Ogling

[Faithless]

This thread been done before?

I've been watching other dudes do this lately, just to see who they ogle. And it is surprising at what age in women / girls dudes will ogle.

Anyone seen this? I swear there are dudes that will ogle girls. Teens, if not young teens. There's something kind of sad in that.

[tripostrophe]

Ugh I used to do this all the time. Just not at younger girls (as a teen). Now I try not to. Never really watched who other guys stare at, but now I'm more wary when I'm out somewhere with a girl(s).

[Banana]

I don't ogle.

[eos]

^right. you just like to grope.

faithless: are you more aware of this now cuz you have a little girl? you know, the protective father and all ("move it along, son, nothing to see here.")

guys, if you have a gf, PLEASE don't ogle in front of her. learn to do the furtive glance. after all, that's what she's doing. LOL

[TB4000]

Looking at older women is fine though, right. I don't mean decrepit, I mean late 30's early 40's.

[eos]

if you are looking at decrepit women, then ogling is not your main problem, my friend.

[TB4000]

Yeah, necrophilia is.

[thaite]

Yes!

[cloudzero]

NO WAY MAN. First I use my peripheral vision to make sure they aren't facing my way, then I use glance to see how they look like. I don't like getting caught. I never look at the body.

[Faithless]

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faithless: are you more aware of this now cuz you have a little girl? you know, the protective father and all ("move it along, son, nothing to see here.")
Maybe. I'll be walking with my kid, and see some older dude come up and scan to see if he's checking her out. Tis creepy when it seems to be the case.

But been observing dude's in general to watch their ogling. Maybe, I should follow-up with, "Busted! Perv."

Shouldn't fathers be teaching their sons about this stuff? You know --
Righty tighty; lefty loosey.
Ties should descend to the belt line.
Never ogle chicks that are Hanna Montana's age.

NO WAY MAN. First I use my peripheral vision to make sure they aren't facing my way, then I use glance to see how they look like. I don't like getting caught. I never look at the body.
Upskirt?

[Adaon]

I ogle. Then again, I play a really good attention whoring extrovert in real life.

[teamliquid]

I don't ogle. I don't even make eye contact. Whenever I've done this I get a very angry face and nasty comments and rude noises coming back at me.

[wndragonlord]

NO WAY MAN. First I use my peripheral vision to make sure they aren't facing my way, then I use glance to see how they look like. I don't like getting caught. I never look at the body.

how can you not look at the body? when i look at a girl i don't see just the face or just the body. the whole package has to be nice, including her presentation, her attitude, the way she walks, her hair, etc.

[lethal]

Tip: Dark sunglasses

[Yeahman]

^right. you just like to grope.
Banana, you've been caught!

http://media3.220.ro/storage/2007/12/b843319fd184493a6f5403c54e51258f.jpg

[mr. x]

I've never been an ass man so I don't do the

*pass...double take* thing that certain, uh, ethnicities like to do. I do notice the face and chest though, I must be honest

[Adaon]

I've never been an ass man so I don't do the

*pass...double take* thing that certain, uh, ethnicities like to do. I do notice the face and chest though, I must be honest

How much of the face do you really notice when your eyes are focused below her neckline, man? =P:rolleyes: :biggrin:

[Flow to Live]

I always check out girls. It's like an instinct. Like a girls walks in the room I always turn and look, and if she's not attractive or too young then I just get on with my business and ignore her.

[Faithless]

How much of the face do you really notice when your eyes are focused below her neckline, man? =P:rolleyes: :biggrin:
It's probably one of those mental decisions:

Hm. What looks better on her? Bukkake or pearl necklace?

Would you put it past dudes to have these thoughts while ogling?

[Broomer]

Tip: Dark sunglasses

Dark sunglasses is a must. BTW:
If you're in Melbourne, corner of Exhibition and Lonsdale is good.
Spot just outside the state library isn't bad either. Albert Park lake during late afternoons and St Kilda beach area.

No one heard this from me and if mentioned to anyone else, I'm denying everything.

[mr. x]

^---are you the creepy guy who goes to nude beaches fully clothed? :P

[Broomer]

^---are you the creepy guy who goes to nude beaches fully clothed? :P

No, this sort of thing is an unwritten national pass time.
It's a form of extreme sport.
The adrenaline rush comes from being spotted by the meathead boyfriend of the "bird" you've been watching and legging it before they turn you into pulp.

Now that's a man's sport

[Faithless]

...
The adrenaline rush comes from being spotted by the meathead boyfriend of the "bird" you've been watching and legging it before they turn you into pulp.

Now that's a man's sport
"Bird?" Are you sure you aint 61?

Sometimes I forget to do this for days.

Never really do it at the gym, anymore.

