Age difference

[noname]

For dating and possibly having a relationship....

How much younger than you are you willing to go? And how much older ?
I wonder how your gender and own age affects this.

Any potential cradle-rockers or Anna Nicole types here? :)

[SunWuKong]

i'm 25 now and i've been thinking that my lower age limit should be 20 or 21. but my 25-year old cousin is dating an 18-year old korean girl, and i started thinking that maybe it's not so bad. as for upper age limit, i've chased after a girl that was 12 years older than me before. i think we've talked about this briefly in the old forum, and people kind of agreed that you have to take it on a case-by-case basis?

[wylin]

as long as shez legal and not jail bait is my rule of thumb, tho i prefer girls who can go into bars and clubs w/ me so i guess: 21-28 is my limit even tho im almost 24!

[SunWuKong]

there's supposed to be some unwritten rule that guys' lower age limit should be the guy's age divided by two plus 7. hehheh... so that means once you've passed the 22-year mark, you shouldn't look for those 18-year olds anymore. that's too bad... :P

[deez nuts]

Gotta be 21, hey good algorithm, Monkeyking!

My friend dated a 19 year old. She got carded at a club we were at, she had a fake ID, didn't pass, threw us all out. But you never know who you'll meet, and at that point I guess 18 :blink:



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[wylin]

" as long as she can pee shez good enuff for me" is wat my friend used to say

[Arex]

I used to say my lower limit was 21 for reasons of practicality and my upper limit was 30 (I'm 25). Seeing how I haven't had much luck in that range, I was thinking I need to start preying upon younger women. You know, get 'em while they're young and impressionable.=) Just kidding. Most of my serious relationships have been with girls within a year of my age. That's still my preference since that means more common experiences (then you've got grad school, etc.) but I'm pretty open to anything on a case-by-case basis, so long as it's not illegal...

RX

[Jiosa76]

When I was 21 I went out with a guy that was 31! Initially the age wasn't an issue, but through time, it did. I think because I still felt like I was immature and he was more fatherly, we didn't have much in common except for the fact that we liked each other's company

[achtungbaby]

21 is the bare-minimum cut-off for me -- shit, even then, I'm not quite sure. Gone as low and high as four years.

[kasia]

well, that 30-something teacher who ran off to vegas with her 15 year-old student was sentenced today to at 25 years in prison after pleading guilty to a felony kidnapping conviction.

argument of "case-by-case basis"--the 15 year old kid really could have been really mature. some 15 year olds can be more mature than 18 year olds or 21 year olds. where do we draw the line? should we draw a line?

[krissy]

Aside from legal issues, I suspect that it may have to do more with where two people are in their lives - of which age may be an indication - rather than their absolute ages. It seems that people going through (or who have recently gone through) the same things with regard to school or work or whatever may be able to better relate to one another than people in totally different places.

My mom at 22 and my dad at 31 were both ready to get married, settle down, and start a family. I think of where I was at 22 (and where I am 2 years later), realize that I'm no where near that point, and so probably would not want to date anyone who is - whether he's 24 or 44. Lower limit-wise, I don't think I could even date an undergrad (I feel so old) just 'cause I don't think we'd have too much in common.

*Note that I think in terms of relationship, as I've never done the dating thing. :P

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by krissy@Aug 10 2002, 03:10 AM
[color=red]Aside from legal issues, I suspect that it may have to do more with where two people are in their lives - of which age may be an indication - rather than their absolute ages.
I think definitely applies to -- to adults. But I think when you're talking about extreme cases (like the stud 15-year old and his teacher), in general this isn't the case. There are exceptions, of course, but I tend to think that we're all getting younger and younger in terms of our collective maturity. Most of us typically haven't had to face the hardships of our parents' generation; whereas they just did, we whine and mope about our tortured lives. (http://forums.yellowworld.org/index.php?act=ST&f=12&t=175)

[Arex]

Originally posted by achtungbaby@Aug 10 2002, 03:29 AM
I tend to think that we're all getting younger and younger in terms of our collective maturity. Most of us typically haven't had to face the hardships of our parents' generation; whereas they just did, we whine and mope about our tortured lives. (http://forums.yellowworld.org/index.php?act=ST&f=12&t=175)
Very true. The period of adolescence more often than not extends well into college nowadays...

Alex

[artsfartsyjanet]

I'm 23 years young. In the past, the youngest guy I've ever dated was 8 months younger than me. The oldest guy I've dated was 4 years older. I'm willing to date guys who are not more than 2 years younger and not more than 5 years older than me.



