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yuuteya

03-14-2005, 01:47 AM

as a guy have you ever experienced being sexually harrassed at work or school from women? have you had a problem with it? do you ever tell others youve been sexually harrassed?

in the past when i was 1st year, i had a strange 2nd year classmate at school bother me but i just ignored her and it stopped, and no teachers ever tried anything they are usually professional. but we heard a rumor one guy 3rd year was seeing his home room teacher, she was really sexy so we were suspicious.

recently i have been apporoached by 2 women bosses at a part time job, but i usually laughed it off and played dumb and they stop and move to another guy, and it doesnt become a problem.

how about you guys, anything happned?

thaite

03-14-2005, 10:02 AM

I wish!

deez nuts

03-14-2005, 10:04 AM

yes. it only took about 2 inches and about 20 seconds for it to be all over.

lethal

03-14-2005, 10:49 AM

Does stalking by ex's count?

Meki

03-14-2005, 10:57 AM

I wish!

Ok Starting from now, I'm sexually harassing you... :tongue:

A.R.A.M.

03-14-2005, 11:16 AM

My one experience with possible sexual harrassment was when I was in high school. My first boss, who was in her mid-twenties, invited me to her house to watch a movie, which turned out to be erotic, at least from a woman's point of view. I didn't think it was erotic at all. She kept on raving about how sexy the movie was and how turned on she was after watching it. When I told her I didn't see what was so hot about the movie, she took my hand and began to suck my fingers. I asked her what she was doing, and she told me she was trying to turn me on. When I declined the invitation for more, she whipped out a Playgirl magazine and tried to show me naked pictures of Keannu Reeves, pointing out how big his cock was. I was a little disturbed, but not so shaken that I felt that I couldn't continue working for her. The next day, everything was normal at work.

YuheiCarreau

03-14-2005, 12:34 PM

Banana

03-14-2005, 12:35 PM

^haha

She must have been ugly. :rolleyes:

Hiroshi2

03-14-2005, 01:13 PM

There's this 27-year-old woman in my neighborhood who "harrasses" me, squeezing my butt, hugging me, etc. But it's cool cause she got big titties.

asvenus

03-14-2005, 01:48 PM

There's this 27-year-old woman in my neighborhood who "harrasses" me, squeezing my butt, hugging me, etc. But it's cool cause she got big titties.
the question is have you got a big butt?? :biggrin: *squeezes*

haplesshobo

03-14-2005, 04:29 PM

i don't think women are wired the same way men are so what they do isn't the same as the sexual harrasment men do.

for example, i had a college classmate that used to slap my butt a couple of times. there wasn't anything sexual about it.

and, i had another friend who used to tease me, but it was all fun and games. when i made fun of her face, she replied it was because she had a big jaw which was good because it meant she could stuff more things into her mouth. hint. hint.

but, the point is that if guys were to do the same thing, it would be sexual harrasment. even if there was the same joviality to it, there would still be an underlying desire for sex. i don't think its necessairly true when women do it, although there will be exceptions.

by the way, i'm surpised keanu reeves would have ever appeared in playgirl, doing full frontal.

nola

03-14-2005, 05:17 PM

Which issue?

yuuteya

03-14-2005, 10:43 PM

Does stalking by ex's count?

theres another thread on women stalkers that you should read.

this thread of sexual harrassment by women is not as dangerous or intensive as the stalkers. but still it is a problem because it takes place in the work or school and this can distrupt the professional environment and disrupt the students education, or the workers productivity.

My one experience with possible sexual harrassment was when I was in high school. My first boss, who was in her mid-twenties, invited me to her house to watch a movie, which turned out to be erotic, at least from a woman's point of view. I didn't think it was erotic at all. She kept on raving about how sexy the movie was and how turned on she was after watching it. When I told her I didn't see what was so hot about the movie, she took my hand and began to suck my fingers. I asked her what she was doing, and she told me she was trying to turn me on. When I declined the invitation for more, she whipped out a Playgirl magazine and tried to show me naked pictures of Keannu Reeves, pointing out how big his cock was. I was a little disturbed, but not so shaken that I felt that I couldn't continue working for her. The next day, everything was normal at work.

sounds like she was just trying to apporoach you, though maybe a bit too directly. did she ever say she was intersted in you before this happened? but it seemed everything was normal at work so it was good?

