sex got boring

[karizma]

just like the title says...sex got boring...even the act of foreplay. its not that my partners arent skilled or anything im thinking its just me. yknow what i started thinking about while some guy was doin his thing on me? VIDEO GAMES!! yup...final fantasy X for those who are wondering...and then i snapped back to reality and realized how boring it was...the only fun i got out of it was teasing the hell outta him...*shrugs*...even dating got boring to me...went on a date last night and its just the same damn thing over n over...any ideas on how to make all this fun again =P...

[TyroneK(prettypretty)]

Go on a dry spell?

[Monte]

Originally posted by karizma@Dec 19 2002, 08:52 PM
just like the title says...sex got boring...even the act of foreplay. its not that my partners arent skilled or anything im thinking its just me. yknow what i started thinking about while some guy was doin his thing on me? VIDEO GAMES!! yup...final fantasy X for those who are wondering...and then i snapped back to reality and realized how boring it was...the only fun i got out of it was teasing the hell outta him...*shrugs*...even dating got boring to me...went on a date last night and its just the same damn thing over n over...any ideas on how to make all this fun again =P...
Considered seeing a sex or relationship therapist? If that's not your kind of thing then just relax, find other things to keep you busy, and don't dwell too much on it. Remember that you still have a life ahead of you.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by karizma@Dec 19 2002, 11:52 PM
just like the title says...sex got boring...even the act of foreplay. its not that my partners arent skilled or anything im thinking its just me. yknow what i started thinking about while some guy was doin his thing on me? VIDEO GAMES!! yup...final fantasy X for those who are wondering...and then i snapped back to reality and realized how boring it was...the only fun i got out of it was teasing the hell outta him...*shrugs*...even dating got boring to me...went on a date last night and its just the same damn thing over n over...any ideas on how to make all this fun again =P...
maybe it's just time for you to be more picky about guys. and think more seriously about relationships.

[BeTheReds]

Date a guy who treats you like shit and who thinks he is the greatest thing on the planet. Girls love that.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by BeTheReds@Dec 20 2002, 02:20 AM
Date a guy who treats you like shit and who thinks he is the greatest thing on the planet. Girls love that.
hahhahahh!!! do i sense bitterness? :P

[karizma]

im sick of dating jerks!!! it just about all i fricken date these days...stupid on my part no? for once id like a guy who doesnt make a pass on the first date...maybe i just give off the wrong impression...but wtf dude lol...but then some nice guys are boring and arent quite as outgoing..is there no happy medium? lol oh wells..now i sound like im whining haha...

ANYWAY, i guess making that promise to myself about not having sex til i got in a semi serious relationship got me thinking about getting my priorities straight on dating...casual sex is great..but not everything? *shrugs*

if all else fails...im gonna start dating women =)...im already attracted to em...why not take it a step further eh? lol

[teaz0r]

dating kinda kills your hormones. cuz not all dates go that well. it's like a really sick elimination process. like you have to get in there and get your hands dirty. you know...you actually have to live through the dates...i mean if it's good. then it's good. but if it's bad...then' you're feeling. bleck.

if sex is getting boring. try other approaches perhaps? if you're doing the same routine over n' over it does get monotonous . if you've been submissive crack a whip and try the other route *lick my boots bitch*. toys n' stuff are always fun. vibes, dildos, jelly, dongs, eggs, pearls... restraints. you might need to try your new sex style with a regular lover or sumthin...or atleast someone's who's willing to try it out for you. yeah. sex is suppose to be fun. i'm giggling my head off all the time. some guys find it weird. but hey man, i'm enjoying it so i giggle. whether it be me getting ordered around or me spanking some boy :) it should be fun. try newer things? costumes are a whole lotta fun...gets your dramatic juices flowing. i still go for the cliche student/teacher boss/secretary scenarios. but me favorite is the submarine captain/mermaid :> AHaHAH. and getting dressed up and what not is always fun no? for girls? if you're not too kinkay...get fancy undies. *that's* always good. makes you feel sexy or slutty depending on whatever mood you're in. HEHeHE. garterbelts suspenders. always super fun.

but if you wanna go on the opposite route and date women. :) that's always good too. super sensual. a lot of touching and feeling and rubbing i remember. i' haven't been with many women. and i kinda grew out of the phase after college. but it's nice. i never had like dirty sex with a woman before. and i've only used "normal" toys. HAhaha vibrators n' stuff. other than that it was just up to the friction. i'm a lot more kinkier with men than i am with women. with women i get kinda shy. but with every single one i've been with...i'm always highly aroused. there's something abotu tits n' ass y'know. and every curvature of a woman. like i said. it's very sensual.

either that or get yourself a toy. oh man. those are REALLY fun. :)

[Arb Nam]

Mermaid and submarine captain...I wonder how that plays out? I mean I understand ship captain and mermaid. Sex underwater?

