What Do Girls Look For In A Guy?

[John0101]

I'm pretty sure this question been asked before, but what do girls look for in a guy? More detail the better.

Thx

[coagulated fat]

Taller than me
Simpsons fan.. medium to hardcore preferred
Funny, outgoing, talkative
Looks good to me, has fashion sense, attractive hair
Passable dancer
Decent taste in music
Decent political opinions
Smooth/has game/puts the moves on me right, haha
Knows how to make steak

[mrazntre]

I think girls look for guys who are intuitive as to a girl's needs.

[golden_buns]

Taller than me
Simpsons fan.. medium to hardcore preferred
Funny, outgoing, talkative
Looks good to me, has fashion sense, attractive hair
Passable dancer
Decent taste in music
Decent political opinions
Smooth/has game/puts the moves on me right, haha
Knows how to make steak

I thought you said you liked dorky chubby boys?
When did you change your mind?

[applehead]

any guy who doesn't have morientes' sense of humor
and yangbahn's intelligence.

[applehead]

I thought you said you liked dorky chubby boys?
When did you change your mind?


what, she doesn't say anything
about skinny men.

chubby chubby.
chubby wubby.

[kasia]

it's attractive when he has dreams and aspirations. and pursues them.

[kboy75]

girls, let's keep it real. what about the $$$? haha...

no but seriously, what if a guy had all of the above, but was dirt poor. would you want him still? i'm not talking about fooling around or casual dating. i'm talking marriage material.

thanks in advance for entertaining my question.

[coagulated fat]

I thought you said you liked dorky chubby boys?
When did you change your mind?

Add those to the list.

[coagulated fat]

girls, let's keep it real. what about the $$$? haha...

no but seriously, what if a guy had all of the above, but was dirt poor. would you want him still? i'm not talking about fooling around or casual dating. i'm talking marriage material.

thanks in advance for entertaining my question.

I'd expect him to pull his weight, by which I mean makes somewhere in the vicinity of what I make. I'd still want the guy if he didn't do that but tried to find a decent paying job, but if he sits at home watching tv all day while I work I don't think I'd be too cool with that.

[kasia]

girls, let's keep it real. what about the $$$? haha...

no but seriously, what if a guy had all of the above, but was dirt poor. would you want him still? i'm not talking about fooling around or casual dating. i'm talking marriage material.

thanks in advance for entertaining my question.

i'd go for him if he was dirt poor but "has it all". that's rarely the case, though. from my experience, a really poor guy is either bitter or jealous of others who are better off, or is insecure or has low self esteem. that or his work schedule is so horrible that he's angry most of the time.

i'm probably going to get flamed for this, but this is my experience.

[ellsworth81]

i'd go for him if he was dirt poor but "has it all". that's rarely the case, though. from my experience, a really poor guy is either bitter or jealous of others who are better off, or is insecure or has low self esteem. that or his work schedule is so horrible that he's angry most of the time.

i'm probably going to get flamed for this, but this is my experience.

supposedly, poor happy people exist

they call them taxi drivers :D

[kimpossible]

girls, let's keep it real. what about the $$$? haha...

no but seriously, what if a guy had all of the above, but was dirt poor. would you want him still? i'm not talking about fooling around or casual dating. i'm talking marriage material.

thanks in advance for entertaining my question.

Yes but fortunes change. If you take marriage seriously then you have to deal with the permanency of your union. You could start out with a lot of money only to lose it or start out poor and end up rich. Or any combination of cycles thereof.

I think the point of that is a woman likes a man who can get things done. Probably is a sign of security and in-charge, secure men may tend to have stable finances.

[kboy75]

Yes but fortunes change. If you take marriage seriously then you have to deal with the permanency of your union. You could start out with a lot of money only to lose it or start out poor and end up rich. Or any combination of cycles thereof.

I think the point of that is a woman likes a man who can get things done. Probably is a sign of security and in-charge, secure men may tend to have stable finances.

very true. i know a lot of guys that make a lot of money but they are the most insecure emotionally unstable mofos i've ever met. =/

[deez nuts]

i'd go for him if he was dirt poor but "has it all". that's rarely the case, though. from my experience, a really poor guy is either bitter or jealous of others who are better off, or is insecure or has low self esteem. that or his work schedule is so horrible that he's angry most of the time.

i'm probably going to get flamed for this, but this is my experience.

i agree.

