The Aware APIA Homies Thread - Asian Men Only

[deez nuts]

Dude is already named Gosselin and has no Asian cultural background (as far as we can see). If not for his Hapa look he might as well be a white guy.

No doubt he is the offspring from a Korean s.o.w. And he exhibits behavior typical of an offspring from an Asian s.o.w. that is married to a white or black guy. It is nonetheless a small victory for us aware Asian males against the negative Asian male stereotype in our efforts to even the IR disparity. It is better than an Asian s.o.w. married to a white or black husband that was pumped full of fertility drugs that popped out 8 kids.

We must seize each victory no matter how small. We must make our voices heard. It is much like the woman's battle for equal pay. The s.o.w. and her fanboi legion will tell us that Asian guys do get laid if only he tried, or how there's more Asian women more likely to date Asian men than non-Asian men and how stats show that the disparity gap isn't that great. I mean do we tell our women in the work force that sure everybody that works get paid or point out there are women that earn more than their male counterparts or the income disparity isn't as bad between men and women based upon the few women with equal qualifications that do earn the same or more than their male counterparts? The point is that the disparity does exist and it is the disparity that gets the attention. We as Asian males are not only fighting for our equality, we are also fighting against popular perception/misconception of the Asian male and the IR disparity.

Gentlemen, remember that we are lions. Immortality is ours; we just need to seize it. We must maintain an open mind and an empty stomach so we will constantly be vigilant and aware of the injustices done to us by the s.o.w's and her fanboi legion and be hungry to do battle and victory will be ours.

[Sunflare]

No doubt he is the offspring from a Korean s.o.w. And he exhibits behavior typical of an offspring from an Asian s.o.w. that is married to a white or black guy. It is nonetheless a small victory for us aware Asian males against the negative Asian male stereotype in our efforts to even the IR disparity. It is better than an Asian s.o.w. married to a white or black husband that was pumped full of fertility drugs that popped out 8 kids.

My fellow APA brother strong and wise as you are, with due respect to your rank I must express disaccord to your otherwise fine statement. You posess a fiery spirit but it must be carefully guided and directed so as to not stike the air......but rather strike the enemy target with destuctive accuracy.

We must uphold the iron gauntlet of justice but also show mercy to our beloved bastard Hapa and Blasian children without an Asian identity to be proud of. Those children who are cursed beyond their will as a result of this plague that has devestated the APA community that is the IR disparity issue, we must teach them the way to APA empowerment.

And furthermore, fellow true believer, we should try to set up foriegn ties with other fellow fighters of color against the evil oppressive Anglo American regime so that we have allies as we fight the great fight for the APA empowerment cause.

We must seize each victory no matter how small. We must make our voices heard. It is much like the woman's battle for equal pay. The s.o.w. and her fanboi legion will tell us that Asian guys do get laid if only he tried, or how there's more Asian women more likely to date Asian men than non-Asian men and how stats show that the disparity gap isn't that great. I mean do we tell our women in the work force that sure everybody that works get paid or point out there are women that earn more than their male counterparts or the income disparity isn't as bad between men and women based upon the few women with equal qualifications that do earn the same or more than their male counterparts? The point is that the disparity does exist and it is the disparity that gets the attention. We as Asian males are not only fighting for our equality, we are also fighting against popular perception/misconception of the Asian male and the IR disparity.

Gentlemen, remember that we are lions. Immortality is ours; we just need to seize it. We must maintain an open mind and an empty stomach so we will constantly be vigilant and aware of the injustices done to us by the s.o.w's and her fanboi legion and be hungry to do battle and victory will be ours.

Indeed. On your fine words comrade we stand in full agreement. We as AMs must not give up, no, we must continue to fight as our ancetors did, even to our last breath, to attack and overthrow this common evil called the IR dating disparity issue. We must perform spells by means of verbal analogy and innuendos and then confirm our threats and take swift direct action to dispell the stereotypes against the Asian male. We must pick up our hammers of divine judgement and shatter the obstacles like glass, we must break through the enemy lines, we must subdue the enemy and inpregnate their women with our semen which posesses our superior genes so that we may win the fight to close the gap that exists in IRs.