[Craig]

Originally posted by pipSy@Dec 20 2002, 03:35 AM
but if you wanna go on the opposite route and date women. :) that's always good too. super sensual. a lot of touching and feeling and rubbing i remember. i' haven't been with many women. and i kinda grew out of the phase after college. but it's nice. i never had like dirty sex with a woman before. and i've only used "normal" toys. HAhaha vibrators n' stuff. other than that it was just up to the friction. i'm a lot more kinkier with men than i am with women. with women i get kinda shy. but with every single one i've been with...i'm always highly aroused. there's something abotu tits n' ass y'know. and every curvature of a woman. like i said. it's very sensual.
I call Pay-Per-View licensing rights to pipSy & karizma. j/k

[karizma]

lol i love my pipsy :luv:

[deez nuts]

What da hell? Did you bump your head or something, Karizma?

:blink:

Date older men! Cuz them young thorughbreds getz schooled by me! But wait till you're 18...don't want no scandals!

Edit: If you decide to eat da c00ch...I wanna watch. Thanks, k....

[teaz0r]

oh man. you're still underage eh jay?
/dirty thoughts be gone/

:)
you are fantastic!! :) *mwah*

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by pipSy@Dec 20 2002, 03:35 AM
but me favorite is the submarine captain/mermaid :> AHaHAH.
:blink: That's pretty hardcore.

Gives whole new meaning to diving under?

Dunno about the mermaid bit...but I would guess I would prolly fall over laughing my ass off if my woman came out dressed like a mermaid. The tuna/fish jokes would be in high gear or I prolly stand across the room and tell her to flop/hop on over with her tail.

I guess whatever floats the boat or in this case makes it go under.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Dec 20 2002, 08:19 AM
What da hell? Did you bump your head or something, Karizma?

:blink:

Date older men! Cuz them young thorughbreds getz schooled by me! But wait till you're 18...don't want no scandals!

Edit: If you decide to eat da c00ch...I wanna watch. Thanks, k....
yeah hasn't she already been dating older men? i mean older men for her is like... 21, 22, etc. hahhah... and at that age guys are punks. :P

[wylin]

:ph34r: :lol: she needs to date sumone radfords age or radford

[Monte]

Holy shit! You could've sent some of those guys to prison!

[angel nympho]

I'm with you on that, girly. Sex just ain't that much fun anymore...

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by wylin@Dec 20 2002, 12:28 PM
:ph34r:  :lol: she needs to date sumone radfords age or radford
no way man, her big bro's my age! i feel like a surrogate big bro!

[karizma]

what would dating older guys do for me? lol all guys are punks up until at least age 22...anything older is like above my dating range...well..until i turn 18 anyway...mwahaha...

yep im goin bi for a while...toodle-loo boys =P

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Dec 20 2002, 03:20 PM
what would dating older guys do for me? lol all guys are punks up until at least age 22...anything older is like above my dating range...well..until i turn 18 anyway...mwahaha...

yep im goin bi for a while...toodle-loo boys =P
Time to up that age range! Stop getting gifts from A/X and move on to bigger and better stuff.

It's time to evolve into the H.B.I.C.

Edit: Most guys are punks, regradless of age...well the ones I know, anyways. Just gotta make sure you stay on top of the game.

Haha I just dropped a dime on every guy I know. Serves em right for rippin on my current relationship status. :pissed:

[angel nympho]

Pffh. I been dating older guys since I was 16, and I still deal with the same bullshit as when I dated guys my own age. And sex is still boring.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Dec 20 2002, 04:52 PM
Pffh. I been dating older guys since I was 16, and I still deal with the same bullshit as when I dated guys my own age. And sex is still boring.
Damn. I'm out of ideas, then. I tried. Better it be your problems rather than mine, See ya!

Perhaps try as a last ditch effort: the train route or toss the salad! :D

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Dec 20 2002, 09:58 PM
Damn. I'm out of ideas, then. I tried. Better it be your problems rather than mine, See ya!

Perhaps try as a last ditch effort: the train route or toss the salad! :D
I know, I know! Have sex with a guy who actually knows what he's doing. =D That's what worked for me.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Dec 20 2002, 05:01 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Dec 20 2002, 09:58 PM
Damn.  I'm out of ideas, then.  I tried.  Better it be your problems rather than mine,  See ya!