[Chester]

i'd go for him if he was dirt poor but "has it all". that's rarely the case, though. from my experience, a really poor guy is either bitter or jealous of others who are better off, or is insecure or has low self esteem. that or his work schedule is so horrible that he's angry most of the time.

i'm probably going to get flamed for this, but this is my experience.

There is, of course, the exception: the guy who loves his job, though it doesn't pay well.

But, in general, I thought you put things very thoughtfully and tactfully.

[Red_Matrix]

From my personal experiences, discussions, observations, etc. I think when a girl says "that guy is not my type" she really means:

A guy who is ugly, with a bad physique, and is relatively short (usually below 5'6")
A guy who is dumb (or insane) and can't hold a decent conversation
A guy who flips burgers for a living

I think this "he's not my type" thing is more surface-oriented than some emotional, personality, or spiritual bond thing.

Now, please don't throw tomatoes (or launch rockets) at me for saying this. This is from what I observed. If you think I'm dead wrong, then I welcome any response.

;)

[coagulated fat]

From my personal experiences, discussions, observations, etc. I think when a girl says "that guy is not my type" she really means:

A guy who is ugly, with a bad physique, and is relatively short (usually below 5'6")
A guy who is dumb (or insane) and can't hold a decent conversation
A guy who flips burgers for a living

I think this "he's not my type" thing is more surface-oriented than some emotional, personality, or spiritual bond thing.

Now, please don't throw tomatoes (or launch rockets) at me for saying this. This is from what I observed. If you think I'm dead wrong, then I welcome any response.

;)
No, I agree with you. Except for maybe the flipping burgers part, because at least for now, that is the kind of job my peers have, haha.

[Tao]

I think girls look for quite a many things which can't really be explained - hey, who can explain women, right?

Here's my guess (in order): status, wealth, looks, personality, sense of humour, kindness and intelligence.i think that ordering would be different for varying age groups

[Red_Matrix]

I agree and I'd like to qualify that by stating that the more sexier and attractive women go for my original criteria; the older and more mature-and -I-want-to-settle-down types go for the reverse of my criteria.

Woohoo! That gives many of us guys a chance at the dating game! :p

[Red_Matrix]

I agree and I'd like to qualify that by stating that the more sexier and attractive women go for my original criteria; the older and more mature-and -I-want-to-settle-down types go for the reverse of my criteria.

Woohoo! That gives many of us guys a chance at the dating game! :p

[Tao]

Girls look for some rich white guy, regardless of his intelligence or appearance.nah, don't be so cynical, as long as they're rich, that's enough.

[AliBabaIncorporated]

i'd go for him if he was dirt poor but "has it all". that's rarely the case, though. from my experience, a really poor guy is either bitter or jealous of others who are better off, or is insecure or has low self esteem. that or his work schedule is so horrible that he's angry most of the time.
well, there's the obvious chicken-and-egg problem: Why is he bitter? Maybe cuz girls keep rejecting him for someone with more money. Maybe even he met the right girl but her parents drove him away because they say he couldn't provide "stability."

[nonamerasian]

-Has a sense of humor.
I like to laugh.

-Interested in community service.
He shouldn't always think about himself.

-Has goals in life.
Everyone needs goals.

-Shouldn’t be repulsed by the idea of family.
Family is important to me.

-Worldly.
I hate when people seem to know squat about the world outside of the U.S.

-Should be into debate.
I like to debate.

-Motivated.
I like a person who doesn't only talk about doing things, but actually go for it.

-Supportive.
A good shoulder to lean on.

-Responsible.
I HATE irresponsibility.

-Good self-esteem.
I've always found a good self-esteem attractive.

-Playful.
People who are too serious die early.

-I’d prefer that he wasn’t a workaholic.
I'm around enough of them.

-Kind.
Why would I want a meany?

-Open-minded, but not to the point of stupidity.
There are people who go overboard.

-Knows how to listen.
I have youngest child syndrome. I must be listened to.

-Interested in learning.
I love learning, so that's a bonus.

