are asian men sexy?

[sandra]

what is your definition of sexy? and would asian men, as a whole, fit into that definition?

[nicedream]

:::waiting for someone to answer the question:::

[artsfartsyjanet]

Well the ones I found sexy ended up being gay. So no comment. What kind of hormone am I emitting? Sheesh!!!! :) :(

[amietron]

it's too early in the morning to think about whether asian guys are sexy, lol. i should be studying for my test!

(NOTE to pinky: we need that potion! :P)

i think they can be. :)

[kimpossible]

Asian men can be sexy, but I wouldn't use it as a blanket statement like a man is sexy by virtue of being Asian. My husband inspires lust in me. He was soooo cute. I was mentally undressing him the first time I saw him.

My answer is it all depends on the Asian guy. I don't think this is what you're asking though. Can you clarify? Do you mean, in America in the larger racial sense do we consider Asian men to have the qualities that define sexy in our culture?

[angel nympho]

*Shrug* They're still men, right?

Sexy is CONFIDENCE, sex appeal, intelligence, and that hot hip bone thing that leads down to their penises. :rolleyes:

Oh yeah, and hair. Hair is sexy.

[bigwong235]

hmm... well i've got hair. one out of five ain't bad.

actually... that is bad!! :frown:

[Grass Monkey]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Oct 23 2002, 07:17 PM
*Shrug* They're still men, right?

Sexy is CONFIDENCE, sex appeal, intelligence, and that hot hip bone thing that leads down to their penises. :rolleyes:

Oh yeah, and hair. Hair is sexy.
Okay, I got intelligence down, and I am damn CONFIDENT that I'll get my ass kicked at least once during my Highschool years. I'm just waiting for that day to happen!(Until then, I'll stash sharp mechanical pencils in my pocket)

Anyway, "sex appeal" is a very abstract term. And about "that hot hip bone thing," I'm not too sure what you're talking about. :huh:

[kimpossible]

Here's (http://yellowworld.org/modules.php?set_albumName=album26&id=MrHH&op=modload&name=Gallery&file=index&include=view_photo.php) an Asian man that I find sexy.

[bigwong235]

Originally posted by Grass Monkey@Oct 23 2002, 12:47 PM
Anyway, "sex appeal" is a very abstract term. And about "that hot hip bone thing," I'm not too sure what you're talking about. :huh:
the hot hip bone thing is a thing that only guys that are really cut have... d'angelo has it in that video where he's naked.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Grass Monkey@Oct 23 2002, 08:47 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Oct 23 2002, 07:17 PM
*Shrug*  They're still men, right?

Sexy is CONFIDENCE, sex appeal, intelligence, and that hot hip bone thing that leads down to their penises.   :rolleyes:

Oh yeah, and hair.  Hair is sexy.
Okay, I got intelligence down, and I am damn CONFIDENT that I'll get my ass kicked at least once during my Highschool years. I'm just waiting for that day to happen!(Until then, I'll stash sharp mechanical pencils in my pocket)

Anyway, "sex appeal" is a very abstract term. And about "that hot hip bone thing," I'm not too sure what you're talking about. :huh:
You're right. Sex appeal is very abstract. It's also very subjective. Which means I get to decide if I think you've got it or not. *Grin* And I can only figure that out if I watch you talk, walk, eat, and do your daily grind. Oh yeah, and I like watching guys get dressed. Mmm...

And about that hot hip bone thing:
<img src='http://tyson-beckford.iwarp.com/Tyson_GloryChest_chibi.jpg[/img]
See it?

[princess]

asian guys can be sexy, it just depends.

i think of sexiness more as the way a person carries himself and not something based totally on physical appearances. inner qualities. personality, brains, etc. some people just have this....thing (for lack of a better word..sorry, im currently brain dead) about them thats very alluring.

[achtungbaby]

?!? What the fuck is up with this thread?

Can Asian men be sexy? Nice.

[Saiko]

Asian men can be very sexy. So can men of any other race. I don't know about hip bones, but I really like pelvic muscles and abs. Otherwise, a lanky guy. But abs are more fun to stroke.

[not-a-twinkie?]

I think it does depend on the guy... and of course on your own personal preferences...

In general... I'd say yeahh... asian men are sexy.... like my man.... or other guys I know...

But in general, I don't think asian men are sexy in the ways that they are generally portrayed by the media...

[futomakiman]

Of course asian men are sexy...but they can certainly be very unsexy too. Point is, sexiness is an attribute or perception of an individual not a race or ethnic group. If any one group had a monopoly of that trait, it'd be a pretty boring world. :!

[amietron]

i like arms and eye brows and noses and smiles and skin. and, and, and ..

and i agree with princess that a lot of it has to do with how he carries himself, his personality. he may not be the hottest of guys, maybe not even hot at first, but if his personality rubs off on you, with time, he'll be damn sexxay in your eyes.



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[sandra]

so we're saying that we're all so strong and independent-minded that the media and the dominant white society plays no role in what we view as attractive and sexy?

when are asian men considered sexy? when they have a good body? what is defined as a good body? when they're tall?

what are we so quick to associate hapa guys with being "cute"? because they have white features?