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[princess]

i wont date anyone younger. 3 years older is my max

[karizma]

>> i think for most teens...for girls to date anyone younger is just not going to happen. what girl in her right mind wants to date a 15 year old whose mentality equals that of a 5 year old? i know i dont. of course there are exceptions...and i have met guys my age [17] who are more mature than 21 year olds, it doesnt happen often.

>> i think the median age i tend to date is 19. 2 years older is ideal for me. i wont go younger and i guess 3-4 years is the cut off...ive learned my lesson from dating a 21 year old when i was 16. blech. but you never know what'll happen...maybe next week ill find myself in a relationship with a 15 year old or a 22 year old...hah...highly unlikely.

[Saiko]

Yep. No younger. Maybe a few months younger, but I'd muchly prefer older. Maybe within 3 years older.

[Ayers]

I've dated girls older than me, but I think I would prefer someone younger.

+1yr
-5yrs

Of course none of those numbers are set in stone.

[karizma]

>> why do you like dating younger?

[Ayers]

>> why do you like dating younger?

When I was dating girls that were older than me, I felt like it was a constant subject of discussion. I think in each instance the girl was more uncomfortable about it than I was, but the fact that it bothered her bothered me. So I've reached the point where I'd rather avoid any hangups from the start. A preference of conveniance I guess.

To be fair, we were both fairly young, 1 or 2 yrs in high school/college makes a big difference. And though I like to think of myself as a mature individual I probably had a lot to learn (and still do!)

[AliBabaIncorporated]

i prefer dating girls who are older than me. but everyone is against it. even my own mother!?!? what annoys me is that a lot of girls in university won't even think of looking at you as anything other than a friend once they find out you're younger and in the year behind them. but then they'll turn around and say BS like "Age is just a number" to justify themselves when they're flirting with some grad student who's 4 or 5 years older than them.

in my frosh year most of the time I hung out with some juniors who lived on my floor, though I also had a clique of other frosh I hung out with sometimes. But I always noticed, whenever I met an older girl, her attitude towards me was pretty determined by who I was hanging out with the first time she met me.

If I was with my junior friends, then she'd recognize them as juniors and, even though she didn't recognize me, she'd assume I was also around the same age, and she didn't recognize me personally cuz she thought I was a transfer student or something. And she'd be a lot more open to me flirting with her. But when I met older girls while hanging around my frosh friends, they'd immediately start treating me like their little brother and give me a total cold shoulder if I tried to flirt. it really annoyed the hell outta me.

[Barbs]

my ex started dating a super young girl about 6 months back. she was all of 20 and he is 30. all this indicated to me is that girls these days are just taller, more developed and i, in my mid-20s, can't compete with the likes of these nubile young chicks. *sigh*

what are they feeding kids these days?

****

when i was 18 i dated someone 8 years older than me. it was a very *paternal* relationship and most of the time that's what it felt like. looking back, i can only say, what the hell was i thinking???

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Barbs@Aug 13 2002, 12:29 AM
my ex started dating a super young girl about 6 months back. she was all of 20 and he is 30. all this indicated to me is that girls these days are just taller, more developed and i, in my mid-20s, can't compete with the likes of these nubile young chicks. *sigh*

what are they feeding kids these days?

****

when i was 18 i dated someone 8 years older than me. it was a very *paternal* relationship and most of the time that's what it felt like. looking back, i can only say, what the hell was i thinking???
hey, my cousin (who is 25 just like me) happens to be dating an 18-year old. i've generally set my lower age limit to about 21 or so. but seeing that he's dating an 18-year old makes me think that maybe it's not so bad after all.

[Barbs]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Aug 13 2002, 04:53 PM
hey, my cousin (who is 25 just like me) happens to be dating an 18-year old. i've generally set my lower age limit to about 21 or so. but seeing that he's dating an 18-year old makes me think that maybe it's not so bad after all.
what does a 25 year old man (boy-man actually) have to say to an 18 year old girl??? i find 18 year old girls generally very umm...annoying (no offense to those mature 18 year old girls in this forum!!!)

did i mention my ex is having LOTS of trouble with his little child-gf? apparently a lot of things are not easily understood by children....

as a girl, i definitely would have trouble dating a younger guy at this age...

