being viewed as 'exotic'

[kasia]

exotic. kinda different from beautiful, but a positive way to describe a girl nonetheless. or isn't it? what do you ladies think?

[BeTheReds]

Exotic means pleasantly different than what you are used to.

Take it however you want. Most guys who say that shit are assholes anyway.

[angel nympho]

I don't really mind it. Exotic is a word that's been so overused when describing appearances that it really isn't a big deal anymore. Not that I thought it was a big deal before... A lot of times people just say it 'cuz they think they're supposed to say it.

[SunWuKong]

i like white girls because they're exotic

[artsfartsyjanet]

I don't mind the word, but it depends how it's used in context.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

When I think exotic beauty, I think of spiffy, badass-looking, man-eating plants. Hmmm...maybe there's a connection :P

[Saiko]

Well, it's positive. I don't see why I shouldn't be flattered at least.

[princess]

it depends on who its coming from. for example, if its from some slime ball id be insulted for him trying to put that line past me.

[mrazntre]

like anyone would say anything to you

[princess]

haha and i supposed YOU have actually gotten a compliment before in your life?

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by princess@Jan 11 2003, 01:51 AM
haha and i supposed YOU have actually gotten a compliment before in your life?
only nice one. i mean you do get people to say stuff AT you.. like "how the hell did she gain all that weight?" or "lose some weight ya damn slob" or "that thing coming at us is so big!" or my favorite "i wonder how much her grocery bill is a month"

[princess]

tre, tre, tre...youre so funnie. you and all these fat comments. i find them quite amusing. but anyway *pats tres head* try to get back in line with the topic

[Hanuman]

Originally posted by BeTheReds@Jan 10 2003, 03:53 AM
Exotic means pleasantly different than what you are used to.

Take it however you want. Most guys who say that shit are assholes anyway.
LOL. Too true, too true.

[teaz0r]

i think of exotic and i think of fruit.
or like a beach.

exotic to describe a girl. i think of red faced irish men visiting the sex industry in bangkok.
i dunno why.

[mr. x]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 10 2003, 11:07 AM
i like white girls because they're exotic
Err white girls cant be exotic cuz there's so many of em

[Craig]

Originally posted by mr. x@Jan 11 2003, 12:15 AM
Err white girls cant be exotic cuz there's so many of em
depends on where you are and from what perspective you are looking at it ...

[himura-dono]

Originally posted by mr. x@Jan 11 2003, 06:15 AM
Err white girls cant be exotic cuz there's so many of em
hi welcome to yellow world, it's nice to know humor is lost on you *refrains from jokes about mr.x*


















jk bro :rolleyes:

[artsfartsyjanet]

Be nice everyone. :rolleyes:

[tapestrybabe]

k, i admit.. i've chatted in sex chat room before...
and when i'm chatting with a white guy... and i tell them that i'm asian... their like... Ooooo... that's been one of my biggest fantasies... to be with another asian female... they're so EXOTIC...

and as a female, i dont mind being objectified and being viewed as a sex object to a certain degree... but as an ASIAN female... i dont like my race being objectified like that...

[kayla]

For some reason, when the word "exotic" comes to mind, I think of Amazon Princess. haha. But her best features would be her nearly perfect body and gorgeous dark eyes. Oh, oh. and she can hunt with bow and arrows while being donned in skimpy clothing. :)

[applehead]

i don't consider it a compliment at all.
but it depends on the person commenting on whether i give him a piece of my mouth or not.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 08:29 AM
i don't consider it a compliment at all.
but it depends on the person commenting on whether i give him a piece of my mouth or not.
i think you're exotic! :D

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by mr. x@Jan 11 2003, 01:15 AM
Err white girls cant be exotic cuz there's so many of em
yeah i was joking

but yeah in HK white girls are considered exotic

[kimpossible]

I don't take it as a compliment because to me exotic means "You look different and therefore do not fit conventional beauty standards." I've had whites and Asians call me exotic so I feel like I get put into the 'other' category.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Jan 11 2003, 11:58 AM
I don't take it as a compliment because to me exotic means "You look different and therefore do not fit conventional beauty standards." I've had whites and Asians call me exotic so I feel like I get put into the 'other' category.
yeah i want an HH clone

[ChairmanMah]

is it a compliment for a guy?

