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yangbahn50
10-05-2003, 12:47 AM
Which do you folks think is more important to "please" girls?

Is it the lenght of one's penis? Or is it the girth (or thickness) of one's penis?

I heard a thick penis can easily stimulate a girl's g-spot, which leads to "great" orgasms.

The long penis length makes it easy for the penis head to make contact with the cervix, which I heard is just as sensitive as a woman's clitoris.

Oh, and by the way, did any of you guys try penis enlargement pills? How do they work? Do those pills make your penis look like a huge Christmas salami?

What are your folks' opinions?

ism
10-05-2003, 01:05 AM
Concerning the g-spot, it's beyond the upper wall of the vaginal canal, so length and an upward curvature of the penis would probably be most effective in that respect, although you can help by using certain positions.

SunWuKong
10-05-2003, 02:58 AM
Which do you folks think is more important to "please" girls?

Is it the lenght of one's penis? Or is it the girth (or thickness) of one's penis?

I heard a thick penis can easily stimulate a girl's g-spot, which leads to "great" orgasms.

The long penis length makes it easy for the penis head to make contact with the cervix, which I heard is just as sensitive as a woman's clitoris.

Oh, and by the way, did any of you guys try penis enlargement pills? How do they work? Do those pills make your penis look like a huge Christmas salami?

What are your folks' opinions?


for a heterosexual male (i'm assuming), you have a disturbing interest in other guys' penises.

amietron
10-05-2003, 03:33 AM
for a heterosexual male (i'm assuming), you have a disturbing interest in other guys' penises.
maybe he just wants to please women.. or something.

BaiginLong
10-05-2003, 11:11 AM
man this is an ancient discussion on YW
why in the world are we bringing this back up again
pun intended

Green_Circle
10-05-2003, 11:21 AM
I notice that in penis discussions, it's always the guys who participate not so the females(or rarely). That could be one reason this topic always resurfaces because we still don't know why, who, what, where and which the females want. We males just keep on chasing our tails guessing and guessing.

AngryABCGirl
10-05-2003, 12:33 PM
I notice that in penis discussions, it's always the guys who participate not so the females(or rarely). That could be one reason this topic always resurfaces because we still don't know why, who, what, where and which the females want. We males just keep on chasing our tails guessing and guessing.

men are clueless

ChinaLama
10-05-2003, 01:27 PM
choda-boy!

ism
10-05-2003, 03:52 PM
I notice that in penis discussions, it's always the guys who participate not so the females(or rarely). That could be one reason this topic always resurfaces because we still don't know why, who, what, where and which the females want. We males just keep on chasing our tails guessing and guessing.

I think an equal number of women are just as clueless. They're just a bit more discrete about it.

TyroneK(prettypretty)
10-05-2003, 11:34 PM
Men can solve all their size insecurities by being hung like a Sprite can. Now that's girth!

BeTheReds
10-06-2003, 12:47 AM
It's all technique! Technique I tell you.

Use your tongue..

coagulated fat
10-06-2003, 01:05 AM
It's all technique! Technique I tell you.

Use your tongue..
Haha, yes. Listen to the boy.

golden_buns
10-06-2003, 02:24 AM
Oh, and by the way, did any of you guys try penis enlargement pills? How do they work? Do those pills make your penis look like a huge Christmas salami?

What are your folks' opinions?

There's a reputable doctor from Columbia Univ. here in YW who specializes on that matter. :gamer:

I advice you to go to him

BeTheReds
10-06-2003, 02:28 AM
Haha, yes. Listen to the boy.
She speaks with experience! Listen to us both!

golden_buns
10-06-2003, 02:30 AM
She speaks with experience! Listen to us both!

They're both virgins.

