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Redhawk

11-08-2002, 04:21 PM

I did not post in relpy to my last thread because of something awful that happened at work. My boss's boss is an asian female ( between 37-43) she is the only asian woman where I work. I can not give many details. I worked at this place for about 2 years. She was not over friendly with me or the rest of the crew. She is not well like, people call her a "bitch". One day she hired 2 guys and I notice that she became overly friendly with them. In the break room which housed some of the equipment we uesed, she usualy take her break alone. No one, not even her white husband (fat) could enter without her giving them dirty looks. When the new guy stated he kept coming back into the room.
I watched how she became overjoyed whenever this guy was around. Well she set this guy up in a job in another part of the building. She even eat lunch with him. He comes over to see her when he wants to eat his lunch. Well, they had a birthday party for me. She kept saying: "I hope Bob make it." Well, her husband work at the same place. I found out today that she did not tell him that the office was going to have a party for me. I watched her make eyes at him. He only been there for about 2 months and she is really trying to impress him while making my life hell. She complained about me making mistakes, but she say little to the other guy and Bob. I never been closed to her. She is the only Chinese woman that I have ever worked for. She has a nice child that is very mannered. So, she went from one white man to a younger white man. She has a master degree and been at her job for 10 years. She makes 60,000 a year.
She is one sick woman. The only Asian in this company. I'm sorry this was so long, but I'm angry and dissapointed at her. Is there no Asian woman out there that can resist a white man?

SunWuKong

11-08-2002, 04:42 PM

Originally posted by Redhawk@Nov 8 2002, 07:21 PM
Is there no Asian woman out there that can resist a white man?
i'm tempted to close this thread just because of that last comment.

achtungbaby

11-08-2002, 05:03 PM

So Redhawk, what is your point?

applehead

11-08-2002, 05:22 PM

wait.. i'm confused.. how is she making your life hell?

igcognito

11-09-2002, 06:34 AM

I think she is making his life hell because, "she babies the white guy and poops on him", this is in his eyes. Usually people of the same race expect sympathy from their boos, if they are the same race. Especially when it comes to minorities. The Asian woman resisting a white man thing. I would say that is kind of, ;) . Because not many Asian yearn to date white guys. It just falls that they are placed in that position. I am sure the women of this board will protest to that.

And honestly, is it really that bad. It is the US. We are living in a diverse country.

babysakura

11-09-2002, 08:57 AM

i think this is just racist. an affair is just an affair. even if the guy is asian or something else. it's the same thing. an affair. favourism.period.

Raymond

11-09-2002, 09:02 AM

Dude, I think it's wrong and in bad taste to post gossip like this on the Internet. Period.

You are whining about someone not giving you respect?

Well please show respect for people's privacy. Think of what would happen if this woman's family or husband read this?

THINK!

achtungbaby

11-09-2002, 09:49 AM

Originally posted by Raymond@Nov 9 2002, 09:02 AM
Well please show respect for people's privacy. Think of what would happen if this woman's family or husband read this?
Thanks for pointing this out. The internet is a very small place...

SunWuKong

11-09-2002, 10:50 AM

i'm moving this to sex & relationships

Redhawk

11-10-2002, 06:07 AM

I'm sorry. I was upset and I did not mean to offend anyone. We had a good working relationship until those two trouble makers showed up. My parents had split up after a number years of marriage. I guess I'm reliving the same hurt again. I been very loyal to the employer. I did not mention the place where this accident is taking place. So, I will not talk about again.
I'm truly sorry.

Redhawk

11-10-2002, 06:16 AM

I don't believe that all Asian women are going to bed white men. I don't care. But as long as you keep out the work place :!

ChinaLama

11-10-2002, 06:51 AM

Originally posted by Redhawk@Nov 10 2002, 02:16 PM
I don't believe that all Asian women are going to bed white men. I don't care. But as long as you keep out the work place :!
ok, so you mean you just have a problem w/ mixing romance and work cuz it's not professional. perfectly understandable so don't feel discouraged fr posting. just be careful how you word things next time cuz a lot of us are sick of the white man/asian woman angle now since it's been so overdiscussed. :)

Redhawk

11-10-2002, 08:49 AM

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Nov 10 2002, 02:51 PM
Originally posted by Redhawk@Nov 10 2002, 02:16 PM
I don't believe that all Asian women are going to bed white men.  I don't care. But as long as you keep out the work place :!
ok, so you mean you just have a problem w/ mixing romance and work cuz it's not professional. perfectly understandable so don't feel discouraged fr posting. just be careful how you word things next time cuz a lot of us are sick of the white man/asian woman angle now since it's been so overdiscussed. :)

Yes, I'm new here, and I don't have much time to read
other people posts, expect on weekends. I'm going to have to read them before replying. I will make every effort not to offend anyone.
I was raised in a strict conservative home. While I respect everyone opinion, I will still hold to my basic belief that affairs are wrong no matter what the race of a person; affairs should not happen between employer and employee. Because it effects the morale of other workers who may not agree with that kind of a lifestyle. Besides, children are the ones who get hurt the most.

himura-dono

11-13-2002, 05:37 PM