Where is the line drawn?

[achtungbaby]

Where do you draw the line in determining whether a girl is becoming psycho or not?

[kimpossible]

If your pet rabbit has been made into stew. Been hitting the champagne. *hic*

[deez nuts]

What do you mean they're all psycho in one way or another. It just depends on the
degree. For example:

1) Craves attention 24/7
2) Gets jealous over stupid shit way too easily
3) Too much drama
4) Too overemotional
5) Threatens to commit suicide if you try and dump her ass
6) Beats you and is abusive to you or fuzzy animals.

But I think it just depends on your threshold. I've met some of my friend's girlfriends and think they're total psycho bitches yet they think their girls are normal.

Shrugz. I think you're ok if you don't have to commit and sign her over to a maximum level psychiatric ward and from there you can assume she's safe to bring home to meet momma!

Edit: They're narcissistic.

I give em the peace out if I sense any psychotic behavior I can't up with!

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 1 2003, 07:34 AM
1) Craves attention 24/7
2) Gets jealous over stupid shit way too easily
3) Too much drama
4) Too overemotional
5) Threatens to commit suicide if you try and dump her ass
6) Beats you and is abusive to you or fuzzy animals.


I think these are excellent guidelines.

[Jenny]

A little bit of psychotic behavior in a relationship is good....... :blush:

[angel nympho]

There's nothing wrong with being a jealous person or craving attention!!!

[achtungbaby]

Ugh...now we get to hear the opinions of former-psychos!

[teaz0r]

i tell my guy friends. i am the lousiest girlfriend alive.
i am the psycho spawn of satan...in heels.
i manipulate boys. and break them down.
i push them to an edge. i push to see them how far i can push them.
the "i am tough" boys always gets my attention.
because i like proving them wrong.

i think my most psychotic moments were when i was depressed.
i used to self mutaliate. i'd sew my hands up. and my boyfriend
would come home to that everynite. and fix my hand up.
take out the threads in my palms and wrap it up.
sometimes i think i did it as cry for attention.

i spent a full two months with my boyfriend without seeing anybody else.
it was just him and i. day in day out. until one day he went to play football
with his friends. and i pouted because he didn't come home for dinner.
o.O he hadn't seen his friends in 2 months. and i still pouted.
i made him feel bad. so he'd come home.
ultra needy. mega manipulative.

he said he could handle me. so i turned on the full psycho bitch mode.

i really don't know why i do these things.
my head doctor and i are working on it.

[kimpossible]

Does being a redhead automatically qualify me as a psycho?

[achtungbaby]

By the way, this thread wasn't directed at anyone in particular.

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by pipSy@Jan 1 2003, 01:09 PM
i tell my guy friends. i am the lousiest girlfriend alive.
i am the psycho spawn of satan...in heels.
i manipulate boys. and break them down.
i push them to an edge. i push to see them how far i can push them.
the "i am tough" boys always gets my attention.
because i like proving them wrong.

i think my most psychotic moments were when i was depressed.
i used to self mutaliate. i'd sew my hands up. and my boyfriend
would come home to that everynite. and fix my hand up.
take out the threads in my palms and wrap it up.
sometimes i think i did it as cry for attention.

i spent a full two months with my boyfriend without seeing anybody else.
it was just him and i. day in day out. until one day he went to play football
with his friends. and i pouted because he didn't come home for dinner.
o.O he hadn't seen his friends in 2 months. and i still pouted.
i made him feel bad. so he'd come home.
ultra needy. mega manipulative.

he said he could handle me. so i turned on the full psycho bitch mode.

i really don't know why i do these things.
my head doctor and i are working on it.
Duuuude. How about getting a life?:)

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by achtungbaby@Jan 1 2003, 01:48 PM
By the way, this thread wasn't directed at anyone in particular.
Shit. Should have put up a smilie. I was kidding around.

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Jan 1 2003, 01:55 PM
Shit. Should have put up a smilie. I was kidding around.
But since you are a redhead, you are a psycho.

