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kasia
07-26-2002, 03:52 PM
do you baby the asian females around you?
thaite
07-26-2002, 04:05 PM
No, high-maintanance chicas who need constant reassurrance and babying are initially cute, but get tiresome [i:7cd157acdf]real[/i:7cd157acdf] fast.
CrX3183
07-26-2002, 04:27 PM
I don't baby anyone, everyone gets the same kind of attention (no attetntion) :wink: jk
princess
07-26-2002, 04:32 PM
ugh when i see couples like that i feel sorry for the guy. i think, "females arent helpless..make her do something herself." the poor fellah loses out in the end...hes the one whos whipped.
SunWuKong
07-26-2002, 05:22 PM
depends on how whipped i am. i've been pathetic and i've also been quite the asshole.
angelnympho
07-27-2002, 05:28 PM
no, they're normal people. they can do things for themselves. i tend to baby the cute little white boys though. :)
deez nuts
07-28-2002, 03:52 PM
Kinda going with angelnympho. I tend to baby the girls when I am dating outside the Asian race. Why? I don't know, it's just been the trend I noticed. Maybe I am just trying to shoplift the pooty? <shrug>
karizma
07-28-2002, 05:02 PM
>> what do you mean by baby? i like my guys to open doors for me and do the usual gentlemanly things...but i dont like when a guy showers me with gifts, acts like im some fragile porcelain doll, and hangs around me 24/7. im a big girl i can take care of myself. for the most part i like being treated like an equal nothing higher and mos def nothing below or ill have to bring out my whip *whoopaahh*
deez nuts
07-29-2002, 10:30 AM
Is it possible that asian girls when dating asian guys, look to the asian guy as a "father figure" thats why they are more proned to be babied when dating an asian guy as opposed to dating a white guy? Not counting cases of adoption or mixed marriages. But in the case of asian-asian marriages the dominant male figure in your life growing up was your dad. Not in any means to sound sexist or too freudian, but I have heard this theory from a few asian women that I know.
wylin
07-29-2002, 11:47 AM
wats the point of babying relationships should be between equals
kasia
07-29-2002, 12:13 PM
[quote:09a2d826a2="Chasiubao_Boy"]Is it possible that asian girls when dating asian guys, look to the asian guy as a "father figure" thats why they are more proned to be babied when dating an asian guy as opposed to dating a white guy? Not counting cases of adoption or mixed marriages. But in the case of asian-asian marriages the dominant male figure in your life growing up was your dad. Not in any means to sound sexist or too freudian, but I have heard this theory from a few asian women that I know.[/quote:09a2d826a2]

i think it happens quite often (as gross as it may sound). in some cases, maybe even just an older brother figure rather than a father figure. hence, in many traditional chinese relationships, the women call the men 'goh' and in many korean relationships, 'oppa'...
SunWuKong
07-29-2002, 02:35 PM
[quote:caef553754="kasia"]i think it happens quite often (as gross as it may sound). in some cases, maybe even just an older brother figure rather than a father figure. hence, in many traditional chinese relationships, the women call the men 'goh' and in many korean relationships, 'oppa'...[/quote:caef553754]


yeah this is true, but you know, i've never heard any chinese girl or woman refer to her boyfriend as "goh" (or "ge" in mandarin). i've only seen this on tv and movies when they were supposed to be in historical periods of time.
wylin
07-29-2002, 02:46 PM
[quote:1a6cdfdbaa="SunWuKung"][quote:1a6cdfdbaa="kasia"]i think it happens quite often (as gross as it may sound). in some cases, maybe even just an older brother figure rather than a father figure. hence, in many traditional chinese relationships, the women call the men 'goh' and in many korean relationships, 'oppa'...[/quote:1a6cdfdbaa]


yeah this is true, but you know, i've never heard any chinese girl or woman refer to her boyfriend as "goh" (or "ge" in mandarin). i've only seen this on tv and movies when they were supposed to be in historical periods of time.[/quote:1a6cdfdbaa]

thats just not right having relations w/ a girl and calling her mei and her calling u ge ge, thats just sick next u'll be saying "shei si nide ba ba" =P whose ur daddy...=P
karizma
08-01-2002, 05:18 PM
>> yea and when she misbehaves be like "da nide pi gu!!" ....yea im not mandarin gimme a break.
mrazntre
08-02-2002, 12:44 AM
"gimme some ass!"
hehehe


Are you sure "oppa" doesnt' mean "DADDY" ???

I don't baby females, let alone asian females. I hit em when they hit me.
SunWuKong
08-02-2002, 01:09 AM
[quote:67e3386d80="mrazntre"]"gimme some ass!"
hehehe


Are you sure "oppa" doesnt' mean "DADDY" ???

I don't baby females, let alone asian females. I hit em when they hit me.[/quote:67e3386d80]

actually it means "spank your ass"

and "oppa" is what a girl calls her older brother, or an older male out of respect.
mrazntre
08-02-2002, 06:08 PM
yah i know what oppa means....


but oppa really should mean "daddy"