[applehead]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 08:30 AM
Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 08:29 AM
i don't consider it a compliment at all.
but it depends on the person commenting on whether i give him a piece of my mouth or not.
i think you're exotic! :D
:o

[applehead]

Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jan 11 2003, 09:29 AM
is it a compliment for a guy?
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??

[ChairmanMah]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 05:32 PM
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??
i dunno, i think theres a whole crop of white girls that sprung up recently i think that like the whole martial arts master, badass villain gangster types. Maybe it's the danger or the image of being w/ a thug. Anyhow, it is the same situation w/ the females and male asiaphiles. These female asiaphiles are attracted to certain images of asian men.

That could be the reason why when i as the only asian male in the room gets white women throwing themselves at me forcing lap dances and necking w/ me(she wasn't stripper). This just happened last week and i kind of felt uncomfortable cuz i have a grl but i was drunk.

[ChairmanMah]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 05:32 PM
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??
and yeah to answer the question, would i be flattered or offended, i don't think i care. Pussy is pussy no matter what reason they want to give it to you. All i have to do is screw it.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 12:32 PM
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??
i would be flattered in the sense that i'd be thinking - "SCORE!!!"

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 12:55 PM
Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 12:32 PM
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??
i would be flattered in the sense that i'd be thinking - "SCORE!!!"
GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 11 2003, 12:57 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 12:55 PM
Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 12:32 PM
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??
i would be flattered in the sense that i'd be thinking - "SCORE!!!"
GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL
yeah and i'd be doing the banana dance ---> http://www.slantedeyes.com/dancing_banana.gif

[applehead]

i'd really like to see you do that banana dance. really.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 01:18 PM
i'd really like to see you do that banana dance. really.
hey i got a webcam

[applehead]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 10:40 AM
hey i got a webcam
c'mon. so whatcha waiting for???

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 10:46 AM
c'mon. so whatcha waiting for???
you'll share this footage with the rest of us girls, yes?

[igcognito]

oh you are so EXOTIC, how EROTIC.

Where exactly did this word come to be used to describe women, and does this make other minorities "exotic"?

[applehead]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Jan 11 2003, 11:04 AM
you'll share this footage with the rest of us girls, yes?
if it's worth it.
if it's not. i'll spare you guys.

[mizkisses]

Originally posted by kasia@Jan 9 2003, 11:13 PM
exotic. kinda different from beautiful, but a positive way to describe a girl nonetheless. or isn't it? what do you ladies think?
odd...i think "exotic" and i picture britney spears dancing with a snake... <_<

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 01:46 PM
c'mon. so whatcha waiting for???
alright then install yahoo messenger and let me know what your id is

[igcognito]

Get Trillian, it combines all the messengers and does it well.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by igcognito@Jan 11 2003, 07:35 PM
Get Trillian, it combines all the messengers and does it well.
trillian handles the video conferencing too? i did not know that.

[applehead]

he did it!!!!
he did it!!!

AND

it was awfully cute.
*pinch*

[kasia]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 09:55 AM
Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 12:32 PM
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??
i would be flattered in the sense that i'd be thinking - "SCORE!!!"
seriously, though?

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by kasia@Jan 11 2003, 10:20 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 09:55 AM
Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 12:32 PM
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??
i would be flattered in the sense that i'd be thinking - "SCORE!!!"
seriously, though?
yeah seriously
if a non-asian girl tells me i'm exotic, i'd start thinking about how i could work that to my advantage to get me the girl.

[LeahLe]

I feel very awkward when someone tells me i'm "exotic".

[kasia]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 08:06 PM
Originally posted by kasia@Jan 11 2003, 10:20 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 09:55 AM
Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 12:32 PM
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??
i would be flattered in the sense that i'd be thinking - "SCORE!!!"
seriously, though?
yeah seriously
if a non-asian girl tells me i'm exotic, i'd start thinking about how i could work that to my advantage to get me the girl.
yeh, i guess. guys don't mind as much being objectified. or maybe objectification isn't a bad thing for anyone?

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by kasia@Jan 12 2003, 02:37 AM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 08:06 PM
Originally posted by kasia@Jan 11 2003, 10:20 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 09:55 AM
Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 12:32 PM
i don't know.
if a white woman found you exotic and told you that..
would you be flattered or offended??
i would be flattered in the sense that i'd be thinking - "SCORE!!!"
seriously, though?
yeah seriously
if a non-asian girl tells me i'm exotic, i'd start thinking about how i could work that to my advantage to get me the girl.
yeh, i guess. guys don't mind as much being objectified. or maybe objectification isn't a bad thing for anyone?
well i'm only coming from a point of view of a man who has never exactly been thought of as an especially physically attractive specimen. just average probably. if women are always oogling at me, then perhaps i would not enjoy being objectified. but since that does not happen to me, i wouldn't mind at all being objectified!

[kasia]

:lol:

swk is being modest. ladies, he's very hot. and he can sing.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by kasia@Jan 12 2003, 02:48 AM
:lol:

swk is being modest. ladies, he's very hot. and he can sing.
:blink:

but it's true. women don't oogle at me. i think i'd notice... right?

and... nothing's better than a recommend from another woman. thanks kasie! :D

you deserve a dancing banana ---> <img src='http://www.slantedeyes.com/dancing_banana.gif[/img]

[kasia]

your very welcome :) dancing banana kinda scares me.


i think i would be offended if i a guy calls me 'exotic'. i haven't been called exotic by a guy before, only by older ladies :cry: but once, a russian guy told me that he basically wanted to get to know me better because i'm chinese and he thinks chinese girls are very 'worm' (warm). he was actually some dude that sold me my watch. he said he'd give me a discount if i gave him an email so i did :D then he sent me a very long email about chinese girls and asked me to go skiing with him. he might as well have called me 'exotic'. i was pretty offended...and amused at the same time, i guess. hard to take a guy seriously when he categorizes you in that way, you know?

[applehead]

when someone calls you exotic... is that similar to "man, i've always wanted to sleep with an asian chick"

[blkazngirl]

I find that must "white" guys will use that exotic term when they want to get in you panties. They seems to have this preconviced idea that being Asian that we are whores, not! I have had one guy ask if I would dress in a traditional dress and have sex with him. I smiled at him and gave him a right hook. And told him, "No, but I would pretend that he was my bitch and would beat his ass."

What I do find funny is that a Black girllfriend of mine has had the exotic term used on her by a few Asian guys. She asked me what they meant, my reply was they only wanted a good screw.

[applehead]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 11 2003, 11:54 PM

but it's true. women don't oogle at me. i think i'd notice... right?


that's because they haven't seen you playing your guitar
while smoking your marlboro lights.
*ah hem*

[igcognito]

Blkazngirl, you are exotic.

So when do I get the sex?

I asked my x-g/f about this and she said some guy (white) called her in the mall, and she said it "hurt her a lot". I don't know if I was called exotic, I would break stuff <sarcasm>but that is in my negro nature</sarcasm>

[mrazntre]

i've never been called exotic, but i have been called: weird, weirdo, asshole, pottymouth, interesting, crazy and special. hmmm....

[igcognito]

mrazntre, you are my HERO!! add that to your list.

[applehead]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Jan 12 2003, 09:21 AM
special.
<_<

[blkazngirl]

Originally posted by igcognito@Jan 12 2003, 05:00 PM
Blkazngirl, you are exotic.

So when do I get the sex?

I asked my x-g/f about this and she said some guy (white) called her in the mall, and she said it "hurt her a lot". I don't know if I was called exotic, I would break stuff <sarcasm>but that is in my negro nature</sarcasm>
I'm just me, not exotic, just plain ol' me.

Sex? How you want it, rough or nice and slowwww? hehehe.

[deez nuts]

If some chick came up to me and called me exotic. I'd think that she used to be a he.....or a he dressed up like a she.