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by kasia@Oct 26 2002, 02:54 PM
so we're saying that we're all so strong and independent-minded that the media and the dominant white society plays no role in what we view as attractive and sexy?

when are asian men considered sexy? when they have a good body? what is defined as a good body? when they're tall?

what are we so quick to associate hapa guys with being "cute"? because they have white features?
The media doesn't give Asian males enough exposure. Isn't that the general consensus amongst alot of us here?

My take on this thread. What is sexy for one person may not be sexy for another person. Sex appeal is mostly subjective isn't it?

And in regards to the media influencing how Asian males are viewed as a sex symbol or not? I'll handle my own business, whether or not the media wants to give us props or not.

My take might be archaic since I haven't had time to really watch TV and when I do watch TV it's mostly sports. I haven't gone to the movie theater in ages, if I do watch recent movies it's on bootleg or on the illegal black box.

Just me 2 cents.



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[amietron]

generalization: the media has its influences on (almost) everyone. how ever big or small their influence is subjective.

[sandra]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 26 2002, 08:43 PM
And in regards to the media influencing how Asian males are viewed as a sex symbol or not? I'll handle my own business, whether or not the media wants to give us props or not.
would your perception be skewed by the fact that you already have a pretty easy time getting girls, though? for others, it may be more of an uphill battle--dealing with the stereotype created by the media and all. or maybe not?

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by kasia@Oct 26 2002, 08:08 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 26 2002, 08:43 PM
And in regards to the media influencing how Asian males are viewed as a sex symbol or not? I'll handle my own business, whether or not the media wants to give us props or not.
would your perception be skewed by the fact that you already have a pretty easy time getting girls, though? for others, it may be more of an uphill battle--dealing with the stereotype created by the media and all. or maybe not?
I don't think I have an easier time getting women than the next guy. I'm prolly not as picky and I tend to date in mass quanities and weed them out as a I go along. I prolly have lower standards in asking a woman out, but for me to get into a serious and exclusive relationship, I have really, really high standards (looks, personality, height, weight etc etc).

I maybe meet someone new anywhere from once a month to once every three months. Depends on my mood, schedule, situation etc etc. Like all guys I get my fair share of crash and burns, but I also get hook ups.

To be honest, I don't think I'm sexy, I just do my thing and let the women think what they want to think about me. Do I feel at a disadvantage being an Asian male? Yes, most definitely at times it seems like an uphill battle and I already have two strikes on me. Do I blame the media and public perception? Partially, but at the same time it's not gonna stop me from doing what I have to do.

But the way I look at it: you can bitch and moan about a situation and let the situation control you or you can be a man step up and try and seize control of the situation. The choice is yours.



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[blkazngirl]

Asian men are the bomb! From the skinny ones to the buffed ones, Geeks to the bad boys. Where are my freaky ones hiding.

[Arex]

Well, as I said in the other thread, my sexiness or unsexiness is determined by how I think I'm perceived by women. So I suppose the media might indirectly affect whether I feel sexy to the extent that women's perceptions of what is or is not sexy is affected by mainstream media. So, my question is, how influenced are women by what they see in the media? I think women're much more prone to be swayed by what they see on tv and in magazines than are guys... What do you think?

Alex

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by blkazngirl@Oct 26 2002, 10:37 PM
Asian men are the bomb! From the skinny ones to the buffed ones, Geeks to the bad boys. &nbsp;Where are my freaky ones hiding.
You don't have to look any further. As a matter of fact, set your sights on the freaky deaky one peeping up and down like his digglett avatar (haha so phallic). **points at arex**



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[sandra]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 27 2002, 03:25 AM
To be honest, I don't think I'm sexy, I just do my thing and let the women think what they want to think about me. &nbsp;Do I feel at a disadvantage being an Asian male? Yes, most definitely at times &nbsp;it seems like an uphill battle and I already have two strikes on me. &nbsp; Do I blame the media and public perception? Partially, but at the same time it's not gonna stop me from doing what I have to do.

But the way I look at it: you can bitch and moan about a situation and let the situation control you &nbsp;or you can be a man step up and try and seize control of the situation. &nbsp;The choice is yours.
so what would you define as sexy? and why would you not fit in that category, in your opinion?

i don't think that talking about the situation amongst ourselves is necessarily just bitching and moaning about it. (if that's what you mean.) there are people out there--esp. non-asians--who really don't recognize the pervasiveness of the media's influence. raising awareness is the first step to "doing something about it". there can be a way to get rid of the "two strikes against you". i have a friend who is an asian male actor out here in hollywood who has been to auditions where he is asked to act more geeky and speak with an accent. his choice, according to his agent, was either to walk out or take it. i think there must be something we could do--either us or manaa--to eliminate situations like these...

[Green_Circle]

Originally posted by Arex@Oct 27 2002, 02:17 PM
Well, as I said in the other thread, my sexiness or unsexiness is determined by how I think I'm perceived by women. So I suppose the media might indirectly affect whether I feel sexy to the extent that women's perceptions of what is or is not sexy is affected by mainstream media. So, my question is, how influenced are women by what they see in the media? I think women're much more prone to be swayed by what they see on tv and in magazines than are guys... What do you think?

