friends with benefits

[sweet_sunshine]

whats everyones opinion on FTFs?

and what do you do when the other person is showing signs of being attached?



i personally think that if u know the person well enuff and u trust that person, getting ur groove on aint bad. i mean as long as both parties know the boundries, and know what they are doing, then go for it.

[SunWuKong]

you've got to be very mature for it.
the last time i had one, the girl was saying things like "you hate me!" when i tried to break it off. it took a second try and moving to another continent to break it off. haven't had another one since. :P

[angel nympho]

It's GREAT. I love it. Can't live without it.

[deez nuts]

Women can't pull it off.

I have yet to meet a woman that can uphold her end of the arrangement for an extended period of time. Sorry my experience, until proven wrong in my life; I ain't budging. Had too many blow up in my face cuz the woman wanted more and fucked the whole thing up.

[teaz0r]

i have a FTF.
same one since freshman year of college.
but only when we're both NOT in a relationship.
and that's when he swings by.
we have fun. we're good friends. with perks.
i think it's because we dated. and it didn't work out.
but we remained friends.
post post post break up sex?
hah! but i think the world of him...only when he's around though.

i had another one. but we stopped since senior year in highschool.
he got himself a girlfriend. after i got me a boyfriend.
he's been with her ever since. we're good friends.

[applehead]

i equate sex with a whole bunch of other crap
that i KNOW i won't be able to pull something like this off.
so i've never even tried.

[sweet_sunshine]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 08:59 AM
Women can't pull it off.

I have yet to meet a woman that can uphold her end of the arrangement for an extended period of time. Sorry my experience, until proven wrong in my life; I ain't budging. Had too many blow up in my face cuz the woman wanted more and fucked the whole thing up.
woah ninja :ph34r:
a girl posted this...and a girl is having a issue that the guy is getting attached. but yes, it is usually women who equate love and sex. i'll admit there were times i wish there could be more but in the end i realize that theres a reason why him and i arent more.....most likely cause hes an ass of a boyfriend ;)
:dance:

[artsfartsyjanet]

i don't think it's impossible, but it's not easy either.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by sweet_sunshine@Jan 2 2003, 10:46 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 08:59 AM
Women can't pull it off.

I have yet to meet a woman that can uphold her end of the arrangement for an extended period of time. Sorry my experience, until proven wrong in my life; I ain't budging. Had too many blow up in my face cuz the woman wanted more and fucked the whole thing up.
woah ninja :ph34r:
a girl posted this...and a girl is having a issue that the guy is getting attached. but yes, it is usually women who equate love and sex. i'll admit there were times i wish there could be more but in the end i realize that theres a reason why him and i arent more.....most likely cause hes an ass of a boyfriend ;)
:dance:
What man would turn down sex with no strings attached?

Drop him. It's just gonna be more drama and headache later on.

What an ingrate!

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 01:59 PM
Women can't pull it off.
MEN�@just can't find the right WOMAN to pull it off for them.
The key is to look closer. Some girls agree to this because they've already got some emotional thing going on with the guy who offers... It's HARD to find a girl who will agree for other reasons, you just gotta have a better screening process.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Jan 2 2003, 01:14 PM
MEN�@just can't find the right WOMAN to pull it off for them.
The key is to look closer.  Some girls agree to this because they've already got some emotional thing going on with the guy who offers...  It's HARD to find a girl who will agree for other reasons, you just gotta have  a better screening process.
Wow geez, how much closer do I have to look when it's the woman that initiates and/or suggests that type of relationship 90% of the time, in my case. How much more of a screening process do you need in that case?

Like I said from my personal experience up till now, women can't pull it off. Maybe they can in the beginning, but not for a long term basis.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 06:38 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Jan 2 2003, 01:14 PM
MEN�@just can't find the right WOMAN to pull it off for them.
The key is to look closer. Some girls agree to this because they've already got some emotional thing going on with the guy who offers... It's HARD to find a girl who will agree for other reasons, you just gotta have a better screening process.
Wow geez, how much closer do I have to look when it's the woman that initiates and/or suggests that type of relationship 90% of the time, in my case. How much more of a screening process do you need in that case?

