dating asian gangsta boys

[kasia]

c'mon, admit it. we've all been through that phase...or maybe some of us are still going through it.

really, there is nothing *inherently* cute about hop sings or jackson boys or...(i actually don't know any gangs outside of california)...but why is it that, when we're young, we're so drawn to them...and as we grow older, we seem to grow out of it?

[angel nympho]

Good girls love bad boys.

Everyone wants to think they can tame the wild beast.

[karizma]

>> ive yet to grow out of that phase =)...i guess when it comes down to it i like knowing my guy can hold his own. picking up a gangsta boy is the easiest way. but i guess youve got to choose em carefully. i think a lot of those gangsters dont really know how to pick their fights...like they dont know whats worth fighting for and whats better off left untouched. i like the smart gangsta boys haha...and wannabes are there for me to poke fun at =P.

>> i think we grow out of it because we realize how stupid it is to like a guy who fights to get his way. i see it as a little uncivilized. also, when i dated someone who got in fights often i worried a lot about his welfare. i was willing to stand by his side in anything but its just hard to think that at any minute he could get hurt =P...there comes a point where you just get fed up.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by karizma@Nov 22 2002, 01:41 AM
>> ive yet to grow out of that phase =)...i guess when it comes down to it i like knowing my guy can hold his own. picking up a gangsta boy is the easiest way. but i guess youve got to choose em carefully. i think a lot of those gangsters dont really know how to pick their fights...like they dont know whats worth fighting for and whats better off left untouched. i like the smart gangsta boys haha...and wannabes are there for me to poke fun at =P.

>> i think we grow out of it because we realize how stupid it is to like a guy who fights to get his way. i see it as a little uncivilized. also, when i dated someone who got in fights often i worried a lot about his welfare. i was willing to stand by his side in anything but its just hard to think that at any minute he could get hurt =P...there comes a point where you just get fed up.
hey i can probably introduce you to some triad boys if you ever go to HK. :)

[iris]

I'm in HK now (temporarily) and i've got to tell you that the guys who dress like gangstas here are hilarious. Have you ever heard gangsta speak with a Chinese accent? :lol:

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by isyen@Nov 22 2002, 02:00 AM
I'm in HK now (temporarily) and i've got to tell you that the guys who dress like gangstas here are hilarious. Have you ever heard gangsta speak with a Chinese accent? :lol:
chinese... accent? you mean they're speaking in english?

[karizma]

SWK: you promise? hahaha i wanna snag a genuine gangsta boy.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by karizma@Nov 22 2002, 07:31 AM
SWK: you promise? hahaha i wanna snag a genuine gangsta boy.
you're IN the YW Mafia. Original True Gangstas all around you.

[igcognito]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 22 2002, 06:26 AM
Good girls love bad boys.

Everyone wants to think they can tame the wild beast.
Noone can tame the wild beast . . . in my pants, just kidding.
What do you by Asian gansta. I seen an Asian guy hanging with all black guys. He had corn rows near his arse.

[Commando_turned_MD]

A smart asian gangsta boy......Now that's an oxymoron...I'm sad to say, I still have friends who still act this. Still hanging around the same circle of friends. Probably never saw the light....I guess they fail to realize it's no longer "hip" being a thug. I guess they're trying to impress the ladies. But what women would want to date a gangsta boy? Maybe a gansta girl? Maybe a Professional women...hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..Nope!!!!


Asian, white, black, hispanic, russian, Arabic, gangsta boys are nothing more than a threat and burden to society. I attended my high school----Long Beach Poly, where Snoop doggy attended and eventually dropped out, nonetheless, it still one of the best HS in nation, according to Newsweek--------- reunion two years ago and the majority of the gangsta boy I knew were not there.............Figures....they probably haven;t done anything productive since departing HS..... :D

I guess there are chicks out there who wants to date a gangsta boy for the pure fun of it. For some reason they think the life a gangsta boy is exciting.........Not!!!!!

*the gangsta I'm referring to in this composition are the street type, not the
~high ranking ~well organize memebers of the Triads, Yakuza, & columbian drug lords, etc..etc....There is a big difference........I will dwell into that one some other time...

Just my .02

[applehead]

Originally posted by armycommando_turned_doctor@Nov 22 2002, 04:46 AM


Just my .02
you know what my pet peeve is. when i got to a supermarket and they have signs that has the cent sign and .99.
i want to challenge that advertisement and try to get my soda for less than a penny.
that annoys me to high heaven.

anyway
oh yeah, i used to be attracted to those gangsta types until i realized that they're partly illiterate and unable to speak in a coherent manner.
HAHAHa. okay, well, that's.. i'm exaggerating.
but yeah, they're .. a few sandwiches short of a picnic!! ;)

[princess]

Originally posted by karizma@Nov 22 2002, 06:41 AM
>> i guess when it comes down to it i like knowing my guy can hold his own. picking up a gangsta boy is the easiest way. but i guess youve got to choose em carefully. i think a lot of those gangsters dont really know how to pick their fights...like they dont know whats worth fighting for and whats better off left untouched.