I concur with your strong words. Yes!! We must be dilligant in our efforts to combat this common enemy so yes victory can be ours for the taking !!!! *salute*

[deez nuts]

We must uphold the iron gauntlet of justice but also show mercy to our beloved bastard Hapa and Blasian children without an Asian identity to be proud of. Those children who are cursed beyond their will as a result of this plague that has devestated the APA community that is the IR disparity issue, we must teach them the way to APA empowerment.

Yes, there are hapa and blasian offsprings that are aware of our plight but they are few and far between and usually come from the seed of a strong and aware Asian father and there are those that are so enlightened and become aware and rise above their circumstance despite having a s.o.w. mother and a white, black or non-Asian father. But even then, when there is racial tension that corresponds to both sides of a blasian or hapa, some (not all) will keep their mouths shut or worse yet stand against their Asian side.

So I ask you, CC: Where do you stand if conflict arises between blacks and Asians such as the epidemic in NYC of our fellow hard working Chinese food delivery men being targeted by blacks that rob and murder them because of the Asian male stereotype? Because to the best of my memory, I have yet to see a black or a blasian member here voice their disgust on this epidemic when we post news about it on YW. In fact, if I recall correctly some even defended or at the very least made excuses about their actions. But, memory may serve me wrong here so feel free to correct me if I am wrong.

And furthermore, fellow true believer, we should try to set up foriegn ties with other fellow fighters of color against the evil oppressive Anglo American regime so that we have allies as we fight the great fight for the APA empowerment cause.

Negative. We banned our fair share of black asiaphiles and a few hispanics/latinos here and there as well that put down the asian male while banging our women, eating our food and enjoying what our culture has to offer. I do not choose my allies in accordance to color. I choose them based on their allegiance and loyalty to me and the cause otherwise you are an enemy to me regardless of white, black or yellow. Remember this that the only time the white man and the black man has functioned together and collectively as a whole on grand scale in the last 50 years or so is to kill the yellow man.

[Sunflare]

Yes, there are hapa and blasian offsprings that are aware of our plight but they are few and far between and usually come from the seed of a strong and aware Asian father and there are those that are so enlightened and become aware and rise above their circumstance despite having a s.o.w. mother and a white, black or non-Asian father. But even then, when there is racial tension that corresponds to both sides of a blasian or hapa, some (not all) will keep their mouths shut or worse yet stand against their Asian side.

So I ask you, CC: Where do you stand if conflict arises between blacks and Asians such as the epidemic in NYC of our fellow hard working Chinese food delivery men being targeted by blacks that rob and murder them because of the Asian male stereotype? Because to the best of my memory, I have yet to see a black or a blasian member here voice their disgust on this epidemic when we post news about it on YW. In fact, if I recall correctly some even defended or at the very least made excuses about their actions. But, memory may serve me wrong here so feel free to correct me if I am wrong..

Great leader and super mod: I am pleased that you have come to your senses regarding our bastard Blasian and Hapa children who has proved themselves and abandoned their non Asian ties, taking up the fine fight for the faith.

But Sir, how can you dare question my integrity and allegience to the true believers and to the cause ? You are speaking pure madness. I am an APA. I will always serve as an APA. Live as an APA. Die as an APA, for the great cause. I must say to you: I have proven myself that I will undoubtedly represent the APA empowerment struggle and fight fire with fire for the dreams aspirations of the angry Yellow male and will bring stiff opposition and swift destruction to anyone who question us AMs on the issue on the IR dating disparity issue.

Great teacher, I feel that you have put against me a challenge in order to to strengthen my fighting skills and so therefore I must prove myself......

As of late a black man has infiltrated the site through the Hello Hapa forums and dared to slap me in my face and practically call me a sellout to the Black man because of my stanch stand for the APA cause, putting my integrity to my APA identity into question.

And so I took the lead and unleashed a vicious conterattack of verbal rage and destabilized him and his trollish activity on this site.

Details on the conflict in the Hello Hapas forum:

This is bullcrap, in my opinion. I'm an African-American and what you've stated dose not comply with what I've observed in this situation.Right. Are you a hapa? Or a Blasian? How in the world do you all of a sudden have all the insight in the world, calling my real to life experience shit when you dont know what the hapa/blasian experience is all about?