[Broomer]

"Bird?" Are you sure you aint 61?

Sometimes I forget to do this for days.

Never really do it at the gym, anymore.

I wish I was 61, at least I'd have an excuse for the grandpa noises I'm making.

Ka.

[Faithless]

I wish I was 61, at least I'd have an excuse for the grandpa noises I'm making.

Ka.
Think twice about that wish. No one likes an old aged, wondering eyed pervert, like my pops. :frown:

One day he's checking out some chick, and asking my opinion. And my first (internal) thought was, "Ewwww! I thought he said his package didn't work anymore."

[Broomer]

Think twice about that wish. No one likes an old aged, wondering eyed pervert, like my pops. :frown:

One day he's checking out some chick, and asking my opinion. And my first (internal) thought was, "Ewwww! I thought he said his package didn't work anymore."

Mate, all I have to say (and the other gentleman here can join in) is: THREE CHEERS FOR VIAGRA!

About that wish, I'm getting there.

Ka.

[thaite]

In my class, I have to constantly remind myself that this time, I'm the instructor.

[Broomer]

In my class, I have to constantly remind myself that this time, I'm the instructor.

May I just ask... what sort of work are you in?

Ka.

[thaite]

well, I have many titles, but the one I was referring to is adjunct instructor at the university.

[Broomer]

well, I have many titles, but the one I was referring to is adjunct instructor at the university.

Mate, you've got the type of job I only dreamt about 10 years ago.
If you haven't, make the most of it. :biggrin:

Ka.

[Napoleon Chynamite]

I'm sure we all have control but only to an extent. Whenever I'm with female friends if I'm talking to them for any type of time longer than 15 minutes I'll always suffer from like one quick glance at their cleavage as if it's automatic no matter how much I try my best to keep my eyes fixed on her face. I always wonder if they notice...I'm sure they do, but they're so used to it that they just choose to ignore or brush it off. One time I actually said, "um...could you like, do something about that. It's distracting me, sorry."

[Broomer]

I'm sure we all have control but only to an extent. Whenever I'm with female friends if I'm talking to them for any type of time longer than 15 minutes I'll always suffer from like one quick glance at their cleavage as if it's automatic no matter how much I try my best to keep my eyes fixed on her face. I always wonder if they notice...I'm sure they do, but they're so used to it that they just choose to ignore or brush it off. One time I actually said, "um...could you like, do something about that. It's distracting me, sorry."

We're mammals. Let's be real here. :biggrin:
I did that with a colleague the other day, shame to admit it, worst still it's my boss.

What they say about guys with glasses is quite true.

Ka.

[Yeahman]

I ogle and very obviously too. But at legal girls.

[eos]

^how do you know they are legal?

is it also called ogling if a girl does it? cuz, i dunno, lately i've been noticing myself getting whiplash and doing many double-takes when i see asian guys. it's very very noticeable.

oh yeah and when i'm with the boyfriend, and we both see a girl that's his type, i glance over at him to see if he notices.

[Yeahman]

^ If they're not legal, they're doing a damn good job of passing off as legal.

[Banana]

And that will get you thrown in jail.

[kimpossible]

^how do you know they are legal?


He buys them a drink.

[lethal]

And that will get you thrown in jail.

Looking is illegal?

[snailpoo]

oh yeah and when i'm with the boyfriend, and we both see a girl that's his type, i glance over at him to see if he notices.


Eeeeeeevil.

[kimpossible]

I have a dream. One day I will take my family to a Hooters. I figure boobs n' burgers will get me about 30 minutes rest.

[eos]

Eeeeeeevil.

HA!!! evil would be saying "stop staring at that girl!" really loud.

[Yeahman]

I was ogling at a new girl at church yesterday. Chinese, mid-20's, really cute, by herself, and this is a local church so she has to live nearby. If only Mass ended with an obligatory drink at a bar...

[Broomer]

I have a dream. One day I will take my family to a Hooters. I figure boobs n' burgers will get me about 30 minutes rest.

Mate, now before I go on, I have to stress: THIS HAPPENED BEFORE I GOT MARRIED. Now the funny story.

I was in Singapore at Hooters. Lo and behold someone was holding a birthday party. I thought it was a bunch of lads having a good time.

No, it was an American family holding a birthday party for a kid's 11 yo party... with mum and dad and Gramps... and a busty Hooters girl handing him his cake and a peck on his head.

Parent can be pretty cruel but that's just pure evil.

Ka.

HA!!! evil would be saying "stop staring at that girl!" really loud.

No, I think real evil would be your GF going up to that girl, giving her a Frenchie, and pretending nothing happened.

Ka.