-NOT MATERIALISTIC.
I find people who seem to be only interested in acquiring things, things, and more things, but not capable to hand someone the shirt off their back an ultimate turn-off.

-Truthful.
Honesty is a great virtue.

-Able to handle criticism.
I'm critical and can be blunt about it sometimes, but I have been getting better. In case of relapse, I can't be involved with someone who is too fragile. ;)

These are in no particular order.

[coagulated fat]

no money is fine...really - i dont like it when guys give gifts - i really don't - it makes them look un-sexier.
Yeah. I don't like it when guys pay for anything of mine even if it's just food or admission. To me, it's a matter of maintaining my independence.

[stunninglyAsian]

Yeah. I don't like it when guys pay for anything of mine even if it's just food or admission. To me, it's a matter of maintaining my independence.

"I don't do favors, I collect debts." Some Sicillian quote I read

It's true- buy a girl a nice gift, like a Prada bag, and the girl feels like she now has to pay you back.

Anyways, I think it's almost impossible to say what a specific girl wants in a guy. You can boil it down to money, looks, humor, but they're always looking for something else which varies wildly from girl to girl. And they're looking for that x-factor that can't be explained. These last two traits are dealbreakers. You can have everything but if you're missing that something special, you're out.

I think Chris Rock said it the best- "A girl will know in 5 minutes if she wants to fuck you." And she's not feeling you by then, then you got as much chance hooking up with her as an Asian guy in boxers being fondled by a white model in a thong being on the cover of Men's Health with the title, "How to drive your girl wild in bed!" After the first 5 minutes, she will have made up her mind, and then if you try to mack on her, she puts in in the "friend" category. It's all or nothing. That's the way it is with me.

[Red_Matrix]

"I don't do favors, I collect debts." Some Sicillian quote I read

It's true- buy a girl a nice gift, like a Prada bag, and the girl feels like she now has to pay you back.

Anyways, I think it's almost impossible to say what a specific girl wants in a guy. You can boil it down to money, looks, humor, but they're always looking for something else which varies wildly from girl to girl. And they're looking for that x-factor that can't be explained. These last two traits are dealbreakers. You can have everything but if you're missing that something special, you're out.

I think Chris Rock said it the best- "A girl will know in 5 minutes if she wants to fuck you." And she's not feeling you by then, then you got as much chance hooking up with her as an Asian guy in boxers being fondled by a white model in a thong being on the cover of Men's Health with the title, "How to drive your girl wild in bed!" After the first 5 minutes, she will have made up her mind, and then if you try to mack on her, she puts in in the "friend" category. It's all or nothing. That's the way it is with me.

Uhhh...yeah, I think the "x-facter" is the fact that the guy has looks, confidence, humour, style (whatever that means), and some money. I don't buy into this whole concept that there is some "air of mystery" that makes girls go crazy about a particular guy. The x-factor is basically more on the surface than you realize. However, I think the quote from Chris Rock is somewhat true...

[mrazntre]

Yeah. I don't like it when guys pay for anything of mine even if it's just food or admission. To me, it's a matter of maintaining my independence.




:wub:

must find girl like you....

[mrazntre]

no money is fine...really - i dont like it when guys give gifts - i really don't - it makes them look un-sexier.

criteria: good-ness
streetsmarts
armchair academic smarts
liberal/progressive politics
handsome-ness (and this is always tweaked by the above)
hiphop/rock/jazz/reggae tastes
simpsons

love,
prof. frink


:wub:

... and dis one toooo...

[Cipherous]

:wub:

... and dis one toooo...

Why not both?

[stunninglyAsian]

Uhhh...yeah, I think the "x-facter" is the fact that the guy has looks, confidence, humour, style (whatever that means), and some money. I don't buy into this whole concept that there is some "air of mystery" that makes girls go crazy about a particular guy. The x-factor is basically more on the surface than you realize.

It's not really an "air of mystery." It's something that is attractive about the other person that you can't easily pin point, like a good body or a sense of humor. There's something special about the person that you can sense immediately. For me, there has to be something special about the girl, something unique that stirrs passion and emotion in you. I think it's the same with a girl- they don't want something everyday and boring in a guy. I really can't see myself dating somebody based on a list of features- that's kind of dull and boring. But that's just me.