Think, use your head, then speak.

Anything else you like to say? And it better make sense because I am really not in a fucking good mood today.Tell that to Heinz Ward and Amarie.. just to name a few. All of their stories as well as some Blacks with Asian mixture I personally know... are consistent with my observations on this situation.I see riddles of inconsistencies in your comment.

Let's start with the names. Get the spelling right. Its Amerie and Hines Ward.



Now you need to get your facts straight. Starting with Hines Ward. He has expressed publically his deep appreciation for his Korean heritage and used his celebrity status as a NFL player for the Pittsburgh Steelers to his advantage.

A little history lesson:

Hines Wards went back to Korea encourage social and political reform there in 2006. He used his status as a celebrity and held 'Hope meetings' to help Hapas and Blasian Children in Korea.

He quoted at one such hope meeting: "If the country can accept me for who I am and accept me for being a Korean, I'm pretty sure that this country can change and accept you for who you are."

Before he left he donated one million dollars to start the the 'Hines Ward Helping Hands Foundation' which purpose is to help those Korean children of mixed descent who face continued discrimination there in that country.

Another history lesson:

We have Amerie, a very beautiful and talented Afro Asian woman in the performing arts. Can you speak for her on how she identifys herself? Maybe you should talk to her and find out instead of speaking in her behalf like you are her official spokesperson or something.

Did you know that the name Amerie is based on the name "Eimeori" (에이머리) ?? Did you know that she can speak Korean in a conversational tone with fluency? Did you know that Amerie is noted for signing her name in both English and Korean when giving autographs ??

That shows right there that Amerie is DAMN PROUD of her Asian heritage. She didn't perform no drop one race rule. She embraced both aspects of her dual heritage and is not afraid to express it.


Like most Mulatto, they do not deny their non-black mixture though then again they are not blind to the fact of that it's with their black kin in whom they are most Cherished and accepted as simply family and "brothers" and "sisters" of the unionIt's always been like this and it will always remain so. Some, like you stray at times.. yet in time they always come back.



You are dead wrong. As an Afro Asian:

I will always identify myself as an APA. I will do what I want as an APA. I will always think as an APA.

I respect Afro Americans and their struggle very highly and hold them in high esteem.

But I made my choice and refuse to lose touch with myself and my identity as an Asian American man of mixed descent.

To my grave.

Figuratively speaking : A person can put a gun to my head and try to have me denounce my Asian heritage by force. You know what? I'll rather die identifying myself as an APA. An APA of mixed descent. Pull the damn trigger and try me.

Feel me?

Records of this great flame war against this Afro-American infiltrator can be found here:

link: http://forums.yellowworld.org/showthread.php?p=541246#post541246

Furthermore I have collaborated with another fellow APA man who goes by the codename sageb1 to carry out an all out internet war with extremist Black leader AL Sharpton, making plans to infiltrate his site anticipation of his bigoted response to the APA community by himself and his goons in the wake of the incidentone of our AM brothers stationed at Columbia University who was senslessly killed while in pursuit by a wolfpack of black kids in Manhattan in the heat of battle:

Details of planned mission to be carried out:

I was just about to post the split second right before you posted, to ask when Al Sharpton is going to get involved with this.We need to find Al Sharpton's website for his talking head program, if he is still being paid to apologize for his naughty bros. :p

Ok, here we go: http://www.sharptontalk.net/

Should I post a link in my email to Sharpton?^Here: http://www.sharptontalk.net/

Go get the trolls from 4chan.org (http://www.4chan.org/) to 'net raid his inbox for the lutz if you like. I don't care.

EDIT: You got the same link. Cool. Go for it.



link: http://forums.yellowworld.org/showthread.php?t=34698

So indeed as the record shows I have proven myself as an Angry Asian man who speaks with conviction and truth and is at the ready to unleah an attack of unheard of proportions against ANYONE who dare questions our stand as Asian men.

Negative. We banned our fair share of black asiaphiles and a few hispanics/latinos here and there as well that put down the asian male while banging our women, eating our food and enjoying what our culture has to offer.

