the problem is...

[SunWuKong]

there's no doubt about it...

there's this good looking girl that likes to study by herself at the bookstore that i go hang out at 3 to 5 times a week (that's what happens when you're an umemployed bookworm). and today i caught her again catching a passing glance at me.

the problem is...

more than once i've seen this 200 pounds of muscles of a guy pick her up from that bookstore.

[deez nuts]

So go talk to her. You're gonna regret it later MK. Maybe it's her brother?

[karizma]

>> hehe that chick sounds like me...when i dont goto school im at a bookstore with my nose stuck in a book....

>> i say you make small talk with her...if it turns out that mr. muscle is her man at least youll gaina friend...if he isnt hey whoopee you opened a doorway to a relationship?

[deez nuts]

yah, muscleman ain't gonna get belligerent on you because you talking to his girlfriend. Just compliment him and say you're girlfriend is really fly, you're a lucky guy. If he is violent, send him my way and i'll kick his ass for you and then you can ask his girl out for dinner at sizzlers/red lobsters and a movie heh heh.

I'm flattered when some guy tries to pick up my girl <shrug>.

edit: shall we start a thread similar to arex's for you too? hehe



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[kimpossible]

Whaddya think MK? Can I start another one? Alex has been in the limelight long enough.

[Chris]

*Adding one more thing in my article* Men need to be more confident. :)

[SunWuKong]

actually i'm pretty certain mr. muscles is her boyfriend. carrying her things and stuff like that.

and no need to start a thread for me. it's no biggie. women are nowhere near the top of my priorities at the moment.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 5 2002, 08:57 PM
actually i'm pretty certain mr. muscles is her boyfriend. carrying her things and stuff like that.

and no need to start a thread for me. it's no biggie. women are nowhere near the top of my priorities at the moment.
perhaps she is unhappy with mr. muscles? Up to you to find out!

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 5 2002, 09:06 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 5 2002, 08:57 PM
actually i'm pretty certain mr. muscles is her boyfriend. &nbsp;carrying her things and stuff like that.

and no need to start a thread for me. &nbsp;it's no biggie. &nbsp;women are nowhere near the top of my priorities at the moment.
perhaps she is unhappy with mr. muscles? Up to you to find out!
nope. it doesn't matter to me. ball is in her court.

[wylin]

nothing guns and hello hapa guns cant fix!

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by wylin@Sep 5 2002, 06:22 PM
nothing guns and hello hapa guns cant fix!
Yup. I'm an NRA nut's dream girl.

[artsfartsyjanet]

you should start a thread for me "the hopeless romantic" :wub: jk



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[amietron]

ask her a question about the book she's reading. see if she wants to have coffee with you. umm, tell her that she looks familiar.. "i think we graduated from high school together."

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by amietron@Sep 6 2002, 02:18 PM
ask her a question about the book she's reading. see if she wants to have coffee with you. umm, tell her that she looks familiar.. "i think we graduated from high school together."
how about this:

"if we were squirrels, can i bust a nut in your hole?"

[deez nuts]

or if I told you that you had a nice body, would you hold it against me?

or legs is the word of the day, let's go back to my place and spread the word!

[SunWuKong]

hmmm... she did it again today.

[deez nuts]

lock and load ya studmiffin ya.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 25 2002, 09:54 PM
lock and load ya studmiffin ya.
hmmm i really don't even feel like going on a date until i find a damn job though.

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 25 2002, 07:15 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 25 2002, 09:54 PM
lock and load ya studmiffin ya.
hmmm i really don't even feel like going on a date until i find a damn job though.
What do you need? A written invitation?

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 25 2002, 10:15 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 25 2002, 09:54 PM
lock and load ya studmiffin ya.
hmmm i really don't even feel like going on a date until i find a damn job though.
I was telling Karizma and AB:

You gotta have a short term goal and a long term goal

short term: ask her out
long term: get a job and become a lawyer.



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[SunWuKong]

hmm... i feel weird enough talking to my (real-live) friends about my continuous state of unemployment... not sure i want to have to talk about that with a date. and besides, the money i would have to spend on a date could last me a few weeks of subsistence.

or maybe i'm just making excuses for myself.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 25 2002, 10:24 PM
hmm... i feel weird enough talking to my (real-live) friends about my continuous state of unemployment... not sure i want to have to talk about that with a date. and besides, the money i would have to spend on a date could last me a few weeks of subsistence.

or maybe i'm just making excuses for myself.
Yes, you are. You like her, right? Go out on one date, it's not gonna hurt or break your bank account. And then go from there.

Daaaaaaym McD's don't cost that much! haha j/k.

Having a gf, might not hinder your plans for employment or your future in law school, it might motivate you even more, ever look at it that way?



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[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 25 2002, 10:27 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 25 2002, 10:24 PM
hmm... i feel weird enough talking to my (real-live) friends about my continuous state of unemployment... not sure i want to have to talk about that with a date. and besides, the money i would have to spend on a date could last me a few weeks of subsistence.

or maybe i'm just making excuses for myself.
Yes, you are. You like her, right? Go out on one date, it's not gonna hurt or break your bank account. And then go from there.

Daaaaaaym McD's don't cost that much! haha j/k.
i don't even know her, how can i like her? i just know that she looks pretty good. and that she probably has a boyfriend. (read first post of this thread).

