Is is wrong for men to have a particular sexual preference?

[Sunflare]

Many men have a particular sexual preference as to who they would find as attractice enough to want to date or marry. They would only date girls that follow a certain criteria according to appearance and ethnicity. Forget personality.

Other guys say that pussy is all the same, (Pussy is pussy. No more, no less) and they don't care who they date as long as it walks on two legs and a has pussy.

Some guys like to rock with the hot smokin' Black sisters. Some guys are true suckers for blue eyed blondes. Others Latino or Brazilian chicks, or might be particular about dating exclusively Asian ladies, or hot Eurasian babes with the wide pretty eyes, dark brown wavy hair and all that jazz.

One of my friends the other day admitted he will cum in his pants at the hearing of a girl with a British accent talk dirty to him.

Then you have people like Thaite (http://forums.yellowworld.org/showthread.php?p=531139#post531139) who will start drooling at the sight of a hot Blasian chick. LOL.

I'll be open about this. I go freaking nuts for mixed Asian girls, Blasian or Hapa honeys, petite, with a nice set of legs, a fresh pretty face, soft long hair, and uh, . . . . pretty feet. I got a foot fetish. I'm not particular about breast size. Mixed black girls, those who are like a dead ringer for Mariah Carey I also find irresistably attractive. I just love mixed girls in general. They are among the most sexiest, hottest chicks on the planet.

What about you guys? It is OK to have a particular taste in women? Or should we show free love to all? Does the right kind of personality, moral values a girl has, and her kind of lifestyle prove a bearing in anything? Is that more important than looks ?

Ladies: Please do give us sum input. Don't be afraid to voice out, this is not another bullshit asianwhoreskank IR dating disparity issue thread. We'll save that shit for the rant room.

[contra_diction]

Um, I pretty much like anyone who likes me :biggrin:

[Sunflare]

Oh may I add, if you are gay, please express yourself if you like. This thread is open to all to talk all they want on the subject, makes the discussion ever the more interesting.

[Zdrav]

Preferences are okay; prerequisites are not.

For example, my ideal woman might have a certain hair colour and a certain personality. But that doesn't mean that anybody who doesn't match that identity lockstep is going to be automatically rejected.

[Sunflare]

^ True. I'm not rigid as to what I must have in a woman. And I truely think personality and good character are important factors.

Yeah, it would be great if the girl is dazzingly attractive, but I realize too, that personality is a extremely important thing to consider when getting into serious relationships with women. And flexibility in dealing with one's personality is crucial too. Live and let live, as the saying goes.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

There are always those self-righteous men that like to say things like "beauty is so superficial" or that looks and sexual factors don't matter, when they do. It's just that personality is just as important but much harder to appreciate because it takes more time to really get to know someone. Both are equally important to me. If I was just looking for a fuck buddy, then personality wouldn't matter, but that's not the case. Often times the physical appearance draws people in but it's the personality or quirks that make or break the deal.

[Sunflare]

Okay. I'm going to throw in the monkey wrench. For all you AMs and other guys of color: Does race matter? Many guys only date people of a certain ethnic group, others dont give a shit.

Some guys don't have such a preference to date according to her ethnicity, but instead goes according to whether the girl has a certain hair color and type (wavy, curly, kinky, straight), certain type of face, body curves, height, size and shape of breasts and ass, etc. How important is that in choosing your significant other or fling for the night?

Some of the real romantic guys go according to personality. Any of you out there who enjoys a good chat with their significant other or is looking for a woman who you can have meaningful conversation and romance with instead of just having kinky mind blowing sex every blessed night?

Would you rather be relationship with a nice simple girl, easy to please, or a girl who is spoiled and high maintenance? What about age? Someone barely legal or a hot MILF?

Which category(s) are determining factors in what you find attractive in a woman?

Supplying pics to prove your arguements would be nice . . . .

[Banana]

I find women of races attractive but Asian women have an advantage in my eyes because they also have a cultural connection to me. That makes them my first choice.

As to my chances of nabbing an Asian girl remains to be seen. Maybe I'm unattractive in Asian terms. /shrug Least white women and Latinas give me the time of day.

[thaite]

Then you have people like Thaite (http://forums.yellowworld.org/showthread.php?p=531139#post531139) who will start drooling at the sight of a hot Blasian chick. LOL.


LOL!!!:biggrin:

Did I tell you all about the Blasian girl I met last summer? I swear, there should be a law against someone being that hot.

Seriously, my last three girlfriends have been Chinese. I'm currently in between girlfriends right now, but the current front-running candidates are two White girls and one Latina.
I think I like White girl #2.

[popculturepooka]

Skittles.Taste the Rainbow.

Anywho...

My first gf was white, my second was black/filipino, my third was black, my fourth was japanese, my current is korean/filipino.

So, yeah.

[Sunflare]

Here's something to think about: Alot of people who are gay or lesbian sat that they are born that way. That they are born to be gay or lesbian.

Which could make sense because genetics does plays a big part in our behavior, our sexual orientation and personality. It's a medically proven fact.

Can the same be said for a particular sexual preference for a particular type of women.

If a guy came up to you and say I am born only to date only um. . . .say Indian women, would you buy that and let him live? Or tell him to STFU go home and jerk off?

Any thoughts?

[Zombie Dave]

If a guy came up to you and say I am born only to date only um. . . .say Indian women, would you buy that and let him live? Or tell him to STFU go home and jerk off?

bull ... shiiiiiit. there's nothing in the genetic code commanding men to fetish indian women over anyone else. like any other fetish (for feet, shoes, peanut butter-clad female wrestlers, pink fluffy handcuffs, or whatever) there's something else going on. your genes aren't interested in the nationality of a person. maybe, MAYBE there's an urge to genertically diversify with people of different genes, but i think that's a stretch.