Yes indeed sir I have done my research on the archived conflicts site and have come in agreement for the desisions of the moderators to wield the ban gauntlet anyone, white or black, who dare question our struggle and attempt to snuff out our roars for justice.


I do not choose my allies in accordance to color. I choose them based on their allegiance and loyalty to me and the cause otherwise you are an enemy to me regardless of white, black or yellow. Remember this that the only time the white man and the black man has functioned together and collectively as a whole on grand scale in the last 50 years or so is to kill the yellow man

Neither do I. I do not choose my alliances necessaily as to color but rather according to their usefulness to this great cause.

Sir, in all truthfulness, I have been in plenty of fights with black kids in my days as a APA rebel badass using my martial arts skills. But even as I suffered through great battles with the black man, I have not lost my ability to see that a balance in meting out judgement and punishment against our enemies.

I have done my research and I have seen that the Black man according to 2007 U.S census reports do not represent a large majority to the IR disparity problem. To the contrary the Black men only represents small fraction.

For All Chinese Women who marry:

29.7% are kowtowing to whitey.
Only 0.5% are in IRs with Black men.

For all Filipino Women who date marry:

36.0% are enslaved to the white man.
Only 1.3% in IRs with Black men.

For all Korean women date out of their race or outmarry:

39.5% have sold themselves out to the white man rabid with yellow fever.
Only 2.2% are in IRs with black men.

For all Japanese women who date or marry:

32.8% has whored to the white man.
Only 0.8% has been in IRs with Black men.

Source: http://www.asian-nation.org/interracial.shtml

My friend, statistics don't lie. The proof I provided clearly shows that AF/BM IRs only represents a minute fraction as compared to AF/WM IRs. So take heart comrade and see that the Black man in reality do not serve as a greater threat to this issue. Agan I must suggest great super mod, and supreme leader, that we must not attack as to directed so as to not strike the air......but rather strike the real enemy target with destuctive accuracy.

Sir, the common enemy is whitey. All the cracker asiaphiles, white as snow. We must therefore take on this greater threat of higher importance and work to halt their advances for the sake of our beloved Asian women and more inportantly for the image of the great Asian male.

We must fight and destroy any opposition without fail.

But we must exercise good judgement and know our greater enemy well if we are to win this epic war that has taken place in AmeriKKKa.

[deez nuts]

This war is to be fought on all fronts for we are attacked on all sides. Blacks have disrespected us from the days of Eddie Murphy stand up, Shaq's ching chong comments about Yao and the list goes on.

If you cannot walk and chew gum at the same time I suggest you start to learn now and learn quickly for we do not have just one enemy but multiple enemies. Remember: what we do in life echoes in eternity.

[Sunflare]

This war is to be fought on all fronts for we are attacked on all sides. Blacks have disrespected us from the days of Eddie Murphy stand up, Shaq's ching chong comments about Yao and the list goes on.

If you cannot walk and chew gum at the same time I suggest you start to learn now and learn quickly for we do not have just one enemy but multiple enemies. Remember: what we do in life echoes in eternity.

Understood comrade. Similarly Afro-American entertainers like the rap artist Ice Cube has made derogatory comments towards APAs and so forth.

Racist fools like this I despise. But remember they are only dumbfuck uneducated black celebrities. They do not represent the majority of the black community. Save for some of the clowns who wear their pants down their crack of their asses like they just shitted in their draws or the hoochie mamas who dont shave their legs or armpits...

..a small segment of the black community are well educated law abiding citizens who admires our zeal in standing up to whitey, shattering the stereotypes, and combating racism. Such people are to be commended.

Remember they were also subject to enslavement and racism by whitey, much like how we AMs are under attack as whitey enslaves our AFs today. They also had to endure the hardships imposed on them by the white man, most notably during the days of slavery and during the days of enforced aparthied in the early 20th century leading up to the civil rights movement in the 60's.

[deez nuts]

Understood comrade. Similarly Afro-American entertainers like the rap artist Ice Cube has made derogatory comments towards APAs and so forth.

