asian guys or white guys? [Archive]

kasia

07-02-2002, 12:47 PM

[quote:03a4d3f0e5="angelnympho"][quote:03a4d3f0e5="kasia"][quote:03a4d3f0e5="angelnympho"]*giggles* hey hey hey... saying whether you like white men or asian men is like... saying which haircut you like the best on a guy... but in the end, if its the right guy... it doesnt really matter what his haircut is... or what his ethnicity is...
but i cant help it if the whole lust side of me leans more towards white guys. >=)[/quote:03a4d3f0e5]

but can you say that you've had your fair share of both?[/quote:03a4d3f0e5]

yeah, i can.[/quote:03a4d3f0e5]

well, there you have it guys. for all you guys whining about white guys stealing your women--[i:03a4d3f0e5]this [/i:03a4d3f0e5]is why.

and i'm just going to have to take her word for it b/c i [i:03a4d3f0e5]haven't[/i:03a4d3f0e5] had my fair share. someone tell me why i should think otherwise. :wink:

Arex

07-02-2002, 01:06 PM

[quote:a55784a69b="achtungbaby"][quote:a55784a69b="Arex"]All I know is that white boys fucking stink.

Alex[/quote:a55784a69b]

But how do you really [/i:a55784a69b]feel?[/quote:a55784a69b]

Okay, you got me. I [i]really think caucasian men all smell of roses. Additionally, the size of every white man's penis makes me feel inadequate. :evil:

Alex

thaite

07-02-2002, 01:43 PM

[quote:d4aed9cf3a="Arex"][quote:d4aed9cf3a="achtungbaby"][quote:d4aed9cf3a="Arex"]All I know is that white boys fucking stink.

Alex[/quote:d4aed9cf3a]

But how do you really [/i:d4aed9cf3a]feel?[/quote:d4aed9cf3a]

Okay, you got me. I [i]really think caucasian men all smell of roses. Additionally, the size of every white man's penis makes me feel inadequate. :evil:

Alex[/quote:d4aed9cf3a]

Hey, I work out at a gym, and I [i:d4aed9cf3a]know[/i:d4aed9cf3a] I have nothing to feel inadequate about.

DaBestSpooner

07-02-2002, 02:08 PM

What about black guys?

Hollah!

[quote:e06d87b8f1="angelnympho"]why not both?

i guess if i have to choose, i'd choose white... just because if you put the best looking white man in the world next to the best looking asian man in the world... the white guy's hot. and half asian kids are so cute. :)[/quote:e06d87b8f1]

Arex

07-02-2002, 03:16 PM

[quote:e4c43eedf0="kasia"]
well, there you have it guys. for all you guys whining about white guys stealing your women--[i:e4c43eedf0]this [/i:e4c43eedf0]is why.

and i'm just going to have to take her word for it b/c i [i:e4c43eedf0]haven't[/i:e4c43eedf0] had my fair share. someone tell me why i should think otherwise. :wink:[/quote:e4c43eedf0]

I recall someone making some sorta statement about the "quality" or "types" of the women who tend to be swayed, but I shall not repeat it here.=P

Seriously though, everyone's got their own personal preferences. I think it's sometimes helpful to look inside ourselves to try to ascertain the various bases for our preferences, however, rather than just blindly accepting them.

Alex

achtungbaby

07-02-2002, 03:25 PM

[quote:67371bb859="Arex"]...the size of every white man's penis makes me feel inadequate.[/quote:67371bb859]

*pats alex on back*

There, there...they'll never have your [i:67371bb859]brains[/i:67371bb859].

kasia

07-02-2002, 03:43 PM

[quote:8d23c83d49="Arex"][quote:8d23c83d49="kasia"]
well, there you have it guys. for all you guys whining about white guys stealing your women--[i:8d23c83d49]this [/i:8d23c83d49]is why.

and i'm just going to have to take her word for it b/c i [i:8d23c83d49]haven't[/i:8d23c83d49] had my fair share. someone tell me why i should think otherwise. :wink:[/quote:8d23c83d49]

I recall someone making some sorta statement about the "quality" or "types" of the women who tend to be swayed, but I shall not repeat it here.=P

Alex[/quote:8d23c83d49]

yeh, i'd agree with that. i think she'd be able to follow a conversation much easier with an average white guy than an average asian guy.

DaBestSpooner

07-02-2002, 04:04 PM

yeah politics, finance, science, literature, music, hbo, is a harder than color by number books, elimindate, upn, tom clancy, and kanji tattoos

[quote:e0880d3d34="kasia"][
yeh, i'd agree with that. i think she'd be able to follow a conversation much easier with an average white guy than an average asian guy.[/quote:e0880d3d34]

kasia

07-02-2002, 04:14 PM

actually, i think that was kinda a low blow.

she still is making a more convincing argument than you guys.

angelnympho

07-02-2002, 06:43 PM

[quote:0051c44001="kasia"]yeh, i'd agree with that. i think she'd be able to follow a conversation much easier with an average white guy than an average asian guy.[/quote:0051c44001]

yeh.

Arex

07-02-2002, 06:48 PM

[quote:7d738a5a2b="kasia"]actually, i think that was kinda a low blow.

she still is making a more convincing argument than you guys.[/quote:7d738a5a2b]

I don't think I ever necessarily disagreed with her position ('cept the thing about Asian males being lesser endowed--that's just stupid and actually quite offensive). Angelnymph is right: In the end, all that matters is whether a person's right for you. If the person's truly "right," then it shouldn't matter whether they're tall, short, fat, skinny, ripped, balding, spikey-haired, black, white, red, yellow, male or female.

I would argue, however, that if you identify as an Asian-American, take pride in the fact that you're an Asian-American and actually take an interest in Asian-American issues and culture, the "right" person for you is more likely than not Asian-American. For example, my preference is for Asian-American women because we're more likely to have common interests, common experiences, common family backgrounds and what not. Yeah, white women might be nice to look at as well, but when it comes down to it, they're white and aren't really in tune to the Asian-American (or other minority) experience (which is not to say that we've necessarily got it bad or anything, but our experiences will color our perspectives on various issues).

Alex

kasia

07-02-2002, 06:51 PM

well, i also have a sneaking suspicion that she doesn't have good reasons for liking white guys more than asian guys.

i mean, getting along with them better--that's a good reason.

but thinking that asian guys have not as well-endowed... 8O

Arex

07-02-2002, 07:04 PM

Well, it may just come down to different priorities. Do you want someone you can relate to better or do you just want a good pounding?

If you're more into the former, then your preference would probably just depend on your own personal experiences (i.e., how honkeyfied a.k.a. white-washed are you?).

If you're more into the latter, and you buy into stupid stereotypes, then you'd probably be better off with an African-American dude--not a white dude. If that's what she's into, go for it.

Alex

angelnympho

07-02-2002, 07:10 PM

*sigh* i see what happens when you try to make a joke on this thread. :roll:

personally, i like white guys better. we're a better match. we have more fun. they're just as smart. they're just as good looking. i've dated a lot of both... and i just wasnt into the things most of the asian guys i dated were. didn't like racing cars, didn't like sitting in small groups, didn't like hip hop clubs, didn't like shopping at banana republic.

i like surfing, i like punk music, i like skateboards, i like trucks, and i like dirt bikes. a lot more white guys do that than asian guys... so sue me... the selection of asian guys w/ the same hobbies as me are a lot slimmer. hell if i find an asian guy who's into the same stuff as i am and is the type of guy that i'd date, i'd give him just as good of a chance.

and if you REALLY want to know, asian guys and white guys have CLOSE to the same size dicks as long as they're hard. limp is always a different story. and there's exceptions to every rule. the biggest dick i've seen was filipino. the smallest one was asian too. so what, who cares, i dont even LIKE sex that much.

kasia

07-02-2002, 07:12 PM

fair enough re: your reasons for prefering white males.

LilCPChik

07-02-2002, 07:24 PM

azn guyz cuz they hairless.. i dunt like hair on chest or hairy hairy legs.. or hair on arms... thos kinda things

angelnympho

07-02-2002, 07:43 PM

[quote:ceac72df2a="LilCPChik"]azn guyz cuz they hairless.. i dunt like hair on chest or hairy hairy legs.. or hair on arms... thos kinda things[/quote:ceac72df2a]
white boys like to shave.... :wink:

Saiko

07-02-2002, 08:25 PM

I guess it's all the same to me. If I like 'em, I like 'em. Though... I'm more attracted to white men. One reason is because I've been raised around them, the other reasons are the same as Angel's reasons for liking them. I can't find any Asian guys that like punk or rock. Hardly any that do extreme sports like I do. But there's still nothing wrong with Asian guys. I can relate to them better. In fact, I'm dating one. Found out that many Asian parents are very similar. And yes, they're much less hairy. :D

princess

07-02-2002, 09:53 PM

who cares about whether or not theyre hairy? the only hair that matters to me is that hair on their head. :D

deez nuts

07-03-2002, 05:33 AM

I don't think we should really jump down Angelnympho's throat. She stated she doesn't really care what race her date is, so long as they got along. So if the bulk of the guys she meets are white and they have something in common, hey why not? It happens when you live in multi-ethnic country.