[teaz0r]

Originally posted by achtungbaby@Jan 2 2003, 04:50 AM

Duuuude. How about getting a life?:)
i'm working on it.

[artsfartsyjanet]

psycho ... not psycho... goodness.. there's a lot of operational definitions involved in this matter. I'm not touching it. Or just read the DSM-IV for kicks. heh....

[SunWuKong]

AB, i told you that you were asking for it. and notice that more women have replied than men... :lol:

[karizma]

i might get hated for this...but damn i feel for the guys!!! i guess i see it from a whole different perspective because ive always hung out with more guys than girls..personally i think girls are some scary scary creatures. ive never been scared of a guy even if he's fuming mad at me but girls...they go off talking about their ex bf's who "fucked them over" and i feel like hiding under my sheets. theres so much anger inside them just waiting to explode...yikes...

speaking of psycho....this girl...she's been my homie since like elementary days and i love her, and she used to date this guy...also my homie since like third grade and i love him too....they dated on and off for like...3 years...you can imagine how attached the girl was. and its SCARY...cause she starts crying so easily...she does things to hurt herself for attention..and she constantly drags me in the middle...and i feel sorry for the guy cause he never knows whats goin on and wonders why he's always wrong...and its just some f'ed up shiz =P...i think if the girl got ahold of herself all this drama would end..but she just CANT STOP "lovin" him. i told her straight up that it wasnt love and that it was all bullshit and she has to stop...wonder if she'll listen, its always easier said than done right?

im not too sure id make a good gf....i mean i kinda understand what the guy is going through when a girl goes all loc on him bur i donr know if that thought would keep me from going psycho as well lol...oh well..i think i can hold it down pretty well =).

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Jan 1 2003, 03:08 PM
AB, i told you that you were asking for it. and notice that more women have replied than men... :lol:
That's good! They all need to be schooled to some degree or another.

[applehead]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 1 2003, 07:34 AM

1) Craves attention 24/7
2) Gets jealous over stupid shit way too easily
3) Too much drama
4) Too overemotional
5) Threatens to commit suicide if you try and dump her ass
6) Beats you and is abusive to you or fuzzy animals.


i know girlfriends like that.
i don't know how they do it. it just takes *so* much energy to do some of the things they do.

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by applehead@Jan 2 2003, 02:25 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 1 2003, 07:34 AM

1) Craves attention 24/7
2) Gets jealous over stupid shit way too easily
3) Too much drama
4) Too overemotional
5) Threatens to commit suicide if you try and dump her ass
6) Beats you and is abusive to you or fuzzy animals.


i know girlfriends like that.
i don't know how they do it. it just takes *so* much energy to do some of the things they do.
you sure you just know gf's like that?

[deez nuts]

Once a month is all that's allowed, if you catch my drift. All terms subject to change due to the effects from Ortho. But once a month tops. Anymore than that you get the big peace out and/or a swift: "I need to get some air" from me.

The rise and fall of estrogen and progesterone excuse will only get you so far before you get a "deal with it" from me.

Dealing with nagging patients for at 12 hrs a day, I don't need to hear it when I come home, so shut up and be an adult about it.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Jan 1 2003, 06:38 PM
i might get hated for this...but damn i feel for the guys!!! i guess i see it from a whole different perspective because ive always hung out with more guys than girls..personally i think girls are some scary scary creatures. ive never been scared of a guy even if he's fuming mad at me but girls...they go off talking about their ex bf's who "fucked them over" and i feel like hiding under my sheets. theres so much anger inside them just waiting to explode...yikes...

speaking of psycho....this girl...she's been my homie since like elementary days and i love her, and she used to date this guy...also my homie since like third grade and i love him too....they dated on and off for like...3 years...you can imagine how attached the girl was. and its SCARY...cause she starts crying so easily...she does things to hurt herself for attention..and she constantly drags me in the middle...and i feel sorry for the guy cause he never knows whats goin on and wonders why he's always wrong...and its just some f'ed up shiz =P...i think if the girl got ahold of herself all this drama would end..but she just CANT STOP "lovin" him. i told her straight up that it wasnt love and that it was all bullshit and she has to stop...wonder if she'll listen, its always easier said than done right?

im not too sure id make a good gf....i mean i kinda understand what the guy is going through when a girl goes all loc on him bur i donr know if that thought would keep me from going psycho as well lol...oh well..i think i can hold it down pretty well =).
Listen to this woman.