[Red_Matrix]

I really can't see myself dating somebody based on a list of features- that's kind of dull and boring. But that's just me.

Perhaps it is. Many people I've talked to (girls and guys) do have some list of features. Goes something like this: Not ugly, not idiotic, not mean, and not a bum.

[mrazntre]

Why not both?

that'd be like an ORGY!

[Azn Retribution]

it is true that a girl passes her pre-emptive judgement subconsciously on you after 5 minutes.
the aire of mystery is more of a "challenge"
Girls dont like it when guys are too nice and roll over and basically do anything at a whim. It becomes boring and not exciting when they know everything about you already.

Thats why dating is called a "game". and thats what it is a subconscious mind game. It works the other way too to a lesser extent.


What girls don't want:
1. Usually getting stuck on one girl and calling her every day. just to talk.
2. Never having the confidence to come straight out and take initiative half the time but rather saying. "Whatever you wanna do"
3. a Guy buying her things all the time.

[coagulated fat]

it is true that a girl passes her pre-emptive judgement subconsciously on you after 5 minutes.
Don't guys do the same thing? Or is it more like 5 seconds. Or 0.5 seconds.

[stunninglyAsian]

Nah it's different for guys. Guys may not pay attention to a girl, but if she starts to show obvious signs of interest, i think most guys will entertain the thought and some may flip their original image of the girl because it's so rare for a girl to take that first step.

With girls, after 5 seconds they put you in the friend, a.k.a. not boyfriend material vault, there ain't no way to get out of that. You can be nice, and she treats you as a friend. You can play games, but it'll be solitaire. You can get her friends to put in a good word for you... she'll see you as a really cool guy friend.

The challenge for guys to break the friend barrier is like a girl trying to tame a player- it's utterly pointless, but we still try. I have never known a single man that has came back from the friend vault.

[Red_Matrix]

Don't guys do the same thing? Or is it more like 5 seconds. Or 0.5 seconds.

LOL!

[Red_Matrix]

Nah it's different for guys. Guys may not pay attention to a girl, but if she starts to show obvious signs of interest, i think most guys will entertain the thought and some may flip their original image of the girl because it's so rare for a girl to take that first step.

With girls, after 5 seconds they put you in the friend, a.k.a. not boyfriend material vault, there ain't no way to get out of that. You can be nice, and she treats you as a friend. You can play games, but it'll be solitaire. You can get her friends to put in a good word for you... she'll see you as a really cool guy friend.

The challenge for guys to break the friend barrier is like a girl trying to tame a player- it's utterly pointless, but we still try. I have never known a single man that has came back from the friend vault.

To your first part, this one "relationship expert" (a man, btw) says that if a girl is really interested in a guy, she will make it easier for the guy to make the first move (like giving hints though she won't tell the guy outright). If she has no interest in the guy whatsoever she'll put on that "I don't want to have anything to do with you" posture (which many guys tragically think it is a sign of tantalizing the guy, which is not). In regards to your "only being friends" scenario, how about those situations where the guy and girl were friends for many years and end up married?

[ehuang]

well, there's the obvious chicken-and-egg problem: Why is he bitter? Maybe cuz girls keep rejecting him for someone with more money. Maybe even he met the right girl but her parents drove him away because they say he couldn't provide "stability."

LOL
How do we know you are not that guy ?
SInce you wrote it so well
You all in here can't be well off and good lookin

[Animaeish]

Taller than me
Simpsons fan.. medium to hardcore preferred
Funny, outgoing, talkative
Looks good to me, has fashion sense, attractive hair
Passable dancer
Decent taste in music
Decent political opinions
Smooth/has game/puts the moves on me right, haha
Knows how to make steak


Hmmmmmm 10-14/ 15........passing grade?? :rolleyes:

[blkazngirl]

#1, he has a job and have been on it over three years.

#2, he knows how to manage his money, without hitting me up for some cash.

#3, he has some sort of transportation.

#4, knows how to treat me with respect. If he treat his mother and the females in his family like shit. Then I know how he's going to treat me.