[noname]

Is the age of the potential partner relative to that of your siblings a factor in your preferences or requirements?
My younger brother is 5 years younger than me, and I'd feel weird hanging out with, let alone date, someone younger than him (or even close to his age). Should I feel that way?
My older brother is almost 8 years older than me... I dunno if I wanna go there... :P



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[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Barbs@Aug 13 2002, 01:21 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Aug 13 2002, 04:53 PM
hey, my cousin (who is 25 just like me) happens to be dating an 18-year old. &nbsp;i've generally set my lower age limit to about 21 or so. &nbsp;but seeing that he's dating an 18-year old makes me think that maybe it's not so bad after all.
what does a 25 year old man (boy-man actually) have to say to an 18 year old girl??? i find 18 year old girls generally very umm...annoying (no offense to those mature 18 year old girls in this forum!!!)

did i mention my ex is having LOTS of trouble with his little child-gf? apparently a lot of things are not easily understood by children....

as a girl, i definitely would have trouble dating a younger guy at this age...
i don't know. my cousin and i don't actually live in the same city so i've never seen them together. but i think they've been together for at least half a year now. he doesn't seem to have any problems with it. or if he does, he's not telling me. perhaps his girlfriend really is more mature than the average 18-year old. but i can see how it would be difficult for the much younger person to understand the older person in the relationship because you're just in completely different periods of your lives.

[deez nuts]

well girls do mature faster than guys!

[angel nympho]

I'm dating a guy who's 23. I'm 18... we started *hooking up* when I was 17 and he was 22, though. It doesn't bother me that he's old and it doesn't bother him that I'm young (well of course it doesn't, who whould turn down sex with an 18 year old?!?)

He almost got busted once, but luckily I had just turned 18 the week before, so they couldn't do anything about it.... but those cops SWORE on their LIVES that i was like, 14 or something...

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Aug 15 2002, 09:47 PM


He almost got busted once, but luckily I had just turned 18 the week before, so they couldn't do anything about it.... but those cops SWORE on their LIVES that i was like, 14 or something...
Lol that's pretty raw.

[thaite]

I went out with a 17-year old when I was 22. I guess that's my biggest gap.

That is all.

[DWongster]

Age difference is certainly not a fixed number.

Depending on how um..."chronologically gifted" you are, that number should vary. I'd say:

Teen years: + or - 1 year max.
Early 20's: - 2 to + 8
Mid 20's: - 4 to + 10
Late 20's: - 6 to whatever

When you reach the late 20's and beyond, you should be able to figure it out ;)

[angel nympho]

Either way, as long as it's not DISGUSTINGLY WEIRD... It shouldn't really matter. Just because somebody I date was born at a different time than me, does that make them any less of a good person? :)

But there are lines you can cross... Age isn't one of these lines. Maturity, however, is. It just so happens that age and maturity come hand in hand.

[purezero]

Hmm... should I share? It seems as though I'm a young'n here.

Anyway, I just want to know why someone who is 18+ would want to date someone 16-. Because yeah... Take the time when I was 12... but I won't go into that.

My brother points out old people (and I mean OLD) who check me out. My friends, too. It gets scary.

As for my preference, I prefer older (at the most 4 years). Funny thing though, I date younger more often than older. But that's by like... a few months. I don't think I could go younger than that. Then my brother would be older than them. The thought is weird.



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[angel nympho]

Mine is 23. I think it helps that he acts my age, though.

[ChinaLama]

I think it depends more on what ages both people are at, because it's also a matter of life experience and social status based on age. For instance, I'm almost master's degree, (technically) a full-time worker. I would feel ashamed if I went out with a high schooler, even though the age difference would only be 4 to 5 years. But if a college student goes out w/ a 30 yr old, it's different, because 1) college students are automatically seen as "adults" rather than as adolescents or as kids 2) a college student can understand the experiences of a 30 yr old worker better b/c they share more similar experiences.


P.S. Babies on the other hand appeal to all ages. The one thing they know how to do is to SUCK, and they're MAD tight.

yum yum, babies. yeah, i like them roasted. Now THATS the other white meat.




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[Craig]

Originally posted by ChinaLama@Oct 20 2002, 09:12 AM
P.S. Babies on the other hand appeal to all ages. The one thing they know how to do is to SUCK, and they're MAD tight.

yum yum, babies. yeah, i like them roasted. Now THATS the other white meat.
I see we have a fan of the works of Johnathan Swift in the forums :rolleyes:

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Craig@Oct 20 2002, 09:18 AM
Originally posted by ChinaLama@Oct 20 2002, 09:12 AM
P.S. Babies on the other hand appeal to all ages. The one thing they know how to do is to SUCK, and they're MAD tight.

yum yum, babies. yeah, i like them roasted. Now THATS the other white meat.
I see we have a fan of the works of Johnathan Swift in the forums :rolleyes:
nah irish babies would have been too skinny cuz their moms would have been stone drunk during pregnancy. hell, it'd be even worse if they breast feed their kids.