Don't listen to them!!

deez nuts
10-06-2003, 09:49 AM
i'm all berries with no twig

yangbahn50
10-06-2003, 11:35 AM
you have a disturbing interest in other guys' penises

Sunwu:

STFU!!!

yangbahn50
10-06-2003, 11:38 AM
There's a reputable doctor from Columbia Univ. here in YW who specializes on that matter

golden:

Who's that 'reputable' doctor? Don't tell me it's "Ask Alice." Lol =)

ChinaLama
10-06-2003, 11:52 AM
golden:

Who's that 'reputable' doctor? Don't tell me it's "Ask Alice." Lol =)

it's CSB the Dr. of Love aka Dr. Buns.

shy
10-06-2003, 12:15 PM
I think an equal number of women are just as clueless. They're just a bit more discrete about it.

well, personally speaking, it's mainly because regardless of size or girth, if the dude can't use it properly, size is then a moot point..

but if you MUST know... speaking as a woman... too little and too big just ain't my fave. that goes for both girth and length. ;) technique though, can conquer all obstacles here..

kimpossible
10-06-2003, 01:07 PM
Speaking from a male perspective, I think that alot of us men are just insecure - we want bigger because we perceive that to be better for women and men, but that's not always true I know.

You know, I've noticed my husband is obsessed with his penis size also. My question as a female to guys that will answer this is how big does it need to be for you guys to make you happy?

lethal
10-06-2003, 01:08 PM
How much is average? Is 6.5 length average?

Speaking from a male perspective, I think that alot of us men are just insecure - we want bigger because we perceive that to be better for women and men, but that's not always true I know.

http://www.sizesurvey.com/result.html

YuheiCarreau
10-06-2003, 04:14 PM
You know, I've noticed my husband is obsessed with his penis size also. My question as a female to guys that will answer this is how big does it need to be for you guys to make you happy?

It's like with women and fatness. Most women have an ideal weight for their height that is about 10 pounds lighter than what most men would say is ideal. Men live in constant fear of being an inch shorter than the ideal penis size (unless they're egotistical, in which case they think they'r an inch longer than every other man in the room...)

BeTheReds
10-06-2003, 06:31 PM
You know, I've noticed my husband is obsessed with his penis size also. My question as a female to guys that will answer this is how big does it need to be for you guys to make you happy?


Bigger than the other penises we see at urinals, public baths or gym showers.

Actually for me, I don't really give a shit so much, cuz it's all about technique.

ChinaLama
10-06-2003, 07:51 PM
You know, I've noticed my husband is obsessed with his penis size also. My question as a female to guys that will answer this is how big does it need to be for you guys to make you happy?


i'm pretty much resigned to the fact that i have a smaller penis than most men, and i probably won't be great with technique, either. but then again i really don' care about how much sexual pleasure i can give to a woman; that's for my friends to worry about.

yangbahn50
10-07-2003, 04:28 AM
You guys don't want your penises to be tooooo thick and long.

Imagine...if your penis looked like a Daikon....your girlfriend's tunnel (virgina) will explode or rupture. That's pain. Oooweeee!

etcj
10-07-2003, 10:55 AM
You guys don't want your penises to be tooooo thick and long.

Imagine...if your penis looked like a Daikon....your girlfriend's tunnel (virgina) will explode or rupture. That's pain. Oooweeee!
Hey, aren't you the one who started this thread?

Well I'm glad you asked the question, but as someone said, it seems that more guys are chiming in than the female YW members. If anything, this seems more like a replication of our penis size discussion in another thread. Speaking from a non-heterosexual perspective, some men just don't know too much about sex between penis and vagina. I know many women (straight or not) who thinks that physical intimacy can involve more than the guy poking the girl over and over and over.

So give up your vanilla sexual techniques and start experimenting with other stuff... of course, I'll leave it up to you. Oh yeah, don't forget to use a condom!

Irezumi Kiss
10-07-2003, 02:17 PM
So give up your vanilla sexual techniques and start experimenting with other stuff...

Speaking of penises and vanilla, did I ever tell you guys about the time this one girlfriend of mine put ice cream on my cock and licked it off?

No?

oh well...nevermind meeh...


:closedeye

applehead
10-07-2003, 02:45 PM
doesn't the cold induce shrinkage?

yangbahn50
10-07-2003, 03:58 PM
So give up your vanilla sexual techniques and start experimenting with other stuff... of course, I'll leave it up to you. Oh yeah, don't forget to use a condom!

Dude:

I was just asking people what their opinions are about penis length VS penis girth.

I know all girls don't give a rat's ass about a long eggplant penis or a salami thick penis.

However, medical studies have shown that thicker penises can touch the g-spot more than a thin penis. Hence the girl will have a "good" orgasm where she squirts rather than contract.