Like I said from my personal experience up till now, women can't pull it off. Maybe they can in the beginning, but not for a long term basis.
You never know. The relationship I'm in right now started out that way, and yeah, I admit, things happened as we got to know each other better.

But I did this with a guy before this for about 6-7 months and we finished things off pretty easily. We're still good friends now.

Maybe you should make it more clear in the beginning that if emotions start to develop, it's over.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Jan 2 2003, 02:53 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 06:38 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Jan 2 2003, 01:14 PM
MEN�@just can't find the right WOMAN to pull it off for them.
The key is to look closer. Some girls agree to this because they've already got some emotional thing going on with the guy who offers... It's HARD to find a girl who will agree for other reasons, you just gotta have a better screening process.
Wow geez, how much closer do I have to look when it's the woman that initiates and/or suggests that type of relationship 90% of the time, in my case. How much more of a screening process do you need in that case?

Like I said from my personal experience up till now, women can't pull it off. Maybe they can in the beginning, but not for a long term basis.
You never know. The relationship I'm in right now started out that way, and yeah, I admit, things happened as we got to know each other better.

But I did this with a guy before this for about 6-7 months and we finished things off pretty easily. We're still good friends now.

Maybe you should make it more clear in the beginning that if emotions start to develop, it's over.
I'm pretty straight foward and blunt to the point of being cruel.

[Chris]

I have plenty of those. I get what I want and they get what they want and it works out for me. :) No worries no hassles. And most of my FTF that ends are usually pretty postive. But lately. I just want more than FTF so I am turning the circles on my FTFs.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 08:04 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Jan 2 2003, 02:53 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 06:38 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Jan 2 2003, 01:14 PM
MEN�@just can't find the right WOMAN to pull it off for them.
The key is to look closer. Some girls agree to this because they've already got some emotional thing going on with the guy who offers... It's HARD to find a girl who will agree for other reasons, you just gotta have a better screening process.
Wow geez, how much closer do I have to look when it's the woman that initiates and/or suggests that type of relationship 90% of the time, in my case. How much more of a screening process do you need in that case?

Like I said from my personal experience up till now, women can't pull it off. Maybe they can in the beginning, but not for a long term basis.
You never know. The relationship I'm in right now started out that way, and yeah, I admit, things happened as we got to know each other better.

But I did this with a guy before this for about 6-7 months and we finished things off pretty easily. We're still good friends now.

Maybe you should make it more clear in the beginning that if emotions start to develop, it's over.
I'm pretty straight foward and blunt to the point of being cruel.
Hahaha, yeah, me too. If the guy starts calling too much, I'm like "yeah, uhh... can you just go away for a while? ... we'll talk when I'M horny."

[terence]

I think I'm more of the relationship type. I've tried the FTF thing before and got sick of the whole situation.

[mrazntre]

:wub: :wub: :wub:
if i give her sex, then she'll love me and she'll be with me forever....
:wub: :wub: :wub:







BWHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH.... yeah right...!

[sweet_sunshine]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 12:56 PM
Originally posted by sweet_sunshine@Jan 2 2003, 10:46 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 08:59 AM
Women can't pull it off.

I have yet to meet a woman that can uphold her end of the arrangement for an extended period of time. Sorry my experience, until proven wrong in my life; I ain't budging. Had too many blow up in my face cuz the woman wanted more and fucked the whole thing up.
woah ninja :ph34r:
a girl posted this...and a girl is having a issue that the guy is getting attached. but yes, it is usually women who equate love and sex. i'll admit there were times i wish there could be more but in the end i realize that theres a reason why him and i arent more.....most likely cause hes an ass of a boyfriend ;)
:dance:
What man would turn down sex with no strings attached?

Drop him. It's just gonna be more drama and headache later on.