And I would also re-state I am hung like a black man, in reference to the penis size issue! You guys are giving me flashbacks of my days of urology rotations. Never in my wildest dreams did I think I would have to see so many penises :cry:

artsfartsyjanet

07-03-2002, 07:45 AM

It doesn't matter who I date, but I also can't ignore societal pressures primarily from my traditional Chinese American family. My family wants me to date an Asian (preferably Chinese) guy, whereas I could care less so as long as the partner has a good head on his shoulders, communicates well, and maintains healthy eating and grooming habits. I was actually engaged to a white male, but I don't always refer him that way. I refer him by his name. We mutually broke the engagement, but remained in very good terms. While he's in the military, I'm applying for grad schools all over the U.S. Long distance is difficult for the both of us. Anyway, I've also dated Asian males (particularly Chinese Americans). Unfortunately, I haven't had great experiences with any of them, but I still think the race shouldn't matter in the end.

artsfartsyjanet

07-03-2002, 07:50 AM

I believe the survey above isn't fair to those who prefer both races or who don't have a preference. So, it's really an inaccurate and false representation of people's way of dating.

kasia

07-03-2002, 09:31 AM

the poll was made for those who have a preference.

mizkisses

07-09-2002, 04:12 PM

[quote:c5f2be049a="angelnympho"]word. i cant help it if i like white boys... i like asian boys too. just would prefer a larger... *cough cough*[/quote:c5f2be049a]

hey that's true. asian guys have smaller dicks. why? why is everything small...

what happened to BLACK GUYS being a choice? black guys are HOT. oh man... 8O

frankly, i have a thing for filipino guys. speaking of filipino guys, is filipino considered asian or pacific islander?

wylin

07-09-2002, 05:28 PM

[quote:629c8db1db="mizkisses"][quote:629c8db1db="angelnympho"]word. i cant help it if i like white boys... i like asian boys too. just would prefer a larger... *cough cough*[/quote:629c8db1db]

hey that's true. asian guys have smaller dicks. why? why is everything small...

what happened to BLACK GUYS being a choice? black guys are HOT. oh man... 8O

frankly, i have a thing for filipino guys. speaking of filipino guys, is filipino considered asian or pacific islander?[/quote:629c8db1db]

filipino's are technically pacific islanders, alot are mixed but the island chain known as the phillipines is a pacific island! there u go =P

most flipino's i know rather be just classes as filipino as a class on its own...not and islander not asian just flip! denno i had alota filipino friends fresh yr college i even went a culture night once saw ppl sing and dance

angelnympho

07-09-2002, 05:51 PM

[quote:5e6731797c="mizkisses"][quote:5e6731797c="angelnympho"]word. i cant help it if i like white boys... i like asian boys too. just would prefer a larger... *cough cough*[/quote:5e6731797c]

hey that's true. asian guys have smaller dicks. why? why is everything small...

[/quote:5e6731797c]

:lol: my white boy says that he likes me better than the white girls he hooked up with because... since im small... *everything* is smaller. but i guess that's probably the case w/ asian doods too, to an extent. TO AN EXTENT. i guess it could just be proportion? but iono, whatever. as long as it gets me off, i cant complain. ;D

helicopterr

08-02-2002, 01:34 AM

For guys who cant seem to get a decent asian girl here in the good ol uS of A, go to china! where the girls are not only pretty, but also intelligent, educated and friendly.

C:My Documents64837.jpg

case in point - she is actually a student in Fudan university and people say she is just AVERAGE

helicopterr

08-02-2002, 01:36 AM

damn how to put pictures on here!!....frustrating oh well.

achtungbaby

08-02-2002, 01:38 AM

[quote:457cb5a742="helicopterr"]damn how to put pictures on here!!....frustrating oh well.[/quote:457cb5a742]

You need to upload your picture to a web server first. C:My Documents is your computer...

helicopterr

08-02-2002, 01:43 AM

dunno how to do that
help me by providing detailed instructions thanks

achtungbaby

08-02-2002, 02:01 AM

[quote:79b33ead9a="helicopterr"]dunno how to do that help me by providing detailed instructions thanks[/quote:79b33ead9a]

First you need to find a place that will store your uploaded picture. Try checking out http://www.attbi.com and opening up a free account. They give you about 10mb of space for your own home page, and you can upload your picture there. If it's a picture of yourself, you can go to the yellowworld gallery here (http://yellowworld.org/modules.php?name=My_eGallery) and upload it into the gallery.

SunWuKong

08-02-2002, 02:02 AM

[quote:7efebf26a1="achtungbaby"][quote:7efebf26a1="helicopterr"]damn how to put pictures on here!!....frustrating oh well.[/quote:7efebf26a1]

You need to upload your picture to a web server first. C:My Documents is your computer...[/quote:7efebf26a1]

just a thought, we [i:7efebf26a1]could[/i:7efebf26a1] upload a pic on the YW gallery and then link to it.

- edit -

hahhah nevermind, i guess AB and i were posting at the same time and he beat me to it.

achtungbaby

08-02-2002, 10:10 AM

[quote:74cc4a7611="SunWuKung"]hahhah nevermind, i guess AB and i were posting at the same time and he beat me to it.[/quote:74cc4a7611]

Just call me "quick draw"...on second thought, please don't ever call me that :D

SunWuKong

08-02-2002, 10:29 AM

[quote:091f590644="achtungbaby"][quote:091f590644="SunWuKung"]hahhah nevermind, i guess AB and i were posting at the same time and he beat me to it.[/quote:091f590644]

Just call me "quick draw"...on second thought, please don't ever call me that :D[/quote:091f590644]

back in highschool, one of the rival highschool's team name was "minutemen"...

* in case people don't know, "minutemen" were civilian soldiers back in the US revolution. they are said to be able to fight in a "minute's" notice.

achtungbaby

08-02-2002, 10:34 AM

[quote:6c09ee6723="SunWuKung"]they are said to be able to fight in a "minute's" notice.[/quote:6c09ee6723]

And so ferocious were they that those fights lasted the same length... :idea:

krissy

08-02-2002, 11:04 AM

[quote:9623abda43="helicopterr"]For guys who cant seem to get a decent asian girl here in the good ol uS of A, go to china! where the girls are not only pretty, but also intelligent, educated and friendly.

C:My Documents64837.jpg

case in point - she is actually a student in Fudan university and people say she is just AVERAGE[/quote:9623abda43]

[color=red:9623abda43]Hey! What's wrong with the Asian girls in the US? I personally think I'd have a much harder time relating to someone from an entirely different country.

Regarding the white guys/asian guys thing, growing up it never occurred to me that I would be with an asian guy - just because the only ones I knew were my dad & brother :P. Yeah. But when I got to school (where I'd never seen so many Asians before in my life) I think the boy who found me & I got along and related to each other pretty well because we had the same degree of Asianness (among other reasons).

So based on that (I've only had the one boy), I think that I would lean more toward Asian guys. But I don't really think it's a very big deal either way. It's certainly not the most important thing for me to consider - but it may contribute to other things like how well you get along with/relate to one another.

[/color:9623abda43]

SaladShooter

08-03-2002, 01:13 AM

Hmm...I actually think I prefer asian guys. Maybe its because I see so few (I live in a tiny-ass suburb where there is a maximum of 10 asian people). Ah, nix the above thought. I like 'em [b:d1f1a71a97]all[/b:d1f1a71a97]. :D

mizkisses

08-03-2002, 01:15 AM

[quote:88dd130f69="SaladShooter"]Hmm...I actually think I prefer asian guys. Maybe its because I see so few (I live in a tiny-ass suburb where there is a maximum of 10 asian people). Ah, nix the above thought. I like 'em [b:88dd130f69]all[/b:88dd130f69]. :D[/quote:88dd130f69]

funny, when i lived in a small suburban area with barely any asians, i had a huuuuuuuge thing for white guys. because there WERE no asian guys.

but when i moved to california, SHIZAAAMMM hot asian guys everywhere...

helicopterr

08-04-2002, 06:45 PM

Well, Im just addressing that to asian guys wants asian girls but are frustrated that they cant find any one that they like in America.

artsfartsyjanet

08-15-2002, 10:34 AM

How can 11 people vote "Asians all the way", 1 person votes" Thumbs Way Down", and the percentage be 100% vs. 9.09%... not that I wouldn't know the ratio. Anyway, I don't mind dating white or asian guys.

Saiko

08-15-2002, 06:19 PM

I don't know. The total kind of doesn't add up to 100%. Does that look right to any of you? Anyway, I voted thumbs way down. I don't exactly like the options though. It's not like I dislike Asian guys. It's just that I prefer white guys more if not a lot more. There should be an option that says "Indifferent" or something. Thumbs way down and Asian guys all the way sound a bit one sided, doesn't it?

artsfartsyjanet

08-15-2002, 09:34 PM

Originally posted by Saiko@Aug 15 2002, 08:19 PM
I don't know. The total kind of doesn't add up to 100%. Does that look right to any of you? Anyway, I voted thumbs way down. I don't exactly like the options though. It's not like I dislike Asian guys. It's just that I prefer white guys more if not a lot more. There should be an option that says "Indifferent" or something. Thumbs way down and Asian guys all the way sound a bit one sided, doesn't it?
yeah, well these polls honestly don't tell us much of anything due to the lack of choices we're allowed to make. No offense Achtungbaby.

kimpossible

10-30-2002, 09:19 PM

I like that guy Wong Lee Hom that karizma posted a pic of. I seriously hope that guy is over 18 or I'm going to feel like a dirty old pervert.

mrazntre

10-30-2002, 09:35 PM

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 31 2002, 05:19 AM
I like that guy Wong Lee Hom that karizma posted a pic of. I seriously hope that guy is over 18 or I'm going to feel like a dirty old pervert.
you ARE a dirty perv. what's the difference now?

I was re-reading the posts in this thread. Angelnympho came from Irvine everybody. No wonder she likes white d00ds. You grow up white, you think you're white, and you like white things. period. cultural immersion.

*shrug*

whatevaz...

lethal

10-30-2002, 09:40 PM

Originally posted by mrazntre@Oct 31 2002, 05:35 AM
You grow up white, you think you're white, and you like white things. period. cultural immersion.

*shrug*

whatevaz...
I grew up white, didn't realize I was Asian till college. There were no other Asians around. Its never too late to change though.

There are no right answers to this question except dating whomever makes you happy.