Whatever happened to just using monosyllable words to pick up honeyz....like "You is fly" or "You is off da hook." "You look exotic" seems like a really moist way to pick up a chick...or something a herb might say.

I see apple's technique and it's tight. Laying claim on YW men via a sign in her hand. Sy: gratz you've been bought by Apple for a carton of Newports a la "Scared Straight" style!

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by blkazngirl@Jan 12 2003, 12:31 PM
Originally posted by igcognito@Jan 12 2003, 05:00 PM
Blkazngirl, you are exotic.

So when do I get the sex?

I asked my x-g/f about this and she said some guy (white) called her in the mall, and she said it "hurt her a lot". I don't know if I was called exotic, I would break stuff <sarcasm>but that is in my negro nature</sarcasm>
I'm just me, not exotic, just plain ol' me.

Sex? How you want it, rough or nice and slowwww? hehehe.
how about illegally! the kid is 16! hahahaha!!!

ooooh scandalous... :D

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 12 2003, 12:32 PM
Whatever happened to just using monosyllable words to pick up honeyz....like "You is fly" or "You is off da hook." "You look exotic" seems like a really moist way to pick up a chick...or something a herb might say.
hahahh yeah i never thought about that before. i mean even if the guy thinks the asian girl is exotic... why would he actually use that line to try to pick her up??? :lol:

[blkazngirl]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 12 2003, 05:36 PM
Originally posted by blkazngirl@Jan 12 2003, 12:31 PM
Originally posted by igcognito@Jan 12 2003, 05:00 PM
Blkazngirl, you are exotic.

So when do I get the sex?

I asked my x-g/f about this and she said some guy (white) called her in the mall, and she said it "hurt her a lot". I don't know if I was called exotic, I would break stuff <sarcasm>but that is in my negro nature</sarcasm>
I'm just me, not exotic, just plain ol' me.

Sex? How you want it, rough or nice and slowwww? hehehe.
how about illegally! the kid is 16! hahahaha!!!

ooooh scandalous... :D
Ooops, I don't want to be known as "Mrs. Robinson", hehe

[igcognito]

Originally posted by blkazngirl@Jan 12 2003, 05:42 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 12 2003, 05:36 PM
Originally posted by blkazngirl@Jan 12 2003, 12:31 PM
Originally posted by igcognito@Jan 12 2003, 05:00 PM
Blkazngirl, you are exotic.

So when do I get the sex?

I asked my x-g/f about this and she said some guy (white) called her in the mall, and she said it "hurt her a lot". I don't know if I was called exotic, I would break stuff <sarcasm>but that is in my negro nature</sarcasm>
I'm just me, not exotic, just plain ol' me.

Sex? How you want it, rough or nice and slowwww? hehehe.
how about illegally! the kid is 16! hahahaha!!!

ooooh scandalous... :D
Ooops, I don't want to be known as "Mrs. Robinson", hehe
Damn cock blockers, and I am 17!!!! -_-. Sleep with plz?

[ChairmanMah]

last nite i went clubbing where a friend of mine dj's at.

it seems like whenever i go out the majority of the ppl in the club are whites (obviously)

so i was talking to this white dude when i was outside for a butt. talking bla, where's he's from etc. we start talking about race shit for some reason. he's telling me he likes asians especially asian women. I'm thinking obviously, asian women are hott. it can't be helped. then he starts telling me he only dislikes east indians.

I'm thinking that's alright i guess but i often wonder if ppl patronize me, i hope that's the right word, because all my friends are white and i basically speak perfect english w/ no accent and like alot of the things canadians like. Basically we can relate. I think a lot of white ppl are cool but from reading about whtie racism on the net really bumms me out.

I dont' know where i'm going w/ this but it seems like whenever i go out and am around large numbers of white males, i look around and i see them constantly looking at me. I find it kind of puzzling, strange and i dont' know how to interpret it very well. Do these white boys look at me like they want to be friends w/ me or start a fight w/ me?

I'm w/ all my white homies from childhood and i'm doing the club thing mackin women, minglin etc. and theres always white dudes staring at me. I not gay and these guys don't look it neither, so what's the problem. I'm usually to drunk to care but it can be uncomfortable. I feel like askin why they been looking but i don't want to seem like i'm starting a fight. I don't ever go out looking for fights but my friends do. Something has to really piss me off.