Racist fools like this I despise. But remember they are only dumbfuck uneducated black celebrities. They do not represent the majority of the black community. Save for some of the clowns who wear their pants down their crack of their asses like they just shitted in their draws or the hoochie mamas who dont shave their legs or armpits...

..a small segment of the black community are well educated law abiding citizens who admires our zeal in standing up to whitey, shattering the stereotypes, and combating racism. Such people are to be commended.

Remember they were also subject to enslavement and racism by whitey, much like how we AMs are under attack as whitey enslaves our AFs today. They also had to endure the hardships imposed on them by the white man, most notably during the days of slavery and during the days of enforced aparthied in the early 20th century leading up to the civil rights movement in the 60's.

So we agree that the NAACP are a bunch of dumb fucks and uneducated blacks who don't represent the black community since shortly after Shaq's comments about Yao, they gave Shaq an award.

There are no exceptions, no excuses and no middle ground. There is too much at stake. Lines are drawn; one must pick a side.

[Azn Retribution]

This is a joke thread right....?

when did this turn into the fighting44's or one of those other radical APA sites.

destroy whitey?
enslaves our AF's?
AF's can do what they want just as we do what we want.

'fraid I'll have to disagree and say there is a middle ground and it's not falling into the kind of sheeple hate that the NAACP and what not believe in.

[Sunflare]

This is a joke thread right....?

when did this turn into the fighting44's or one of those other radical APA sites.

destroy whitey?
enslaves our AF's?
AF's can do what they want just as we do what we want.

'fraid I'll have to disagree and say there is a middle ground and it's not falling into the kind of sheeple hate that the NAACP and what not believe in.

Listen carefully toughnut. Straight up.

I wouldn't say that there is a middle ground when it comes to IR. The stats clearly shows that. But I guess if that's how you feel then fine.

Yes, this was a joke. HaHa. But I guess the fun's over.

How this even got split into a thread in the whatever forum then moved again into the men's forum as a sticky I do not know. I didn't make the desicion. In fact I'm thinking that this thread is sticking out like a sore thumb. If it would get removed at this point it would make me very happy.

Talking endlessly about IR without doing anything about it to improve the situation whether collectively as a community or working on our own individual dating lives is counterproductive. That's how I look at it now.

Anyway if you want to discuss this further fine, otherwise I'm done. And I never understood why this was a sticky to begin with. Don't puff at me over it.

BTW, I think thefighting44's site is one of the best APA sites out there. The bloggers there come out straight with what needs to be said regarding APIA issues.

[Adaon]

Whoa. this is gonna be one of THOSE threads. LOL. PK approved!

[halfbreed007]

Wow, its good to see that you guys take such pride in your race. There is nothing wrong about standing up for what you believe in.
And to comment about what happen in NYC that was a horrible thing that happen and the people who did it need to get sent to the chair for what they did. As for the NCAAP I think it’s and outdated organization that needs to try to keep up with times. They get mad at the smallest of things and commend those who put down other races. That’s not what the NCAAP was to stand for but over the years that’s what it has turned into.

I'm Black ,White and Asian and for my own experiences I feel that( at lest for myself) I’m not accepted anywhere. Black kids in my college make fun of me for being mixed or "redbone", White people will be my friend but A) they talk bout me behind my back or B) make fun of the fact that I’m mixed and make jokes about it. And as for Asian people (not that all Asian people are like this just the ones I have run into) want nothing to do with me. Even the Asian family that I have want nothing to do with me they only talk to me when they have no choice and when I’m around only speak in Cantonese because they know I can't speak it and my dad never thought me how -_- . They feel that because I have black blood in me that I’m no good dirty blood if you will and I know they would like me better if I was just Asian and white ( my dad is part white part Asian) they prefer for me not to be around. (Sorry I got off topic there) anyways …..

It’s not that most mixed ppl will not stand up for the community, but it’s kinda hard to stand up for something when that group of people want nothing to do with you.
Not many people could understand what its like to not be accepted full way around (accepted for those who are mixed as will). I don’t have a group that I could stand with I have no real race that I could side with. So the only thing that I do is stand up for what I feel is right.

And sorry for the comment here I know that this is a men’s only section but I just wanted to comments about the above topic.