Chrysalis

10-30-2002, 09:48 PM

Okay this is my first post here. A bit of background - I'm 21, female, I'm half filipino and half chinese, born and raised in Australia. In reference to the poll I have been attracted to many different guys. I have liked asian guys, white guys and mixed race guys. It really has alot to do with the guy's personality, open mindedness, intelligence and the way he treats me. In my experience, asian guys hold themselves too high (blame mum i guess?) and expect too much. I have found that asian guys place less effort in maintaining the relationship, are less giving in intimate situations and expect their girlfriend to cater to their interests. I am not saying all asian guys are like this, only those in my experience. Maybe I just lucked out. Also as it has been said, sharing interests is important. Just because I meet an asian guy it doesn't mean that we will be able to communicate or have simmilar life experiences to draw on. :P

Chrysalis

himura-dono

10-31-2002, 02:34 AM

Originally posted by mrazntre@Oct 31 2002, 05:35 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 31 2002, 05:19 AM
I like that guy Wong Lee Hom that karizma posted a pic of. I seriously hope that guy is over 18 or I'm going to feel like a dirty old pervert.
you ARE a dirty perv. what's the difference now?

I was re-reading the posts in this thread. Angelnympho came from Irvine everybody. No wonder she likes white d00ds. You grow up white, you think you're white, and you like white things. period. cultural immersion.

*shrug*

whatevaz...
dude, when i went to irvine's campus, all i saw were asians. the town is different?

babysakura

10-31-2002, 04:10 AM

its already hard to maintain a relationship between 2 people of different characters and personalities. by bringing a different culuture in the picture makes it even harder to maintain. so me, asians only. in fact i'm very particular about this, i only date chinese guys. :D

deez nuts

10-31-2002, 07:18 AM

Originally posted by Chrysalis@Oct 31 2002, 12:48 AM
. In my experience, asian guys hold themselves too high (blame mum i guess?) and expect too much. I have found that asian guys place less effort in maintaining the relationship, are less giving in intimate situations and expect their girlfriend to cater to their interests. I am not saying all asian guys are like this, only those in my experience. ?

Asian guys? What about the Asian women?

They want the advanced degree, the height, the looks, the built, the money, the attention, the designer clothes. I'm sorry, but the Asian women I've dated are alot more high maintenance than the non-Asian women, I've dated. And it's by alot, not even by a little margin. Perhaps blame daddy for buying you those Louis Vuitton, Prada or Gucci kicks in high school for you bringing home that one "A" in math class?

But hey it's all good. if you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen. Again, this is all from my experience. But I've dated good and bad of every race. But Asian women, by far has been the most taxing emotionally, mentally and financially for me.

If you want the cheddah you gotta be bettah, if you's not, check ya latah. Plain and simple.

Edit: this last part isn't in response to Chrysalis' post.

And for real what the hell. Why are Asian men always under the mircroscope? Last time I checked I wasn't some kind of science experiment.

If you want to date Asian guys, date em. If you don't, don't date em. Bottomline, I won't lose any sleep cuz you don't date Asian guys. But don't get at me in a negative way because you had a bad experience(s) with us and generalize us as "this way." In other words quit hatin' and cock blockin. Who hasn't had bad experiences?

And yes I'm a little bitter about being constantly scrutinized, psychoanalyzed and criticized for being an Asian male. And I'm sure there are others that feel the same way.

SunWuKong

10-31-2002, 08:01 AM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 31 2002, 10:18 AM
Asian guys? What about the Asian women?

They want the advanced degree, the height, the looks, the built, the money, the attention, the designer clothes. I'm sorry, but the Asian women I've dated are alot more high maintenance than the non-Asian women, I've dated. And it's by alot, not even by a little margin.
yes i want to confirm bunboy's observation with my own personal experience.

but it's all cool, asian women keep us on our toes like that.

Hanuman

10-31-2002, 08:14 AM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 31 2002, 03:18 PM
And yes I'm a little bitter about being constantly scrutinized, psychoanalyzed and criticized for being an Asian male. And I'm sure there are others that feel the same way.
Ditto! I was out with couple friends a few weeks ago and my friend brought along some girl he'd just started dating. While we were talking she asked me if I was mixed, and I replied, no I'm 100% asian. She goes, "wow, you're pretty hot for an Asian" I was like, wait, that's no compliment! We got into an argument over that and then she broke the final straw when she said Asian languages tended to sound 'ugly'. Ugly? I think Thai sounds almost musical. There are some European languages that sound just plain rough (I spent time in Denmark and that seems like a very Gutteral Language).

Maybe this should have gone to the Rant Room, but I was just reminded of this because CSB's post brought this back to me. I was so mad.

SunWuKong

10-31-2002, 08:26 AM

Originally posted by Tawee@Oct 31 2002, 11:14 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 31 2002, 03:18 PM
And yes I'm a little bitter about being constantly scrutinized, psychoanalyzed and criticized for being an Asian male.  And I'm sure there are others that feel the same way.
Ditto! I was out with couple friends a few weeks ago and my friend brought along some girl he'd just started dating. While we were talking she asked me if I was mixed, and I replied, no I'm 100% asian. She goes, "wow, you're pretty hot for an Asian" I was like, wait, that's no compliment! We got into an argument over that and then she broke the final straw when she said Asian languages tended to sound 'ugly'. Ugly? I think Thai sounds almost musical. There are some European languages that sound just plain rough (I spent time in Denmark and that seems like a very Gutteral Language).

Maybe this should have gone to the Rant Room, but I was just reminded of this because CSB's post brought this back to me. I was so mad.
oh what the fuck is up with that? :pissed:

uh... is she a fluent speaker of any asian languages by the way?

Hanuman

10-31-2002, 09:06 AM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 31 2002, 04:26 PM
uh... is she a fluent speaker of any asian languages by the way?
No, some white girl. Just ignorant, didn't know what she was talking about.

SunWuKong

10-31-2002, 09:09 AM

Originally posted by Tawee@Oct 31 2002, 12:06 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 31 2002, 04:26 PM
uh...  is she a fluent speaker of any asian languages by the way?
No, some white girl. Just ignorant, didn't know what she was talking about.
that's really fucked up.

but you know, some white girl this past weekend told me i have a cool accent (and i didn't even know i have an accent). i was kind of wondering if that was just a polite way of telling me that i talk funny. :P because you know how some white people are ultra cautious when talking about racial issues.

DaBestSpooner

10-31-2002, 09:12 AM

you should have showed her that asian guys like to visit the hershey road once in a while.

himura-dono

10-31-2002, 09:31 AM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 31 2002, 04:26 PM
Originally posted by Tawee@Oct 31 2002, 11:14 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 31 2002, 03:18 PM
And yes I'm a little bitter about being constantly scrutinized, psychoanalyzed and criticized for being an Asian male. And I'm sure there are others that feel the same way.
Ditto! I was out with couple friends a few weeks ago and my friend brought along some girl he'd just started dating. While we were talking she asked me if I was mixed, and I replied, no I'm 100% asian. She goes, "wow, you're pretty hot for an Asian" I was like, wait, that's no compliment! We got into an argument over that and then she broke the final straw when she said Asian languages tended to sound 'ugly'. Ugly? I think Thai sounds almost musical. There are some European languages that sound just plain rough (I spent time in Denmark and that seems like a very Gutteral Language).

Maybe this should have gone to the Rant Room, but I was just reminded of this because CSB's post brought this back to me. I was so mad.
oh what the fuck is up with that? :pissed:

uh... is she a fluent speaker of any asian languages by the way?
d'oh >_<" leave it to some dumb bitch to make that comment.

ok, for the record. cantonese is the roughest out of the asian languages i've heard, but not in a bad way, just choppy. while mandarin and thai are very lilty and music-like. european languages all tend to originate from some gutteral dialect anyway. look at german and russian. even english is ugly if you listen to it.

as for the comment about the "you're pretty hot for an asian guy"

:blink: why you no smack her? (not that i preach violence against women, more figuratively)

Mr T

10-31-2002, 09:38 AM

man, that really gets on my nerves when some ignoramus disses on a persons ethnic language. well, i guess that really is a matter of personal opinions.

on the topic of harsh sounding asian languages i would agree that cantonese is the harshest language followed by vietnamese. this is not meant to be a diss so don't go and flame me you cantonese speakers out there.

SunWuKong

10-31-2002, 09:40 AM

Originally posted by Mr T@Oct 31 2002, 12:38 PM
on the topic of harsh sounding asian languages i would agree that cantonese is the harshest language followed by vietnamese. this is not meant to be a diss so don't go and flame me you cantonese speakers out there.
hahhah i agree. and i'm a native cantonese speaker.

actually i don't know if i would say it's the "harshest" until i've learned some more asian languages. but man, 9 tones??? that's got to sound rough.

Hanuman

10-31-2002, 11:31 AM

Originally posted by DaBestSpooner@Oct 31 2002, 05:12 PM
you should have showed her that asian guys like to visit the hershey road once in a while.
Hahaha. Too funny! Send the Yellow Submarine down the hershy road....

Hanuman

11-01-2002, 09:53 AM

Originally posted by tazadar@Nov 1 2002, 03:50 PM
You should reply. "Wow, you're not ugly for an Asian girl. Do you have some white gene in you?" Am I off base when she said "mixed" meant as with white-ness? The amount of brainwashing where all other races' beauty is based on a white standard is saddening.
She was white. I hear what you're saying about attractiveness being based on a white standard. If you think about it a little, isn't it though? I mean we live in a predominantly white society and our views of aesthetics are controled by media which is mainly white. It's not just an asian thing, look at minority actors of any race and you'll see most of the sucessful models/actors seem more white. Tyra Banks, Halle Berry, Benjamin Bratt, etc.

I'm not saying I think it's a good thing, I'm just saying that, this is what it's like to live in America, we base our standards by those of the majority. I try to be less angry and more tolerant. Remember, in certain African tribes they wear little wooden discs through their bottom lips. That's considered beautiful there (imagine getting a BJ?). Us, with our skinny, puny lips would be ridiculed.