Ok, that was my racist comment for the day.

[jimbo]

I'm 30 and can't seem to find anybody my age thats still single. I'm in the position where I've got young girls interested in me and when I say young thats the 16-18 bracket!! And I'm not going to do anything as its far too much of a gap.

Or alternatively I had middle aged divorcee's interested all with a ready made family.

[igcognito]

If you are 18 and under, 2 years.



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[wylin]

heres sum words of wisdom for jimbo

"as long as she can pee shez good enuff for mee"

"if she bleeds, she needs"

"if theirs grass on the field play ball"

jk date grad students an go bar hoping and clubbing good ways to meet girls who have non clubber/ alchoholic friends.

"work smarter not harder"

[wylin]

seriously tho for me like i was explaining to angel before via aim.

- i dont TYPICALLY date neone under 21 cuz its no fun u cant goto bars or clubs legally.

- if u are under 21 u are no more then my little brothers age. meaning u are atleast 18 and legal. and for me to pick a girl 18-20 she better be a godess. like angels cute friend at ucsd. :ph34r:

-if u are under 18 u auto-fail

-most of times u auto-fail before the age req comes in.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by wylin@Oct 20 2002, 05:55 PM
"if theirs grass on the field play ball"
If there's no grass on the field, flip 'em over and play in the mud. :blink:

[karizma]

>> angel: hahaha cute!!

>> chinalama: you scare me =( lol...stay away from my cat haha...and i know youd throw away all your rules for a chance to date an olsen twin!!!

>> lately ive been interested in guys 20-24 =(...i like old fogeys hahaha...i dont think ive ever date a guy who wasnt older than me =/...i dont want to either.

[amietron]

Originally posted by karizma@Oct 20 2002, 04:50 PM
>> lately ive been interested in guys 20-24 =(...i like old fogeys hahaha...i dont think ive ever date a guy who wasnt older than me =/...i dont want to either.
muhehe. :D

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Oct 20 2002, 07:50 PM


>> lately ive been interested in guys 20-24 =(...i like old fogeys hahaha
What the?!?!?!

Damn some of us here must be jurassic to you then. Sheeeeit, make me feel like a damn fossil. 20-24 are old fogey's, where's the love?

[karizma]

>> csb: aww boo yknow i got much love for you lol...im just kidding about the old fogey thing you arent old...ur middle aged lol [kidding] :luv: :luv: :luv:

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Oct 20 2002, 10:18 PM
Originally posted by wylin@Oct 20 2002, 05:55 PM
"if theirs grass on the field play ball"
If there's no grass on the field, flip 'em over and play in the mud. :blink:
LOL!

hershey hiiiiiighwaaaay...... baby!

[bluecollarjap]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 21 2002, 12:56 AM
Originally posted by karizma@Oct 20 2002, 07:50 PM


>> lately ive been interested in guys 20-24 =(...i like old fogeys hahaha
What the?!?!?!

Damn some of us here must be jurassic to you then. Sheeeeit, make me feel like a damn fossil. 20-24 are old fogey's, where's the love?
i'm 26. i've always been interested in the older ladies. a classy 35 year old is sexy. lowest i'll go is 25 i guess, maybe lower if she can fool me with some class and maturity. i've always been that way. as a 16 year old i was the only cool cat with a 20 year old girl. now i'm thinking that chick had problems hanging with a 16 year old. on the other hand, what am i going to do when i'm 35. date a 45 year old. might get a bit weird.

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by bluecollarjap@Oct 21 2002, 07:32 AM
i'm 26. i've always been interested in the older ladies. a classy 35 year old is sexy. lowest i'll go is 25 i guess, maybe lower if she can fool me with some class and maturity. i've always been that way. as a 16 year old i was the only cool cat with a 20 year old girl. now i'm thinking that chick had problems hanging with a 16 year old. on the other hand, what am i going to do when i'm 35. date a 45 year old. might get a bit weird.
So how do you feel about 30 yr old hapa women? Oh wait, I have neither class nor maturity. :mellow:

[bluecollarjap]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 21 2002, 03:51 PM
Originally posted by bluecollarjap@Oct 21 2002, 07:32 AM
i'm 26. &nbsp;i've always been interested in the older ladies. &nbsp;a classy 35 year old is sexy. &nbsp;lowest i'll go is 25 i guess, maybe lower if she can fool me with some class and maturity. &nbsp;i've always been that way. &nbsp;as a 16 year old i was the only cool cat with a 20 year old girl. &nbsp;now i'm thinking that chick had problems hanging with a 16 year old. &nbsp;on the other hand, what am i going to do when i'm 35. &nbsp;date a 45 year old. &nbsp;might get a bit weird.
So how do you feel about 30 yr old hapa women? Oh wait, I have neither class nor maturity. :mellow:
ahhhhh 30, i love the older women, but have never been a home wrecker. has anyone ventured there?