She's wise beyond her years.

[mrazntre]

i think women have this innate sense to fuck shit up when things are going well. if the relationship is sailing smoothly, a chemical reaction in the woman's head occurrs that immediately alerts her that her man is way too happy, and then the bitch switch flips on and then the bitch starts bullshitting about something or another.. just to make the man's life a living hell...



women are tools. use them and put them away.

[applehead]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 1 2003, 08:06 PM
Once a month is all that's allowed, if you catch my drift. All terms subject to change due to the effects from Ortho. But once a month tops. Anymore than that you get the big peace out and/or a swift: "I need to get some air" from me.

The rise and fall of estrogen and progesterone excuse will only get you so far before you get a "deal with it" from me.

Dealing with nagging patients for at 12 hrs a day, I don't need to hear it when I come home, so shut up and be an adult about it.
i hate women who uses that excuse.
"well, i'm PMSing"
"no, you're just a bitch"
hahahahahahahhaha

[applehead]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Jan 1 2003, 06:59 PM
Originally posted by applehead@Jan 2 2003, 02:25 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 1 2003, 07:34 AM

1) Craves attention 24/7
2) Gets jealous over stupid shit way too easily
3) Too much drama
4) Too overemotional
5) Threatens to commit suicide if you try and dump her ass
6) Beats you and is abusive to you or fuzzy animals.


i know girlfriends like that.
i don't know how they do it. it just takes *so* much energy to do some of the things they do.
you sure you just know gf's like that?
yeah i know, some of my friends are like that.

they make a mountain out of a molehill.
make trouble.
poke their man just to see what happens.
create drama.

#1-4

i mean really. and you LIKE this guy? they torture them. aw, i feel for you guys.

[BaiginLong]

ehhh girlfriends sound scarey
are wives any better?????
eheheh :unsure:

[Craig]

Originally posted by BaiginLong@Jan 2 2003, 12:18 AM
ehhh girlfriends sound scarey
are wives any better?????
eheheh  :unsure:
:lol: :lol: :lol:

[BaiginLong]

:P

[RiceDaddy7]

All girls are psycho. The question is, are they psychotically in love with you or not.

[VV o n g B a]

Originally posted by pipSy@Jan 1 2003, 03:09 PM
i tell my guy friends. i am the lousiest girlfriend alive.
i am the psycho spawn of satan...in heels.
i manipulate boys. and break them down.
i push them to an edge. i push to see them how far i can push them.
the "i am tough" boys always gets my attention.
because i like proving them wrong.

i think my most psychotic moments were when i was depressed.
i used to self mutaliate. i'd sew my hands up. and my boyfriend
would come home to that everynite. and fix my hand up.
take out the threads in my palms and wrap it up.
sometimes i think i did it as cry for attention.

i spent a full two months with my boyfriend without seeing anybody else.
it was just him and i. day in day out. until one day he went to play football
with his friends. and i pouted because he didn't come home for dinner.
o.O he hadn't seen his friends in 2 months. and i still pouted.
i made him feel bad. so he'd come home.
ultra needy. mega manipulative.

he said he could handle me. so i turned on the full psycho bitch mode.

i really don't know why i do these things.
my head doctor and i are working on it.
um.. yikes? that guy must've REALLY cared about u. first thing i would've done was move out if i saw u sewed your hands together.

[Adaon]

Word....it's all good Pip, you still get Bunboy J00zy, so it's all good. ;) :lol: :P

[UCLABruins98]

The key isn't where the line is drawn... that's relative... the key is to know where the line is for yourself and to be able to walk away once the line is crossed... never settle... with the gazillion women on this planet, you've got to be able to find one you like that's not crazy... in theory... of course, in my experience, it's when you try to walk away that's turns girls psycho... imho.

