how would you feel if.....?

[contra_diction]

well? or bi- just all of a sudden

[coagulated fat]

"wanted to be"?

I know where this is going.

[Faithless]

Did they like wake-up one morning and decide this?

[sOKaLiBoY]

well if she turned bi and included me in all the fun, i'm for it :D

[SunWuKong]

i probably wouldn't like it very much if she realises she's gay, but i would probably like it very much if she realises she's bi.

[kimpossible]

I'd get a sex change and hopefully he'd still want me.

[deez nuts]

i would try to convert her back to satiate my fragile male ego.

prolly pull something like the debeers diamond commerical. bring her to a public area with lots of people and scream at the top of my lungs:

I LOVE THIS WOMAN

that'll crush any affinity she has for licking the clam, present or future.

if that doesn't work: i'll just do the honorable male thing and cry out, "whhhhhhhhy don't you love me anymore?!?!?!?" at the same time grabbing onto her leg crying, begging and pleading for her to come back to me.

[Tao]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jun 9 2003, 10:44 PM
i would try to convert her back to satiate my fragile male ego.

prolly pull something like the debeers diamond commerical. bring her to a public area with lots of people and scream at the top of my lungs:

I LOVE THIS WOMAN

that'll crush any affinity she has for licking the clam, present or future.

if that doesn't work: i'll just do the honorable male thing and cry out, "whhhhhhhhy don't you love me anymore?!?!?!?" at the same time grabbing onto her leg crying, begging and pleading for her to come back to me.
or just wave a wad of hundreds in her face

[Uncle Tat]

Anyone know a good recipe for chili? :rolleyes:

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Uncle Tat@Jun 10 2003, 03:44 AM
Anyone know a good recipe for chili? :rolleyes:
if i'm thinking what you're thinking....you need to calm down w/ the south park.

[Faithless]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 9 2003, 06:11 PM
sorry to break it to you guys, but real life lesbians and bisexuals are either ugly themselves or they fuck ugly girls.
That's wonderful. An openly Archie Bunker like YM mod. :rolleyes:

[moschikat]

<_<
its already happened to me . . . FOUR times . . .

but thank god they weren't the love of my life :lol: !

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by ChottoMatte@Jun 10 2003, 04:19 AM
That's wonderful. An openly Archie Bunker like YM mod. :rolleyes:
YM? as in YellowMan? stop objectifying me, don't you have a wife at home?! :D

[tapestrybabe]

i dun think its really all of a sudden thing tho...
my parents we're married for quite awhile...
until my mom finally came out of the closet...

[AznYam]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 9 2003, 06:11 PM
sorry to break it to you guys, but real life lesbians and bisexuals are either ugly themselves or they fuck ugly girls. maybe if the question were "what if the love of your life WERE A PORNSTAR..." in which case all the chicks would do girls anyway. :)
my girlfriend looks like this pornstar that does 15 inch dicks with a side of white women. unforunately she doesn't do girls, even though she has hot friends.

[DragonKnight]

Times like these I'm glad I'm single...well, not glad. But yah, at least I don't have to concern myself with these issues. :D

If bi-, then kuu. But to totally dump me for another woman, I'd be crush just like any relationship. The love of my life leaving me for someone else. Simple as that.

[Faithless]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 9 2003, 08:33 PM
... don't you have a wife at home?! :D
Yep! But she is the object of my desire and I would have to see a psych if she said she was lesbian. :frown:

[Faithless]

Originally posted by tapestrybabe@Jun 9 2003, 09:38 PM
i dun think its really all of a sudden thing tho...
my parents we're married for quite awhile...
until my mom finally came out of the closet...
True story?

Who was more shocked or surprised: you or someone else in your family?

[kboy75]

I wold be crushed if i was really head over heels for the girl...

but if she really was, than i can't make her deny who she is.

Also, FYI I believe gay/lesbian people are born homosexual. Yeah, they can discover or admit to themsleves later in life, but they have always been that way. I know many people who "chosen" that lifestyle, but it is more out of personal frustration and a host of other issues.

[Azn Retribution]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 9 2003, 06:11 PM
sorry to break it to you guys, but real life lesbians and bisexuals are either ugly themselves or they fuck ugly girls. maybe if the question were "what if the love of your life WERE A PORNSTAR..." in which case all the chicks would do girls anyway. :)
Um.... not always..
i know alot of downe(bi) girls
and they are ultra super hot.
downe/bi girls tend to take care of themselves a hell lot better then pure lesbians/dykes though.

real life downe/bi girls = hot

real life lesbians/dykes = usually manly ugly.

if you dont believe me go to findapix.
and in the search box in the left
type in downe as a keyword.
alot of those girls are damn hot.