[Sunflare]

Hi, how are you? I enjoyed reading your post.

Wow, its good to see that you guys take such pride in your race. There is nothing wrong about standing up for what you believe in.
And to comment about what happen in NYC that was a horrible thing that happen and the people who did it need to get sent to the chair for what they did. As for the NCAAP I think it’s and outdated organization that needs to try to keep up with times. They get mad at the smallest of things and commend those who put down other races. That’s not what the NCAAP was to stand for but over the years that’s what it has turned into.

On the comments on the NAACP or on IRs, honestly it was supposed to be a joke, to make fun of the other hardcore militant APA sites. I'm glad you took it in good humor, tasteless as it was.

Nethertheless your observations are greatly appreciated. Certainly the original intentions of the NAACP was definitely positive but it seems that the organization as a whole seemed to have lost focus over the years ....

I'm Black ,White and Asian and for my own experiences I feel that(at least for myself) I’m not accepted anywhere. Black kids in my college make fun of me for being mixed or "redbone", White people will be my friend but A) they talk bout me behind my back or B) make fun of the fact that I’m mixed and make jokes about it. And as for Asian people (not that all Asian people are like this just the ones I have run into) want nothing to do with me.

I'm sorry to hear that you are subject to the kind of malicious treatment because of your dual ethnicity. I went through the same thing. I used to get into fistfights with other black kids (and Asian kids ) almost every other day it seems. But I understand. I did'nt at the time take the biased conflicts I had with my own resentfully, I tried to look at the big picture and see the real reasons for the unfortunate friction between the Asian and black communities. I did'nt allow it to tear me down. I decide to rise above it.

Even the Asian family that I have want nothing to do with me they only talk to me when they have no choice and when I’m around only speak in Cantonese because they know I can't speak it and my dad never thought me how -_- . They feel that because I have black blood in me that I’m no good dirty blood if you will and I know they would like me better if I was just Asian and white ( my dad is part white part Asian) they prefer for me not to be around. (Sorry I got off topic there) anyways …..

*sigh* Yeah, I am experiencing the same thing you are as well. My dad is also Chinese while my mother is not and I have it tough trying to relate to my extended family on both sides. There is times that I literally felt like "fuck them" and disown them altogether, but I realize that that would'nt solve the problem , but ultimately make it worse.

I can perfectly understand your plight. Many hapas, whether they are Afro-Asian or Eurasian are going through similar struggles. My sympathies to you.

Remember that you are a beautiful person, being an Asian female of mixed heritage. So be proud for who you are !!! It does'nt mattr what these other people think. It only matters what you think about yourself.

Don't apologize for being off topic, jiejie. These things needs to be heard. Please whenever you want to talk about these issues please post !!! Many of the YW members here are very open and understanding when it comes to hapa identity issues =)

[halfbreed007]

Hi, how are you? I enjoyed reading your post.



On the comments on the NAACP or on IRs, honestly it was supposed to be a joke, to make fun of the other hardcore militant APA sites. I'm glad you took it in good humor, tasteless as it was.

Nethertheless your observations are greatly appreciated. Certainly the original intentions of the NAACP was definitely positive but it seems that the organization as a whole seemed to have lost focus over the years ....



I'm sorry to hear that you are subject to the kind of malicious treatment because of your dual ethnicity. I went through the same thing. I used to get into fistfights with other black kids (and Asian kids ) almost every other day it seems. But I understand. I did'nt at the time take the biased conflicts I had with my own resentfully, I tried to look at the big picture and see the real reasons for the unfortunate friction between the Asian and black communities. I did'nt allow it to tear me down. I decide to rise above it.



*sigh* Yeah, I am experiencing the same thing you are as well. My dad is also Chinese while my mother is not and I have it tough trying to relate to my extended family on both sides. There is times that I literally felt like "fuck them" and disown them altogether, but I realize that that would'nt solve the problem , but ultimately make it worse.

I can perfectly understand your plight. Many hapas, whether they are Afro-Asian or Eurasian are going through similar struggles. My sympathies to you.

Remember that you are a beautiful person, being an Asian female of mixed heritage. So be proud for who you are !!! It does'nt mattr what these other people think. It only matters what you think about yourself.

