marry me?

[princess]

so what do u think is a good marrying age? i know several people that married at 18 - right outta high school. to me that seems to early. im not gonna marry till at least 25 cuz by that time ill have dated enough to know what i want in a husband. 18 is way too young when u consider that for the first few years u werent interested in guys/girls and then right after that u accused the other sex for having cooties!

[achtungbaby]

I think the mid-twenties is a good age for women to be married.

I'd say early 30s for men, when we have our shit together :D

[princess]

haha rite...so juss when u think u got it together u can walk right into a mid life crisis. :D

[achtungbaby]

[quote:08ee63b477="princess"]haha rite...so juss when u think u got it together u can walk right into a mid life crisis. :D[/quote:08ee63b477]

How depressingly observant of you :D

[thaite]

I still don't feel like getting married.

[sandra]

[quote:264a6e001d="achtungbaby"]I think the mid-twenties is a good age for women to be married.

I'd say early 30s for men, when we have our shit together :D[/quote:264a6e001d]

how if the woman is older than the man?

[sandra]

[quote:9dc369e2a3="buoywonder"]I still don't feel like getting married.[/quote:9dc369e2a3]

don't marry the one you can live with. marry the one you can't live without.

maybe you can live without anybody, in which case, you should not get married.

[princess]

[quote:3fdf4670f0="kasia"][quote:3fdf4670f0="achtungbaby"]I think the mid-twenties is a good age for women to be married.

I'd say early 30s for men, when we have our shit together :D[/quote:3fdf4670f0]

how if the woman is older than the man?[/quote:3fdf4670f0]

i dunno. i'm kinda weird that way. i'm used to the guy being older than the girl. it's a funky standard. i'm used to the guy being older than the girl and bigger (taller, etc) for some reason i think it's weird when it's vice versa. call me strange.

[wylin]

[quote:986a816d8c="princess"][quote:986a816d8c="kasia"][quote:986a816d8c="achtungbaby"]I think the mid-twenties is a good age for women to be married.

I'd say early 30s for men, when we have our shit together :D[/quote:986a816d8c]

how if the woman is older than the man?[/quote:986a816d8c]

i dunno. i'm kinda weird that way. i'm used to the guy being older than the girl. it's a funky standard. i'm used to the guy being older than the girl and bigger (taller, etc) for some reason i think it's weird when it's vice versa. call me strange.[/quote:986a816d8c]

yah thats a societal norm where the man is supperior physically and age wise to the women and he is her protector i think we get that from the womens the mammal-like instinctual drive to find a mate that is good breeding material and will be able to give her young the best chance!

immagine if it were reverse like spiders or insects. Hmm now my wife is also 2-3x larger and after mating eats me via decapitation or like insects i do my buisness then leave and let the women do the rest. Dude immagine if ur wife was like a 2x bigger!

[achtungbaby]

[quote:2983dc3cdc="kasia"]
how if the woman is older than the man?[/quote:2983dc3cdc]

Then the male needs to accelerate the centralization of his shit.

[thaite]

[quote:8dff110097="kasia"][quote:8dff110097="buoywonder"]I still don't feel like getting married.[/quote:8dff110097]

don't marry the one you can live with. marry the one you can't live without.

maybe you can live without anybody, in which case, you should not get married.[/quote:8dff110097]

Hmmmm, maybe I won't.

[princess]

hm well life often throws us unexpected events and people. maybe something will change ur mind and maybe not. i like that saying tho. i think im gonna keep it. =)

[wylin]

[quote:3ba310933a="princess"]hm well life often throws us unexpected events and people. maybe something will change ur mind and maybe not. i like that saying tho. i think im gonna keep it. =)[/quote:3ba310933a]

like pregnancy that sure makes u get married fast

[princess]

ahh thats the worst reason to get married. i meant life could throw some unexpected person. or maybe thats getting too movie-mushy. forgive my corniness.

[wylin]

im just throwin in new discussion ideas ! marriage is ussually part compromise and part nessescity and some romanance in my book. either u feel like ur getting too old or too lonely or just wanna cemment the bricks on the house u built w/ ur relationship theres almost always not i just love u so much mussy stuff...

[ChinaLama]

Depends on how rich and willing to pay your partner is. I mean if a dude can set himself up w/ a chick w/ a fat bank account and he won't ever HAVE to get an education or a job, then he's set. marry her when he's 17, whatever.

But realistically, late or mid 20's or early 30's seem like a good age, like when both ppl can have jobs and are responsible nuff to care for kids.

[artsfartsyjanet]

What a depressing issue. :rolleyes:

[Barbs]

sorry i have to agree this is a depressing issue. but of course, b/c of what happened to you. =( try not to think about it.

as for me, i used to think when i was 18 that i'd be OLD by 25 and ready for marriage. hey guess what? i'm 25 and not any more mature. i don't see myself taking that step for another few years. i hope i'm not jinxing myself but i think maybe late 20s? in our day and age, it's sort of hard to balance a career and family...then again, who am i kidding? i'm not exactly trying to be ms. career-ball-buster either.

[deez nuts]

I don't foresee myself even thinking about marriage in the next 2 years. I'll be 30. I think 30 is a good age. I'll be done with residency by then and more settled in my career, I hope.