Alex
That's a good question. Considering that there are so many negative ones depicting us Asian males, we are perhaps more aware than females that these images are false. Whereas the general public could buy into these false images without realizing that they are bogus. I think you're right. Mostly everyone is affected by these stereotypes. We are certainly feeling the brunt of it in a dizzying number of ways. We as Asian males know that these portrayals are false because we know who and what we are. But who else knows that? In other words, how do we fight this evil power?
:confused:

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by kasia@Oct 27 2002, 01:27 PM

so what would you define as sexy? &nbsp;and why would you not fit in that category, in your opinion?


I have no clue what I find sexy in a man. Like I said I am what I am. For example: I've been called sexy when I wake up in the morning, groggy and stumbling into the bathroom in the mornings by my girlfriend. I've also been called dork, insensitive jerk, man-ho and etc etc by her also. I think Arex put it best: do you as an Asian woman find Asian men sexy and does the media affect Asian women in the perception of the Asian male? Isn't this one of the bigger factors on what determines sex appeal for Asian men, whether the consenus amongst women, especially Asian women find us sexy?


Like I said, I don't know if I am sexy or not to other women to be perfectly honest and prolly never gave it alot of thought. Maybe being clueless about whether or not you have mass sex appeal is sexy? Hahaha

i don't think that talking about the situation amongst ourselves is necessarily just bitching and moaning about it. &nbsp;(if that's what you mean.) &nbsp;there are people out there--esp. non-asians--who really don't recognize the pervasiveness of the media's influence. &nbsp;raising awareness is the first step to "doing something about it". &nbsp;there can be a way to get rid of the "two strikes against you". &nbsp;

No, I'm saying by discussing this we are not bitching and moaning. I'm all for promoting Asian male sex appeal :D. Anything that lets bunboy get more buns. J/K <_< .

What I was trying to say is that even know the media portrays Asian males in this particular way. We shouldn't let it influence us when we go out in attempt to meet women. Maybe empower ourselves more? I know Asian male actors are having tough breaks in Hollywood and we're not exactly portrayed as Brad Pitt in the American media. But hey, keep the fight going, but at the same time that's them and you're you. Just do what you gotta do.

Not tooting my own horn, but from the onset of puberty, my sudden interest in girls and when I first started dating. I have never had problems approaching women and dating them. My love life has been more than I can handle and at times it's out of control. Plus, I've been in the doghouse more often than my pet pooch.

So personally, Hollywood's portrayl of the Asian male hasn't affected me in the dating department. I personally want more exposure for the Asian male actor in hopes of breaking the stereotypical roles given to Asian males and also for their own personal benefit and their own careers, not for the benefit of my sex life. I can handle the latter on my own.

[Green_Circle]

"So personally, Hollywood's portrayl of the Asian male hasn't affected me in the dating department. I personally want more exposure for the Asian male actor in hopes of breaking the stereotypical roles given to Asian males and also for their own personal benefit and their own careers, not for the benefit of my sex life. I can handle the latter on my own."

CB, you may have counteracted the negative effects of bad stereotyping by 'the man' because you have the MD title. That alone has its own stereotype and it's all good. BTW this would also largely include JD and PHD. But what about us rank n files in the trenches? I'm just a regular joe and when women see us average Asian males, it may conjure up Kung Fool for example, among a host of other stereotypes almost all negative.
:frown:


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[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Green_Circle@Oct 28 2002, 05:48 PM


?CB, you may have counteracted the negative effects of bad stereotyping by 'the man' because you have the MD title. That alone has its own stereotype and it's all good. BTW this would also largely include JD and PHD. But what about us rank n files in the trenches? I'm just a regular joe and when women see us average Asian males, it may conjure up Kung Fool for example, among a host of other stereotypes almost all negative.
????????????frown:


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Yeah, I won't front. When it comes to going all out and trying to get with that girl, I really, really, really want, it helps MD and all. But, I met more women prior to med school. My prime picking days was high school and undergrad.

The way I look at it is that how you carry yourself and how tight your game is, means a whole lot more than some grad degree. Alot of my friends will vouch for me on this: if you step up and put yourself on the line, approach and talk to a girl makes a world of difference. And FYI, 99% of the time when I do approach a woman, I don't say "Hi, I'm so and so, I'm a MD." I have maybe once in a blue moon (only twice if I recall correctly). And by the time they know what I do for a living, we're already hooked up and going out.

You can make this bullshit stereotype work for you rather than against you. Most women I've dated including Asian women have told me that they wished that us Asian brothers would step up more and approach them. I mean surprise them, break that stereotype on a personal level, also. I'm not on a personal crusade to prove something. More like the primordial urge to get me some ass, to put it bluntly.

Again, I guess it's just my 2 cents.



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[Chris]

Originally posted by blkazngirl@Oct 26 2002, 07:37 PM
Asian men are the bomb! From the skinny ones to the buffed ones, Geeks to the bad boys. &nbsp;Where are my freaky ones hiding.
I'm here. hehe kidding. But asian men is my ultimate choice if i get into a relationship. But it seems only white men like me *sigh*



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[himura-dono]

Originally posted by Chris@Oct 29 2002, 12:56 AM
Originally posted by blkazngirl@Oct 26 2002, 07:37 PM
Asian men are the bomb! From the skinny ones to the buffed ones, Geeks to the bad boys. Where are my freaky ones hiding.
I'm here. hehe kidding. But asian men is my ultimate choice if i get into a relationship. But it seems only white men like me *sigh*
u look like my friend anthony's type.