Don't apologize for being off topic, jiejie. These things needs to be heard. Please whenever you want to talk about these issues please post !!! Many of the YW members here are very open and understanding when it comes to hapa identity issues =)

^_^ This is the first time I meet someone who understands what it's like to be on the other side of the fence I’m glad I found this site.
And you are so right, sometimes I do feel like “Fuck them all” but that would not make me the bigger person, more so I would be buckling to the pressure.

[Sunflare]

^_^ This is the first time I meet someone who understands what it's like to be on the other side of the fence I’m glad I found this site.

=)

You'll find that everyone here on yellowworld are very openmined on matters as compared to other APA sites where people are very rude and opiniated and really trollish to say the least.

As you will see, there are many other females here like yourself who can relate to you even better then even I can, because they are going through similar struggles. And the many dudes here are all very down to earth, respectful and truely like gentlemen towards other ladies who post here. You'll see. We're not quick to become judgemental. None of us is 100% perfect but we try the best we can together to create a very positive enviorment for members in this internet community.

And you are so right, sometimes I do feel like “Fuck them all” but that would not make me the bigger person, more so I would be buckling to the pressure.

Yeah, exactly. It takes a strong woman to rise above the feelings from rejection or opposition that she may feel from both sides of her extended family or their peers because of their ignorance and still find peace in herself and pride in her different aspects of her heritage and her personal self-being without becoming discouraged.

People are always drawn to people who are kind and loving in words but more so in acts of kindness and who are optimistic on things. They know such persons are truely posessing an inner strength. That's a beautiful trait to have.

That's what I realized and that's how I learned to cope with my trials and difficulties. It made me a better person.

[halfbreed007]

Yeah, exactly. It takes a strong woman to rise above the feelings from rejection or opposition that she may feel from both sides of her extended family or their peers because of their ignorance and still find peace in herself and pride in her different aspects of her heritage and her personal self-being without becoming discouraged.

People are always drawn to people who are kind and loving in words but more so in acts of kindness and who are optimistic on things. They know such persons are truely posessing an inner strength. That's a beautiful trait to have.

That's what I realized and that's how I learned to cope with my trials and difficulties. It made me a better person.

lol...... I need inner strength with what I have to deal with. But it’s always nice to find people that aren't complete assholes.
And it’s nice to see such a great community of people who try to work together for a common goal.
And thank you for your words of encouragement <333

[Azn Retribution]

Listen carefully toughnut. Straight up.


Says a horribly insecure person who compensates with a militant attitude not unlike white supremicists or "the nation" equivalents.



I wouldn't say that there is a middle ground when it comes to IR. The stats clearly shows that. But I guess if that's how you feel then fine.


There are 3 kinds of lies.
Lies, Damned lies, and Statistics.

Statistics can be manipulated every each way.
Depends on the context, and sample group.
Generalizations are a poor ass argument and take out the context of the individual.

btw Watch "The Wire" sometime and get educated on institutions vs individuals and what kinda shit happens when you base things on your "statistics"

Try a more rational one than bush/rove-esque rhetoric and dramatics.

It's like your that NAACP person who was on the colbert report complaining that Obama isn't african american. he's "african-african american" and that there should be a distinction.



Yes, this was a joke. HaHa. But I guess the fun's over.



I haven't even gotten started yet.
You're quitting before I can get technical.
That's no fun and I believe a logical fallacy of a kind, in and of itself.



How this even got split into a thread in the whatever forum then moved again into the men's forum as a sticky I do not know. I didn't make the desicion. In fact I'm thinking that this thread is sticking out like a sore thumb. If it would get removed at this point it would make me very happy.

Talking endlessly about IR without doing anything about it to improve the situation whether collectively as a community or working on our own individual dating lives is counterproductive. That's how I look at it now.


Good. Then why do you keep complaining and replying.
Improving the situation as a community? You mean perception?

me thinks you need a primer on what racism is.

It is about agency and self determination.

racism, in my view, is the denial of agency through institutions and structures that deny agency and power for a group based upon an arbitrary understanding of the socially constructed category of ’race’.

so by BEING defined instead of self defining, you are the victim of racism.