#5, he can live at home if he has to. But his mother has to let him spend the night at my place sometimes, hehehe.

#6, be a man. Not an ass-wipe.

#7 be a man with morals and integraty.

#8, able to keep his fist to his self (unless, fighting with another man). 'Cause if you hit me, kiss your ass good-bye.

#9, must have something tangable, besides face and ass.

Last but not least

#10, gotta have and keep a JOB!

Least important

#11, penis size. There are other ways to bring pleasure.

[coagulated fat]

Hmmmmmm 10-14/ 15........passing grade?? :rolleyes:
According to my calculations, 10/15 = 67%
14/15 = 93%

[Animaeish]

Haha......well U know PHAT, at least four of your criteria are subjective or based on YOUR opinion!!

#1, he has a job and have been on it over three years.

#2, he knows how to manage his money, without hitting me up for some cash.

#3, he has some sort of transportation.

Sounds like U are looking more for someone to give a LOAN to than a date!! :D

[Emperor_Mike]

I've got everything.

Now who wants to date a faceless Ringwraith? Anyone? Show of hands please!

[purezero]

I think Ed was the one who asked me this.

I just told him I didn't know, that it was jus a feeling. :wub:

[kitty]

Someone who makes me laugh, but who can hold a serious conversation. A masculine man who isn't afraid of cuddling. Someone who likes my cooking, and who is adventurous -- willing to try new things. Someone who'll listen. And obviously, someone I find attractive... not too much body hair.

I really don't have any other criteria as far as money or employment. I definitely want someone who doesn't have a couch surgically attached to his ass.

[Red_Matrix]

......looking at the physical attrbute of a man and prejudging him before even getting to know them....

Hey bro, it just shows that girls are human. They just want to be with a man who is strong and has good genes. It's in their biological makeup.

[artsfartsyjanet]

I'm attracted to guys who are secure in their own skin-- no matter what his finances are. As long as he can uplift himself and has strong goals, I'm fine with it. I like guys who try to stay healthy and conscience of what he eats most of the time and indulges once in awhile during the holidays or the weekends.=) In my past experience, people who don't go out with friends to play football, soccer, tennis, (i.e. couch potato) is only going to drag me down. So, that will get on my nerves. I like a guy who isn't big into flowering me with gifts all the time b/c that will scare me away especially in the beginning of a relationship. To me, that is suffocating. I like a guy who makes me laugh, is affectionate, and considerate. Most of all, HONEST even if it hurts.

[537]

Wassup Homie! Yo, word up on the biatches!

Yeah dude, I agree with you. They can't really help it; it's in their biological make-up


Hmmm, you two sound a bit bitter.

http://forums.yellowworld.org/images/smilies/poking.gif


No one person can answer this, as each quality seen by one as desirable can very much be undesirable to another. To each his/her own, and to object to that would be insanely moronic.



Well, until alcohol comes into play. :licka:

[537]

No need for name-calling now.

It was a mere observation I made since you and Red_Matrix seem very comfortable with explaining women's desires as a simple biological result. I think your exact words were:

Oh .... I nearly forgot....they also want a man with a big penis!!!!! I got no respect for women because of this......looking at the physical attrbute of a man and prejudging him before even getting to know them....

Ironically, you're taking what you think is true (about women looking at the physical attributes of a man and prejudging him) and outwardly admit to have no respect for women because of it. In other words, you're doing what you perceive them to be doing.


It's ok, need a hug?

[coagulated fat]

Oh .... I nearly forgot....they also want a man with a big penis!!!!! I got no respect for women because of this......looking at the physical attrbute of a man and prejudging him before even getting to know them....
This makes absolutely no sense on two levels. One, unless you show your penis to a girl immediately upon meeting her, she would have to know you somewhat before you show her your penis. Two, it's completely hypocritical of you to say you don't respect women for this, since guys do this kind of thing all the time with women. Also, prejudice is a natural and smart way of dealing with the world's complexities. It's just been given a bad rap by the whole racial thing, but really it's an invaluable way of dealing with people and situations.

[coagulated fat]

One - my remarks were made in haste hence I had no time, nor the willpower, to make my remarks linguistically and logically sound.
Then you should not post.