[Chris]

Originally posted by himura-dono@Oct 28 2002, 08:04 PM
Originally posted by Chris@Oct 29 2002, 12:56 AM
Originally posted by blkazngirl@Oct 26 2002, 07:37 PM
Asian men are the bomb! From the skinny ones to the buffed ones, Geeks to the bad boys. Where are my freaky ones hiding.
I'm here. hehe kidding. But asian men is my ultimate choice if i get into a relationship. But it seems only white men like me *sigh*
u look like my friend anthony's type.
really?? asian single and availble in the bay area?

[not-a-twinkie?]

Originally posted by Arex@Oct 27 2002, 02:17 PM
Well, as I said in the other thread, my sexiness or unsexiness is determined by how I think I'm perceived by women. &nbsp;So I suppose the media might indirectly affect whether I feel sexy to the extent that women's perceptions of what is or is not sexy is affected by mainstream media. &nbsp;So, my question is, how influenced are women by what they see in the media? &nbsp;I think women're much more prone to be swayed by what they see on tv and in magazines than are guys... &nbsp;What do you think?

Alex
Yes - I think women are more prone to be swayed by what they see on tv / in magazines... etc... and this probably does have some influence on the general population of women at large in shaping what / who they consider sexy.

But... as I already answered earlier... I personally, do think asian guys are sexy.

Here's a link to an article on top ten asian men... (w/ links to past results of sexiest asian man) as decided by readers of Jade Magazine:
http://www.jademagazine.com/21dp_men.html

When I came across this article, it reminded me of the discussions here... and I thought it was interesting to see who 'made the list' by Jade Mag readers.... & it goes to show that Jade Mag readers also think Asian men are sexy....

[nonamerasian]

what is your definition of sexy? and would asian men, as a whole, fit into that definition?

I find no group as a whole as being sexy, I do however have a Korean friend whose looks have been making me stutter.

There are Asian men who fit my definition of sexy.

[ChairmanMah]

me: oh hell yeah. especially if you can throw the dick well.

[Korean Hunk]

unfortunately, due to the media and stereotypes of Asian men, Asian men as a whole in the US are not considered sexy. The famous Asian men i.e. Jackie Chan, Jet Li, Pat Morita in the US are not sex symbols. Then you add the negative stereotypes about Asian men and it makes it where Asian men are not considered sexy. Sure there are sexy Asian men but as a whole society does not see it that way. No wonder I'm having a hard time getting laid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[kimpossible]

Sure there are sexy Asian men but as a whole society does not see it that way. No wonder I'm having a hard time getting laid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

but you're a Hunk! do the women even stand a chance at resisting?

[thaite]

Goddamn! The Asian Alec Baldwin hits a dry spell?!

We have no hope.

[Korean Hunk]

but you're a Hunk! do the women even stand a chance at resisting?

Double H, I have been humbled recently by lack of getting action. It's apparent that the days of women coming up to me ended with Mayor Guiliani's crackdown on prostitution.

I remember the good old days, but not anymore, it's just days and nights of me crying into my pillow singing "Tears on my pillow, pain in my heart over not getting laid"

And can someone verse me on when it was fashionable to be romantic and a gentleman to get women?

Clueless in Jersey.

[Korean Hunk]

Goddamn! The Asian Alec Baldwin hits a dry spell?!

We have no hope.


Toothpaste:

Just because I 'm not getting any action doesn't mean you guys shouldn't try. I've seen too many Asian guys on Saturday night who's idea of meeting women consists of watching the Matrix for the 1,000th time.

[kimpossible]

I'll send you some sympathy porn* over AIM. Howzzat? :licka:

*not of yours truly

[mr. x]

hehe, asianguy.com

dont ask me how i know this

[John0101]

why do people dig up these old threads?

[ChinaLama]

I'll send you some sympathy porn* over AIM. Howzzat? :licka:

*not of yours truly

you mean videos? you never send me any sympathy porn videos!

[Korean Hunk]

I'll send you some sympathy porn* over AIM. Howzzat? :licka:

*not of yours truly


Thanks for your pity porn. But I realize that porn can do so much below it loses it's luster. And being a man of class, dignity, being suave, debonair, humble and being unable to type with one hand, I must respectfully decline. On the other hand(hehe I just made a funny and wow am I laughing like a Japanese schoolgirl), if you could just answer the question about why men have to be so cordial, compromising, considerate, caring to get some action, it would be greatly appreciated.

[shy]

for me, "sexy" embodies traits such as confidence, intelligence and loyalty.

neither of the above three traits has any correlation to race and ethnicity.

so yes... i do find certain asian men that i have met VERY sexy.

[ChinaLama]

ok, dude, please stop bringing your race or your gf's race into every post. :-)

[deez nuts]

ok, dude, please stop bringing your race or your gf's race into every post. :-)


lol

[John0101]

I'll agree with you that sexiness is confidence and intelligence and also how you handle yourself around others. Could it also be how you dress as well. Me, well I follow the latest fashion and trends in mens fashion such as found in GQ and Esquire so I'm willing that I will be seen as sexy by females.

Funny though what you said...my girlfriend says the exact thing as you but she ended up with me, a Caucasian who's been described as a dork (I'm not though but you get the idea)

You know, even if you didn't have an asian girlfriend you can still chill around here. I think your trying a little too hard to fit in.

