Question relating dating

[camer_jjubs022]

Hi all
Actually wanna want to know how to date make a successful.
So am asking you some questions related to dating:
» What are the essentials of a lasting relationship? What kind of signs do girls give you when they're interested? How to tell if someone is interested in you?
» Which signs are pointing out that relationship is going to develop in a long term love and friendship? Decided if you can get along with someone?
» How to make yourself interesting, and compel people want to become involved with you?
Please give me your suggestion. Do you recommend any book which gives dating tips?
Thanks….

[deez nuts]

first take this quiz (http://www.i-am-bored.com/bored_link.cfm?link_id=6798)

then take this quiz if you pass the first quiz (http://ugly-quiz.com/page1)

[inthesky]

i finished the second quiz but couldn't get the results since the consumer survey woulda taken more than the 10 sec max i like to spend on these things...

for OP, judging from your post, i think it's most important not to look for it too much - it's likely to be perceived as clingy. let things work themselves out at the beginning.

you should try to be confident; this self-confidence can help you "compel" to people.

try to make a variety of friends in different activities, hopefully this can help you to find people with common interests/attitudes...a valid starting point for lasting relationships and friendships

[sean_ubbs12]

The best book I've read so far on picking up girls is called the System. I got it on amazon. The author is Roy Valentine. I actually used the stuff from the book to pick up a girl the same week I read the book. Highly recommended.

[eos]

hey, are you roy valentine? or do you know him in some beneficial way? kinda suspicious that you and the thread started have similar names. also, did you think it would be hilarious to come onto an asian site and type in horrible english? oh how brilliant!

get the fuck out of here.

[cloudzero]

oh man, imagine what happens when a chick finds out you use a book

and what a fucken insult to advertise a dating book at an asian forum

[Banana]

I just added it to my shopping cart.

Do you have a version where tips are offered on how to pick up Asian girls tailored specifically for fugly Asian guys like me?

Any tips that will really rope them in like:

Please date me! I'll work twice as hard as that white guy!

[sageb1]

so if i talk about sex with girls, i'd eventually get laid?

[Asian_Casanova]

The most important thing to have is a big wallet. You'll be a chick magnet right there.

[inthesky]

roy valentine taught me a valuable lesson in this thread - never become an author, or a shitty one at least.

[hooligan]

Best advice? Just know when to quit it.

[Pb2308]

i've actually heard of the System. its like the bible of dating books according to askmen.com. i've always kinda wanted it, but w/e.

anyway, before you go out divulging into all these books and whatnot. you gotta at least somewhat know what you're doing. but to be a good date, i think, you gotta have these two things. confidence, and good social skills. more so confidence IMO. you don't want to change yourself, or like try to woo her with pick-up lines. you gotta first be happy with who you are. like the purpose of a first date is to get to know one another. your part is to present yourself in the best light. its like advertising, you gotta sell it. haha idk, i'm just ramblin i guess.

but be happy with yourself, if not. improve yourself first--in w/e way that might be. work on your social skills, put yourself in social situations.

but..some random tips:

don't be too nice. don't be an asshole. don't be rude to the waiter. don't be a push-over. don't complain, whine. don't talk about yourself too much. don't talk about ex-girlfriends or anything like that. don't be nervous!

be a gentleman. dress well. think you're the shit (this helps with confidence). be funny but don't be ridiculous. smile. make eye-contact.

some good signs:

shes sitting towards you, facing you. looking into your eyes. looking at your lips. oh man you are IN! go for the kiss! haha. if shes touching you, like rubbing ur arms, putting her hand on ur thigh. you're doing good! if shes laughing at your crappy jokes--shes interested!

idk. good luck

[cloudzero]

ADMINS PLEASE CLOSE THIS THREAD.

The guy who started this thread is the same guy who advertised the book. With a 1 post history. It just a moron advertising the damn book.