[thaite]

So he's 200 pounds of muscle, so what? Dude, you're Asian -- of course you know kung fu!

"With my right hand I can break your nose. With my left foot I can kick off your head. Take a good look at my face... I'm an Oriental!"

:ph34r:

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by buoywonder@Sep 25 2002, 10:33 PM
So he's 200 pounds of muscle, so what? Dude, you're Asian -- of course you know kung fu!

"With my right hand I can break your nose. With my left foot I can kick off your head. Take a good look at my face... I'm an Oriental!"

:ph34r:
not to mention the Finger of Death! hahhah!
no it's not that he's 200 pounds, it's that he exists as her boyfriend.


edit: didn't mention this - he's asian too



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[kimpossible]

MK, had I known you while I was down there I would have fixed this situation personally.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 25 2002, 10:31 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 25 2002, 10:27 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 25 2002, 10:24 PM
hmm... i feel weird enough talking to my (real-live) friends about my continuous state of unemployment... not sure i want to have to talk about that with a date. and besides, the money i would have to spend on a date could last me a few weeks of subsistence.

or maybe i'm just making excuses for myself.
Yes, you are. You like her, right? Go out on one date, it's not gonna hurt or break your bank account. And then go from there.

Daaaaaaym McD's don't cost that much! haha j/k.
i don't even know her, how can i like her? i just know that she looks pretty good. and that she probably has a boyfriend. (read first post of this thread).
Like for me is thinking she is pretty. I prolly have a lower threshold of discernment than you. As in if she's pretty, I like what I see, therefore I like her, but that's me.

Anyhooo, back your matter at hand. Have you talked to her? Perhaps maybe talk to her, first and then decide? Rather than brush the whole thing off? And I know there's that buff dude, but talking is harmless, unless buff dude is cycling sauce and roid raging, then just kick him de nutz! (><).

Balls in your court man, it's up to you. But, I'm here for ya! <huggles>.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 25 2002, 10:36 PM
MK, had I known you while I was down there I would have fixed this situation personally.
what situation? my unemployment or my impoverished bank account?

but honestly, this isn't exactly something that i'm anguishing over. i've got way more important things on my mind at the moment. just... kind of curious that's all.



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[kimpossible]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 25 2002, 07:39 PM


but honestly, this isn't exactly something that i'm anguishing over. i've got way more important things on my mind at the moment. just... kind of curious that's all.
It's enough on your mind to post about it.

:P

I would have asked her for you. So you wouldn't have to do this mindreading stuff. If only she were like a baboon in estress. You could tell then.

[deez nuts]

HH has a point.

I would ask for you too, if I was there! I can break the ice really well.

[SunWuKong]

no, the problem isn't really in asking her... it's whether or not i want to bother asking her at all.

[Arex]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 25 2002, 08:55 PM
no, the problem isn't really in asking her... it's whether or not i want to bother asking her at all.
Of course you want to bother asking her! Otherwise this thread wouldn't even exist! You sound like me when I point out girls at clubs, subconciously seeking encouragement from the homies.

It couldn't hurt to just say "hello, how're you doing" and go from there. You're assuming she has a boyfriend already so the worst that happens is she affirms your suspicion and you move on.

Even if you aren't anguishing over it, curiousity should be enough of a reason to make the attempt. Right?

Now if only I followed my own advice more often.=P

GO MONKEY GO!! GO MONKEY GO!!

Alex

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Arex@Sep 26 2002, 01:35 AM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 25 2002, 08:55 PM
no, the problem isn't really in asking her... &nbsp;it's whether or not i want to bother asking her at all.
Of course you want to bother asking her! Otherwise this thread wouldn't even exist! You sound like me when I point out girls at clubs, subconciously seeking encouragement from the homies.

It couldn't hurt to just say "hello, how're you doing" and go from there. You're assuming she has a boyfriend already so the worst that happens is she affirms your suspicion and you move on.

Even if you aren't anguishing over it, curiousity should be enough of a reason to make the attempt. Right?

Now if only I followed my own advice more often.=P

GO MONKEY GO!! GO MONKEY GO!!

Alex
eh... ok after i'm done waiting for this particular thing i'm working on (not women related), i'll think more about it. i'm still not so cool with telling a girl that i'm unemployed. and it would be even worse if she asks how long.

[Craig]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 26 2002, 06:39 AM

eh... &nbsp;ok after i'm done waiting for this particular thing i'm working on (not women related), i'll think more about it. &nbsp;i'm still not so cool with telling a girl that i'm unemployed. &nbsp;and it would be even worse if she asks how long.

Maybe she's unemployed also considering she's at the bookstore so often.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Craig@Sep 26 2002, 02:23 AM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 26 2002, 06:39 AM

eh... ok after i'm done waiting for this particular thing i'm working on (not women related), i'll think more about it. i'm still not so cool with telling a girl that i'm unemployed. and it would be even worse if she asks how long.

Maybe she's unemployed also considering she's at the bookstore so often.
well she's only there in the evening. never seen her that during the afternoon.

[amietron]

you're employed. doing what? thinking about your future employment. okay, didn't think you'd buy that one.. maybe she's a student. you could maybe tutor her. dude, i've had crushes on all of my past-tutors. =)

1) 4th year student at Harvard
2) AP chem teacher at SMHS

[SunWuKong]

and again
she has nice eyes