[Zdrav]

Which could make sense because genetics does plays a big part in our behavior, our sexual orientation and personality. It's a medically proven fact.

BS. I'm willing to bet that Indians and Pakistanis would loathe each other, despite the fact that they're pretty much the same people, genetically speaking. Are their political and religious strife somehow embedded in their "genetics"?

We're all humans. That's all that anybody needs to know.

[Sunflare]

^Uh. . . . what I said about sexual orientation (homosexuality and genetics), that's what the college psychology textbooks teach. Not my idea. It's only a innocent suggestion for the sake of getting varying opinions. I did'nt awaken one day from a divine dream with this theory. And I don't do drugs so I know I ain't crazy.

If you insist on citations I can give it to you as soon as I get my text from my crib, I'm at school right now.

[Sunflare]

As to my chances of nabbing an Asian girl remains to be seen. Maybe I'm unattractive in Asian terms. /shrug Least white women and Latinas give me the time of day.

You'll find that Asian sweetheart one day. There's practically hundreds of thousands out there in the world. There's gotta be one somewhere on this earth just wishing for a dude like you. Keep searching, you'll find her.

[kasia]

call me a bra-burning feminist, but it's wrong to refer to women as "pussy".

and really - just keep in mind that while YW is a site dedicated to dialogue amongst APIs, we are expected to respect all minorities, including women.

[Sunflare]

call me a bra-burning feminist, but it's wrong to refer to women as "pussy".

and really - just keep in mind that while YW is a site dedicated to dialogue amongst APIs, we are expected to respect all minorities, including women.

No offense Kasia, you seem to be a good, down to earth person by your comments. . . .

. . . .but you missed my point. When many guys when they say "pussy is pussy, it's all the same" to them it's a way of saying that no matter who a man may decide to date and have sexual relations with, that they all give the same love, no matter what race they happen to be. This is what alot of guys are saying in this thread you realize in their posts.

That was what I meant in naive innocence and not saying that to put down AFs and other ladies of color..

I myself don't necessarily agree with the context of this dry tasteless manner of speak, but that is what my crazy guy friends constantly tell me, when we have guy talk talking about about guy stuff. I'm just using this manner of speak by what i hear.

I'm sorry we had this misunderstanding, Kasia. Please discuss. Thank you.

[kasia]

it's not really a misunderstanding. even given that explanation, it's no less of a mysoginistic objectification of women. and it's not naive innocence, no offense. it's more like sheer ignorance.

kinda like if someone calls you a chink and then goes on to say, "well, i didn't mean it like that and that's my my white friends say..."

[Zdrav]

Uh. . . . what I said about sexual orientation (homosexuality and genetics), that's what the college psychology textbooks teach. Not my idea. It's only a innocent suggestion for the sake of getting varying opinions. I did'nt awaken one day from a divine dream with this theory. And I don't do drugs so I know I ain't crazy.

I distrust those theories because they imply that our brains are somehow able to innately detect "Whiteness" or "Arabness" or "Mexicanness", and that race (as we know it in pop culture) is a biologically valid categorization as opposed to a social/historical identity.

[Sunflare]

it's not really a misunderstanding. even given that explanation, it's no less of a mysoginistic objectification of women. and it's not naive innocence, no offense. it's more like sheer ignorance.

kinda like if someone calls you a chink and then goes on to say, "well, i didn't mean it like that and that's my my white friends say..."

I can see from your clever analogy what you are telling me. Thank you. I will reflect what you are saying and reconsider what I am saying before I express my points of views on matters in the future.

To all members, this is the kind of attitude I appreciate, the way Kasia is going about correcting my way of thinking on matters. I wish more people can be respectful and understanding like her. You can critizise me or correct me in an RESPECTFUL way, perhaps as a result I may be much more inclined to adjust my thinking accordingly.

But trolling, sarcasm, insults and threats I will not tolerate, not even from certain toughnut moderators.

Thank you Kasia for expressing your viewpoints, showing me dignity and respect. Well appreciated by me.

I distrust those theories because they imply that our brains are somehow able to innately detect "Whiteness" or "Arabness" or "Mexicanness", and that race (as we know it in pop culture) is a biologically valid categorization as opposed to a social/historical identity.

Which is very true. Everything written in the college textbooks are shady, and written wih a particular pro-white slant to it. Certain facts are purposly left out or written in fine print sort of speak, so as for students not to notice and take into more seroius consideration. I can see where you are coming from.

[Zdrav]

Which is very true. Everything written in the college textbooks are shady, and written wih a particular pro-white slant to it. Certain facts are purposly left out or written in fine print sort of speak, so as for students not to notice and take into more seroius consideration. I can see where you are coming from.

Any attempt to legitimize race is ultimately pro-White because Whites have already monopolized all the best racial traits for themselves.

[monkeygone2]

correct me in an RESPECTFUL way, perhaps as a result I may be much more inclined to adjust my thinking accordingly.

trolling, sarcasm, insults and threats I will not tolerate, not even from certain toughnut moderators.


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[Sunflare]

I tried to catch you before, but I wanted to apologize for tearing you up in the recent thread that "Tony Soprano's AF GF thread" I want to make peace with you and perhaps we can have fun with lively discussions in the future.

As for the statement quoted by Monkeygonebad2 in the above box, remember that I am speaking in generalities and am not trying to insinuate that I got beef with particular moderators in this forum. Yeah I fly off the handle sometimes. There is a reason (http://forums.yellowworld.org/showthread.php?p=533232#post533232) for it.

[Sunflare]

Edit: I meam MonkeyGone2. Pardon the goof on ur name.

[kimpossible]

I like monkeygonebad better.

[Sunflare]

^LOL. That would be a more kick ass name.