Perhaps try as a last ditch effort: the train route or toss the salad!  :D
I know, I know! Have sex with a guy who actually knows what he's doing. =D That's what worked for me.
Damn I wanted to toss your salad with creamy ranch dressing too :(

[angel nympho]

^-- Ewww.......

[teaz0r]

i've only been sexually active for six years. maybe it's just a short time..but i never really found it boring. there's always something new to do i think. either that or i'm just easily amused. in my teens it was always older boys. they taught me stuff..where to put my hand. when to swirl my tongue when to just flicker it.. and now at 22. younger boys are still teaching me stuff so are older men.

younger boys are fun to try out more extraneous activities cuz they don't tire out so fast.. and they're a lot easier to manipulate too...with older people..i dunno. the oldest age gap i had was 8 years i'm 22 he's 30...and as the older i get that doesn't seem to old or much of an age gap. but i feel they appreciate like kinkay sex a lot more. i dunno. but yeah. with younger boys. you're put in a position where you "teach" more than you "learn". beit younger boys in age, or young in experience...and like. 'teaching" somebody always makes you grasp the subject at hand better. just like tutoring i guess.

i took a lot of classes too. in college. and even now. bondage workshops. joys of fellatio. cunninlingus culinary..when i was in my lesbian mode...there's a bunch of these workshops that seem iffy to go to at first, but it's fun you know? i mean if you're not having then it ain't worth doing it. i took tantric massage classes ...i suck at it. but yeah. i try. it keeps things alive. if you've got a significant other, you can always take classes together. doesn't always have to be sex-related activity either.

i made the boy take salsa lessons with me. and it was pretty damn sexy having sex in one of those killer slit-up to my cooch dresses...you know? like we'd be dancing on the floor. and he'd have his hands all over me. and it was great that we weren't stepping on each other. but really moving. it's sensual :) he's put his hand up my skirt and i'd just go nuts. you know. and you're in fuck-me heels and what not. it's not weird if you just end up having sex right on the bar.

there's always things to do yeah? just need to pick and choose what's right for you and your partner.

[TyroneK(prettypretty)]

Umm. I've done nothing like that.

Maybe you need to take your interactions with guys to the next emotional and/or physical level. Either pipSy's way as far as raw sensuality goes or look for somebody you can really connect with.

[wylin]

Originally posted by karizma@Dec 20 2002, 12:20 PM
what would dating older guys do for me? lol all guys are punks up until at least age 22...anything older is like  above my dating range...well..until i turn 18 anyway...mwahaha...

yep im goin bi for a while...toodle-loo boys =P
date mrazntyre u know he'll rock ur world. and u can have sex in interesting places, in the valley, in the ghetto, in the MR2, at his work, or in government buildings like police station or firestation or FBI office. EXCITING!

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by wylin@Dec 20 2002, 06:30 PM
Originally posted by karizma@Dec 20 2002, 12:20 PM
what would dating older guys do for me? lol all guys are punks up until at least age 22...anything older is like  above my dating range...well..until i turn 18 anyway...mwahaha...

yep im goin bi for a while...toodle-loo boys =P
date mrazntyre u know he'll rock ur world. and u can have sex in interesting places, in the valley, in the ghetto, in the MR2, at his work, in government building EXCITING!
hey... i happen to work in a government secured building... that's supposed to be an exciting place to have sex?

[mrazntre]

if you date will, you could either get squished by him, fuck him in his dirty ass chocolate Moo's tore up 240 interior, behind the dumpster at the former Yaohan's or in his most frequented boba massage parlor shop.

[igcognito]

I think Kariz needs to find different, things to keep sexual contact intense. You would be suprised at what you come up with, when you purposely refrain "the act". Candles, ice, fire, and especially ALTOIDS!. Altoids and oral sex = *pass out*. Get dirty. Food is fun with sexual contact.

[wylin]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Dec 20 2002, 05:44 PM
Originally posted by wylin@Dec 20 2002, 06:30 PM
Originally posted by karizma@Dec 20 2002, 12:20 PM
what would dating older guys do for me? lol all guys are punks up until at least age 22...anything older is like above my dating range...well..until i turn 18 anyway...mwahaha...

yep im goin bi for a while...toodle-loo boys =P
date mrazntyre u know he'll rock ur world. and u can have sex in interesting places, in the valley, in the ghetto, in the MR2, at his work, in government building EXCITING!
hey... i happen to work in a government secured building... that's supposed to be an exciting place to have sex?
mine sure is!