[TyroneK(prettypretty)]

aSIan m3n are not sexy!!!!11!!

thEy'r3 all 5h0rt and 5m3l1 b4d!!!!1

[SunWuKong]

Funny though what you said...my girlfriend says the exact thing as you but she ended up with me, a Caucasian who's been described as a dork (I'm not though but you get the idea)

ok. in one fell swoop he is exhibiting Ras-like behaviour as well as fitting into dac's description of white guys that chase after Asian girls. he's just not doing very well.

[Tao]

I'll agree with you that sexiness is confidence and intelligence and also how you handle yourself around others. Could it also be how you dress as well. Me, well I follow the latest fashion and trends in mens fashion such as found in GQ and Esquire so I'm willing that I will be seen as sexy by females.

Funny though what you said...my girlfriend says the exact thing as you but she ended up with me, a Caucasian who's been described as a dork (I'm not though but you get the idea)
i love confident dorky white guys....*sigh:heart:

[Napoleon Chynamite]

My post was deleted. Did I say something objectionable again?

[SunWuKong]

My post was deleted. Did I say something objectionable again?

ask AB. he did it.

[AngryABCGirl]

Asian men are very sexy.

[amietron]

Asian men are very sexy.
especially kind hearted ones. :wub:

[amietron]

especially kind hearted ones. :wub:

sorry, i meant-- especially kind hearted, smart ones. :wub: :heart:

i don't like stupid boys. they make me :angry:. amy doesn't like boys who always look like :confused:

[amietron]

i want me a kind hearted, smart guy. :heart:

[shy]

I'll agree with you that sexiness is confidence and intelligence and also how you handle yourself around others. Could it also be how you dress as well. Me, well I follow the latest fashion and trends in mens fashion such as found in GQ and Esquire so I'm willing that I will be seen as sexy by females.

Funny though what you said...my girlfriend says the exact thing as you but she ended up with me, a Caucasian who's been described as a dork (I'm not though but you get the idea)

for me, as long as the guy is dressed so that he's clean looking (not sloppy like unless he's doing some labour work while i met him), i'm cool with that. i don't need GQ though GQ is nice when we go out to a nice restaurant. i'm fine with the sporty and casual look too. i guess i'm not picky. just so long as the dude looks clean cut.

i tried going out w/ a mr. sloppy once. it didn't take with me.

my husband is caucasian too. :) he can be a dork sometimes, but it's cute and enduring to me! heh. so maybe your girlfriend and i have a lot in common?

[shy]

sorry, i meant-- especially kind hearted, smart ones. :wub: :heart:

i don't like stupid boys. they make me :angry:. amy doesn't like boys who always look like :confused:

lol! totally know what you mean. when i was single, dating and exploring my options, i tried to date the pretty boy with no brains type.

oh man... it was like torture. sure... he was a hottie. and yes, he was very nice. but... the conversations just weren't turning me on. and i felt that the attraction faded very fast.

we stopped at date number two.

[Cipherous]

what is your definition of sexy? and would asian men, as a whole, fit into that definition?

I am gonna try to be unbias as possible

I think the definition of "sexy" means to have sex appeal. Thus, causing arousal and other sex related emotions.

since I do not know every Asian person in America, any assumption I make has no ground what so ever. Thus, I cannot generalize about Asian guys as a whole. However, I could be very vague and "TRY" to generalize the Asian guys I know and I would think that those guys get as much girls as any other race that I know. However, this is soley my opinion and just my opinion.

as Asian men in the media (from the media that I've been exposed to...MTV, FOX, network TV and American movies), as a whole, I don't think Asian guys fit the stereotype of sexy.


just think about it, whats the first thing that comes to your mind when someone says "oh hes that asian guy in the movie".

what would the asian guy's role in the movie be?
this is assuming this is an American movie

would be a delivery guy, the chinese resturant cook, math geek, engineer, martial artist, the foriegner and what not?

you can see that the lexicon of Asian men seldom correlates anything to sex.

[Proud_Jook_Sing]

would be a delivery guy, the chinese resturant cook, math geek, engineer, martial artist, the foriegner and what not?
Martial artists are generally viewed as sexy by women even if the media has been portraying Asian martial artists as sexless.

[TTChino]

Interesting. Your husband is Caucasian? Wow, I must be psychic or something or it could be a very lucky case of coincidence :laugh: .

And yes, dorks can be cute if I can say so myself, although I'm more GQ man (or a yuppie ala Banana Republic) than some computer geek.

Come to think of it - looking at the side of your face (I'm assuming you're on the right, right?) it resembles my girlfriends and that indicates to me that you have a symmetrical face which, more often than not, indicates a pretty face. So, yes it's highly probable that you and my girlfriend are alike.

P.S - I hope you have'nt been a victim of negative posts just because your husband is White. Have you found that the AA sites that you go to are generally against IR couplings? I know Yellowworld is'nt as bad as some of the other sites out there but still you never know?

Whatcha talkin bout! We lub da white folks here! Especially drunk white folks!

[deez nuts]

i'm da seggziest

[Cipherous]

Martial artists are generally viewed as sexy by women even if the media has been portraying Asian martial artists as sexless.

hmmm, perhaps

martial arts may correlate with power, which I think may imply attractive thus implying sexy.