Irezumi Kiss
10-07-2003, 04:48 PM
doesn't the cold induce shrinkage?

At first, you might think so, but the erotic factor of the whole act kept me nice and stiffy.

Plus, it wasn't that large of an amount, just enough to put on the base of my head, and then the sensation of being sucked into her warm mouth was amplified...

really stimulating! Me and that girl, at that time we were experimenting with food and body...we ran through honey, nutella, fudge, etc...it's fun BUT it leaves you very sticky!

ahhh natsukashii college life...

:wub:

kimpossible
10-07-2003, 04:51 PM
Well yangbahn, we who possess a vagina would have to specifically talk about the physics of our vaginas and how we like to be entered, where touched and how it feels good in order to really express what size would be preferable. And even for me... that is way up there on the embarassing scale.

shy
10-08-2003, 09:10 AM
Well yangbahn, we who possess a vagina would have to specifically talk about the physics of our vaginas and how we like to be entered, where touched and how it feels good in order to really express what size would be preferable. And even for me... that is way up there on the embarassing scale.

and to add... most of us don't know the 'exact measurements' of our vagina. and isn't every vagina also different in lenth/girth? :blink:

kimpossible
10-08-2003, 11:18 AM
and to add back to what shy said... some women don't orgasm from vaginal stimulation, only clitoral. so do your tongue push-ups and watch a lot of girl on girl porn. i think there's even a dvd where a porn star 'teaches' cunnilingus. there's my good samaritan sex ed deed for the day.

Irezumi Kiss
10-08-2003, 12:26 PM
and to add... most of us don't know the 'exact measurements' of our vagina. and isn't every vagina also different in lenth/girth? :blink:

You know, Shy, I'm willing to lend myself out as an....err..."oilstick" to, uhh...measure your depth gauge!

oh wait...you're taken already...

curses! foiled again!

:blush:

shy
10-08-2003, 12:34 PM
You know, Shy, I'm willing to lend myself out as an....err..."oilstick" to, uhh...measure your depth gauge!

oh wait...you're taken already...

curses! foiled again!

:blush:

*muah* hugz!!!

shy
10-08-2003, 12:34 PM
Well for me personally I really like my schlong. I think it also depends upon the race of the woman who is your sexual partner.
:confused: :confused: :confused:

deez nuts
10-08-2003, 01:47 PM
Hey I thought that quote above was for me *sigh*


lol

kimpossible
10-08-2003, 01:56 PM
Hey I thought that quote above was for me *sigh*

Can I hug you? Then we can take a walk along the moonlit beach.

Irezumi Kiss
10-08-2003, 02:01 PM
Can I hug you? Then we can take a walk along the moonlit beach.

If it's Coney Island, you'd best watch out for the syringes.

amietron
10-08-2003, 02:03 PM
ahhh natsukashii college life... :wub:
i'm in college...

yangbahn50
10-10-2003, 03:33 AM
Well yangbahn, we who possess a vagina would have to specifically talk about the physics of our vaginas and how we like to be entered, where touched and how it feels good in order to really express what size would be preferable.

Yeah, I did hear about girls' vagina size differing...and how it affects the way they achieve orgasms.

However, it's mainly the guy's penis that stimulates the girls' clitoris or g-spot (g-spots give better orgasms to girls...that's what I've heard).

Girls prefer the way penises enter their tunnel? Wow,...never heard of that. I guess it's a big difference between doggy style and missionary style eh?

tapestrybabe
10-11-2003, 09:04 PM
i've never been fucked before... so i really dont know the importance of size to me yet when it comes to receiving... altho when it comes to giving... my most memorable experiences with men have been ones with small dicks in terms of length... i know, i know... you dont have to swallow the dick whole in order to fully please him... but thats something that i just prefer doing... being able to suck the whole thing in my mouth... and if its too big in length... i just end up choking cuz i dont have a deep throat... but whateverz...

aside from size... i think what more important is his smell... i know that some men just have a funky odor to them down there... which isnt really pleasant when it comes to sucking cock...

nola
10-22-2003, 12:30 PM
Girth is more important although length is great too. Obsessing about penis size is like women obsessing about weight i.e. not as important as you think. Cuddling/emotional connecting gets me into the mood most.