[Hanuman]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Jan 1 2003, 10:34 AM
What do you mean they're all psycho in one way or another.  It just depends on the
degree.  

Dude, that's hysterical. That's absolutely my philosophy in life. It's only a matter of degree. Unfortunately I'm too vocal about it so I've had to make this concession.

All women are crazy, it's only a matter of degree, while all men are bastards, yet again, it's only a matter of degree.

I've run this by a ton of people here and most people have agreed with me so far. Ptfff, forget that "Men are from mars, women are from venus" crap. Take this abridged version instead. :rolleyes:

[BaiginLong]

"I see crazy people..." :P

*switches back to serious mode*
all people are crazy in one way or another man that's too general of a statement to make

[Adaon]

Originally posted by UCLABruins98@Jan 13 2003, 08:20 PM
The key isn't where the line is drawn... that's relative... the key is to know where the line is for yourself and to be able to walk away once the line is crossed... never settle... with the gazillion women on this planet, you've got to be able to find one you like that's not crazy... in theory... of course, in my experience, it's when you try to walk away that's turns girls psycho... imho.
I dunno. There's yet to be a girl that hasn't turned psychotic on me IRL and tried to physically inflict harm upon my person, teasingly or not. :P Personally, I think everyone's crazy.....the sanest person has probably gone insane already.

[Fireblade]

*taunts Adaon*

no thanks to you.

*runs away*

seriously though, I agree with Tawee. The line is drawn with your total tolerance for a certain degree of psycho is allowed into your life. I know I'd go crazy if I had to deal with someone who wouldn't leave me alone and let me have time to myself.

But yet, I can deal with ppl telling me their problems like it ain't no thing. Of course there are those nights in which I wake up worried off my ass . . .

It happens. ;)

[contra_diction]

psycho females.. ye, i've seen some females get pretty, ah, destructive when neglected or turned down, or after i "ruined their life". one stole a computer monitor, another keyed the car and stole a rearview mirror along with a hubcab, not to mention the girl who after i left (17 at the time) proceeded to hit up a 13 yr old and soon afterwards a 22 yr old. crazy, huh. violence, though? mm, not really. luckily, i've found that perfect 'degree' (i guess) that yall mentioned with this girl i'm with, the love of my life.

[Adaon]

Originally posted by Fireblade@Jan 14 2003, 04:54 AM
*taunts Adaon*

no thanks to you.

*runs away*

seriously though, I agree with Tawee. The line is drawn with your total tolerance for a certain degree of psycho is allowed into your life. I know I'd go crazy if I had to deal with someone who wouldn't leave me alone and let me have time to myself.

But yet, I can deal with ppl telling me their problems like it ain't no thing. Of course there are those nights in which I wake up worried off my ass . . .

It happens. ;)
Prolly cuz the problems they're talking about aren your own, ya git.

So basically, it's easier to deal with someone else's insanity than to deal with your own lack of sanity, Clint?

How about the rest of you folks? Do you all find it easier to take a look at your own idiosyncracies and quirks and/or problems when dealing with someone else's at some point?

[Fireblade]

You should open up a thread about this man... :rolleyes:

[serverpimp]

If you ever have a one night stand, and the chick goes 'Ah, it feels so good to have a boyfriend again' :)

Seriously though I haphazardly tried hooking my boy up with a chick who paid $6.00 for my email address on hotornot for some sideplay action, and he went on like 1-2 dates with her, and one night she ends up calling his ass like every half hour on the hour til 2 AM in the morning. Shit like that's scary. I'm glad I never went out with her psycho ass!

[UCLABruins98]

adaon, if there hasn't been a girl that's gone psycho on you, then maybe it's not just the girls??? people do contribute to their environment and do effect the way that people around them act and react.

besides, if you surround yourself with snakes, don't be surprised if you get bit (bit or biten or bot??? lol.)

that said, I'm sure that there are things about me that drive women crazy... but not in the good sense.