I heard someone say ching ching in the bathroom and i got sensitive to him and confronted him about it.

I asked are you being racist?

He replied: No, i didn't say ching chink.

I told him he shouldn't be racist and some other white guy who overheard me was just standing there looking at him. I'm not sure if he was there to watch us fight, or beat me or him.

I'm just wondering if white boys try to pick fights w/ you asian guys out there in the club or it's usually cool and you generally get along w/ white dudes. When i here ching ching in the presence of white males in the bathroom i have to make the decision whether to smash his head in the sink or confront him w/ words. I dont htink he deserved to get smashed because his remare was rather racially vague. i might be oversensitive about this matter.


i'm usually pretty chill but it seems like ppl wanna start shit or something. I guess everyone runs into ppl like this but i wonder why ppl like to unleash racism in nite clubs where ppl are trying to have a good time.

Not saying that white guys ruin my time but i always got whtie doods staring. Do they find it unusual that my crew is mostly white guys?

I guess my question is why do ppl stare and i hate when white dudes stare and you can't tell what theyre thinking if theyre grinning about something. YOu wonder if they are talking about you. that is what i hate.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jan 13 2003, 01:33 AM
last nite i went clubbing where a friend of mine dj's at.

it seems like whenever i go out the majority of the ppl in the club are whites (obviously)

so i was talking to this white dude when i was outside for a butt. talking bla, where's he's from etc. we start talking about race shit for some reason. he's telling me he likes asians especially asian women. I'm thinking obviously, asian women are hott. it can't be helped. then he starts telling me he only dislikes east indians.

I'm thinking that's alright i guess but i often wonder if ppl patronize me, i hope that's the right word, because all my friends are white and i basically speak perfect english w/ no accent and like alot of the things canadians like. Basically we can relate. I think a lot of white ppl are cool but from reading about whtie racism on the net really bumms me out.

I dont' know where i'm going w/ this but it seems like whenever i go out and am around large numbers of white males, i look around and i see them constantly looking at me. I find it kind of puzzling, strange and i dont' know how to interpret it very well. Do these white boys look at me like they want to be friends w/ me or start a fight w/ me?

I'm w/ all my white homies from childhood and i'm doing the club thing mackin women, minglin etc. and theres always white dudes staring at me. I not gay and these guys don't look it neither, so what's the problem. I'm usually to drunk to care but it can be uncomfortable. I feel like askin why they been looking but i don't want to seem like i'm starting a fight. I don't ever go out looking for fights but my friends do. Something has to really piss me off.

I heard someone say ching ching in the bathroom and i got sensitive to him and confronted him about it.

I asked are you being racist?

He replied: No, i didn't say ching chink.

I told him he shouldn't be racist and some other white guy who overheard me was just standing there looking at him. I'm not sure if he was there to watch us fight, or beat me or him.

I'm just wondering if white boys try to pick fights w/ you asian guys out there in the club or it's usually cool and you generally get along w/ white dudes. When i here ching ching in the presence of white males in the bathroom i have to make the decision whether to smash his head in the sink or confront him w/ words. I dont htink he deserved to get smashed because his remare was rather racially vague. i might be oversensitive about this matter.


i'm usually pretty chill but it seems like ppl wanna start shit or something. I guess everyone runs into ppl like this but i wonder why ppl like to unleash racism in nite clubs where ppl are trying to have a good time.

Not saying that white guys ruin my time but i always got whtie doods staring. Do they find it unusual that my crew is mostly white guys?

I guess my question is why do ppl stare and i hate when white dudes stare and you can't tell what theyre thinking if theyre grinning about something. YOu wonder if they are talking about you. that is what i hate.
that's a very good post CM, but what does that have to do with being viewed as "exotic"? :confused:

[ChairmanMah]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 13 2003, 06:36 AM
Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jan 13 2003, 01:33 AM
last nite i went clubbing where a friend of mine dj's at.

it seems like whenever i go out the majority of the ppl in the club are whites (obviously)

so i was talking to this white dude when i was outside for a butt. talking bla, where's he's from etc. we start talking about race shit for some reason. he's telling me he likes asians especially asian women. I'm thinking obviously, asian women are hott. it can't be helped. then he starts telling me he only dislikes east indians.