I was ogling at a new girl at church yesterday. Chinese, mid-20's, really cute, by herself, and this is a local church so she has to live nearby. If only Mass ended with an obligatory drink at a bar...


Picking up at Church isn't a bad idea. That's where I met my wife. Afterall, the Lord (or in my case, Heavenly mother) is about creating life. So go at it like a rabbit I say.

Just make sure you're not actually in the Church while you're getting busy since that is just downright disrespectful.

[Fireblade]

oh yeah and when i'm with the boyfriend, and we both see a girl that's his type, i glance over at him to see if he notices.

Do you know my girlfriend? Cuz she does the EXACT Same thing. Oh, and sometimes she accuses me of this when I don't do any staring at all. I should just walk around with my eyes closed with a blindman's cane. :mad:

[Napoleon Chynamite]

^ Then by all means take advantage each time and ogle all you want since she's gonna accuse you of staring anyway.

[eos]

the thing is though, he doesn't know i glance over at him, and i don't say anything. after all, i do the same with guys.:tongue:

[Broomer]

Do you know my girlfriend? Cuz she does the EXACT Same thing. Oh, and sometimes she accuses me of this when I don't do any staring at all. I should just walk around with my eyes closed with a blindman's cane. :mad:

Yeah my wife does that too.
But I luv her anyway. Mainly cuz I know I'm probably worst when it comes to darting eyes.

I can control everything else though.

Ka.

[Adaon]

I was driving and ogling today.

Serves me right for not having my cup of coffee and being more aware.

It is a treacherous day to drive in San Francisco today.

I swear, I wasn't following the girl for more than 6 blocks.

And then 4 miles on the freeway.

I swear it was complete coincidence that she was going the same way I was. :rolleyes:

[Broomer]

I was driving and ogling today.

Serves me right for not having my cup of coffee and being more aware.

It is a treacherous day to drive in San Francisco today.

I swear, I wasn't following the girl for more than 6 blocks.

And then 4 miles on the freeway.

I swear it was complete coincidence that she was going the same way I was. :rolleyes:

It's even worst for me. I walk home from work these days, it's getting ridiculous. Some of the girls might as well be walking around topless. I even get the odd glance and the odd chat for some strange reason.

I didn't have this sort of thing happening BEFORE I had a ring on.

Proves to me that God has a sense of humour. :wink:

Ka.

[Yeahman]

I was ogling at a new girl at church yesterday. Chinese, mid-20's, really cute, by herself, and this is a local church so she has to live nearby. If only Mass ended with an obligatory drink at a bar...
Noticed her ring today. Oh well.

[didu]

Noticed her ring today. Oh well.

you should put her faith in marriage to test.

[Sunflare]

Banana, you've been caught!

http://media3.220.ro/storage/2007/12/b843319fd184493a6f5403c54e51258f.jpg

Drunk white chick: Somebody's touching my breasts! Who the f--k is touching my breasts?

:looks at Banana:

Drunk white chick: You pervert ! :grabs Banana, fondles with his crotch and starts toungue kissing him:

[fakonig]

It is natural for a man to ogle, it is part of our hunter instinct. We need to scope out the fresh catch for the procreation of the species.

[Sunflare]

One of my friends purposely wear sunglasses so that he can start ogling on women without getting caught. Maybe I should start doing that.

When I'm on the train (I live in NYC) I usually try to keep myself occupied by reading a book, study for a class or read a newspaper. With the hysteria and fear women have over the high incidence of rape and sexual harrasment in the city, if you ogle at women, that might make them nervous. I don't want to come off disrespectful, you know? (I try hard to be a gentleman to the ladies.)

AFs get particularly nervous. They seem to be particually uncomfortable about a man ogling at them. I can't blame them. There are many sick ass asiaphiles out there in the city.

Sometimes though, and it's ironic, yet funny, I catch alot of AFs, BFs and WFs ogling at ME. Guess they find Blasian men facinating or something.

That happened to me with a cute Hapa lady a month ago on the #2 train in Manhattan. When I caught her with the eye contact, she started smiling at me and kept on ogling at me. That made my day.

Another time in Brooklyn, I caught this hot AF with dark red highlights in her hair doing the same thing. She deliberately walked from the back of the platform to the front of the platform in the station and then sat practically right in front of me in the same car on the same train ogling at me in fascination, while texting on her phone and stuff.

Really guys. I'm not lying.

She started blushing and cracked a smile when I caught her, then diverted her eye contact. then she started ogling at me, again.

Gawd, that girl was HOT. I felt so tempted to just kick it to her, but I just smiled back and left the train when it came to my stop.

Even in my foriegn language class, the girls are ogling at me. (taking Mandarin Chinese, btw, in a effort to recapture my Chinese heritage I nearly lost.)