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by bluecollarjap@Oct 21 2002, 11:24 AM
but have never been a home wrecker. has anyone ventured there?
Yeah I have. To make a long story short. We've dated, her parents didn't approve of me (because I'm Chinese and not a Christian boy). They pushed her to marry this other guy, her ex who proposed cuz he's a psycho and doesn't know when to let go. I told her to do what you have to do. She was looking for marriage, I wasn't. She did it to appease her family and more so there was no guarantee that I would've married her. A year into her marriage we were hooking up at the hotel in midtown once a month. But I called it off, once I got serious with my current.

They're still together, but sleeping in separate bedrooms. Because divorce is a no-no for her folks.

[bluecollarjap]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 21 2002, 04:32 PM

They're still together, but sleeping in separate bedrooms. Because divorce is a no-no for her folks.
sleeping in separate bedrooms. my girl just recently moved in and we have our own bedrooms. i need to be able to sleep unrestricted is my thing.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by bluecollarjap@Oct 21 2002, 11:47 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 21 2002, 04:32 PM

They're still together, but sleeping in separate bedrooms. Because divorce is a no-no for her folks.
sleeping in separate bedrooms. my girl just recently moved in and we have our own bedrooms. i need to be able to sleep unrestricted is my thing.
Yeah, but it isn't his choice. I've heard rumors of her denying him sex and also heard she didn't give it up to him on the wedding night. This all from her friend, so the validity I have no idea, it's not my problem now.

I guess he made his bed, so sleep in it.

All's fair in love and war.

Fact is I prolly would've said no if it was any other situation. But, the guy got my number thru the hospital directory and actually called my place to threaten me a few times, while me and her were still dating. So I had no qualms at all in saying yes, when she approached me with the propositon.



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[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 21 2002, 05:04 PM
Originally posted by bluecollarjap@Oct 21 2002, 11:47 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 21 2002, 04:32 PM

They're still together, but sleeping in separate bedrooms. Because divorce is a no-no for her folks.
sleeping in separate bedrooms. my girl just recently moved in and we have our own bedrooms. i need to be able to sleep unrestricted is my thing.
Yeah, but it isn't his choice. I've heard rumors of her denying him sex and also heard she didn't give it up to him on the wedding night. This all from her friend, so the validity I have no idea, it's not my problem now.

I guess he made his bed, so sleep in it.

All's fair in love and war.

Fact is I prolly would've said no if it was any other situation. But, the guy got my number thru the hospital directory and actually called my place to threaten me a few times, while me and her were still dating. So I had no qualms at all in saying yes, when she approached me with the propositon.
too bad you couldn't make him raise your son.

errr ok maybe that'd be TOO cruel...to the kid.

[wylin]

if sumone did that to me and messed up my marriage i'd just go infect my self w/ sum STD then infect my wife then, give the adulter via my wife in the vein of sharing is caring. =X

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by wylin@Oct 21 2002, 10:14 AM
if sumone did that to me and messed up my marriage i'd just go infect my self w/ sum STD then infect my wife then, give the adulter via my wife in the vein of sharing is caring. =X
yeah

:retard:

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by wylin@Oct 21 2002, 01:14 PM
if sumone did that to me and messed up my marriage i'd just go infect my self w/ sum STD then infect my wife then, give the adulter via my wife in the vein of sharing is caring. =X
The marriage was done before it began or she wouldn't have came to me with the proposition straight out of the blue.

Do I feel guilty for doing it? A little. Do I feel bad for him? Hellz no, payback's a bitch.

[wylin]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 21 2002, 04:58 PM
Originally posted by wylin@Oct 21 2002, 01:14 PM
if sumone did that to me and messed up my marriage i'd just go infect my self w/ sum STD then infect my wife then, give the adulter via my wife in the vein of sharing is caring. =X
The marriage was done before it began or she wouldn't have came to me with the proposition straight out of the blue.