[Azn Retribution]

on second thought. um you may want to skip ahead a few pages when you do that search
alot of them are guy matches. :gross:
but like once you also see the guys there it kind of breaks the stereotype for gay/bi guys.
they aren't all feminine looking and flamey sounding.


but the few girls in there aren't ugly at all.

[SunWuKong]

moving...

[TyroneK(prettypretty)]

I know a lot of cute lesbians. I'm not talking about these gay/bi-till-gradutation dilletantes either. I'm talking about genuine rug-munching carpetbaggers. Many live up to stereotype, but a good number of them don't.

Yeah. I know some rather pretty fans of Sapphos.

[YuheiCarreau]

It's good to see we've avoided all the nasty emotional, psychological, and social aspects of the question and focused on the most important factor: Hot or not? :lol:

[Napoleon Chynamite]

I would feel sad.

[etcj]

As someone said already, it's funny how folks kinda automatically default to girls who transform from straight to bi and lesbian. Of course, we get some straight guys make a lot of objectification and commodification of women and basically stating that the biggest issue is sex. If that's the typical mindset of some straight guys, then I wouldn't really be too shocked of girls who are turned off by guys like that.

My biggest question about be about family. Someone talked about parents questioning/realizing their sexualities, which is perhaps more pertinent than if a girl was to be a "dedicated carpetmuncher".

Anyways, what happens when you have a gay, bi, or lesbian person suddenly decide that they were straight? I'd like to hear something about that... <_<

[moschikat]

Originally posted by etcj@Jun 10 2003, 04:49 PM
Anyways, what happens when you have a gay, bi, or lesbian person suddenly decide that they were straight? I'd like to hear something about that... <_<
She was too posessive, and she got psycho on me.

Dick never felt so good in such a long time :P

[Emperor_Mike]

Originally posted by moschikat@Jun 9 2003, 08:31 PM
<_<
its already happened to me . . . FOUR times . . .

but thank god they weren't the love of my life :lol: !
Oh, that's so unfortunate. Back luck, eh? :P

In any case, I'd be upset if she became a lesbian and in fact I'd be deeply trouble with a few uncomfortable questions (a la George Costanza turning Susan gay.) :lol:

But if she's bi, then I'm happy. :D It'll be a "bring your friend along" night every evening. Hahaha!

[kitty]

I had a lesbian friend decide she was bi, but it wasn't like an all-of-a-sudden thing (which is why this thread doesn't make much sense to me)... she started feeling 'strangely attracted' to some of my guy friends and then some of her male co-workers but was in denial for a really long time. Eventually, after she found herself flirting with them, she realized that she was bi... no biggie really because she had done the denial thing so long that we all knew it before she did.

[Chris]

Originally posted by moschikat@Jun 9 2003, 09:31 PM
<_<
its already happened to me . . . FOUR times . . .

but thank god they weren't the love of my life :lol: !
Make that your fifth ;)

[moschikat]

Originally posted by Chris@Jun 11 2003, 06:58 AM
Originally posted by moschikat@Jun 9 2003, 09:31 PM
<_<
its already happened to me . . . FOUR times . . .

but thank god they weren't the love of my life&nbsp; :lol: !
Make that your fifth ;)
:huh: :blink: :o

wait . . . . does that mean . . . you're? Chris?
*call me!!* :lol:

[teaz0r]

i'd be sad.

[luv]

if the love of my love was gay, i'd be sad...but the love of my life would also be my best friend. life is too short to hate so we might go find guys together. can't help who you are, how you feel. but i'd go on loving him from afar.

[frcegrl]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 9 2003, 06:11 PM
sorry to break it to you guys, but real life lesbians and bisexuals are either ugly themselves or they fuck ugly girls.
hummm.....maybe you haven't met enough lesbians or bi's. some can't get the guys off of 'em....or the girls for that matter....

[skatergrl]

ChinaLama:

coming from a real lesbian who has absolutely no patience for people like you, writing things like this about lesbians is definetely not in your smarts area, if you even have one. if there is any generalization to made against anyone, is that poor little (and i mean little) guys like you are just upset because you only wish that a lesbian would want you and you've probably been dumped several times before, for a woman. :lol:

[Uncle Tat]

Originally posted by skatergrl@Jun 25 2003, 03:29 PM
ChinaLama:

coming from a real lesbian who has absolutely no patience for people like you, writing things like this about lesbians is definetely not in your smarts area, if you even have one. if there is any generalization to made against anyone, is that poor little (and i mean little) guys like you are just upset because you only wish that a lesbian would want you and you've probably been dumped several times before, for a woman. :lol:
Sounds like you have some sand in your vagina.