What an ingrate!
i know...i will drop him now

yuk

too many boys in this world to let myself get into something i dont want.

so next time he asks what we are...i'll just say "woah ninja" :ph34r:

i love that smilie :)

[sweet_sunshine]

Originally posted by terence@Jan 2 2003, 04:46 PM
I think I'm more of the relationship type. I've tried the FTF thing before and got sick of the whole situation.
hahah funny to say i am too....
its harder to make a guy keep a relationship....


i think its the opposite for guys.....easier to find a gf then a good FTF

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by sweet_sunshine@Jan 2 2003, 08:41 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 12:56 PM
Originally posted by sweet_sunshine@Jan 2 2003, 10:46 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 08:59 AM
Women can't pull it off.

I have yet to meet a woman that can uphold her end of the arrangement for an extended period of time. Sorry my experience, until proven wrong in my life; I ain't budging. Had too many blow up in my face cuz the woman wanted more and fucked the whole thing up.
woah ninja :ph34r:
a girl posted this...and a girl is having a issue that the guy is getting attached. but yes, it is usually women who equate love and sex. i'll admit there were times i wish there could be more but in the end i realize that theres a reason why him and i arent more.....most likely cause hes an ass of a boyfriend ;)
:dance:
What man would turn down sex with no strings attached?

Drop him. It's just gonna be more drama and headache later on.

What an ingrate!
i know...i will drop him now

yuk

too many boys in this world to let myself get into something i dont want.

so next time he asks what we are...i'll just say "woah ninja" :ph34r:

i love that smilie :)
if you want holla back.

i gotz you!

[mrazntre]

HOLLA!

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Jan 2 2003, 10:49 PM
HOLLA!
This coolie is ain't to proud to beg!

Go go women empowerment!

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 10:52 PM
This coolie is ain't to proud to beg!

Go go women empowerment!
yesssss.... women empowerment == more sex for us

[sweet_sunshine]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 2 2003, 10:55 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 10:52 PM
This coolie is ain't to proud to beg!

Go go women empowerment!
yesssss.... women empowerment == more sex for us
nice....dancing.....bananas...

suddenly im...hungry..for....bananas

[ellsworth81]

if i didn't know better .... those banana's appear to be doing pelvic thrusts .. feel free to correct me :P

but yea, my FWB turned out not so well ... considering everything got weird after that point and we grew apart and pretty much stopped talking. not sure if this sort of thing comes with the territory ... or whether i fucked up ... either way ... decide if the friendship is worth risking for some sex ... which i could really really use at the moment :rolleyes:

[BeTheReds]

I've never had that kind of relationship at all cuz usually I am the one getting attatched first.

[purezero]

I've had not so great experiences with the whole FWB thing. I've had it where the guy and I grew apart. But twice, the guy got clingy and misunderstood the whole thing I guess, even though I made it pretty clear. Now one of them hates me (I'm his g/f's best friend and I disclosed some things to her because she's my best friend), the other called and talked to me about it, saying how he was concerned about me. But what do I know?

[igcognito]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 2 2003, 06:38 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Jan 2 2003, 01:14 PM
MEN�@just can't find the right WOMAN to pull it off for them.
The key is to look closer. Some girls agree to this because they've already got some emotional thing going on with the guy who offers... It's HARD to find a girl who will agree for other reasons, you just gotta have a better screening process.
Wow geez, how much closer do I have to look when it's the woman that initiates and/or suggests that type of relationship 90% of the time, in my case. How much more of a screening process do you need in that case?

Like I said from my personal experience up till now, women can't pull it off. Maybe they can in the beginning, but not for a long term basis.
It is because she wants your cock. I want your cock, your fucking AWESOME!!! Well maybe she is hoping if she gives you her "flower" enough you will cherish it. And move her up in status from FTF. Either that or she is a wannabe, dirty cum slut, who can't deal with the emotions that come with it.

I myself, am 100% relationship type. I am so "girly", when it comes to relationships. I sometimes, think me and pipsy need to change parts. She is more "man" than I am. LoL. I just can't deal with the FTF idea. I would as well as the girl most likely would get emo, so what would be the point?