As Martin Lurther King said, "judge a man by the content of his character, not by the color of his skin"

Wise words. Works even in the dating scene.

himura-dono

11-01-2002, 10:29 AM

i've actually posed a question of beauty standards to girls.

between the two groups we're discussing, this came up:

73%+- (these were actualy decimals, i rounded accordingly) of the asian girls i asked said they felt caucasian features were superior in female beauty. (specificly eyes, nose, chin)

37%+- felt asian features.

----

41% of caucasian girls liked asian female features better (specifically, eyes, chin, ears)

59% felt caucasian features.

---

decide on the results yourself. at davis, there is almost just as large an asian (yes, the huge lump group) as there is caucasians here.

there may be a slight bias because of the similar size group where they are both guaranteed to be around eachother. this as such wouldn't necessarily be valid everywhere of course.

in my opinions in the girls i queried, they all seemed to say, i wish i had this feature or that feature of the other group, but i want this or that of mine as well. in the end i donm't think the results were accurate because i still allowed them the final decision on paper. but literally almost all, wanted some feature or features of the other group.

i have never thought western beauty is superior (since western seems to be paramount to white with you guys). i have always felt other ethnicities had more impressive or beautiful features. too me, caucasian noses look like beaks similar to those of birds of prey. and that caucasian eyes look sunken. the angles of the face are too sharp, and rigid. i've thought this since i was little. the only caucasian girls i dated when i was older didn't have these features, so i'm not saying ALL white people have them, but the majority look like vultures to me.

i think my distaste for sharpness and rigid looks was reinforced by my love of ceramics. the pieces i created always had easy curves, soft looks, never stark, rigid, stony, unfeeling looks.

i think this is why i find especially within asian beauty, more appreciation of the features than within any other ethnicity. i still find other features of other ethnicities to be attractive, but in the end, the number of more attractive features falls under the asian group.

now, like half my posts that i actually think out, i'm sure this will be passed off, or some of the newer people will mutter asiaphile ignorantly, but at least i tried to explain from another side that is objective toward both, instead of saying "i hate the fact that the world follows caucasian beauty standards." as my interviews show above, it seems caucasian women desire asian features as well, so if you're complaining of why do the standards only follow western beauty standards, isn't that kind of like also bashing asians?

and for statistical purposes, the total was done out of 400 women on campus.

i did it for a paper i was compiling data for. unfortunately i had to drop the class and never finished it. maybe i will now....

SunWuKong

11-01-2002, 12:55 PM

Originally posted by himura-dono@Nov 1 2002, 01:29 PM
i've actually posed a question of beauty standards to girls.

between the two groups we're discussing, this came up:

73%+- (these were actualy decimals, i rounded accordingly) of the asian girls i asked said they felt caucasian features were superior in female beauty. (specificly eyes, nose, chin)

37%+- felt asian features.

----

41% of caucasian girls liked asian female features better (specifically, eyes, chin, ears)

59% felt caucasian features.

---

you should probably break the asian group down to asian and asian american.

angel nympho

11-01-2002, 01:22 PM

Does it really matter? Sure, the grass is always greener on the other side... White people wish they looked more Asian, Asian people wish they looked more white... but everybody's stuck with what they've got. So just figure out what looks the best ON YOU.

kimpossible

11-01-2002, 02:36 PM

Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 1 2002, 01:22 PM
Does it really matter? Sure, the grass is always greener on the other side... White people wish they looked more Asian, Asian people wish they looked more white... but everybody's stuck with what they've got.
Not everyone... :D

angel nympho

11-01-2002, 02:44 PM

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Nov 1 2002, 10:36 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 1 2002, 01:22 PM
Does it really matter?  Sure, the grass is always greener on the other side... White people wish they looked more Asian, Asian people wish they looked more white... but everybody's stuck with what they've got.
Not everyone... :D
head transplant?

kimpossible

11-01-2002, 02:51 PM

Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 1 2002, 02:44 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Nov 1 2002, 10:36 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 1 2002, 01:22 PM
Does it really matter? Sure, the grass is always greener on the other side... White people wish they looked more Asian, Asian people wish they looked more white... but everybody's stuck with what they've got.
Not everyone... :D
head transplant?
mixed race. :)

angel nympho

11-01-2002, 03:03 PM

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Nov 1 2002, 10:51 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 1 2002, 02:44 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Nov 1 2002, 10:36 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 1 2002, 01:22 PM
Does it really matter? Sure, the grass is always greener on the other side... White people wish they looked more Asian, Asian people wish they looked more white... but everybody's stuck with what they've got.
Not everyone... :D
head transplant?
mixed race. :)
I meant, you're stuck with the features you get. Not you're stuck being Asian or white.

Hanuman

11-01-2002, 04:24 PM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Nov 1 2002, 08:55 PM
Originally posted by himura-dono@Nov 1 2002, 01:29 PM
i've actually posed a question of beauty standards to girls.

between the two groups we're discussing, this came up:

73%+-  (these were actualy decimals, i rounded accordingly) of the asian girls i asked said they felt caucasian features were superior in female beauty. (specificly eyes, nose, chin)

37%+- felt asian features.

----

41% of caucasian girls liked asian female features better (specifically, eyes, chin, ears)

59% felt caucasian features.

---

you should probably break the asian group down to asian and asian american.
These results came from polling students at a University. I'm wondering what the results would be for a slightly older population, more like my age, late 20's early 30's. Maybe the same may not. Sounds like a great idea for a paper though, I'd be interested in reading the finished product!

himura-dono

11-01-2002, 08:32 PM

Originally posted by Tawee@Nov 2 2002, 12:24 AM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Nov 1 2002, 08:55 PM

you should probably break the asian group down to asian and asian american.

These results came from polling students at a University. I'm wondering what the results would be for a slightly older population, more like my age, late 20's early 30's. Maybe the same may not. Sounds like a great idea for a paper though, I'd be interested in reading the finished product!
swk, i'd say that roughly half of the asians, were AB, and the other half roughly FB.

and to tawee, the reason i didn't poll outside the university is because you have to think about the fact that most of these people are at the prime of being affected or have grown surrounded by the "white" culture and beauty standards you all keep mentioning and using for whatever purpose. if i chose early 30, i feel the result will show very similar. as for ages, i interviewed exactly 25 frosh, 50 soph, 50 jr, 50 senior, and 25 graduate students. within each group i made sure to get half or as close in the account of 25, were FB or AB. i did that on purpose to be sure that no one could debate the results ^_^. my teacher said be thorough. so i took it above and beyond. my research took 3 weeks and i threw out no outliers. everything was in it. so i've got a huge stack of research just chillin in a box. maybe i should take that class again and see if he's doing the same project, ace it, and walk away with a phat A.

tapestrybabe

05-25-2003, 10:46 PM

my preference...
asian...

i know 100% sure thats what i want...
altho sometimes i worry about being too americanized/white washed... like i worry about...
how accepting another asian family would be...
towards my white family...

My Name Is...

05-26-2003, 02:00 AM

We can only choose between white or asian? Hmm. Crampin my style! :P

tapestrybabe

05-26-2003, 02:22 AM

Originally posted by My Name Is...@May 26 2003, 05:00 AM
We can only choose between white or asian? Hmm. Crampin my style!  :P
well...
according to the female... here (http://forums.yellowworld.org/index.php?act=ST&f=12&t=8712&)

she has no problems choosing white over asian...
i think a pattern which is being brought to question...

My Name Is...

05-26-2003, 02:39 AM

Thanks tapestrybabe.

white or asian? Depends on the guy, no?
well, if i HAD to choose, i guess i would prefer the asian guy.

teaz0r

05-26-2003, 03:13 AM

the coal calling the kettle black, orange and red.
this kettle is seeing red.

i dunno. i don't care. someone that can speak 4 languages.
i don't care if he's a purple midget.

shy

05-26-2003, 11:33 AM

what do you mean by 'thumbs way down'? if i chose that, do i mean that i don't like asian guys? or that i'm giving two thumbs down for having to choose based on ethnicity?

if the first, i can't answer w/out a "ethnicity doesn't matter to me" choice. can you add that in? pleeeease? :)

i've dated so many guys from different ethnicities. it's never mattered to me.

SunWuKong

05-26-2003, 11:39 AM

Originally posted by shy@May 26 2003, 02:33 PM
what do you mean by 'thumbs way down'? if i chose that, do i mean that i don't like asian guys? or that i'm giving two thumbs down for having to choose based on ethnicity?

if the first, i can't answer w/out a "ethnicity doesn't matter to me" choice. can you add that in? pleeeease? :)

i've dated so many guys from different ethnicities. it's never mattered to me.
ok i'll add it in.

unfortunately, those who have already voted or clicked on a null vote cannot vote any longer.

himura-dono

05-26-2003, 12:03 PM

ouch, yeah, the choices are pretty fucked. for those that select white, it's got to be phrased in an anti-asian way. yeesh. :blink:

i think i'll start a different thread cause i'm tired of seeing asian v. caucasian

tapestrybabe

05-26-2003, 12:10 PM

Originally posted by himura-dono@May 26 2003, 03:03 PM
i think i'll start a different thread cause i'm tired of seeing asian v. caucasian
but i think theres a point to it all as to why that is... white vs asian... i mean, i'm not saying... there arent any other choices besides that... and i'm not saying... ppl should really decide in the first place... cuz to others... ppl dont care... which is ok, too...

but i think from observation... there is a pattern of choosing white over asian... or visa versa... i'm not making a judgement on it... but its just an observation...

mr. x

05-26-2003, 04:20 PM

its all about white boys! gimme some of that white meat

woowoo!

shy

05-26-2003, 04:36 PM

Originally posted by tapestrybabe@May 26 2003, 11:10 AM
but i think theres a point to it all as to why that is... white vs asian... i mean, i'm not saying... there arent any other choices besides that... and i'm not saying... ppl should really decide in the first place... cuz to others... ppl dont care... which is ok, too...

but i think from observation... there is a pattern of choosing white over asian... or visa versa... i'm not making a judgement on it... but its just an observation...
maybe it depends where you live?

over here in toronto, i think i'm in the minority of getting married to a caucasian. all my other chinese gf's are marrying chinese.

and one of my korean guy-friend is dating a caucasian woman.

in fact, the two of us were the only one's that were less picky. and have dated peope from all different ethnicities...

so maybe where one lives has an effect?