If ChinaLama said ONE thing that YOU thought was unsound, you shouldn't make an assumption about his intelligence as a whole.

Personally I think you need some deep dicking to get rid of that PMS. :lol:

[Emperor_Mike]

Now, now, let us not turn this thread into angry diatribes concerning disagreeable lesbians, tomatoes and the like. Not all lesbians are ugly nor do they have an unusual penchant for men's clothing, foot apparel, or man-nish vehicles. Bit of a stereotype there, eh? Bad thing, by the way. :)

[skatergrl]

yes, Uncle Tat,

you are right....all I need is a super cool guy like you to make me feel oh so much better.

the only deep dicking that anyone will be getting is YOU, from ChinaLama. We all know why you are both here in the "gay/lesbian" forum.

Need I say more? I don't think so. :D

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by skatergrl@Jun 25 2003, 09:42 PM
the only deep dicking that anyone will be getting is YOU, from ChinaLama. We all know why you are both here in the "gay/lesbian" forum.
actually, i'm the salad tosser in the relationship. uncle tat is very abusive. :(

[Emperor_Mike]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 25 2003, 05:50 PM
actually, i'm the salad tosser in the relationship. uncle tat is very abusive. :(
I'm at a loss for words. :D

By the way, what does salad tossing have to do with anything? :confused:

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Emperor_Mike@Jun 26 2003, 03:07 AM
I'm at a loss for words. :D

By the way, what does salad tossing have to do with anything? :confused:
salad tossing = eating ass.

[Emperor_Mike]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 25 2003, 07:15 PM
Originally posted by Emperor_Mike@Jun 26 2003, 03:07 AM
I'm at a loss for words. :D

By the way, what does salad tossing have to do with anything?&nbsp; :confused:
salad tossing = eating ass.
Oh, oh, and now I'm enlightened.

In a rather dubious manner. :gross:

[deez nuts]

excuse me, maam.

would you like your salad tossed with a side of creamy ranch dressing?

[Uncle Tat]

Originally posted by Emperor_Mike@Jun 25 2003, 10:18 PM
Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 25 2003, 07:15 PM
Originally posted by Emperor_Mike@Jun 26 2003, 03:07 AM
I'm at a loss for words. :D

By the way, what does salad tossing have to do with anything? :confused:
salad tossing = eating ass.
Oh, oh, and now I'm enlightened.

In a rather dubious manner. :gross:
I'm surprised the all knowing Emperor Mike who likes to spew unrequested information at his fellow forumers didn't know what salad tossing was.

[Uncle Tat]

Originally posted by skatergrl@Jun 25 2003, 03:29 PM
ChinaLama:

coming from a real lesbian who has absolutely no patience for people like you, writing things like this about lesbians is definetely not in your smarts area, if you even have one. if there is any generalization to made against anyone, is that poor little (and i mean little) guys like you are just upset because you only wish that a lesbian would want you and you've probably been dumped several times before, for a woman. :lol:
Are you and frcegrl the same person? You both seem to have trouble spelling the word "girl."

And sorry but super cool guys like me only pork quality meat. Thanks for the offer though.

[Emperor_Mike]

Originally posted by Uncle Tat@Jun 25 2003, 08:37 PM
Originally posted by Emperor_Mike@Jun 25 2003, 10:18 PM
Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 25 2003, 07:15 PM
Originally posted by Emperor_Mike@Jun 26 2003, 03:07 AM
I'm at a loss for words. :D

By the way, what does salad tossing have to do with anything? :confused:
salad tossing = eating ass.
Oh, oh, and now I'm enlightened.

In a rather dubious manner. :gross:
I'm surprised the all knowing Emperor Mike who likes to spew unrequested information at his fellow forumers didn't know what salad tossing was.
His Imperial and Most Catholic Majesty is not very up-to-date on these things.

In truth, I'm more used to another term used by many to describe ass eating. :lol:

[Chris]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 9 2003, 07:11 PM
-edit-
CL I have a member in private complain to me about this comment. She is a lesbian and she find this highly offensive. Out of respect of her. I will delete this remark this afternoon. I hope you understand. I know many lesbian out there and most of them are not like what you said.

UT. You're not helping. I expect better from you. I will be force to lock this thread if you guys are misbehaving.

I am almost getting hired at work and I have a new boyfriend so you guys dont make this bad for me okay. :D

[deez nuts]

ooooooooh

lama's on blast.

bad lama. baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad lama.

i, too, apologize on chinalama and uncle tat's behalf.

those two are very uncouth, ill mannered and uncivilized.

they're not the ladies man like yours truly.

[skatergrl]

Glad to see there are a few intelligent men out there. :)

[skatergrl]

Originally posted by Azn Retribution@Jun 10 2003, 09:36 AM
Um.... not always..
i know alot of downe(bi) girls
and they are ultra super hot.
downe/bi girls tend to take care of themselves a hell lot better then pure lesbians/dykes though.

real life downe/bi girls = hot

real life lesbians/dykes = usually manly ugly.

if you dont believe me go to findapix.
and in the search box in the left
type in downe as a keyword.
alot of those girls are damn hot.
You know, seriously....you guys really need to pick your words more carefully. This is the gay/lesbian forum, and there are going to be gay and lesbian people posting here. Maybe you don't care about how you make gays and lesbians feel, but I can tell you this much, you aren't making yourself look too good either.

You really shouldn't be referring to lesbians as "dykes" either. It's like a non-black person saying the word "nigger"

So please open your small mind and realize that even the "dykes" are women, and they do have feelings whether you awknowledge them or not!!

[Emperor_Mike]

Originally posted by skatergrl@Jun 26 2003, 10:44 AM
Originally posted by Azn Retribution@Jun 10 2003, 09:36 AM
Um.... not always..
i know alot of downe(bi) girls
and they are ultra super hot.
downe/bi girls tend to take care of themselves a hell lot better then pure lesbians/dykes though.

real life downe/bi girls = hot

real life lesbians/dykes = usually manly ugly.

if you dont believe me go to findapix.
and in the search box in the left
type in downe as a keyword.
alot of those girls are damn hot.
You know, seriously....you guys really need to pick your words more carefully. This is the gay/lesbian forum, and there are going to be gay and lesbian people posting here. Maybe you don't care about how you make gays and lesbians feel, but I can tell you this much, you aren't making yourself look too good either.

You really shouldn't be referring to lesbians as "dykes" either. It's like a non-black person saying the word "nigger"

So please open your small mind and realize that even the "dykes" are women, and they do have feelings whether you awknowledge them or not!!
Tact is a rare commodity in this day and age. :D

[ChinaLama]

Wow to think just one flippant remark can cause so much trouble. damn, i didn't even know i still had it in me. :)

[Emperor_Mike]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jun 26 2003, 03:32 PM
Wow to think just one flippant remark can cause so much trouble. damn, i didn't even know i still had it in me. :)
Well, flippant remarks started the 100 Years' War, you know. :D

[frcegrl]

Originally posted by Uncle Tat@Jun 25 2003, 08:39 PM

Are you and frcegrl the same person? You both seem to have trouble spelling the word "girl."

And sorry but super cool guys like me only pork quality meat. Thanks for the offer though.
hmm....you would think that since we both like girls, we'd know how to spell it, huh? there are lot of other words i dunno how to spell (oh! there's one!)...

too bad the original topic got lost...so many possibilities w/ this and you can only bring up the fact that "girl" is spelled incorrectly? sad...

[skatergrl]

Originally posted by frcegrl@Jul 1 2003, 11:32 AM
Originally posted by Uncle Tat@Jun 25 2003, 08:39 PM

Are you and frcegrl the same person?&nbsp; You both seem to have trouble spelling the word "girl."

And sorry but super cool guys like me only pork quality meat.&nbsp; Thanks for the offer though.
hmm....you would think that since we both like girls, we'd know how to spell it, huh? there are lot of other words i dunno how to spell (oh! there's one!)...

too bad the original topic got lost...so many possibilities w/ this and you can only bring up the fact that "girl" is spelled incorrectly? sad...
RIGHT ON!!!!!! :D :lol:

[ChinaLama]

You know, I owe you all an apology. I stand corrected. Real-life bi girls are sometimes hot. I dunno about lesbians yet... but i can be persuaded to change my mind. :D

[kasia]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jul 2 2003, 05:47 PM
You know, I owe you all an apology. I stand corrected. Real-life bi girls are sometimes hot. I dunno about lesbians yet... but i can be persuaded to change my mind. :D
funny, funny. "real life bi-girls are sometimes hot." as opposed to never hot? out of curiosity, which group of girls are never hot?

if the love of my life turned gay, i would be disappointed b/c he would be the love of my life. i wouldn't be extremely happy for him or anything. perhaps happy only to the extent that he is comfortable enough to come to terms with his own sexual identity. strange question.