You are appear to be one of those tools who lets himself and acknowledges himself as being defined by others.

as for improving the situation myself.
I don't have any problem dating IR or within my race.
I actually get hit on more openly by caucasian/hispanic/black girls


Anyway if you want to discuss this further fine, otherwise I'm done. And I never understood why this was a sticky to begin with. Don't puff at me over it.

BTW, I think thefighting44's site is one of the best APA sites out there. The bloggers there come out straight with what needs to be said regarding APIA issues.

Heh. Funny how people are so presumptous that they assume what is best for a entire large group of people.

Wonder what they call that.
Must be a term.

[Sunflare]

Says a horribly insecure person who compensates with a militant attitude not unlike white supremicists or "the nation" equivalents.



There are 3 kinds of lies.
Lies, Damned lies, and Statistics.

Statistics can be manipulated every each way.
Depends on the context, and sample group.
Generalizations are a poor ass argument and take out the context of the individual.

btw Watch "The Wire" sometime and get educated on institutions vs individuals and what kinda shit happens when you base things on your "statistics"

Try a more rational one than bush/rove-esque rhetoric and dramatics.

It's like your that NAACP person who was on the colbert report complaining that Obama isn't african american. he's "african-african american" and that there should be a distinction.



I haven't even gotten started yet.
You're quitting before I can get technical.
That's no fun and I believe a logical fallacy of a kind, in and of itself.




Good. Then why do you keep complaining and replying.
Improving the situation as a community? You mean perception?

me thinks you need a primer on what racism is.

It is about agency and self determination.

racism, in my view, is the denial of agency through institutions and structures that deny agency and power for a group based upon an arbitrary understanding of the socially constructed category of ’race’.

so by BEING defined instead of self defining, you are the victim of racism.

You are appear to be one of those tools who lets himself and acknowledges himself as being defined by others.

as for improving the situation myself.
I don't have any problem dating IR or within my race.
I actually get hit on more openly by caucasian/hispanic/black girls



Heh. Funny how people are so presumptous that they assume what is best for a entire large group of people.

Wonder what they call that.
Must be a term.

Seems this must be something personal you have with me. Maybe we should take this offline since i'm not in the mood to bitch for pages about IR issues.

In the meantime while I'm waiting for your response let me say this to clarify things.

1) I am not ignorant when it comes to IR issues but a disparity does exist. A problem concerning fetishism does exist. a corelation between race and dating among APAs exists. A dead person can see that.

2) But I don't bother theatening people over it online. Makes no sense. I believe in working on myself and my own dating life, and go for mines. Everyone's entitled to do what they want. It's a free country. Right ?

3) As far as the AFs - They can date whoever they want. My only gripe has to do with the fetishism that may be involved. The notion that some women insist on dating exclusively white to be successful in life, to be happy, to move up the social scale,to assimilate, etc. Because the problem really exists.

But I'm not going to slam or shit on them them over it.

Otherwise in itself if I meet with an AF married to a white man in itself online or face to face, hey all the power to them if they truely love one another. Let me emphasize the fact that If they want to date or marry hispanic, black or whatever, It doesn't bother me. In fact it makes me happy.

Almost everyone I dated is someone that was'nt of my ethnicity. So I would'nt question every AF over her dating life. There are AFs here right now who are dating white who post here on this forum. Do I flame them over it ?

5) Finally I don't even consider myself a militant, nor a racist. I don't think it's smart on your part to compaer me to a white supremacist or a fucking troll like the fagats on MM.com who get together on the weekends to bitch and wine about IRs or their dating problems.

Feel me ?

I'll discuss more if you want to continue to carry on this conversation. Now if you want to come out with your taunts you can PM me. Anytime. Maybe we can even become good friends. I'm not here to make enemies. But I'm not a fucking pussy or a damn tool if that's what you are implying.

Thanks.

[cloudzero]

why are we spending so much time typing pages and pages about IR at a sausage fest like yw? should we be out there converting and recruiting twinkies?

[deez nuts]

APIA aware homies, holla!

[lethal]

I go away for a couple days and come back to this pointlessness. That's enough.