SunWuKong

05-26-2003, 05:03 PM

Originally posted by shy@May 26 2003, 07:36 PM
Originally posted by tapestrybabe@May 26 2003, 11:10 AM
but i think theres a point to it all as to why that is... white vs asian... i mean, i'm not saying... there arent any other choices besides that... and i'm not saying... ppl should really decide in the first place... cuz to others... ppl dont care... which is ok, too...

but i think from observation... there is a pattern of choosing white over asian... or visa versa... i'm not making a judgement on it... but its just an observation...
maybe it depends where you live?

over here in toronto, i think i'm in the minority of getting married to a caucasian. all my other chinese gf's are marrying chinese.

and one of my korean guy-friend is dating a caucasian woman.

in fact, the two of us were the only one's that were less picky. and have dated peope from all different ethnicities...

so maybe where one lives has an effect?
no, in my experience that's pretty normal. i see a lot more asian people dating other asian people than asian people in interracial relationships.

Deadpool

05-26-2003, 06:44 PM

Maybe this Asian female prefering only White males is a Eastern US kinda thing. Most of the horror stories Ive heard are from the East Coast and the Asian girls I talked to that verbally defamated and emasculated Asian males in front of my face were from the East Coast.

jaie

05-26-2003, 06:53 PM

azns! cmon, we're gorgeous.

mr. x

05-26-2003, 10:29 PM

SunWuKong

05-26-2003, 10:57 PM

Originally posted by Deadpool@May 26 2003, 09:44 PM
Maybe this Asian female prefering only White males is a Eastern US kinda thing. Most of the horror stories Ive heard are from the East Coast and the Asian girls I talked to that verbally defamated and emasculated Asian males in front of my face were from the East Coast.
actually, a friend from NYC went to san fran, and she said that she had never seen so many asian girls with white guys before.

deez nuts

05-27-2003, 05:19 AM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@May 27 2003, 12:57 AM
actually, a friend from NYC went to san fran, and she said that she had never seen so many asian girls with white guys before.
doesn't san fran have a high gay population? never lived or been there, but i would i assume if that's true, a hetero asian male might be a lot harder to find than a hetero white guy.

deez nuts

05-27-2003, 06:41 AM

Originally posted by Deadpool@May 26 2003, 08:44 PM
Maybe this Asian female prefering only White males is a Eastern US kinda thing. Most of the horror stories Ive heard are from the East Coast and the Asian girls I talked to that verbally defamated and emasculated Asian males in front of my face were from the East Coast.
other way around from my experience.

i have never met a guy from cali without the whole af/wm and asian guy vs white guy chip on their shoulder. is there a bible on this out there for you guys? cuz they preach that shit.

i think women in general have better things to do than to sit around and verbally defamate and emasculate the asian male. if they do, they man haters and bitter all around. take solace in the fact that it was prolly an asian male that wham bammed and thank you mam'ed her ass that led to her animosity, if it'll make you feel better.

537

05-27-2003, 06:55 AM

Southern Cali guy right here. I couldn't give less of a shit seeing an af/wm relationship. Besides, all of them I've seen look nasty anyway, and I wouldn't hit that shit if my life depended on it. Come to think of it I haven't met anybody with that particular grievance, I've only seen it being brought up time and time again on these forums!!!

Am I living in an isolated world or something?

AliBabaIncorporated

05-27-2003, 07:11 AM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@May 27 2003, 07:19 AM
doesn't san fran have a high gay population? never lived or been there, but i would i assume if that's true, a hetero asian male might be a lot harder to find than a hetero white guy.
homosexuality rate seems to be lower among asians than among whites, though.

Straight asian males aren't hard to find at all in Cali. Silicon Valley has an incredible excess of lonely Chinese bachelors.

Tao

05-27-2003, 07:13 AM

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@May 27 2003, 10:11 AM
Straight asian males aren't hard to find at all in Cali. Silicon Valley has an incredible excess of lonely Chinese bachelors.
girls wouldn't exactly be swept off their feet by them

applehead

05-27-2003, 10:22 AM

Originally posted by himura-dono@May 26 2003, 11:03 AM
i'm tired of seeing asian v. caucasian
yeah seriously.

Adaon

05-27-2003, 10:47 AM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@May 27 2003, 04:19 AM
doesn't san fran have a high gay population? never lived or been there, but i would i assume if that's true, a hetero asian male might be a lot harder to find than a hetero white guy.
higher percentage of people who prefer homosexuality than many places in the US/the world, but that doesn't say a thing about the percentage of different ethnicities make up the break down of that high percentage of homosexuals

kboy75

05-27-2003, 11:36 AM

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@May 27 2003, 09:11 AM
homosexuality rate seems to be lower among asians than among whites, though.
maybe not as much as you think tho. a lot of asians are in the closet because of fear of what their asian families will think.

kboy75

05-27-2003, 11:36 AM

Originally posted by Tao@May 27 2003, 09:13 AM
girls wouldn't exactly be swept off their feet by them
the odds are good, but he goods are odd. serious.

kboy75

05-27-2003, 11:38 AM

i grew up in LA, lived in SF for almost 9 years, and now I've been in NYC for over a year...

I think SF has the most white male / asian female combos per capita. yeah there are a lot of openly gay people there too, but there are still a lot of straight guys...

lyra_us

06-01-2003, 08:44 PM

Originally posted by Deadpool@May 26 2003, 05:44 PM
Maybe this Asian female prefering only White males is a Eastern US kinda thing. Most of the horror stories Ive heard are from the East Coast and the Asian girls I talked to that verbally defamated and emasculated Asian males in front of my face were from the East Coast.
I don't know, Japanese women are almost as bad. Obviously Japan is a very homogeneous country so IR relationships aren't that prevalant, but if you're a white foreigner (gaijin) then you should have little problem getting laid left and right by attractive Japanese women. I didn't believe this until a heard it from a Japanese friend of mine. I've read up on it since. A lot of young Japanese women have it in their heads that a foreign guy will come and sweep them off their feet. Obviously this has a lot to do with the American media influence in Japan. It is to the point where even the fugliest white guy can get play in Roppongi bars in Tokyo. Pretty sad situation, except the girls are blatant about it, not like over here.

SunWuKong

06-01-2003, 08:58 PM

Originally posted by lyra_us@Jun 1 2003, 11:44 PM
I don't know, Japanese women are almost as bad. Obviously Japan is a very homogeneous country so IR relationships aren't that prevalant, but if you're a white foreigner (gaijin) then you should have little problem getting laid left and right by attractive Japanese women. I didn't believe this until a heard it from a Japanese friend of mine. I've read up on it since. A lot of young Japanese women have it in their heads that a foreign guy will come and sweep them off their feet. Obviously this has a lot to do with the American media influence in Japan. It is to the point where even the fugliest white guy can get play in Roppongi bars in Tokyo. Pretty sad situation, except the girls are blatant about it, not like over here.
hi. welcome to YW. you should read this (http://www.livejournal.com/users/yujin/?skip=9).

lyra_us

06-01-2003, 10:02 PM

yeah, Japan has become the holy land for asiaphiles.

AliBabaIncorporated

06-02-2003, 12:01 AM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@May 27 2003, 08:41 AM
i have never met a guy from cali without the whole af/wm and asian guy vs white guy chip on their shoulder. is there a bible on this out there for you guys? cuz they preach that shit.
People claim the girls on the East Coast are much more hostile to Asian guys. Probably true. But the guys there are at least laid back enough not to talk about it. At least in New England. As opposed to California where a guy considers it some racial victory to date an Asian girl who only dated white guys before and keeps talking about it all term.

I think they are all pissed off cuz the ratio of single guys to single girls is already so high in Cali, so they're not getting any ass. Maybe if they got ass from each other, the problem would be solved.

Oh yeah, all cases I've ever seen and heard of about hapas getting called white boys and being jumped by Asian Americans guys, happened in "racially tolerant" California. (See Rocky Kiyoshi's article in Mavin, for example). And I've seen and done a lot more jump-worthy shit back in New England than I have out here.

lyra_us: what american media influence in Japan? aside from movies, everything is localized ... I think visitors to Japan will just have this perception that Japanese girls are easy cuz the small subset of Japanese girls who actually will go for foreigners put out early and often in a lame effort to keep a non-communicative relationship going. This is why I hung out with Chinese people when I studied in Japan ...

Deadpool

06-02-2003, 01:40 AM

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Jun 1 2003, 11:01 PM
This is why I hung out with Chinese people when I studied in Japan ...
Aren't Japanese people kinda rascist towards Chinese?

DragonKnight

06-02-2003, 02:05 AM

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Jun 1 2003, 11:01 PM
lyra_us: what american media influence in Japan? aside from movies, everything is localized ... I think visitors to Japan will just have this perception that Japanese girls are easy cuz the small subset of Japanese girls who actually will go for foreigners put out early and often in a lame effort to keep a non-communicative relationship going. This is why I hung out with Chinese people when I studied in Japan ...
I've hung out with a couple of Japanese female friends in college. All of them could careless if you're white. They don't think that makes you any more special than the next guy. Same with every non-Asian guy they've encountered. The 'gaijin-effect' doesn't do squat for them.

As for the af/wm, whatever floats yer boat. I ain't trippin about it since I've had my own w/ the am/wf situation. Do I have a preference? Nah...all about equal opportunity. B)

Azn Retribution

06-02-2003, 06:16 AM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 31 2002, 07:18 AM
Originally posted by Chrysalis@Oct 31 2002, 12:48 AM
. In my experience, asian guys hold themselves too high (blame mum i guess?) and expect too much. I have found that asian guys place less effort in maintaining the relationship, are less giving in intimate situations and expect their girlfriend to cater to their interests. I am not saying all asian guys are like this, only those in my experience. ?