[karizma]

will why do you keep trying to make me date sy? =P

sex has gone downhill ever since i got tied up :D...now THAT was fun and boy would i like to try it again. but you dont find a lot of guys that are that open-minded...*sigh*

not only is sex boring...dating is too...i live for the thrill of the chase but lately...its all no chase more haste...yknow? it just fastforwards to the sex [ or tries to anyway ]....its too damn easy to get to the prize!! lol...i need a guy who gives me a lil incentive...leaves me hanging...teases...geez laweez =/ am i asking too much? hahaha

igcognito: altoids really works? haha interesting. i told my friend id eat sushi off his body if he supplied the sushi hahaha...

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by karizma@Dec 21 2002, 06:40 AM
will why do you keep trying to make me date sy? =P

sex has gone downhill ever since i got tied up :D...now THAT was fun and boy would i like to try it again. but you dont find a lot of guys that are that open-minded...*sigh*

not only is sex boring...dating is too...i live for the thrill of the chase but lately...its all no chase more haste...yknow? it just fastforwards to the sex [ or tries to anyway ]....its too damn easy to get to the prize!! lol...i need a guy who gives me a lil incentive...leaves me hanging...teases...geez laweez =/ am i asking too much? hahaha

igcognito: altoids really works? haha interesting. i told my friend id eat sushi off his body if he supplied the sushi hahaha...
put some clothes on before i slap you.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by karizma@Dec 21 2002, 01:40 AM
its too damn easy to get to the prize!! lol...i need a guy who gives me a lil incentive...leaves me hanging...teases...geez laweez =/ am i asking too much? hahaha
guys want you too much then? and that's a problem? :confused:

[karizma]

whys everyone telling me to put my fricken clothes on today? THEY ARE ON GODAMMIT.

swk: it is if they want u in the wrong way.

[igcognito]

Originally posted by karizma@Dec 21 2002, 06:40 AM

not only is sex boring...dating is too...i live for the thrill of the chase but lately...its all no chase more haste...yknow? it just fastforwards to the sex [ or tries to anyway ]....its too damn easy to get to the prize!! lol...i need a guy who gives me a lil incentive...leaves me hanging...teases...geez laweez =/ am i asking too much? hahaha

igcognito: altoids really works? haha interesting. i told my friend id eat sushi off his body if he supplied the sushi hahaha...

Altoids leave this tingly sensation. I love it ^^.

And, you need me. I would tease you, because you would never get the prize, LoL. I don't know. I know a few people who have gotten bored with it. And well, they got into some really kinky stuff.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Dec 21 2002, 01:40 AM
will why do you keep trying to make me date sy? =P

sex has gone downhill ever since i got tied up :D...now THAT was fun and boy would i like to try it again. but you dont find a lot of guys that are that open-minded...*sigh*

not only is sex boring...dating is too...i live for the thrill of the chase but lately...its all no chase more haste...yknow? it just fastforwards to the sex [ or tries to anyway ]....its too damn easy to get to the prize!! lol...i need a guy who gives me a lil incentive...leaves me hanging...teases...geez laweez =/ am i asking too much? hahaha

igcognito: altoids really works? haha interesting. i told my friend id eat sushi off his body if he supplied the sushi hahaha...
H.B.I.C.


Head bitch in charge.

A woman eating altoids before sucking yo dick...hurts and burns for me. Just teabag the guy.

And put your clothes back on!

I lub it when the girl plays hard to get. Anything worth having isn't supposed to be easy. If it's easy, I get bored and toss it aside when I'm done. Mrs. Bunboy was a total bitch and one hard chick to get into the sack at first! :luv:

[karizma]

bunboy why couldnt you be like 8 er 9 years younger...id be all over you =P

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Dec 21 2002, 02:33 PM
bunboy why couldnt you be like 8 er 9 years younger...id be all over you =P
I'm not going thru med school application process, 4 years of med school and R1 again! So you can have some of this hot loving! :D

[angel nympho]

Karizma. Be a lesbian, or date better guys.

[pfc beansprout]

by your info..you are only 17? (plz correct if wrong, my math stinkz)..anyhow, you're still learning about yourself and what feels good...masterbation helps you know what you like...serious :blush:

[karizma]

angel...be my gf...lol

masterbation lost its touch hahaha...i need toys ^_^

[pfc beansprout]

~heh..or if all else fails...judging by the responses/interests you got w/your thread....you could have them/us all lining up at your doorstep.... :P :D :lol: