north would have light skinned beautiful well mannered women, and wussy scholarly men who loved books and their status more than their wives.[/b][/quote]
man what happend to them?

oh thats right, the cold war

[kboy75]

Back to the topic...


All of these are just stereotypes. I think the more American you are, the more you stray away from these stereotypes. Not all guys are chauvinistic, and not all girls are bitches.



Korean men: the more "Korean" the more tendency to be chauvinistic and domineering. (They do still love their wives.)

Korean women: the more "Korean" you are, the greater tendency to be submissive, materialistic, and superficial.


It's not gender thing as much as it is a Korean culture thing. Korea these days has become one of the most materialistic, superfical cultures in the world. Just look at the divorce rates and number of plastic surgeries for Korea alone. Among the highest in the world.

That alone speaks volumes.

Among my Korean friends, the more Americanized (not necessarily how long you lived in the US, but your mindset) you are, the less you find these stereotypes.


As far as Chinese men/women. Most of my friends are Taiwanese, and those dudes are generally very much like traditional Korean men. They can be chauvinistic but they do love their wives. Also, I personally have dtaed Taiwanese girls and HK girls. I spent the most money on HK girls.

Why? In the states, people from Taiwan and HK usually have a lot of money. Why? Cause they must have a lot to move to the US. Moreso if they move to, say, London.

Not so with Korean-Americans. Most Korean immigrants that came in the 70's and 80's came because of the lack of social-class mobility. Those Koreans came with littel or no money and were mostly from the lower or middleclass. They came for a better opporunity for success. BUT.... Some Koreans want to protray success with fancy cars and nice clothes... ignoring savings and retirement etc.... So... many kids see this and get spoiled... thus the materialism...


OK, that is all for now...

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by kboy75@May 23 2003, 12:02 PM
I spent the most money on HK girls.

so true. i was talking about this in HK with a british friend who grew up in HK. i was saying that HK girls were more high maintenance, and he was saying that korean girls were more high maintenance. :lol:

Originally posted by kboy75@May 23 2003, 12:02 PM
Why? In the states, people from Taiwan and HK usually have a lot of money. Why? Cause they must have a lot to move to the US. Moreso if they move to, say, London.

i don't know about taiwanese people, but this is not true for HK people. the US allowed immigration only because of family relations. it's canada that allows immigration because of money. that's why there are a lot of rich HKers in vancouver and toronto. the wave of immigration from HK to the US (as well as to canada and australia) peaked during the mid 80s to about the mid 90s, and that was also when the HK economy was at its peak. but even so, when my own family came (from HK) in '87, we didn't have much money.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Ah so the search for the asian woman that does not require me to spend lots of money continues... :( :P

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@May 23 2003, 02:00 PM
Ah so the search for the asian woman that does not require me to spend lots of money continues... :( :P
a filipino friend of mine said that filipino chicks are financially low maintenance.

[shy]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Apr 4 2003, 06:02 PM
All I hear is that Chinese men are rich. Because they hoard all their money and don't buy anything nice.
wow.

i've NEVER heard that before.

and knowing a lot of chinese men, i so don't see that either.

weird...

i can't really say whether or not that generalization is true.. about korean men disrespecting their women. or that chinese women have more hand in their relationship with chinese men. of those that i know, i don't see any pattern.

i did know a bunch of korean people in university that showed these traits. the women were insecure, catty and gossipy. the men were a bit better, but once they got a hot women, they were domineering and controlling.

do i use this as a generalization?

no.

because i decided that that group were too invovled w/ just themselves and fed off of each other's negativity and influenced each other badly.

in other words, it was just my unfortunate luck to experience such a fucked up group.

[achtungbaby]

What this thread needs is a bona fide expert on the matter, someone with the credentials to lay down the bottom line: "Korean men...are evil. There will be no other discussion."

[golden_buns]

I see so much stuff being said about korean guys being all macho and chavunistic, but it all starts with; "I've heard that..." I wonder how many women who've actually been in relationships with koreans can really support that fact.

[BeTheReds]

Originally posted by FrozenPizza@May 24 2003, 03:00 AM
Ah so the search for the asian woman that does not require me to spend lots of money continues... :( :P
You're looking in all the wrong places.
You need twinkies.