Two - Why is it hypocritical? Do you personally know me?
Everyone makes assumptions about people before meeting them, especially people of the opposite sex. Unless you can say you don't care about any physical aspects of the women you choose to date, what you said was hypocritical.

[coagulated fat]

I guess through your logic that makes you a hypocrite as well.
Well yes probably, but not because I don't own up to being shallow and superficial at times when it comes to boys. I freely admit my shallowness and superficiality. :dance:

[Red_Matrix]

No one person can answer this, as each quality seen by one as desirable can very much be undesirable to another. To each his/her own, and to object to that would be insanely moronic.

Well...I'm not gonna be a hypocrite because I admit that I want a girl who is healthy. However, there has been studies by scholars who point out two things when people (males and females) are in the dating game: 1) appearances/physical attributes are very important; 2) there is a uniform facial and body type that people are attracted to no matter what ethnic background they come from. We are all driven by our biological makeup.

[Red_Matrix]

Hmmm, you two sound a bit bitter.

Not at all. :laugh:

[537]

Well...I'm not gonna be a hypocrite because I admit that I want a girl who is healthy. However, there has been studies by scholars who point out two things when people (males and females) are in the dating game: 1) appearances/physical attributes are very important; 2) there is a uniform facial and body type that people are attracted to no matter what ethnic background they come from. We are all driven by our biological makeup.


1) This is very true. Yet in some cultures, what is very important is completely different than in others, which negates your argument in number:

2) Aside from differing physical qualities being perceived as attractive in different cultures, trends also play a big part. There was once a time where obese women were considered sexy, and waif-like bean poles were not. Nowadays, there is a complete reversal. Sorry man, I just can't buy into the whole biological makeup determining who you're attracted to thing.

:happy:

[537]

True, but certain physical features are considered attractive through all races regardless of whether it is a trend or not. Perhaps the most consistent physical trait that this is, is the symmetrical face or what some people refer to as, "classical beauty". People, regardless of race, who have these features are generally viewed as more attractive than people who don't have them. Of course, I'm not denying there is'nt cultural influences that determine sexual attraction but there is undeniably a biological basis for attraction as symmetrical faces indicate, subconsciously, that the potential partner is free of any diseases that may affect the potential offspring.


Given the context of your argument, Morientes, I will agree that in terms of symmetrics, people regardless of race will view that as more attractive than someone such as Quasimodo.

However, in Red_Matrix/Mr Z's perception that in terms of a uniform body type and well-endowedness in the genital regions draws attraction from people regardless of race, I still firmly disagree.

[Red_Matrix]

However, in Red_Matrix/Mr Z's perception that in terms of a uniform body type and well-endowedness in the genital regions draws attraction from people regardless of race, I still firmly disagree.

Hold on a sec. I didn't mention anything about "genital regions." I meant the face and body. It was Mr Z who brought up that whole thing about girls wanting a guy with a big schlong. When I gave him the affirmative sometime ago I was just saying that girls want guys who are genetically healthy (not necessary with a big ONE).

[kitty]

what about a preference for larger women earlier this century? Or the preference that African American men have (in general) for big booty women?

[kimpossible]

I agree that what Mr Z says is not necessarily true. Girls don't want a big schlong. Although reading up on posts by females who state that they use dildo's because they can't be satisified, I'm starting to feel that maybe a big schlong is what some women, subconsciously may I add, desire.

No shit. That would be why they're sold and marketed to women. But you don't marry and have kids or build a life with a dildo. One's a sex toy, one's a mate. And no woman in the forums said she couldn't be satisfied by her mate and therefore had to 'resort' to a toy.

[kimpossible]

Come to think about it, sex toys are mainly marketed for men but from a purely male perspective I have hardly felt the need to buy toys like a blow-up doll, a fake butt or one of those vibrating vaginas. To me, that's just plain silly although there's nothing wrong with them if any of you out there are using them. To each their own as they say. Personally, instead of trying out different toys I'd rather do it for real.

Damn. I was hoping you were going to fight with me.

edit: where's Sy when you need him?

[deez nuts]

I'll post until the fat lady sings....or when a Mod/Admin banishes me... :bomb2:


lol c ya!