I'm thinking that's alright i guess but i often wonder if ppl patronize me, i hope that's the right word, because all my friends are white and i basically speak perfect english w/ no accent and like alot of the things canadians like. Basically we can relate. I think a &nbsp;lot of white ppl are cool but from reading about whtie racism on the net really bumms me out.

I dont' know where i'm going w/ this but it seems like whenever i go out and am around large numbers of white males, i look around and i see them constantly looking at me. I find it kind of puzzling, strange and i dont' know how to interpret it very well. Do these white boys look at me like they want to be friends w/ me or start &nbsp;a fight w/ me?

I'm w/ all my white homies from childhood and i'm doing the club thing mackin women, minglin etc. and theres always white dudes staring at me. I not gay and these guys don't look it neither, so what's the problem. I'm usually to drunk to care but it can be uncomfortable. I feel like askin why they been looking but i don't want to seem like i'm starting a fight. I don't ever go out looking for fights but my friends do. Something has to really piss me off.

I heard someone say ching ching in the bathroom and i got sensitive to him and confronted him about it.

I asked are you being racist?

He replied: No, i didn't say ching chink.

I told him he shouldn't be racist and some other white guy who overheard me was just standing there looking at him. I'm not sure if he was there to watch us fight, or beat me or him.

I'm just wondering if white boys try to pick fights w/ you asian guys out there in the club or it's usually cool and you generally get along w/ white dudes. When i here ching ching in the presence of white males in the bathroom i have to make the decision whether to smash his head in the sink or confront him w/ words. I dont htink he deserved to get smashed because his remare was rather racially vague. i might be oversensitive about this matter.


i'm usually pretty chill but it seems like ppl wanna start shit or something. I guess everyone runs into ppl like this but i wonder why ppl like to unleash racism in nite clubs where ppl are trying to have a good time.

Not saying that white guys ruin my time but i always got whtie doods staring. Do they find it unusual that my crew is mostly white guys?

I guess my question is why do ppl stare and i hate when white dudes stare and you can't tell what theyre thinking if theyre grinning about something. YOu wonder if they are talking about you. that is what i hate.
that's a very good post CM, but what does that have to do with being viewed as "exotic"? :confused:
when ppl stare. do they think you are special? you are one of the only asians around therefore been exoticized somewhat. maybe a token asian of some sort maybe. i hope not but i think i could be, i'm not sure. i've met only a couple asian guys like me that have all white friends.

[ChairmanMah]

i guess it can be difficult to tell if ppl are belittling you or are trying to be friendly. i feel this way because of bad experiences.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jan 13 2003, 01:44 AM
i guess it can be difficult to tell if ppl are belittling you or are trying to be friendly. i feel this way because of bad experiences.
so you feel that your race is an essential part of why and how you interact with others in your social circles?

[ChairmanMah]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 13 2003, 06:52 AM
so you feel that your race is an essential part of why and how you interact with others in your social circles?
i guess i try to not let it but i get suspicious at times and it can get in the way when meeting new ppl. i think it is true that it is harder to find good friends. I trust mostly only my childhood freinds but sometimes that can be a fucaround sometimes too. Soemtimes even your friends let you down.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jan 13 2003, 02:00 AM
i guess i try to not let it but i get suspicious at times and it can get in the way when meeting new ppl. i think it is true that it is harder to find good friends. I trust mostly only my childhood freinds but sometimes that can be a fucaround sometimes too. Soemtimes even your friends let you down.
:)

nah man. it's all good, my personal opinion is that you just need to feel more comfortable in your own asian skin. give people the benefit of the doubt. most white people i know are too careful about race and even tiptoes around the issue of race even when it's not necessary anyway.

[deez nuts]

My fiance doesn't like to be called exotic. This one guy called her exotic and asked if she was mixxed late Friday night when we were at a bar. Apparently, she goes off on the guy and tells him: "I'm not a fucking car. " I come out of the bathroom, see her arguing with some black guy. I return to the table and ask: "what's up." The dude tells me to keep my bitch in check and put a leash and muzzle on her. He stares at me and I stare at him. The bouncer sees everything and asks the guy to leave.

Sigh..can't take her anywhere.

[Adaon]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 05:32 PM
he did it!!!!
he did it!!!

AND

it was awfully cute.
*pinch*
oh geeez Noona.....-shakes- http://www.gamers-forums.com/smilies/otn/animals/shakin.gif



:lol: :lol: :lol:

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 11 2003, 05:32 PM
he did it!!!!
he did it!!!

AND

it was awfully cute.
*pinch*
aww... share?

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Jan 12 2003, 09:21 AM
i've never been called exotic, but i have been called: weird, weirdo, asshole, pottymouth, interesting, crazy and special. hmmm....
add crackhead and midget to that list.

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 13 2003, 06:55 AM
The dude tells me to keep my bitch in check and put a leash and muzzle on her.
See that's where I'd start to think it would be worth the $2-$3k I'd lose in small claims court to slam that mf in the face.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Jan 13 2003, 10:05 AM
See that's where I'd start to think it would be worth the $2-$3k I'd lose in small claims court to slam that mf in the face.
I was hoping he hit me first. I need the cash.

[iris]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Jan 13 2003, 11:05 PM
See that's where I'd start to think it would be worth the $2-$3k I'd lose in small claims court to slam that mf in the face.
A kick between the legs to bring him down and then kicks repeatedly to the face works so much better. The blood spatter is absolutely more satisfying.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by iris@Jan 13 2003, 10:14 AM
A kick between the legs to bring him down and then kicks repeatedly to the face works so much better. The blood spatter is absolutely more satisfying.
I see you're an expert on Irish martial arts too!

[iris]

Yeah, got a pint of guinness in one hand and a bad attitude in the other.

[Adaon]

Oh dear god.....what type of family have I got around here? One older sis who's mooning over a dancing banana/monkey king ;) , and another really really violent tendency having older sis......can't get much more "exotic" than that... :P



Gosh I love you two, lol -hugs-

[iris]

Hey we're the ones stuck with a lil bro with massive hemorrhoids and do you see us complaining? no.....

[deez nuts]

Oh god, hemorrhoids!

[Adaon]

-mental note- never fetch Iris a guinness by myself.....http://www.gamers-forums.com/smilies/contrib/gizm0/Celebrating_Emoticon.gif

[iris]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 13 2003, 11:22 PM
Oh god, hemorrhoids!
brings back bad memories for you....?

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by iris@Jan 13 2003, 10:23 AM
brings back bad memories for you....?
Yes, I've seen some nasty ones!

[Adaon]

that's not very exotic......or erotic.....http://www.actioninternet.net/users/pets/mystuff/no3.gif

[kasia]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 13 2003, 06:55 AM
My fiance doesn't like to be called exotic. &nbsp;This one guy called her exotic and asked if she was mixxed late Friday night when we were at a bar. &nbsp;Apparently, she goes off on the guy and tells him: "I'm not a fucking car. " I come out of the bathroom, see her arguing with some black guy. &nbsp;I return to the table and ask: "what's up." &nbsp;The dude tells me to keep my bitch in check and put a leash and muzzle on her. &nbsp;He stares at me and I stare at him. &nbsp;The bouncer sees everything and asks the guy to leave.

Sigh..can't take her anywhere.
i like your fiance :) i mean, how else is a real asian woman supposed to respond?

[amietron]

Originally posted by kasia@Jan 11 2003, 11:48 PM
:lol:

swk is being modest. ladies, he's very hot. and he can sing.
yeh. he sings red red wiiiiiiiine while he's drunk.

red red wine ya make me feel so fine, you keep me happy all of the time..