[shy]

P.S - I hope you have'nt been a victim of negative posts just because your husband is White. Have you found that the AA sites that you go to are generally against IR couplings? I know Yellowworld is'nt as bad as some of the other sites out there but still you never know?

nope! for the most part, i don't have any complaints. i don't make a big deal out of it, and they don't make a big deal out of it. :)

yw.org has been pretty good about that sort of thing with me. if they weren't, i wouldn't still be here.

hey... how did you know it was me in the right side of the avatar? :unsure:

[nonamerasian]

Martial artists are generally viewed as sexy by women even if the media has been portraying Asian martial artists as sexless.

In my opinion, that's true.

[applehead]

Oh, you know right? It was just a lucky guess -- it could either have been right or wrong or 50/50. I guess I struck gold.

yeah right.
TROLL!!

[SunWuKong]

P.S - I hope you have'nt been a victim of negative posts just because your husband is White. Have you found that the AA sites that you go to are generally against IR couplings? I know Yellowworld is'nt as bad as some of the other sites out there but still you never know?

other than the random disparaging remarks from certain whiny individuals, YW has had no problem with her interracial relationship.

but just so there's no mistaking here and you understand why some people may not like you very much, it's because you have made some pretty asinine and stereotypical comments:

1) you said you are very open-minded. that's why you only date Asian girls. sorry, we've all heard this line from Asiaphiles before, and no you're not open-minded for dating Asian girls only.

2) you have generalised all Asian girls to have one personality-type, and it is not only a generalisation, it is a stereotype. you said you like Asian girls because they're shy.

3) you have also stated that you are interested in Asian American issues but then later commented that Asian girls are the only reason a non-Asian person would register on Asian sites.

give me some reasons for me to believe that you're not a troll. because i haven't been able to see it any other way.

[deez nuts]

mebbe he meant shy the person.

wooooooooo stalker.

[Fireblade]

Meh... girls say that I'm sexy all the time.
I don't believe them though.

Cuz like my signature says... I'm FUGLY to the core.

[mr. x]

Just Some Guy, u really are coming off as a Thai Sex Tourist, talk about something else please, other then asian women and how much they please your eyes

just a tip on how NOT to get banned (ive seen it happen)

[ChairmanMah]

go home.

[shy]

f you as an AM stated that alot of White women had big assess and big boobs I would'nt take offence to that.

in all honestly, i think you SHOULD be offended if some AM said that.

stereotypes are not cool, man. regardless of the woman's race.

[mr. x]

mr x. i think i will heed your advice and talk about something else. i don't see how i can be banned for this, hoever, but i'll try to tone it down.

Irezumi Kiss is supposedly black, but nobody bothers him. he mentioned getting it on with a girl once but after that he talks about other stuff

[SunWuKong]

1) you said you are very open-minded. that's why you only date Asian girls. sorry, we've all heard this line from Asiaphiles before, and no you're not open-minded for dating Asian girls only.

2) you have generalised all Asian girls to have one personality-type, and it is not only a generalisation, it is a stereotype. you said you like Asian girls because they're shy.

3) you have also stated that you are interested in Asian American issues but then later commented that Asian girls are the only reason a non-Asian person would register on Asian sites.

give me some reasons for me to believe that you're not a troll. because i haven't been able to see it any other way.

1)Yes, I am open-minded and I do like, or should I say prefer, Asian girls. However, if you look at the Miss World thread I did pick Miss's Italy and Hungary as my favourites and though you may see me as an Asiaphile I guess I' not a fully blown one yet, am I?

2)I stated that from my generalization of meeting many Asian women 80-90% were on the shy side. Is that a bad thing? If you as an AM stated that alot of White women had big assess and big boobs I would'nt take offence to that.

3) Well, that comment was different from mine - I believed I was being honest while others, WM/BM/HM's may not be so truthful.


1) preferring Asian girls doesn't mean you're open-minded. it only means you prefer Asian girls. for what reason? i don't know. but since you like them because they're shy, my suspicion is that you're buying into Asian female stereotypes.

2) oh did you have a shyness meter or would you care to explain why nobody else on this site will say that 80% to 90% of the Asian women they've met are shy. it's all relative. call them shy if you will, but that's exactly what makes you Asiaphilic, the fact that you feel that they are shy.

3) well, aren't you special. you just insulted all the non-Asian male members here.


hell, why am i feeding the troll.

[nonamerasian]

hmmm, perhaps

martial arts may correlate with power, which I think may imply attractive thus implying sexy.

I think it is because martial artists tend to have nice bodies and nice bodies equal sexy.

[Proud_Jook_Sing]

I think it is because martial artists tend to have nice bodies and nice bodies equal sexy.
LOL, it would take a woman to get it right. ;)

Also, like good dancers, they make sexy moves with their bodies.

[Proud_Jook_Sing]

i disagree with you on martial artisits being sexy. most women don't have romantic images for jet li and others. i think for ma's to be sexy then they need to have romance on screen otherwise women, regardless of race, would'nt identify ma's with romance.
Like I said, it would take a woman to get it right. LOL

[Fireblade]

i disagree with you on martial artisits being sexy. most women don't have romantic images for jet li and others. i think for ma's to be sexy then they need to have romance on screen otherwise women, regardless of race, would'nt identify ma's with romance.