There's this 27-year-old woman in my neighborhood who "harrasses" me, squeezing my butt, hugging me, etc. But it's cool cause she got big titties. nice. then you should 'harrass' her in return...

i don't think women are wired the same way men are so what they do isn't the same as the sexual harrasment men do.

for example, i had a college classmate that used to slap my butt a couple of times. there wasn't anything sexual about it.

and, i had another friend who used to tease me, but it was all fun and games. when i made fun of her face, she replied it was because she had a big jaw which was good because it meant she could stuff more things into her mouth. hint. hint.

but, the point is that if guys were to do the same thing, it would be sexual harrasment. even if there was the same joviality to it, there would still be an underlying desire for sex. i don't think its necessairly true when women do it, although there will be exceptions.

by the way, i'm surpised keanu reeves would have ever appeared in playgirl, doing full frontal.
arent women also able to be equally as direct with their sexual expressions as men? do you mean that women are more docile? i think women can be just the same as men, no?

Hiroshi2

03-15-2005, 11:47 AM

nice. then you should 'harrass' her in return...

I want to, but what would mama say.

A.R.A.M.

03-15-2005, 12:44 PM

by the way, i'm surpised keanu reeves would have ever appeared in playgirl, doing full frontal.

This happened to me a long, long time ago. And I believe the issue was old even then. It was before Keanu was really famous. The magazine may have come out around the time of Bill and Ted, though I'm not really sure. The idea of Keanu naked got Nola's attention, so maybe she has the inclination to track it down for those who are curious.

pikachupacabra

03-15-2005, 04:44 PM

can anyone just do a google search? I'm at work, and finding full frontal pics of keanu, even in a place like SF, doesn't seem advantageous to climbing the corporate ladder.

Meki

03-15-2005, 04:48 PM

can anyone just do a google search? I'm at work, and finding full frontal pics of keanu, even in a place like SF, doesn't seem advantageous to climbing the corporate ladder.

Keith again? Always wanting to see naked men... :tongue:

pikachupacabra

03-15-2005, 04:52 PM

Well, when in rome, right? when in the bay area...

golden_buns

03-15-2005, 05:07 PM

When men get sexually harrased by women, group therapy consists of beers and high fives

haplesshobo

03-16-2005, 12:05 AM

3 possible reasons there would be a picture of full frontal keanu reeves floating about:
1) movie role
2) papparzi photograph of him
3) he posed for a picture showing full frontal

reason number one isn't unreasonable since other male stars have done this. but, i looked up a movie database, and the only thing reeves has shown is his ass

reason number two also happened to brad pitt when he was with gweneth paltrow. that's the only reason i would even know cause it involved a naked paltrow. but, if this was that long ago, i don't think you'd have papprazie following keanu reeves and snapping a picture of him

reason number three doesn't seem realistic either. he might have done some beefcake pictures, but i just can't imagine a actor trying to break out doing a picture like that.

lethal

03-16-2005, 12:32 AM

Alright...let's drop the Keanu talk and stick to the thread topic. If you want to discuss guys in Playgirl, start a new thread.

thaite

03-16-2005, 01:38 PM

Ok Starting from now, I'm sexually harassing you... :tongue:

BRING IT ON, BEBBEH!!!

Meki

03-16-2005, 03:40 PM

BRING IT ON, BEBBEH!!!

post pics... clothing optional...

(this should make Keith happy too... :biggrin: )

:tongue:

thaite

03-16-2005, 05:46 PM

I think the mods would finally kick me out if I did that.

golden_buns

03-16-2005, 06:03 PM

I think the mods would finally kick me out if I did that.
Bullshit!

post em', and you better be wearing red thongs

pikachupacabra

03-16-2005, 11:30 PM

Man even though everyone seems to think i'm into men when I actually looooove them double-X chromosomes, thaite needs to put on the edible thongs and get BUSY

sageb1

04-19-2005, 12:20 AM

damn. i never got sexually harrassed.

i think the closest was when some ex-whore (who had a great body) squatted in front of me on the walk leading to the place we lived at.

dumb ol' me never looked for her panties. it just isn't right to.

ahsingjai

04-19-2005, 12:57 AM

When men get sexually harrased by women, group therapy consists of beers and high fives

rofl. I have no problem with harassment by women. Anyone get raped by a female?

A.R.A.M.

04-24-2005, 11:31 AM

rofl. I have no problem with harassment by women. Anyone get raped by a female?