[blkazngirl]

Originally posted by ChairmanMah@Jan 13 2003, 06:33 AM
last nite i went clubbing where a friend of mine dj's at.

it seems like whenever i go out the majority of the ppl in the club are whites (obviously)

so i was talking to this white dude when i was outside for a butt. talking bla, where's he's from etc. we start talking about race shit for some reason. he's telling me he likes asians especially asian women. I'm thinking obviously, asian women are hott. it can't be helped. then he starts telling me he only dislikes east indians.

I'm thinking that's alright i guess but i often wonder if ppl patronize me, i hope that's the right word, because all my friends are white and i basically speak perfect english w/ no accent and like alot of the things canadians like. Basically we can relate. I think a lot of white ppl are cool but from reading about whtie racism on the net really bumms me out.

I dont' know where i'm going w/ this but it seems like whenever i go out and am around large numbers of white males, i look around and i see them constantly looking at me. I find it kind of puzzling, strange and i dont' know how to interpret it very well. Do these white boys look at me like they want to be friends w/ me or start a fight w/ me?

I'm w/ all my white homies from childhood and i'm doing the club thing mackin women, minglin etc. and theres always white dudes staring at me. I not gay and these guys don't look it neither, so what's the problem. I'm usually to drunk to care but it can be uncomfortable. I feel like askin why they been looking but i don't want to seem like i'm starting a fight. I don't ever go out looking for fights but my friends do. Something has to really piss me off.

I heard someone say ching ching in the bathroom and i got sensitive to him and confronted him about it.

I asked are you being racist?

He replied: No, i didn't say ching chink.

I told him he shouldn't be racist and some other white guy who overheard me was just standing there looking at him. I'm not sure if he was there to watch us fight, or beat me or him.

I'm just wondering if white boys try to pick fights w/ you asian guys out there in the club or it's usually cool and you generally get along w/ white dudes. When i here ching ching in the presence of white males in the bathroom i have to make the decision whether to smash his head in the sink or confront him w/ words. I dont htink he deserved to get smashed because his remare was rather racially vague. i might be oversensitive about this matter.


i'm usually pretty chill but it seems like ppl wanna start shit or something. I guess everyone runs into ppl like this but i wonder why ppl like to unleash racism in nite clubs where ppl are trying to have a good time.

Not saying that white guys ruin my time but i always got whtie doods staring. Do they find it unusual that my crew is mostly white guys?

I guess my question is why do ppl stare and i hate when white dudes stare and you can't tell what theyre thinking if theyre grinning about something. YOu wonder if they are talking about you. that is what i hate.
Pay no attention to them when you're out. I find that most people that start shit like that are trying to do 2 things,
1-impress people they are with/want to be seen.
2-drunk and just plain ass-holes.

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 13 2003, 02:55 PM
My fiance doesn't like to be called exotic. This one guy called her exotic and asked if she was mixxed late Friday night when we were at a bar. Apparently, she goes off on the guy and tells him: "I'm not a fucking car. " I come out of the bathroom, see her arguing with some black guy. I return to the table and ask: "what's up." The dude tells me to keep my bitch in check and put a leash and muzzle on her. He stares at me and I stare at him. The bouncer sees everything and asks the guy to leave.

Sigh..can't take her anywhere.
...and who says blacks and koreans don't get along!

[blkazngirl]

CB you're good. I would have had to play the dozen on his ass. And then made change out of his five cent ass.

[mrazntre]

blkazngirl is exotic

[applehead]

Originally posted by Adaon@Jan 13 2003, 07:18 AM
Oh dear god.....what type of family have I got around here? One older sis who's mooning over a dancing banana/monkey king ;) , and another really really violent tendency having older sis......can't get much more "exotic" than that... :P



Gosh I love you two, lol -hugs-
:luv:

:dance:

[Jenny]

I think people who describe others as "exotic" just dunno that what they say may offend the other person. I used to be flattered when people said that until I started reading up on Asia-America. So now, I'm a little bothered by it... but if it weren't for those damn books I'd still be blissfully ignorant about a lot of things. So I just take it for what it's worth.

[KiTTY2babe]

Exotic? Errmm... I hate that word. I think for some people it's just a nice way to tell someone that they don't find them conventionally pretty enough, so they just say they're "exotic-looking".