[frcegrl]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jul 2 2003, 05:47 PM
You know, I owe you all an apology. I stand corrected. Real-life bi girls are sometimes hot. I dunno about lesbians yet... but i can be persuaded to change my mind. :D
chinalama...i have soooo many girls that would just make you flip. but i don't think they'd appreciate me posting their pics.....but i'm sorry to say, they are hot, full-on lesbians and would not give a guy a second of their time. i love the irony of it all. :P

btw...in the lesbian world, all women are gay? and all straight girls can be tempted. so gays, watch out! ok...i'm just playing.

on the more serious note, i have some friends that are going thru this. great couple...beautiful ppl. but she's gay. it hasn't been easy for her, him or their friends. it's hard to accept giving up a "perfect" (cuz there is no such thing) relationship to be true to yourself. and i believe she's having a harder time than he is. it's hard enough dealing with the whole societal issue but to hurt someone you love dearly is painful as well.

[Chester]

Originally posted by kasia@Jul 2 2003, 11:19 PM
funny, funny. "real life bi-girls are sometimes hot." as opposed to never hot?
As opposed to lesbians, with whom he doesn't even have the putative chance that he perhaps has with girls who are bi.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by kasia@Jul 3 2003, 07:19 AM
funny, funny. "real life bi-girls are sometimes hot." as opposed to never hot? out of curiosity, which group of girls are never hot?
ugly girls are never hot, duh!

no, wait, sometimes they are, too. *confused*

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Chester@Jul 3 2003, 11:29 PM
As opposed to lesbians, with whom he doesn't even have the putative chance that he perhaps has with girls who are bi.
i'm a girly man. would lesbians go for that?

[kuanyin]

if the love of my life said she was gay, i'd tell her, i know. i've known for years. that still doesn't mean she's gonna go for me.

<_<

[kuanyin]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jul 2 2003, 05:47 PM
You know, I owe you all an apology. I stand corrected. Real-life bi girls are sometimes hot. I dunno about lesbians yet... but i can be persuaded to change my mind.&nbsp; :D
wow,

this is getting disappointing for me.

i can't believe this whole staright sexist and hetersexist SLANT of postings.

the fact that asian men are often desexualized by society should be a reminder to you all to be more respectful to other targeted communities.


ask chris if i'm fine. i'm a lesbian. i'm a fine lesbian. :pissed:

[kasia]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Jul 3 2003, 04:03 PM
ugly girls are never hot, duh!

no, wait, sometimes they are, too. *confused*
yeh, exactly. i was basically saying that you didn't say anything.

re: kuanyin's comment...on behalf of yw, i would like to apologize for some of the comments made in this forum. some people fail to realize that this is a *gay* forum for gay asians to form dialogue. my advice for straight asians in this forum would be the same for white individuals on yw. sit back, listen, and learn. and if that sounds unfair, think of it this way - you have the rest of the world as your forum. i guess that goes for me too, since i'm straight.

[tapestrybabe]

Originally posted by kasia@Jul 4 2003, 11:58 PM
re: kuanyin's comment...on behalf of yw, i would like to apologize for some of the comments made in this forum. some people fail to realize that this is a *gay* forum for gay asians to form dialogue. my advice for straight asians in this forum would be the same for white individuals on yw. sit back, listen, and learn. and if that sounds unfair, think of it this way - you have the rest of the world as your forum. i guess that goes for me too, since i'm straight.
i would like to consider myself straight too... but a straight person who was brought into the closet when my mother came out of it... i take a keen interest in this particular forum... and to say that i should just sit back, listen, and learn... i think is kinda unfair... i think my contribution should be seen as equally important... i'm just coming from a different perspective... a different slant on things...

[kasia]

Originally posted by tapestrybabe@Jul 4 2003, 08:32 PM
i would like to consider myself straight too... but a straight person who was brought into the closet when my mother came out of it... i take a keen interest in this particular forum... and to say that i should just sit back, listen, and learn... i think is kinda unfair... i think my contribution should be seen as equally important... i'm just coming from a different perspective... a different slant on things...
i agree. each situation is unique. but my post was in reference to kuanyin's remark about the heterosexist comments in this forum. i don't think she was referring to you.

[kuanyin]

[SIZE=1] thanks kasia.

its just that it hurts my feelings. i wish people could understand. i'm a tough cookie. but to see all of this - it got to me.