as of right now, do u want to be in a relationship

[FlareZz]

i'm 23 right now and its a question i am always tettering on, do i prefer the freedom that being single bring and how it allows u to meet so many new ppl, or do i prefer the comfort and companionship that comes with a nice steady relationship. It always seem that everytime i have one thing, i always long for the other. If i am in a relationship, i constantly think about being single. and while i am single, i always feel the need to be with someone.


the grass always seems greener on the other side. what about u guys?

[Napoleon Chynamite]

I luv being single. Who wants to promise only to eat one type of cake for any duration of time? Sorry I know a lotta people will disagree with me on this.

[golden_buns]

I'm still bitter from last year's relationship, so I want to stay single

[pfc beansprout]

heh...tough question...i'm 24, have been w/this current gf for 3.5 years...sometimes i wish....i were single..................

[Elizabeth A.]

I'm single and perfectly fine with it. I like the freedom that I have.

[teaz0r]

:cry:

mm. i'm sorta in one?
i dunno. just seeing how it goes.
i'm just having fun, i'm not too sure if i want it to get more serious.

[SunWuKong]

i just want to get laid

[angel nympho]

I like what I've got. I'm not lonely, but I go out and have my fun... and I never have to worry about when the next time I have sex will be.

[angelwiththesword]

i just got ousted from a good relationship about 2 months ago, so i am not looking.

[Saiko]

*moves the thread*
Anyways, I enjoy being single.
Plus I'm still hurting from my first relationship.
Besides, if I did want to be in a relationship, I'd want to be with somebody I'm at least moderately close with. My second relationship was fucked up, and I don't want to do that again.

[teaz0r]

i only want the relationship when it's convenient for me.
like. on alternate fridays and saturday and long holidays.
but during the weekdays i wanna be single. mm. oh,
wednesday afternoons i wanna be in a relationship. i get
off work early that day.

.. i guess that's what i'm in now. my sorta relationship.
it's like i like him n' what not, but only when it's convenient.

i'm just the oh so understanding type. :ph34r:

[AliBabaIncorporated]

singlehood = freedom. the freedom to go out eating, drinking, and singing with the guys on Friday instead of spending hundreds of dollars on tux, tickets, flowers, and limo to be dragged to that campus formal dance dressed up like a penguin like all the guys with girlfriends.

[tapestrybabe]

i'd rather focus my interest in trying to finish school first...
than wanting a relationship...

[VV o n g B a]

a relationship requires too much work at this point. i don't really wanna spend the time to really take care of a girl.

plus, seeing a childhood friend get married and divorced inside of 3 months makes me think that i should really hold off until i'm mentaly ready to settle down.

[igcognito]

I do but me and my g/f have been dating for five months and kissing isn't cutting for me really so yeah. It is my sex drive vs her morals. And I have gave in to her morality. Relationships are fun no matter what when they are with the right peeps.

[ellsworth81]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Mar 1 2003, 05:26 PM
i just want to get laid
word :wacko:

well, with someone i kind of care about ... empty sex will leave me feeling dirty whereas the other kind will validate my sexiness or lack thereof :wub:

[jimbo]

I've only been single for a few months and am enjoying being single for now, I miss cuddling up with somebody on the sofa and chatting about stuff more than anything.


As I'm not working at present I can't afford to have a gf right now anyway! :P

[lethal]

If I wasn't currently in a relationship...I don't think I'd be looking...school just takes up so much damn time...and I've got no money to go on the prowl.

[kayla]

I just want dating. Or a short relationship like a fling.

So many guys think that having a gf means spending lots of money. I dont know about you guys, but doesnt that seem superficial of her? To want you to SHOW her how much you like/love her through materialism. I'd personally prefer a guy to do something for me with a little more heart. Like cook me dinner once in a while or bake me heart cookies with macadamia nuts. Oh...or play me a song on the piano. I totally dig a guy who can play the piano well. It's so damn sexy. :P

[Adaon]

I'm not looking for a relationship, but I sort of have a longing to be with someone.....so I'm not sure where the hell I stand. :blink:

[deez nuts]

Damn if you do. Damn if you don't.

Whatever happens, happens. If it was meant to be it was meant to be. After it's all said and done. Destiny and fate will take care of the rest once you've done your part.


Oh god :gross:

But, I believe in it!

[teaz0r]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Mar 4 2003, 07:43 PM
Damn if you do. Damn if you don't.

Whatever happens, happens. If it was meant to be it was meant to be. After it's all said and done. Destiny and fate will take care of the rest once you've done your part.


Oh god :gross:

But, I believe in it!
:luv: :luv: :luv: i believe in it too *wink wink*

[karizma]

i think im becoming like bunboy hahaha...0_o...

relationships arent very appealing to me anymore...

im always looking for something better. dumping someone to get with someone else is...an upgrade. horrible no?

im trying to change my ways...but its hard. id like to be comitted...but this thing...its all a game to me.

cat and mouse. lion and antelope...whatever...as long as i come out on top...all good.