[Tao]

Originally posted by BeTheReds@May 23 2003, 11:07 PM
You're looking in all the wrong places.
You need twinkies.
twinkies wouldn't want a yellow person like him

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Tao@May 24 2003, 01:52 AM
Originally posted by BeTheReds@May 23 2003, 11:07 PM
You're looking in all the wrong places.<br>You need twinkies.

twinkies wouldn't want a yellow person like him

and with an attitude like that, you'll either get pity dates from them twinkies or them twinkies will be turned off by you.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Originally posted by Tao@May 23 2003, 09:52 PM
Originally posted by BeTheReds@May 23 2003, 11:07 PM
You're looking in all the wrong places.
You need twinkies.
twinkies wouldn't want a yellow person like him
I luv twinkies tho...

'cause I am one :)

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by kboy75@May 23 2003, 11:02 AM
I spent the most money on HK girls.


yup same here.

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by golden_buns@May 23 2003, 12:51 PM
I see so much stuff being said about korean guys being all macho and chavunistic, but it all starts with; "I've heard that..."
Thank you!

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by golden_buns@May 23 2003, 02:51 PM
I see so much stuff being said about korean guys being all macho and chavunistic, but it all starts with; "I've heard that..." I wonder how many women who've actually been in relationships with koreans can really support that fact.
does this mean you will be cooking dinner for me tonight, my little ho buk?

[golden_buns]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@May 26 2003, 08:58 AM
does this mean you will be cooking dinner for me tonight, my little ho buk?
sure, as long as you don't complain about me beating you up after drinking OBs

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by golden_buns@May 26 2003, 12:06 PM
sure, as long as you don't complain about me beating you up after drinking OBs
ain't no thing.

allegedly, us chinese men are used to get our asses kicked both physically and verbally by our significant others.

[golden_buns]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@May 26 2003, 09:08 AM
allegedly, us chinese men are used to get our asses kicked both physically and verbally by our significant others.
HAHAHAHAHAHA,

I didn't know you were into masochism

[SunWuKong]

revive!

[mr. x]

korean friend of mine while back said something like japanese guys beat their wives and chinese guys cheat on em

what...

[mrcfo]

korean friend of mine while back said something like japanese guys beat their wives and chinese guys cheat on em

what...

It's pretty much a well known thing even amongst overseas Chinese that Korean and Japanese men are rumoured to be mainly of the brutal sort to their wives.

Having said that I've known a fair few Cantonese men who beat up their wives.

[Paradox]

Maybe i'm the only one who doesn't know any wifebeaters. Amongst my relatives in Taiwan the women in the household seem to run the show..everything from the finances down to what type of chicken is going to be ordered or cooked for dinner. It's rather amusing.

I think Thai and Vietnamese women are cool though. Just a different cultural attitude compared with the mainstream NE set.

[Leinad]

It's pretty much a well known thing even amongst overseas Chinese that Korean and Japanese men are rumoured to be mainly of the brutal sort to their wives.

Having said that I've known a fair few Cantonese men who beat up their wives.

wow u actually knew some catonese men... must be stink to know that(but how)

...y do some ppl do that neways? y beat up the other person:confused: ...just creates :confused: :frown: :mad:

[achtungbaby]

After skimming through this thread, it seems apparent that there's a perception that Korean guys (and girls) stereotype. There doesn't seem to be, however, anything particularly consistent about these alleged stereotypes. Some Koreans apparently think that Chinese guys enjoy getting dominated by their women. But Koreans also seem to think that Chinese guys beat down on women and cheat on them.

[rice cracker]

Some Koreans apparently think that Chinese guys enjoy getting dominated by their women.

Mine seems to like it.

THAT'S RIGHT. I said it.

[DragonKnight]

Mine seems to like it.

THAT'S RIGHT. I said it.
So do we get to see a clip of the beating in Ghetto Brawls 3? :biggrin:

[deez nuts]

So do we get to see a clip of the beating in Ghetto Brawls 3? :biggrin:


more like in yuppy brawls 1

[LaiSteve66]

You need twinkies.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!