Asian guys? What about the Asian women?

They want the advanced degree, the height, the looks, the built, the money, the attention, the designer clothes. I'm sorry, but the Asian women I've dated are alot more high maintenance than the non-Asian women, I've dated. And it's by alot, not even by a little margin. Perhaps blame daddy for buying you those Louis Vuitton, Prada or Gucci kicks in high school for you bringing home that one "A" in math class?

But hey it's all good. if you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen. Again, this is all from my experience. But I've dated good and bad of every race. But Asian women, by far has been the most taxing emotionally, mentally and financially for me.

If you want the cheddah you gotta be bettah, if you's not, check ya latah. Plain and simple.

Edit: this last part isn't in response to Chrysalis' post.

And for real what the hell. Why are Asian men always under the mircroscope? Last time I checked I wasn't some kind of science experiment.

If you want to date Asian guys, date em. If you don't, don't date em. Bottomline, I won't lose any sleep cuz you don't date Asian guys. But don't get at me in a negative way because you had a bad experience(s) with us and generalize us as "this way." In other words quit hatin' and cock blockin. Who hasn't had bad experiences?

And yes I'm a little bitter about being constantly scrutinized, psychoanalyzed and criticized for being an Asian male. And I'm sure there are others that feel the same way.
Fucking WERD.

lyra_us

06-02-2003, 09:24 AM

shy

06-02-2003, 10:05 AM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 31 2002, 07:18 AM
Originally posted by Chrysalis@Oct 31 2002, 12:48 AM
.I am not saying all asian guys are like this, only those in my experience. ?

Edit: this last part isn't in response to Chrysalis' post.

And for real what the hell. Why are Asian men always under the mircroscope? Last time I checked I wasn't some kind of science experiment.

If you want to date Asian guys, date em. If you don't, don't date em. Bottomline, I won't lose any sleep cuz you don't date Asian guys. But don't get at me in a negative way because you had a bad experience(s) with us and generalize us as "this way." In other words quit hatin' and cock blockin. Who hasn't had bad experiences?

And yes I'm a little bitter about being constantly scrutinized, psychoanalyzed and criticized for being an Asian male. And I'm sure there are others that feel the same way.
i gotta say that i do agree with the bun-man to some degree... it's totally shitty that anyone, male or female asians get scrutinized or psychoanalyzed. generalizations like that sucks ass! shit... all my best guy friends are asian and they are NONE of that! i love how they treat my girlfriends (their SO). absolute respect.

but bun-man... i think chrysalis did clarify that she only meant of those that SHE's dated.

and she was never talking about you. right? :huh:

as chrysalis... girl... don't let a few bad apples ruin you whole look on asian men. letting yourself build generalizations like that is only limiting yourself to possible happiness (cause you never know... the right dude might be asian but you'll miss him if you decide to let your past judge who he is before getting to know him).

plus i think generalizations like this is the building blocks towards just unhealthy thought-process in general.

deez nuts

06-02-2003, 10:30 AM

Originally posted by shy@Jun 2 2003, 12:05 PM

but bun-man... i think chrysalis did clarify that she only meant of those that SHE's dated.

and she was never talking about you. right? :huh:

hence, the edit and disclaimer on my part before going on with the last part.

shy

06-02-2003, 10:47 AM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jun 2 2003, 09:30 AM
Originally posted by shy@Jun 2 2003, 12:05 PM

but bun-man... i think chrysalis did clarify that she only meant of those that SHE's dated.

and she was never talking about you. right? :huh:

hence, the edit and disclaimer on my part before going on with the last part.
damn. sorry... i didn't read your edit part right.... i'm dyslexic! :wacko:

deez nuts

06-02-2003, 12:55 PM

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Jun 2 2003, 02:01 AM
People claim the girls on the East Coast are much more hostile to Asian guys. Probably true. But the guys there are at least laid back enough not to talk about it. At least in New England. As opposed to California where a guy considers it some racial victory to date an Asian girl who only dated white guys before and keeps talking about it all term.

I think they are all pissed off cuz the ratio of single guys to single girls is already so high in Cali, so they're not getting any ass. Maybe if they got ass from each other, the problem would be solved.

Oh yeah, all cases I've ever seen and heard of about hapas getting called white boys and being jumped by Asian Americans guys, happened in "racially tolerant" California. (See Rocky Kiyoshi's article in Mavin, for example). And I've seen and done a lot more jump-worthy shit back in New England than I have out here.

all my friends that went to college or med school in cali all come back telling me that cali is very racially intolerant.

and the hapa thing you mentioned, also happened to one of my high school friend when he was at stanford. my friend can pass for asian or white, he got jumped by a couple of asian guys just for talking to japanese girl.

when i called him to see how he was doing. he said: "get me the fuck out of here. this shit never happened to me in the 18 years i lived in nyc. they got mad issues out here."

deez nuts

06-02-2003, 01:04 PM

Originally posted by Deadpool@Jun 2 2003, 03:40 AM
Aren't Japanese people kinda rascist towards Chinese?

not just the chinese.

deez nuts

06-02-2003, 01:04 PM

Originally posted by shy@Jun 2 2003, 12:47 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jun 2 2003, 09:30 AM
Originally posted by shy@Jun 2 2003, 12:05 PM

but bun-man... i think chrysalis did clarify that she only meant of those that SHE's dated.

and she was never talking about you. right? :huh:

hence, the edit and disclaimer on my part before going on with the last part.
damn. sorry... i didn't read your edit part right.... i'm dyslexic! :wacko:
it's all good!

sOKaLiBoY

06-02-2003, 01:40 PM

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jun 2 2003, 01:04 PM

not just the chinese.
heh my parents have always told me that the japanese are the greatest asian race. made me think that we did everything better then everyone else. good thing i'm not as closeminded as my parents. however there are times that i forget that i'm a quarter korean

maxdacat

06-03-2003, 07:58 AM

Originally posted by himura-dono@Nov 1 2002, 10:29 AM

41% of caucasian girls liked asian female features better (specifically, eyes, chin, ears)

59% felt caucasian features.

that's kinda funny,

i have heard a white girl expressing a strong like for the features of asian girls before.....i was at a karaoke party (sad but true) with friends and this girl sits down uninvited and says how does someone like me (i.e a white boy) get to hang out with all these "gorgous Chinese girls" (ignore the fact they are Korean, Loatian etc)

i just thought it kind of odd (not that my friends aren't good looking) so i asked her if she liked asian guys at all.....she just looked at me funny and said no "i just like looking at the girls"

i asked her if she was a lezbo but no she has a steady boyfriend

this all happened in london so its understandable coz english people really have no idea about asia - they think it means india and pakistan - everything else is the "Far East" as though its some kind of theoretical construct.

mr. x

06-03-2003, 11:57 AM

yeah i wonder about england, like when they refer to chinese, japanese etc. what broad term do they use?

Tao

06-03-2003, 12:30 PM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jun 1 2003, 11:58 PM
hi. welcome to YW. you should read this (http://www.livejournal.com/users/yujin/?skip=9).
is it just me or does anyone else find it extremely funny that yujin is complaining about getting offered too much ass? :o God, I wish I was white now and in japan :lol: wth, that's a pretty sweet deal for white guys (or guys who look white).

As for the whole ganjin thing going on in japan, I have a feeling that within the next 10 years, social phenomena such as this will die down significantly. Cause once IR couples become mainstream, the appeal of defying traditional japanese culture and being with someone purely due to race will lose it's effectiveness. People will come to realize that the white/black men over there are just ppl too, and the whole exotification of western men would stop.

lyra_us

06-03-2003, 01:28 PM

Originally posted by Tao@Jun 3 2003, 11:30 AM
is it just me or does anyone else find it extremely funny that yujin is complaining about getting offered too much ass? :o God, I wish I was white now and in japan :lol: wth, that's a pretty sweet deal for white guys (or guys who look white).

As for the whole ganjin thing going on in japan, I have a feeling that within the next 10 years, social phenomena such as this will die down significantly. Cause once IR couples become mainstream, the appeal of defying traditional japanese culture and being with someone purely due to race will lose it's effectiveness. People will come to realize that the white/black men over there are just ppl too, and the whole exotification of western men would stop.
I find it extremely disturbing. I had a Japanse-American friend go over to teach english and get no where near the attention his gaijin counterparts got from Japanese girls. He'd have had a better chance here in the states. You want to read something sad, read this journal (http://www.livejournal.com/users/masayoshi69/) by a gaijin in Japan. This guy had never even been with a girl before he got there, and now he is getting laid massively.

YuheiCarreau

06-03-2003, 01:48 PM

Originally posted by mr. x@Jun 3 2003, 12:57 PM
yeah i wonder about england, like when they refer to chinese, japanese etc. what broad term do they use?
In the UK, people from South Asia are referred to as Asian and people from East Asia are referred to as Oriental.

YuheiCarreau

06-03-2003, 01:52 PM

Originally posted by lyra_us@Jun 3 2003, 02:28 PM
Originally posted by Tao@Jun 3 2003, 11:30 AM
is it just me or does anyone else find it extremely funny that yujin is complaining about getting offered too much ass?  :o  God, I wish I was white now and in japan  :lol:  wth, that's a pretty sweet deal for white guys (or guys who look white).

As for the whole ganjin thing going on in japan, I have a feeling that within the next 10 years, social phenomena such as this will die down significantly. Cause once IR couples become mainstream, the appeal of defying traditional japanese culture and being with someone purely due to race will lose it's effectiveness. People will come to realize that the white/black men over there are just ppl too, and the whole exotification of western men would stop.
I find it extremely disturbing. I had a Japanse-American friend go over to teach english and get no where near the attention his gaijin counterparts got from Japanese girls. He'd have had a better chance here in the states. You want to read something sad, read this journal (http://www.livejournal.com/users/masayoshi69/) by a gaijin in Japan. This guy had never even been with a girl before he got there, and now he is getting laid massively.
It's not just about defying Japanese society, though. In my experience, many Japanese women who are serial gaijin-daters fetishize and stereotype White men as much as Asiaphiles do to Asian women here in the US. Plus a lot of them are looking for a quick way out of Japan, which means getting a gaijin boyfriend and getting him to marry you.

