girls you date vs. girls you would marry

[kasia]

disparity?

[CrX3183]

I'm too young to think about marrige, but if i do get married i get free housing off base. lol :wink:

[wylin]

no disparity for me just the ones i date and the ones i marry are or are not psycho.

[deez nuts]

I think both sexes do it. But from my perspective, the girls I generally view as girls you would date and not marry are the ones that you get along great, but can't spent every waking moment together like in an marriage.

I hit a comfort zone, when things are going great I kinda want to maintain the status quo and not risk anything that might change it like moving in together and marriage. And right now I don't foresee myself getting married till after I am done with residency and past my final licensing exam. I kinda skipped out on the fourth year med school rush where couples get married before they start residency.

[amietron]

shoot.
just
marry
me.
:wink:

[deez nuts]

I need a pretend wife to get my parents off my ass! Gah, there is no satisfying them.

[BigYellowStorm]

there have been many women that I have just dated and not even thought marriage with... those tend to be the fun loving ones... the ones that I can just throw down with and enjoy time with... the ones that talk marriage I am out the door... I am too young to want to get tied down now...

[princess]

i vote we extend a similar question to the ladies. im too young to think about marriage...wanna wait till im 30...but all my life my elders have told me what they expect my husband to be like. add that to what i personally want and i already have an idea of what to look for.

[amietron]

[quote:7757a4b64a="Chasiubao_Boy"]I need a pretend wife to get my parents off my ass! Gah, there is no satisfying them.[/quote:7757a4b64a]

if i'm ever in NYC in the near future, and you still need help getting them off your back, i'll help you.

[princess]

it would be harder for you to help him cuz a) youre not always around and b) he'll have to lie to cover for your absence

take your time with tha ladies if u wanna, Chasiubao_Boy. dont rush or be pressured into pretending.

[kasia]

28 is old. i can't believe you're not married. ick.

[deez nuts]

amitron: 0_o. you mean like in the movies? I guess, we can always split the wedding gifts and receive that tax break!

princess: thanks for the advice. I don't really listen to my folks when they babble about it, it's in one ear out the other. My problem isn't meeting women, it's the fact they get disgruntled that they are placed second to my career, so I just keep it casual and go from there. But you women want it all as time goes by!

kasia: that's exactly what my mom and her other female friend's say. Just replaced the "ick" with "aiyah."

[kasia]

i was just kidding. single at 28 is practically the norm nowadays, no? i thought most men wouldn't consider marriage until they hit their early 30's. do your parents really want grandkids? or do they just want you to get married soon for some other reason?

[amietron]

[quote:935718835b="kasia"]i was just kidding. single at 28 is practically the norm nowadays, no? i thought most men wouldn't consider marriage until they hit their early 30's. do your parents really want grandkids? or do they just want you to get married soon for some other reason?[/quote:935718835b]

i was watching [i:935718835b]the view[/i:935718835b] earlier today, and according to statistics, if you're: 1) over the age of 20, 2) a college graduate, 3) earn a stable income $$$, your marriage is proven to last longer than someone who doesn't meet those criteria.

i think a lot of people postpone marriage until their early 30s because in their late 20s, they're busy settling into their professions. they need to concentrate on making money, establishing themselves in the professional world, that sorta thing. a lot of it revolves around $$$-- paying off college loans, etc., etc.

for the parents, i think it's like, "we're old. we don't want to not be mobile when we finally have our grandchildren, so have them early while we can still move around. we're going to die soon." something like that? maybe?

[deez nuts]

Nah, my parents are just crazy.

Seriously right now for me career > long term relationships right now.

I just don't think it's fair to be involved in a long term relationship with someone when you barely have time for yourself, that seems reasonable to me.

I mean I do date, but it rarely develops to anything more than a casual relationship since there isn't much time or room to cultivate the relationship.

[SunWuKong]

i don't think i'll be mature enough for marriage until i'm at least 30. which is 5 years from now. just don't think i can handle the responsibilities. actually i'm not even sure i want to get married.

[mizkisses]

[quote:309fa5983e="Chasiubao_Boy"]I need a pretend wife to get my parents off my ass! Gah, there is no satisfying them.[/quote:309fa5983e]

rent-a-bride.

[deez nuts]

[quote:1ab9939dc9="mizkisses"][quote:1ab9939dc9="Chasiubao_Boy"]I need a pretend wife to get my parents off my ass! Gah, there is no satisfying them.[/quote:1ab9939dc9]

rent-a-bride.[/quote:1ab9939dc9]

Not that desperate to appease them, yet anyways.

[mizkisses]

[quote:7a215118e7="Chasiubao_Boy"][quote:7a215118e7="mizkisses"][quote:7a215118e7="Chasiubao_Boy"]I need a pretend wife to get my parents off my ass! Gah, there is no satisfying them.[/quote:7a215118e7]

rent-a-bride.[/quote:7a215118e7]

Not that desperate to appease them, yet anyways.[/quote:7a215118e7]

grab a female friend and tell your parents she's your wife. and then when you do find your dream girl, tell your parents you and your "wife" decided to have a divorce. and then yada yada yada.

haha sounds like a television show..

[thaite]

I'll marry when I and my future-bride damn well feel like. My parents can't guilt-trip me.