[jimbo]

I'm almost 31 and yes I do enjoy being single but I know I need to settle down very soon, Parental pressure etc etc.

Its the difficulty of meeting somebody my age thats actually single and would like to settle down though, A lot of my friends are married with kids and I do seem to be one of the few single ones left out there.

[Hanuman]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Mar 4 2003, 07:43 AM
Damn if you do. Damn if you don't.

Whatever happens, happens. If it was meant to be it was meant to be. After it's all said and done. Destiny and fate will take care of the rest once you've done your part.


Oh god :gross:

But, I believe in it!
Who are you?!?

What have you done with CSB??? This doesn't sound like the Doc of Buns we've all come to know and love!

[teaz0r]

Originally posted by karizma@Mar 5 2003, 04:02 PM
im always looking for something better. dumping someone to get with someone else is...an upgrade. horrible no?

not at all. relationships are like a multiple
choice question, it a process of elimination.
and then you just have to make an
educated guess for the right answer.

it's all good.

[jimbo]

Originally posted by pipSy@Mar 5 2003, 02:56 PM
Originally posted by karizma@Mar 5 2003, 04:02 PM
im always looking for something better. dumping someone to get with someone else is...an upgrade. horrible no?

not at all. relationships are like a multiple
choice question, it a process of elimination.
and then you just have to make an
educated guess for the right answer.

it's all good.
Yup its making do with what we have till something better comes along.

We do it with jobs/cars etc why not partners?

[applehead]

i'm not going to go out looking for something to happen.
but i'm not going to stop it from happening either.
well, not anymore anyway.

[SunWuKong]

you know, people who are not in a relationship always say they're not looking... :lol:

but i really am not looking! honestly. i met this really cute chick a while ago and i started making fun of her occupation. she was an actuarian! that's fucking boring!

[applehead]

yeah. that would really make her swoon for you.
ridiculing her occupation.

[jimbo]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Mar 5 2003, 05:44 PM
i met this really cute chick a while ago and i started making fun of her occupation. she was an actuarian! that's fucking boring!
Ah but its usually the case where women in boring jobs i.e librarians are complete animals outside of work! :lol:

[moschikat]

I have come to the conclusion that at this point in time - i would prefer a fuck buddy. Great sex, no strings attached, some conversation, yeah - other than that, leave me alone!!! :lol:

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by moschikat@Mar 5 2003, 03:21 PM
I have come to the conclusion that at this point in time - i would prefer a fuck buddy. Great sex, no strings attached, some conversation, yeah - other than that, leave me alone!!! :lol:
how're you doing baby? :D

[teaz0r]

Originally posted by moschikat@Mar 6 2003, 03:21 AM
I have come to the conclusion that at this point in time - i would prefer a fuck buddy. Great sex, no strings attached, some conversation, yeah - other than that, leave me alone!!! :lol:
p' poom =)

[ChinaLama]

i've been wanting a gf and at the same time NOT wanting one. would be interesting to see what happens on my first date. :D

[DragonKnight]

Hrm, got off a 4 yr relationship over a year ago. Still single, not even seeking. Wouldn't mind getting it on with someone, just no commitment for a VERY long time.

-Rich

[Commando_turned_MD]

Relationship.........
Poontang galore....... :lol:

[TyroneK(prettypretty)]

As always, it depends on the girl. I'm attracted to a lot of different types of women, but the attraction varies by type.

[artsfartsyjanet]

I'm just happy with what I have rather what I don't have. It's easy to slip into the mode of wanting to be single when you're in a relationship and wanting to have a companion when you're tired of being by yourself all the time. I just think it takes balance. By no means do I think I have a perfect and completely balanced life, but I always think that you'll get best results if you try to balance your life out so that you can prevent yourself from thinking frequently that you want to go to the other lifestyle. What I did after the end of my last relationship with my ex-fiance, I spent more time with my friends, kept myself busy, and anything that keeps me engaged. Now that I'm back in a relationship, he and I communicated to each other that there will be times when we want our own space. And if we argue, we try to maintain our own space to cool off and gather ourselves together.I guess I try to make the best out of every situation. *shrug*

[AliBabaIncorporated]

I can't tell whether I really want a girlfriend or just a chef. I'd be able to think more clearly if it wasn't midterms week and I wasn't perpetually hungry and eating sandwiches. As it is the relative lack of hot meals in the past week seems to have made me more prone to hitting on not-so-attractive girls at parties this past weekend.

[teaz0r]

the past weeks have been eventful.
and im glad that he was there for the
most part. now i just have to dump
my boyfriend. and get with him.

[Xishi]

I do not want a boyfriend...

I am always so busy with school and I really don't have the time or energy to be considerate of someone else at this point... :(

Currently...I am just dating myself...
Hopefully my schedule will become more flexible soon so that I can start accepting applications again from qualifying members of the oppposite sex. :D