It pisses me to see couples like that, not for the reasons you expressed, but because these are the people representing IR relationships to the rest of the world.

DragonKnight

06-04-2003, 12:06 AM

Originally posted by Tao@Jun 3 2003, 11:30 AM
is it just me or does anyone else find it extremely funny that yujin is complaining about getting offered too much ass? :o God, I wish I was white now and in japan :lol: wth, that's a pretty sweet deal for white guys (or guys who look white).
Feh, you'd think good looks and personality have no meaning to women these days. :P

Oh well, that just means I need to turn it up a notch to get some ass. Yeah, I race cars, sing karaoke like no one's business, cook a killer pasta dinner w/ red wine, romance, dance real good (okay, decently :P), will write her a love song that'll make her weak in the knees when she hears me serenade to her, will have her parents worship me when they see me, whisper sweet things to her, and carass her body with soft kisses while we make love all night long even beyond the break of dawn. B)

Shiat, fugk the color lines in this case. It's all about being a man...period. ;)

AliBabaIncorporated

06-04-2003, 01:09 AM

Originally posted by lyra_us@Jun 3 2003, 03:28 PM
I find it extremely disturbing. I had a Japanse-American friend go over to teach english and get no where near the attention his gaijin counterparts got from Japanese girls. He'd have had a better chance here in the states. You want to read something sad, read this journal (http://www.livejournal.com/users/masayoshi69/) by a gaijin in Japan. This guy had never even been with a girl before he got there, and now he is getting laid massively.
As has been pointed out before, there's not so many of those girls, so don't waste too much energy worrying. It's just that they get around a lot, like the old joke about the village bicycle. And since they're the only part of Japanese society that many resident foreigners interact with, of course they get a skewed picture. Self-selection. Because the Japanese girls who don't want to have lots of sex with random ugly foreigners, i.e. 99.9% of the population, don't ever interact with such guys. Especially since, they are not likely to remember the statistically significant sample of girls who reject them, but rather, the one they actually got into bed.

girlmagnet

06-04-2003, 03:47 AM

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Jun 4 2003, 08:09 AM
As has been pointed out before, there's not so many of those girls, so don't waste too much energy worrying. It's just that they get around a lot, like the old joke about the village bicycle. And since they're the only part of Japanese society that many resident foreigners interact with, of course they get a skewed picture. Self-selection. Because the Japanese girls who don't want to have lots of sex with random ugly foreigners, i.e. 99.9% of the population, don't ever interact with such guys. Especially since, they are not likely to remember the statistically significant sample of girls who reject them, but rather, the one they actually got into bed.
looks like you are using non statistical 99.9% as well
what I know is in Japan there are clubs for black and white soldiers or foreigners
so all the japanese girls or guys who got a thing for black go to black club
those who got a thing for white go to the white clubs
that is why there are many cases of rape because the girls are just too easy to start with
I mean if girls go to these clubs they must be asking for it in a way
and in phillipines most girls will choose white men first because that is the ticket to get out of poverty it seems like this is happening all over asia

SunWuKong

06-04-2003, 09:16 AM

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Jun 4 2003, 04:09 AM
As has been pointed out before, there's not so many of those girls, so don't waste too much energy worrying. It's just that they get around a lot, like the old joke about the village bicycle. And since they're the only part of Japanese society that many resident foreigners interact with, of course they get a skewed picture.
hehheh that sounds just a little bit like the expats and oversease chinese who hang out at and only at lan kwai fong all the time. it's like they're off in their own little world and have their own image of how HK is that is different from the locals.

YuheiCarreau

06-04-2003, 09:18 AM

Originally posted by girlmagnet@Jun 4 2003, 04:47 AM
looks like you are using non statistical 99.9% as well
what I know is in Japan there are clubs for black and white soldiers or foreigners
so all the japanese girls or guys who got a thing for black go to black club
those who got a thing for white go to the white clubs
that is why there are many cases of rape because the girls are just too easy to start with
I mean if girls go to these clubs they must be asking for it in a way
and in phillipines most girls will choose white men first because that is the ticket to get out of poverty it seems like this is happening all over asia
You're talking about three things you know nothing about - Japan, women, and rape.

You have no idea what goes on in Japan, and you've chosen to go by the stories men tell about how many women they've laid - always an accurate source of information.

SunWuKong

06-04-2003, 09:20 AM

Originally posted by girlmagnet@Jun 4 2003, 06:47 AM
in phillipines most girls will choose white men first because that is the ticket to get out of poverty it seems like this is happening all over asia
by the way, just so you know, most of asia is not like the philippines.

AliBabaIncorporated

06-04-2003, 12:27 PM

Originally posted by girlmagnet@Jun 4 2003, 05:47 AM
looks like you are using non statistical 99.9% as well
what I know is in Japan there are clubs for black and white soldiers or foreigners
so all the japanese girls or guys who got a thing for black go to black club
those who got a thing for white go to the white clubs
that is why there are many cases of rape because the girls are just too easy to start with
I mean if girls go to these clubs they must be asking for it in a way
Of course you know that. And how do you know that? Cuz maybe your foreigner friends and soldiers told you, but mainly cuz foreign correspondents stationed in Japan wrote about it in your local newspaper, and foreign guys you've never met before wrote about it on the Internet.

Think such people might have a slightly skewed view of Japanese society based on the fact that they're not Japanese, and by the nature of things the Japanese they meet include a disproportionate number of girls who just want to meet foreigners, and the places they hang out are the foreigner hangouts with English speaking staff since a lot of them speak such bad Japanese?

Why not go ask a real Japanese person what Japanese society looks like ...

shy

06-04-2003, 12:52 PM

Originally posted by girlmagnet@Jun 4 2003, 02:47 AM
that is why there are many cases of rape because the girls are just too easy to start with
I mean if girls go to these clubs they must be asking for it in a way
i use to peer counsel sexual education. one of the many topics was about rape and sexual assaults.

take it from me... girls do not go out looking to be raped. there is nothing wrong with going out to have fun at a club. women, as well as men, are entitled to have a night out on the town for some fun. no one schedules into their date book... "friday night @ 10pm - meet friends at club for some drinking and dancing... and then get raped later on."

i urge you to rethink your attitude. put it this way... it is that exact attitude that makes a lot of sexual assault victims feel guilty and ashamed, blaming themselves for whatever happened. or they just feel that people will point fingers and blame them. so in the end, they stay silent and let the attacker get away with it.

but the attacker will most likely strike again... and the next victim could very well be some one you know.

once again... NO ONE asks to be raped. NO ONE looks to be sexually assaulted.

think before you speak... there could very well be people who come here who have been a victim themselves or know some one who has.

how do you think they feel after reading what you just wrote???

mr. x

06-04-2003, 06:58 PM

Tao

06-04-2003, 08:06 PM

Originally posted by mr. x@Jun 4 2003, 09:58 PM
Originally posted by Tao@Jun 3 2003, 11:30 AM
is it just me or does anyone else find it extremely funny that yujin is complaining about getting offered too much ass?  :o  God, I wish I was white now and in japan  :lol:  wth, that's a pretty sweet deal for white guys (or guys who look white).

its not the getting the ass that is the problem, its just u know sometimes the ass in question is supposed to be a face :rolleyes:

is yujin a yw-er?
yeah i believe he's BeTheReds

DragonKnight

06-04-2003, 09:01 PM

Originally posted by girlmagnet@Jun 4 2003, 02:47 AM
and in phillipines most girls will choose white men first because that is the ticket to get out of poverty it seems like this is happening all over asia
Now that's a bunch of BS IMHO. Most girls my ass. Where did you get this info? Cause it is grossly inaccurate. My dad just came from the Philippines. The latest from him is that every one of my relatives in the Philippines are doing pretty damn well. My female cousins aren't so desperate that they gotta jump every white guy for a 'ticket out of poverty.' Sheesh, there's more to the Philippines than the misinformation you see on TV or hear from whatevers. :rolleyes:

mr. x

06-04-2003, 09:07 PM

yeah i wouldnt go so far as to say all japanese anglophiles are sluts but many are a bit airheaded and if i were to go to japan id rather they stay away from me anyway (though i would be slightly subconsciously jealous if a went there with a white guy friend and he were to get far more attention than me), of course i wouldnt be jealous at all if i were to meet one, just ONE, nice decent girl, then i wouldnt give that up for getting mobbed by shallow women anyday.

curiously enough back in high school this white girl in my business class said when their school band made a trip to china her brother was mobbed japanese style. i can see that considering there are no white guys in china and they see for the most part many of the same media that japanese girls see (with a snip snip censorship here and there) but ida thought chinese girls had more self control <_<

mr. x

06-04-2003, 09:12 PM

omfg, i just typed a buncha shit and then i got the login treatment (sigh)

okay to sum up what i just lost (twice) id rather meet a nice japanese girl then a shallow one anyway (or a mob of them)

a girl in my hs said when her band went to china they gave her brother the same treatment (ida thought chinese girls had more selfcontrol but yeah for the most part they see the same media there i guess)

and if were gonna base a country on anecdotes alone then south korea hates on all americans they see

mr. x

06-04-2003, 10:29 PM

check this out
http://a740.g.akamai.net/f/740/606/1d/image.pathfinder.com/time/asia/2003/bob_sapp/images/sapp_students.jpg

articles here: http://www.time.com/time/asia/2003/bob_sapp/story.html

girlmagnet

06-05-2003, 02:55 AM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jun 4 2003, 04:20 PM
by the way, just so you know, most of asia is not like the philippines.
that is why I wrote : It seems .......

the fact is, there are japanese or asians who are fascinated with whites or maybe blacks and you can't deny that by saying I don't know Japan

and there are also many asian women who are looking for a westerner as a husband this also can not be denied
and some of these women are Filipinas

there is less evidence of asian men advertising for white women and this also can be verified and I am sure you can do this yourselves

maxdacat

06-05-2003, 06:29 AM

i had a read thru and found the LJ's fairly inoffensive, even entertaining.....that justin guy at least doesn't seem like your run of the mill anime fan.....always nice to live vicariously through others :blush:

Uncle Tat

06-05-2003, 07:49 AM

Originally posted by mr. x@Jun 5 2003, 12:29 AM
check this out
http://a740.g.akamai.net/f/740/606/1d/image.pathfinder.com/time/asia/2003/bob_sapp/images/sapp_students.jpg

articles here: http://www.time.com/time/asia/2003/bob_sapp/story.html
Heh amusing article...

