White Guys and Our Gay Asian Men

[Azn Retribution]

Thought I'd spin off the "White Guys and Asian girl" spiel a little bit.
hahaha

I think it would go something like this

"Why do asian men always have to be the bitches?"

"Why can't asian brothas stay asian?"

Blah blah blah.

[BeTheReds]

It's damn near impossible to find another Gay male regardless of his race I would think.  Now what percentage of the gay population is Asian?  Now take into account that Asians tend to frown on homosexuality. 

[Chris]

haha here the problem.

Most gay asian have an inferior simplex and kept on telling me on this coast.  (Don't knwo how it is on the east coast.) That dating asian men is like dating their own brothers. But when I point out that stigma and about white men dating other white men.  They get all defensive and saying that's different.  WTF.  The ironic this is that it is the people who been in the US more than 7 years that have that problem or preference.

[Danny]

interesting... I do tend to see more of the effeminate asian males than anything else... actually I cannot think of one asian male that I would automatically label as being the 'dominant' in a male to male relationship.... any reasons, speculations for that?

[Chris]

The funny thing is that I was "dominant" in the last two relationship.  Effeminate guys really annoy the heck out of me.

[ChinaLama]

chris w/ the badass avatar. daamn. scary.  :cry:

[hooligan]

there go white guys stealing our gay asian males ... ::rolls eyes::

[cmar]

I certainly have a Queer eye for the Asian guy, but I am not exclusively looking for Asian men. I like all types of guys. Why limit your chances at finding happiness?

[Eros]

I just assumed that the gay white and asian couple stand out more. Of course, I don't know that many gay asian men in general so my view is somewhat off.

At least the asian and white couple proves that not all gay white people have a white people only preference (which I've seen way too much in chatrooms and online stuff).

[Chris]

I certainly have a Queer eye for the Asian guy, but I am not exclusively looking for Asian men. I like all types of guys. Why limit your chances at finding happiness?


you single heheh?

[cmar]

you single heheh?

I would like to say yes, but my boyfriend frowns on that.

[Chris]

I would like to say yes, but my boyfriend frowns on that.

hahaha it all good. :) beside I dont know how you even look lik e:P

[etcj]

interesting... I do tend to see more of the effeminate asian males than anything else... actually I cannot think of one asian male that I would automatically label as being the 'dominant' in a male to male relationship.... any reasons, speculations for that?

I'm guessing you don't know much about bisexual men who enjoy bottoming for Asian trannies... it's not uncommon at all for "effeminate" men to be sexually dominant at all, because it's a major sexual fetish for some guys.

If you're interested in learning more about interracial couples other than the "standard" rice and potato combo, then check out Noodle Magazine's article about Asian & Black Couples:
http://www.noodlemagazine.com/Content/Issue004/content004_greenbrown.html (http://www.noodlemagazine.com/Content/Issue004/content004_greenbrown.html)

[krome]

Dumb str8 guy question:
When you "bottom" - that means you take it right? Making u the "bych?"

[Chris]

Dumb str8 guy question:
When you "bottom" - that means you take it right? Making u the "bych?"

yes.

[Mark Alias]

Interesting thread. My current bf always like guys who have dark eyes and dark hair, I am that kind of a guy. And me on the other hand, always had the hots for the guys who have fair complexion; he's white. Go figure.

'bout the other question, we're both versatile, but lately, he likes being a bottom then a top. Though we haven't had an actual intercourse for a while - our sex life been mostly about mutual JO's & BJ's for the past 5 months.

[victorvien]

what's a JO?

oops nevermind, i got it. damn, i'm slow.

[kasia]

The funny thing is that I was "dominant" in the last two relationship.  Effeminate guys really annoy the heck out of me.

yeh, i was just about to say after reading danny's post that chris seems more dominant than effeminate. my feeling is that most people just go by the stereotype.

[yoMAMA]

what's a JO?

oops nevermind, i got it. damn, i'm slow.

so what's JO?

I'm even slower :tongue:

[rice cracker]

so what's JO?

I'm even slower :tongue:

Jack off. C'mon, you're a guy. You should know this stuff.

[yoMAMA]

Jack off. C'mon, you're a guy. You should know this stuff.

no, it's jerk off.

[rice cracker]

no, it's jerk off.

So, what, now you're the expert? :tongue:

[yoMAMA]

So, what, now you're the expert? :tongue:

ummm......[looks around for any sign of homo sapiens]

no comment! :biggrin:

[uhhden]

interesting... I do tend to see more of the effeminate asian males than anything else... actually I cannot think of one asian male that I would automatically label as being the 'dominant' in a male to male relationship.... any reasons, speculations for that?

That's because the only gay Asians people notice are the ones that are effeminate and flamboyant. There's plenty of us that aren't so...out there? hah.

A little tangent, but this is always an interesting topic for me personally cause I've never really found most white guys very attractive, but whenever people find out I'm an Asian not into white people, they think I'm smoking crack or something.

[myself808]

there actually was a documentary made on this very subject called "Rice and Potatoes" and title not withstanding, it goes into what has been touched on in this thread. myself would say that an asian/white couple stands out more. If myself goes somewhere with a white friend (or any non-asian for that matter) and there is only the two of us. others will assume we are together but if I'm with an asian friend that's not the case

[zbactrv]

Interesting thread and forum

[oogleman]

Funniest thread i`ve read in tears

[Faithless]

Know of a couple like this. Nice enough.

What I wonder about is how one of them's wife and family took it when the truth came out.

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so what's JO?

I'm even slower :tongue:
I didn't catch it either. I was thinking that JO was "job order" for a "blow job". :rolleyes:

[zbactrv]

Know of a couple like this. Nice enough.

What I wonder about is how one of them's wife and family took it when the truth came out.

.

I didn't catch it either. I was thinking that JO was "job order" for a "blow job". :rolleyes:

dO YOU know a much better and much more active Gay Forum for Asians / Other Races into Asians? Because I joined to this forum all wishful thinking. Well, this forum is, excuse the pun, fucking gay.

[zbactrv]

And BTW I hate those Asians who don't want to date fellow Asians. I hear this all the time. Most of them turn out as the ugly ones anyway, based on experience.