no relationship

[enygma]

whenever i read the posts in the sex and relationship forum, i feel kinda.....left out. i've never been in a relationship before, serious or otherwise. i know that in contemporary society, this is an aberration, but truthfully, i've never met anyone that i wanted to form that kind of relationship with. do you think that that's strange?

[angel nympho]

No. You have standards. That's something to be proud of. Someday your prince will come and sweep you off your feet. Just be patient.

[Fireblade]

Look at it this way, you're not as jaded as some ppl who'll be going into a relationship. I'm very jaded, because of the ways turned out, but not as it began. Might be one reason why I'm still single...






or maybe I'm just fugly. :D

[windtorch]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 21 2002, 10:28 PM
No. You have standards. That's something to be proud of. Someday your prince will come and sweep you off your feet. Just be patient.
Hear hear!

Unless you are afraid to open up and get to know other people better. <_<

[Adaon]

Wow, you're unique, but in a cool way unlike the way people usually call me unique. But yeah, like Angel said, stick to your guns, once the right one comes along, everything will just flow.......

[ellsworth81]

weird ... hardly. you probably have better things to think about or to do than silly boys :lol: or you just have lots of good friends.

i've always felt that the relationship thing is just another experience that you need to get out of the way when you're somewhat younger. i fulfilled that need briefly and it was uh... invigorating and fun.

just don't *wait* too long or not look. some treasure might be passing you by without you even to notice, which would be tragic :(

[Chris]

I agreed with Angel here you have standard and a lot of us are older as well. So no worries.

[hormiga]

Originally posted by enygma@Nov 21 2002, 10:25 PM
whenever i read the posts in the sex and relationship forum, i feel kinda.....left out. i've never been in a relationship before, serious or otherwise. i know that in contemporary society, this is an aberration, but truthfully, i've never met anyone that i wanted to form that kind of relationship with. do you think that that's strange?
It's funny how some ppl think that it's only males that you're interested in. Maybe it's just that you're a picky person, since you never met anyone that you wanted to form 'that kind of relationship with'.

[amietron]

Originally posted by ellsworth81@Nov 22 2002, 08:37 AM
just don't *wait* too long or not look. some treasure might be passing you by without you even to notice, which would be tragic :(
If it's that great of a treasure, don't you think you'd notice it even if you're not necessarily looking for it?

[Adaon]

Originally posted by amietron@Nov 23 2002, 11:59 AM
If it's that great of a treasure, don't you think you'd notice it even if you're not necessarily looking for it?
not necessarily, sometimes you don't know what ya really have until ya miss it.


which is why sometimes your best friend *of the opposite sex* is nearly the ones ya "miss"
when they get hitched and stuff.....my cousins *multiple ones* have been thru this.....heartache cuz the ones they loved *best friends* couldn't love them back cuz it was too late . . .
so yeah.......DAMN i'm so cheery today :-D













:cry:

[Adaon]

Originally posted by Fireblade@Nov 21 2002, 10:59 PM
Look at it this way, you're not as jaded as some ppl who'll be going into a relationship. I'm very jaded, because of the ways turned out, but not as it began. Might be one reason why I'm still single...






or maybe I'm just fugly. :D
I'm opting for the second one.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Adaon@Nov 24 2002, 01:48 AM
Originally posted by Fireblade@Nov 21 2002, 10:59 PM
Look at it this way, you're not as jaded as some ppl who'll be going into a relationship. I'm very jaded, because of the ways turned out, but not as it began. Might be one reason why I'm still single...






or maybe I'm just fugly. &nbsp;:D
I'm opting for the second one.
shhhhh....fireblade can't be fugly. fireblade, you trying to usurp my throne? PUNK!? don't MESS w/ KING Fugly. :pissed:


nah anyway someone just told me i'm not fugly but actually quite handsome. But i've never been able to attract a girl myself, so i guess ...i'll just have to admit...as people have been telling me for years...

that my personality sucks. :cry:


But shrugs, re: enygma, it's no big deal not being in a relationship. how old are you anyway? if you're a teen or early twenties, then you're wayyy too young to get hassled over not having a bf.

[ellsworth81]

Originally posted by amietron@Nov 23 2002, 11:59 AM
If it's that great of a treasure, don't you think you'd notice it even if you're not necessarily looking for it?
well, not necessarily. s/he could be the perfect person for you, but it doesn't mean you'll know it. oftentimes, we don't know what's best for us. one extreme example is that many gals will gravitate towards the good-looking asshole/jerk and pass up on the decent-looking nice guy.

[ellsworth81]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Nov 23 2002, 08:26 PM
Originally posted by Adaon@Nov 24 2002, 01:48 AM
Originally posted by Fireblade@Nov 21 2002, 10:59 PM
Look at it this way, you're not as jaded as some ppl who'll be going into a relationship. I'm very jaded, because of the ways turned out, but not as it began. Might be one reason why I'm still single...






or maybe I'm just fugly. :D
I'm opting for the second one.
shhhhh....fireblade can't be fugly. fireblade, you trying to usurp my throne? PUNK!? don't MESS w/ KING Fugly. :pissed:


nah anyway someone just told me i'm not fugly but actually quite handsome. But i've never been able to attract a girl myself, so i guess ...i'll just have to admit...as people have been telling me for years...

that my personality sucks. :cry:


But shrugs, re: enygma, it's no big deal not being in a relationship. how old are you anyway? if you're a teen or early twenties, then you're wayyy too young to get hassled over not having a bf.
being ugly isn't always a problem. i've seen SOOOOO many ugly guys out with gf's and shit, so that's usually not it.

so i guess it's all about expressing an interesting personality that i'll assume we have. everyone on YW seems a little twisted ... :lol:

oh yea, smile alot. it goes a long way. even if it is a means to end ... :)

[suresquared]

Originally posted by enygma@Nov 21 2002, 10:25 PM
whenever i read the posts in the sex and relationship forum, i feel kinda.....left out. i've never been in a relationship before, serious or otherwise. i know that in contemporary society, this is an aberration, but truthfully, i've never met anyone that i wanted to form that kind of relationship with. do you think that that's strange?
no, you're not an aberration or some mutant because you seem to be left out of the contemporary society dating continuum.

you probably have many justifiable reasons to not be engaged in the dating ritual as well as other reasons which may be found on more private or subsconscious levels.

I didn't have some of my more "real" relationships until my college years and I barely remember the ones from high school, so you may want to relax, smile, and be patient. I think you're playing it smart and by not rushing into an unwanted future.

[teaz0r]

for me to be on the other end of the spectrum. i wonder how it feels. my first boyfriend was at age 13 and i've never been single since. so it leaves me a bit whoozy sometimes. like i've missed out this big chunk of my life when i'm suppose to be learning about me. and sometimes i wished i'd be able to deal with life and all its trials and tribulations alone. i think i just got into a 'habit' of having someone there to rely on.

i think it's great that you haven't rushed into anything just because you were lonely. i figure you'd be waiting for that certain mutual spark between you and your special person...before you wanna get into any relationship. for me i see that you're still independant and willing to take no less than what you see fit. commendable that is.