"he says from across the aisle of the nearly empty first-class cabin (he buys, and occupies, two seats whenever he travels), "if I don't eat every few hours, I start feeling kinda light-headed."

SunWuKong

06-05-2003, 09:22 AM

Originally posted by girlmagnet@Jun 5 2003, 05:55 AM
that is why I wrote : It seems ....... 

the fact is, there are japanese or asians who are fascinated with whites or maybe blacks and you can't deny that by saying I don't know Japan

and there are also many asian women who are looking for a westerner as a husband this also can  not be denied and some of these women are Filipinas

there is less evidence of asian men advertising for white women and this also can be verified and I am sure you can do this yourselves
yes, but there aren't exactly that many women looking for white men as a ticket out of poverty, as you so generously claimed. and you did write "most girls will choose white men first". it so happens that most girls i know in asia wouldn't choose white men first. i guess you know a lot of women in poverty in asia? i sure as hell don't. or i guess most girls in the philippines are in poverty and are looking for white men to get out of poverty? i guess i don't know much about the philippines, but i can assure you that this is not the case with east Asian countries.

YuheiCarreau

06-05-2003, 10:07 AM

Originally posted by Uncle Tat@Jun 5 2003, 08:49 AM
Originally posted by mr. x@Jun 5 2003, 12:29 AM
check this out
http://a740.g.akamai.net/f/740/606/1d/image.pathfinder.com/time/asia/2003/bob_sapp/images/sapp_students.jpg

articles here: http://www.time.com/time/asia/2003/bob_sapp/story.html
Heh amusing article...

"he says from across the aisle of the nearly empty first-class cabin (he buys, and occupies, two seats whenever he travels), "if I don't eat every few hours, I start feeling kinda light-headed."
The girl in the middle (the one whose face you can see) looks like my cousin.

lyra_us

06-05-2003, 10:43 AM

Originally posted by maxdacat@Jun 5 2003, 05:29 AM
i had a read thru and found the LJ's fairly inoffensive, even entertaining.....that justin guy at least doesn't seem like your run of the mill anime fan.....always nice to live vicariously through others :blush:
I wasn't knocking the guy or anything, don't get me wrong. Who is going to refuse sex no strings with beautiful women. I just thought it was a little sad that a guy who had never gotten laid back in America was getting it on porno style with Japanese girls.

DragonKnight

06-05-2003, 04:40 PM

Originally posted by girlmagnet@Jun 5 2003, 01:55 AM
that is why I wrote : It seems .......

the fact is, there are japanese or asians who are fascinated with whites or maybe blacks and you can't deny that by saying I don't know Japan

and there are also many asian women who are looking for a westerner as a husband this also can not be denied
and some of these women are Filipinas

there is less evidence of asian men advertising for white women and this also can be verified and I am sure you can do this yourselves
Sheesh, the fact is I know of a few caucasian girls that are fascinated with Asian guys. Some who are dating them and another who's *gasp!* married to one. You don't see me going around saying, "well, I think most white girls are hot for us handsome Asian studs." That statement would be an irresponsible lie on my part. Just like...

and in phillipines most girls will choose white men first because that is the ticket to get out of poverty it seems like this is happening all over asia

Whatever. :rolleyes:

-Rich

ellsworth81

06-05-2003, 07:47 PM

Originally posted by lyra_us@Jun 5 2003, 09:43 AM
I wasn't knocking the guy or anything, don't get me wrong. Who is going to refuse sex no strings with beautiful women. I just thought it was a little sad that a guy who had never gotten laid back in America was getting it on porno style with Japanese girls.
who said he was meeting beautiful women? :huh:

Bhodi_Li

06-05-2003, 11:56 PM

When I was young there were no asian women to date (that's what happens when you live in a rural town in MN) so consequently I had no experience with asians. As I got older a lot of the asian women that I was interested in were only interested in dating white guys. It was a pretty big turn-off and I found myself a little disappointed in the asian community. I wondered if all asian women were like that. While I was stationed in Korea things were different. Thoughts? Anyone else out there with similair experiences.

SunWuKong

06-06-2003, 12:10 AM

Originally posted by Bhodi_Li@Jun 6 2003, 02:56 AM
When I was young there were no asian women to date (that's what happens when you live in a rural town in MN) so consequently I had no experience with asians. As I got older a lot of the asian women that I was interested in were only interested in dating white guys. It was a pretty big turn-off and I found myself a little disappointed in the asian community. I wondered if all asian women were like that. While I was stationed in Korea things were different. Thoughts? Anyone else out there with similair experiences.
i know and have only known very few asian women that refuse to date asian guys. i was rejected by one of them. :P but most of the asian women i know only date asian guys, and some don't care what race the guys are.

girlmagnet

06-07-2003, 05:08 AM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jun 5 2003, 04:22 PM
yes, but there aren't exactly that many women looking for white men as a ticket out of poverty, as you so generously claimed.  and you did write "most girls will choose white men first".  it so happens that most girls i know in asia wouldn't choose white men first.  i guess you know a lot of women in poverty in asia?  i sure as hell don't.  or i guess most girls in the philippines are in poverty and are looking for white men to get out of poverty?  i guess i don't know much about the philippines, but i can assure you that this is not the case with east Asian countries.
Maybe I should write: most girls in phillipines will probably choose white men first because that is what the impression I got from the number of adverts around the net
I did not see anything wrong with the statement

and I did not care about the actual amount of people interested in other races what I am interested in is this:
it can not be 99.9% ............

sure there are white girls who would want asian guys but I don't care about that, because I was not arguing about whether that is true or not It is not part of my basis

are you going to deny that there exists people who would be interested in marrying because they want better lives ?
if you say no than I rest my case

kimpossible

06-07-2003, 07:25 AM

kimpossible

06-07-2003, 07:29 AM

Originally posted by Deadpool@Jun 2 2003, 12:40 AM
Aren't Japanese people kinda rascist towards Chinese?
The older generation can certainly hold grudges, but hardly any of the younger gens do. The most common anti-anything sentiment I ever encountered was anti-American and usually stemming from US military presence in Japan.

SunWuKong

06-07-2003, 10:12 AM

Originally posted by girlmagnet@Jun 7 2003, 08:08 AM
Maybe I should write: most girls in phillipines will probably choose white men first because that is what the impression I got from the number of adverts around the net
I did not see anything wrong with the statement

and I did not care about the actual amount of people interested in other races what I am interested in is this:
it can not be 99.9% ............

sure there are white girls who would want asian guys but I don't care about that, because I was not arguing about whether that is true or not It is not part of my basis

are you going to deny that there exists people who would be interested in marrying because they want better lives ?
if you say no than I rest my case
so you're using the sample of fillipino girls who post ads on the web specifically looking for white males as an indication of what most filipino girls do? buddy, you need to take a basic stats course.

DragonKnight

06-08-2003, 09:35 PM

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jun 7 2003, 09:12 AM
Originally posted by girlmagnet@Jun 7 2003, 08:08 AM
Maybe I should write: most girls in phillipines will probably choose white men first because that is what the impression I got from the number of adverts around the net
I did not see anything wrong with the statement

and I did not care about the actual amount of people interested in other races what I am interested in is this:
it can not be 99.9% ............

sure there are white girls who would want asian guys but I don't care about that, because I was not arguing about whether that is true or not It is not part of my basis

are you going to deny that there exists people who would be interested in marrying because they want better lives ?
if you say no than I rest my case
so you're using the sample of fillipino girls who post ads on the web specifically looking for white males as an indication of what most filipino girls do? buddy, you need to take a basic stats course.
Amen ta dat.

girlmagnet, your case is based on an extremely small percentage of Filipino women that post their little ads...on the friggin 'net. It hardly reflects the race preference of the typical Filipino woman. It's not even an issue to most Filipino women. Until you go out to every part of the Philippines to get a more accurate sample proving your theory/statement/case, your comments have no merit and I will openly state that you are DEAD WRONG when you say:

most girls in phillipines will probably choose white men first because that is what the impression I got from the number of adverts around the net
I did not see anything wrong with the statement

Case closed.

-Rich

mr. x

06-08-2003, 10:50 PM

yeah lets not forget a lot of these broads are pulling a fast one on these rich american boys

russian mail order bride anyone?

AngryABCGirl

06-09-2003, 12:03 AM

How is this thread still alive?

And aren't questions like Nice guys or Bad Boys or Rich guys and Humble guys or Career Guys or Laid-Back guys more important to finding *the* guy?

AliBabaIncorporated

06-09-2003, 12:20 AM

Originally posted by AzNBuffGrL@Jun 9 2003, 02:03 AM
How is this thread still alive?

And aren't questions like Nice guys or Bad Boys or Rich guys and Humble guys or Career Guys or Laid-Back guys more important to finding *the* guy?
Cuz most guys don't really care about girls who refuse to date nice guys or girls who only date career guys. They can easily pretend to be a member of the requisite category long enough to get laid.

Also, the Census Bureau doesn't keep statistics on the number of high-maintenance girls cohabiting with bad boys or career women married to humble men.