I think Martial Artists with rock hard bodies will get woman, regardless. There was a special PBS program on Shaolin Monks outside of China, and I think two or three of them hooked up with wives (i think all of the wives were white too). In any case, if you look halfway decent and have a nice bod, you can get woman... granted if you have a nice personality to boot.

*looks at himself*

I guess I better start working out and stop acting like an asshole.

[shy]

i disagree with you on martial artisits being sexy. most women don't have romantic images for jet li and others. i think for ma's to be sexy then they need to have romance on screen otherwise women, regardless of race, would'nt identify ma's with romance.

oh man.. i TOTALLY disagree! there doesn't need there to be romance for women to identify with a man as being sexy.

jet li... w/out romance... is sexy to me.

and damn... kevin spacey in 'the negotiator'? HOOOOOT! honestly... he can totally negatiate me anytime. :D

really...

carefull of how you talk about women. not all are that one dimensional to need 'romance' in order to make a man on the screen be deemed as sexy.

[amietron]

Irezumi Kiss is supposedly black, but nobody bothers him. he mentioned getting it on with a girl once but after that he talks about other stuff
yeah. we don't think of him as a black guy who only dates asian chicks. i don't even know his dating preference. he functions as a regular member and posts about things that don't solely revolve around relationships and sex with asian girls. see HERE (http://forums.yellowworld.org/showthread.php?p=184196#post184196)!

[shy]

i guess to each his own. however, i still stick by that for ma's to be seen as truly sex symbols then they need romance on screen. just look at all girly mags and see if any contains ma's (maybe) however, brad pitt, george clooney are and i doubt if they would be sex sybols unless they got romance.

hmm... so you don't think your previous post was a little on the generalizing side with women?

come on man... i deem myself as a pretty equal and intelligent woman. and though i'm sure you didn't intend to insult me, i do find that making women seem so one-dimensional IS insulting.

catch my drift?

btw, brad pitt looks too pretty.

hell, i would rather bed his wife, jennifer anisten!

[Proud_Jook_Sing]

just look at all girly mags and see if any contains ma's (maybe) however, brad pitt, george clooney are and i doubt if they would be sex sybols unless they got romance.
Girly mags contain pics of naked women.

[shy]

are you always this uptight? no i did'nt intend to insult you, but i still think that if actors don't get romance on screen then they will not be real sex symbols. do you agree or don't you? what makes you think jason scott lee made such an impact as an aa male, and not jackie chan or jet li initially?

haha! okay, is this morientes coming back as another shit-disturbin' troll? this is too funny...

yes... morientes... the one who was sweet with a pretty asian (even tried to flirt with her using pm's) and then would freak out just because she had an oppinion that stood against him.

no. i'm not being uptight. :) i'm just saying that in this day and age, it's a little risky to stereotype either gender. and i don't think that me expressing my honest oppinion makes me uptight. in fact, i've been a lot more patient then the other people here you've already pissed off. right? so why all of the sudden attack me? you weren't as forcefull with SWK. but then again, he's a guy.

but to answer you, i do not agree with you. unless you are talking about teenieboppers but that's a whole 'nother subculture, right? dude, i'm almost 31 years old, married and about to squeeze out a baby. i think i'm far beyond needing such shallow 'requirements' in order to find a guy sexy. regardless of his race.

and i'm quite competent is speaking for my girlfriends who are around the same age as me.

and btw, i think jason scott lee is too pretty for me too. jackie chan... he's had romantic roles before too and no, i dont' find him sexy because he's kind of goofy.

[moJo]

are you always this uptight?

From this statement alone, you can't possibly have a gf. Most chicks would f'in bitchslap you for saying something like that. Oh, wait...your asian gf is a shy one. Whoops, never mind, then.

[ChinaLama]

Really? Like Cosmopolitan, Vogue, Marie Claire?

as in the "girly magazine" quoted in the song "My Angel is a Centerfold."

[shy]

Really? Like Cosmopolitan, Vogue, Marie Claire?

girly mags don't really represent 'real women' though. not to say that real women can't appreciate lookers on such magazines.

but yeah... such mags do have a lot of naked women. which is a good thing. i love looking at those photo's. more then i would like to look at brad pitt.

george clooney is okay, but i found l liked him more after he starred in 'ocean's 11' - kick as script there!

[Proud_Jook_Sing]

try to make a fool out of me though.
I think you're doing quite a good job of doing that all by yourself.

LOL, he still doesn't know what girly magazines are and there is no way you have a girlfriend.

[shy]

How you can say that I am Morientes is beyond me. Nice, but rather stupid, try to make a fool out of me though.

ahh! so you know Morientes? well, i was just laughing because whenever i challenged morientes, he would get all flustered and call me 'uptight' and would never truly answer the questions i challenged him with.

it was frustrating but in hindsight very funny. i didn't mean to make a fool out of you though.

plus, you're so new here. but if you do know who morientes was and followed some of the dialogue that eventually got him snipped, you would know to be a bit more carefull with the way you word your posts. right?