Looking for a 12-inch strap-on in the ass, are ya?

ahsingjai

04-24-2005, 02:00 PM

Looking for a 12-inch strap-on in the ass, are ya?

I retract my statement.

relus

04-24-2005, 02:09 PM

Being sexually harrassed by women..? That would be a rare event for most guys... so you must probably be a stud to receive that kind of attention :p

Shogun Empress

04-29-2005, 12:46 PM

i don't think its necessairly true when women do it, although there will be exceptions.
If you think you're being sexually harassed by a woman 90% of the time there IS an underlying desire. See no evil, hear no evil. Remain blind my friend. It's safer.

hooligan

04-29-2005, 04:32 PM

Has StunninglyAsian seen this thread?

kimpossible

04-29-2005, 05:00 PM

Has StunninglyAsian seen this thread?

I don't see a trail of posts analyzing every permutation, so I guess not.

golden_buns

04-29-2005, 05:31 PM

I don't see a trail of posts analyzing every permutation, so I guess not.
LOL

Dirty Soap

06-12-2005, 10:35 AM

how about you guys, anything happned?Girls used to grab my crotch and butt in high school. It's kind of flattering, embarassing, and uncomfortable at the same time.

CBC guy

06-21-2006, 04:50 PM

I actually wish a woman would "harrass" me, as long as she's hot. :biggrin:

I wish, man, I wish. No such luck here. :frown:

Deadpool

06-21-2006, 07:10 PM

Where? Here in Vancity?
You forgot theres a rule here that all women are not permitted to smile or make eye contact.

Powerful T

06-21-2006, 09:13 PM

Holy old thread, batman!

I wish someone female would sexually harass me, too.

光Tetra

06-30-2006, 08:29 AM

Think about it if you got raped by a girl, would you complain?

bluemonq

06-30-2006, 11:26 PM

Think about it if you got raped by a girl, would you complain?
i reiterate A.R.A.M.'s statment:
Looking for a 12-inch strap-on in the ass, are ya?

Yumika

07-06-2006, 01:32 AM

Yeah, you don't mind being harrassed by a girl until you come across en ugly one! :p

TB4000

07-06-2006, 07:42 AM

Yeah, you don't mind being harrassed by a girl until you come across en ugly one! :p
But do girls feel the same way if an attractive guy rapes them? I think what it boils down to is, attractive people don't have to rape, as they can get sex without having to force it on anyone. Though there are exceptions to the rule.

Powerful T

07-07-2006, 07:40 AM

i reiterate A.R.A.M.'s statment:

Yeah, but suppose I *like* that?

bluemonq

07-07-2006, 01:50 PM

then in that case, your answer to the question is "yes" and we no longer have a problem. geez, do i have to do all the thinking here?

mr. x

07-07-2006, 05:52 PM

But do girls feel the same way if an attractive guy rapes them? I think what it boils down to is, attractive people don't have to rape, as they can get sex without having to force it on anyone. Though there are exceptions to the rule.
unfortunately it is a double standard. If for reason or other a guy gets raped by a not-too-shabby looking girl he won't be so distraught about it, unless there's AIDS involved

Powerful T

07-08-2006, 02:49 AM

I'd hit it. I'd hit it twice. I'd hit it like the fist of an angry goddess. I'd hit it like the last ball of the game. I'd hit it like yesterday was only a memory and tomorrow never came. I'd hit it so hard a deaf man on Europa would hear it. I'd hit it like designers actually figured out what an attractive man looks like and then put one in a video game. That's how hard I'd hit it.

mrazntre

07-13-2006, 09:43 PM

Once back in college, I was at Kaiser waiting for my eye appt. and across from me sat this older lady (grandma like), she kept staring at me. I think she was caucasian or hispanic, I can't remember. Staring, staring, staring. I was all like, oh what the hell did I do to this woman?

so after 10 minutes I can't keep a straight face anymore and I start busting out laughing. I smile at the grandma and she says something like "i have a granddaughter... yada yada yada" and then she says, "i'm sorry for staring, but you're a very attractive young man."

major, major shrinkage....

That's the first and only time I've ever approached feeling sexually harrassed by a woman, a grandma at that!

onlooker

10-02-2006, 08:49 PM

Hello, first time poster here.

I was in Germany visiting a friend, and I got involved with this attractive club waitress, who basically tried to use sex to make me commit to a long term relationship leading to marriage.

mr. x

10-05-2006, 03:28 AM