[deez nuts]

I think you can explain that biologically. A big ass symbolizes productivity (in relation to giving birth) which, as you quite rightly stated, black men seem to be really attracted to.


there's a line between child bearing hips and BA BLAM cottage cheese cheeks.

[kimpossible]

Awww, now don't be like that now. Hey how about I make it up to you and stroke your pussy?

At this point I'm about to take bun boy up on his cyber offer.

[kimpossible]

there's a line between child bearing hips and BA BLAM cottage cheese cheeks.

and many ripples.

[deez nuts]

what about a preference for larger women earlier this century? Or the preference that African American men have (in general) for big booty women?

perhaps it's a genetic subconscious exaggerated overcompensation for all them skinny asses due to famine back in africa.

[mrazntre]

i like smaller sized women with big booty

[tapestrybabe]

someone who breathes??
but too bad all the guys i know...
just wanna stay friends...

[Red_Matrix]

Come to think about it, sex toys are mainly marketed for men but from a purely male perspective I have hardly felt the need to buy toys like a blow-up doll, a fake butt or one of those vibrating vaginas. To me, that's just plain silly although there's nothing wrong with them if any of you out there are using them. To each their own as they say. Personally, instead of trying out different toys I'd rather do it for real.

Speaking of blow up dolls, fake butts, and vibrating vaginas, has anyone heard about those real-life like dolls that are made out of this special kind of synthetic material? Someone told me that they are supposed to look and feel real (and cost the same as a new car). Man, that's pretty pathetic if some man (or woman) has to resort to that. :laugh:

[mr. x]

Speaking of blow up dolls, fake butts, and vibrating vaginas, has anyone heard about those real-life like dolls that are made out of this special kind of synthetic material? Someone told me that they are supposed to look and feel real (and cost the same as a new car). Man, that's pretty pathetic if some man (or woman) has to resort to that. :laugh:

man thems must be real heavy

[kitty]

I think you can explain that biologically. A big ass symbolizes productivity (in relation to giving birth) which, as you quite rightly stated, black men seem to be really attracted to.

:laugh: I don't think you're trying to say this, but it sounds like you're saying black men just want women so they can reproduce and reproduce and reproduce...

[kitty]

Speaking of blow up dolls, fake butts, and vibrating vaginas, has anyone heard about those real-life like dolls that are made out of this special kind of synthetic material? Someone told me that they are supposed to look and feel real (and cost the same as a new car). Man, that's pretty pathetic if some man (or woman) has to resort to that. :laugh:

I've always wondered if anyone ever actually BOUGHT the vibrating vaginas... and if so... how would you clean it?

[Azn Retribution]

Girls subconsciously like a challenge.
thats why nice guys lose every time.
Walking doormats. Thats boring
and it is why dating is called a game.

[ChinaLama]

what if its a nice guy who refuses to have sex? then the girls should go crazy over him cuz its a challenge to get him in bed.

[deez nuts]

what if its a nice guy who refuses to have sex? then the girls should go crazy over him cuz its a challenge to get him in bed.

yes.

you would know, come on.

granted you're not that nice. but, the concept is still the same.

[ChinaLama]

i don't refuse sex; they do. :(

[mrazntre]

i don't refuse sex; they do. :(

or you could try being gay... that'd make all the chicks go go00gly-eyed trying to get you in bed.
:MrT_anim:

[ChinaLama]

doesn't work for me. people already think i'm gay. but then again i am a monk so i should be celibate.

[kasia]

why is this thread filled with posts by guys telling us what we want in a guy??

[applehead]

i don't know what they want in a guy since i'm not a woman, but i do know in the end they are all going to get a good dicking.


wow. that's a lot of work for you.

[deez nuts]

why is this thread filled with posts by guys telling us what we want in a guy??


cuz women need a man to tell them what they want.


kidding kidding

[applehead]

*Lol*

Hey - If I said that you'd all gang up on me and say that I was being sexist.

Anyway, what LL_Cool_D states is true although the wording is a bit tactless. Women, no matter how they dress or how they feel, will in the end, end up in bed with whoever they choose as partners. In the end what you see in porn movies is what heterosexual couples do behind closed rooms.


okay but what do porn movies
have anything to do with this?