About 31 yr old women, I disagree - If you look at Vogue, Cosmo and others a common them always arie - sexy 'leading' men on screen. How can you say romance on screen is "shallow"?

i don't think it's shallow per say to have romance... no. because it's not. i'm just saying that they way you phrased everything, made women seem one-dimensional and shallow.

as you can see, i'm not big on generalizations. whether it be with race or gender. that's all. :)

[shy]

i'm still baffled at why Just_Another_Guy is getting THAT defensive with what i've been saying, and yet not as ruffled up with everyone else who's been way more to the point???

can some one explain to me why i'm getting more of the attack then anyone else? :confused:

[SunWuKong]

i'm still baffled at why Just_Another_Guy is getting THAT defensive with what i've been saying, and yet not as ruffled up with everyone else who's been way more to the point???

can some one explain to me why i'm getting more of the attack then anyone else? :confused:

you're supposed to be shy and just agree with the white man. i think he's frustrated that you didn't do that.

[amietron]

you're supposed to be shy and just agree with the white man. i think he's frustrated that you didn't do that.
shy, you need to eat more white chocolate (http://forums.yellowworld.org/showthread.php?t=10901&page=1). ;)

[shy]

shy, you need to eat more white chocolate (http://forums.yellowworld.org/showthread.php?t=10901&page=1). ;)

hell.. i love ALL chocolates! :D

/shy skips off and goes to the white chocolate thread/

[ChinaLama]

I think you're doing quite a good job of doing that all by yourself.

LOL, he still doesn't know what girly magazines are and there is no way you have a girlfriend.

maybe it's just an 80s term, ya old fart. ;)

[nonamerasian]

i disagree with you on martial artisits being sexy. most women don't have romantic images for jet li and others. i think for ma's to be sexy then they need to have romance on screen otherwise women, regardless of race, would'nt identify ma's with romance.

After you are sexually attracted to men, maybe then your opinion on whether martial artists' bodies are sexy could be taking a bit more seriously.

After you form a punani, then what you say on women's ability of identifying what with who will have credence.

[applehead]

i'm still baffled at why Just_Another_Guy is getting THAT defensive with what i've been saying, and yet not as ruffled up with everyone else who's been way more to the point???

can some one explain to me why i'm getting more of the attack then anyone else? :confused:

that's 'cause he's morientes.

[achtungbaby]

How you can say that I am Morientes is beyond me.You both have the same IP addresses.

[deez nuts]

oh snap

**dunn, dunn, dunn**

[achtungbaby]

I've going over my server logs now to trace the proxy address that Morientes, Mr Z, LL Cool J, Just Some Guy and a few others coincidentally use to determine their origin. If I find out they are, I'm deleting all of their posts/threads.

[deez nuts]

hey you're right they are the same IP's

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Just_Some_Guy is Morientes? Can't say I'm surprised. Keep up the training sport, say hi to Badass Ortiz for me :laugh:

[Tao]

Just_Some_Guy is Morientes? Can't say I'm surprised. Loser :laugh:
man, i seriously feel sorry for the guy.....this is just way too pathetic to stomach

JSG how do you live with yourself? get a life, do some community service or something....live a life man!

[applehead]

yeah. it is a bit disturbing...

[Napoleon Chynamite]

man, i seriously feel sorry for the guy.....this is just way too pathetic to stomach

JSG how do you live with yourself? get a life, do some community service or something....live a life man!

Yes dickless men do invoke at least a portion of my sympathy. But for some reason I just feel like laughing in this case. :boldred: :laugh:

[Napoleon Chynamite]

From this statement alone, you can't possibly have a gf. Most chicks would f'in bitchslap you for saying something like that. Oh, wait...your asian gf is a shy one. Whoops, never mind, then.

Ya, she might be obedient and not give you much lip but dude I'd watch out cause they kinda slowly deflate over time, haha

K1 Pryde! :p *thumbs up*

[Deadpool]

Martial artists are generally viewed as sexy by women even if the media has been portraying Asian martial artists as sexless.
Really? Damn. If I was doing Martial Arts for the sole purpose of trying to score I would have quit a long long time ago. :(

[Chris]

damn Shy with her woman intution ;)

[Napoleon Chynamite]

Really? Damn. If I was doing Martial Arts for the sole purpose of trying to score I would have quit a long long time ago. :(

Many people may start learning martial arts with the intention of trying to score, but what keeps them in martial arts is often not the same as what gets them in the door of their first school or training session in the first place. ^^

[Napoleon Chynamite]

damn Shy with her woman intution ;)

woman nuthin. how about my intuition that said that Morientes was pig shit like 3 years before people started to suspect anything?

j/k shy i luv you

...ps so much coffee this afternoon

[Tao]

damn Shy with her woman intution ;)
yeah for real, gotta give her props for picking that up, i'd never have guessed

[Chris]

shit. Morientes and LL are the same IP LOL

[nonamerasian]

I've going over my server logs now to trace the proxy address that Morientes, Mr Z, LL Cool J, Just Some Guy and a few others coincidentally use to determine their origin. If I find out they are, I'm deleting all of their posts/threads.

After deleting their posts, won't all responses to them look out of place?

[John0101]

why not just ban his IP? Anyways I kinda of remembered Morientes, why did everybody hate him?

[SunWuKong]

After deleting their posts, won't all responses to them look out of place?

well, yes.

i guess we'll just have to close this thread.

so sad.