Do I feel guilty for doing it? A little. Do I feel bad for him? Hellz no, payback's a bitch.
lol bunboy gonna get found dead in a ditch killed by a psycho if hez not careful. just run him over w/ the mercedes if he ever finds out and goes psycho, 350 glorious horses on his chest =X

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by wylin@Oct 21 2002, 07:59 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 21 2002, 04:58 PM
Originally posted by wylin@Oct 21 2002, 01:14 PM
if sumone did that to me and messed up my marriage i'd just go infect my self w/ sum STD then infect my wife then, give the adulter via my wife in the vein of sharing is caring. =X
The marriage was done before it began or she wouldn't have came to me with the proposition straight out of the blue.

Do I feel guilty for doing it? A little. Do I feel bad for him? Hellz no, payback's a bitch.
lol bunboy gonna get found dead in a ditch killed by a psycho if hez not careful. just run him over w/ the mercedes if he ever finds out and goes psycho, 350 glorious horses on his chest =X
He'll prolly kill himself if he finds out rather than kill me. He moist like that. And if she cheated on him with me, I'm pretty sure there was others. Besides, it's been almost a year.

He ain't worth getting run over by Huffy bike let alone a Benz.

Yeah, I hear ya though, I'm pushing my luck.



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[Chris]

The guy I am dating right now we have about a good 13 year age difference. Not that it bother both of us. He a great guy and we see how far this relationship will go!

[jimbo]

Originally posted by Chris@Oct 22 2002, 01:36 AM
The guy I am dating right now we have about a good 13 year age difference. Not that it bother both of us. He a great guy and we see how far this relationship will go!
As long as you're both happy then theres no problem, Just go out there and have fun. :)

[amietron]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 21 2002, 05:14 PM
He'll prolly kill himself if he finds out rather than kill me. He moist like that. And if she cheated on him with me, I'm pretty sure there was others. Besides, it's been almost a year.
that sounds like something out of Gatsby..

[karizma]

>> lol hey amie ur right...haha ok i feel like a dork. *ahyuk hyuk*

>> chris: lawdies...13 year age difference??? well..i guess its okie for you since you arent like..17 haha..but dayammmm...well hope all is well with you bro...dont call anyone different names during sex lol...

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by amietron@Oct 22 2002, 05:31 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 21 2002, 05:14 PM
He'll prolly kill himself if he finds out rather than kill me. &nbsp;He moist like that. &nbsp;And if she cheated on him with me, I'm pretty sure there was others. Besides, it's been almost a year.
that sounds like something out of Gatsby..
I don't get it.

[Hanuman]

I just turned 29 yesterday(ouch!) and earlier this year I've dated a woman as young as 21, and the age difference didn't really matter. I've also hooked up with a woman that was 7 years older then me. Although we had a good time, I think we were both at different points in our lives so we didn't have that much in common. It's all about the chemistry, though ideally, I'd prefer someone who's 25-30, so we've both been through the same types of things already, and there's something to be said about that....

On the other hand if a girl's hot and she's 20 years old and shows an interest in me, it's gonna be really hard to say 'no' :unsure:

[Green_Jade]

I'd go a year younger and 4 yrs older,...for now.

I've had two relationships my whole life unless you want to count that phase in mylife when I was basically the only 2nd grader in my class who had a guy-friend therefore it was a boy friend, haha, kids.

my first ex was a year younger than me, and my other ex, 4 yrs older...hehe.

but I'll change my age limit if someone right comes around.

[jimbo]

Originally posted by Tawee@Oct 22 2002, 11:01 PM

On the other hand if a girl's hot and she's 20 years old and shows an interest in me, it's gonna be really hard to say 'no' :unsure:
I know exactly what you mean though, I'm 30 and like somebody who is quite a bit younger but not sure what to do about it. <_<

[LT25]

My parents have an 11 yr age difference and I dated w/ a 10 yr and a 5yr age difference once. B) Both were over 18 or course.

[LilCPChik]

16 and 21???

[angel nympho]

^-- Werd. I met the boy when I was 16, and he was 21. We first hooked up when I was 17 and he was 22. Now I'm legal. So it's allowed, now. We got a lot of criticism from friends when I was 16 and he kept talking about how he wanted to hook up.

[blkazngirl]

Originally posted by noname@Aug 8 2002, 07:58 PM
For dating and possibly having a relationship....

How much younger than you are you willing to go? And how much older ?
I wonder how your gender and own age affects this.

Any potential cradle-rockers or Anna Nicole types here? :)
Five years older and two years younger. Anything younger I won't date, but we can hang out and chill together.