^-- yeah that pretty much sums it up for me. i like a guy who can take care of himself and me. as karizma said, picking up a gangsta is the best way i know how so far. i do agree that when i look back, i think that their ways of holdin it down can be stupid.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by karizma@Nov 22 2002, 02:31 AM
SWK: you promise? hahaha i wanna snag a genuine gangsta boy.
seriously... i was just kidding.

my ex-uncle is a pretty big figure in one of the triad groups. and my cousins (his sons) are trying to follow his footsteps and shit like that. that would make them 3rd generation triad. but it's all fucked up. the family wishes they'd just stay away from that shit and get regular jobs. but anyway, triad boys aren't nice to their women. you should stay away from them.

[teaz0r]

i'll be honest and admit that i do like bad boys, is IS a turn on, the badder they are, the better.
and i don't think i'll ever grow out of this so-called phase.
it's just something that gets me. like a challenge. like a game.
when i see somebody act oh so tough my imaginary penis goes *boing* and i just wanna break them down...prove them wrong.
it's sick it's twisted.
and just to be redundant:
i also will admit that those bad boys will only be my toys.

[Commando_turned_MD]

Originally posted by KuroBishounen@Nov 22 2002, 04:51 AM


You went to Long Beach Poly!!!

My old school!!

Anyway, I somewhat agree with you...
A fellow Jackrabbit.............
:D
Those were the good 'o days.
Pace or CIC?

[Flint]

Goodness...you women or should I say, little girls, sound ridiculous. Gangsta boys? Playing games? Getting a challenge?....What's that all about....Obviously, your half is still primitive and standing in line waiting for the civilized window. C'mon people I know this is the women's forum and I shouldn't be in here but you have got to be kidding me!

It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.

[applehead]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 22 2002, 01:51 PM
Goodness...you women or should I say, little girls, sound ridiculous. Gangsta boys? Playing games? Getting a challenge?....What's that all about....Obviously, your half is still primitive and standing in line waiting for the civilized window. C'mon people I know this is the women's forum and I shouldn't be in here but you have got to be kidding me!

It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.
oh flint. flint flint.

don't even tell me you don't find women who seem a bit dangerous juuuuust a little bit enticing. :P :P
and plus.. i think these girls are a bit young.
NOT TO SAY that age should matter a great deal. okay?
but.. i understand you girls!!

and i think men are allowed to post and read and whatnot in the women's forum..
no pistol whipping.. though.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 22 2002, 09:51 PM
Goodness...you women or should I say, little girls, sound ridiculous. Gangsta boys? Playing games? Getting a challenge?....What's that all about....Obviously, your half is still primitive and standing in line waiting for the civilized window. C'mon people I know this is the women's forum and I shouldn't be in here but you have got to be kidding me!

It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.
I don't know any guy who doesn't like a challenge. We're talking about DATING here, not fuckin' marraige. You're SUPPOSED to date a few rotten suckers before you get to the REAL men.

[teaz0r]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 23 2002, 04:51 AM
Goodness...you women or should I say, little girls, sound ridiculous. Gangsta boys? Playing games? Getting a challenge?....What's that all about....Obviously, your half is still primitive and standing in line waiting for the civilized window. C'mon people I know this is the women's forum and I shouldn't be in here but you have got to be kidding me!

It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.
there's a time in everybody's lives that they just need a little fun. something to make what seems mundane a bit more interesting. not every relationship started has the ultimate goal of 'forever', if not, then the whole notion of 'flings' would cease to exist. your ideas are true, for a romantic relationship perhaps, where like you said, compatibility, honesty and genuiness are prime key elements in these type of relationships.

but you also might want to take in consideration that there are people who might not be seeking for that sort of relationship, and these souls are aplenty. people who are not yet ready to deal with all the emotional baggage but still want a lil harmless(sorta) fun'. sado-masochists get their thrill by uh sadist stuff...some people get a thrill from the taste of danger. call it a fetish, a curiousity whatever. the person in your dreams(fantasies) doesn't necessarily have to be the person in your heart.

hearts break. shit happens.
but in the end things fall into place.
and if not. you learn how to deal with it.
it's the process of growing.

[LoneSwordsman]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 23 2002, 08:51 AM
Goodness...you women or should I say, little girls, sound ridiculous. Gangsta boys? Playing games? Getting a challenge?....What's that all about....Obviously, your half is still primitive and standing in line waiting for the civilized window. C'mon people I know this is the women's forum and I shouldn't be in here but you have got to be kidding me!

It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.
ever heard the phrase "nice guys finish last?"
as u can understand from what the girls are saying,
maiking the sad fact that this phrase is true :(

[amietron]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 22 2002, 01:51 PM
It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.
Mr. Flint has his shit together. Listen to him!

Compare it to an orange. On the outside, they're hard and tough, but beneath the surface they're soft and fleshy, like the rest of us. Girls get with gangsta boys because they want to try to pass the exterior, see how far they can get, see how much he'll open up to you.

[Saiko]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 22 2002, 04:51 PM
It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.
Amen to that.
Heh. I think those gangsta boys are ridiculous. In fact, I spit on some of them at my school. I never got into the phase, and never will. I mean, I like a guy that has some rebellion in him, but I don't want to walk around and have him jump into fights whether it be reasonable or not. I'm not saying that he should walk away all the time (although it'd be smart to walk away from many). But it's cool when they keep their calm and use their wit to mock the people. It looks pretty stupid when you see a guy picking a fight with somebody, and the other just starts freaking out and they both rip each other's balls out.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by amietron@Nov 23 2002, 02:35 AM
Mr. Flint has his shit together. Listen to him!

Compare it to an orange. On the outside, they're hard and tough, but beneath the surface they're soft and fleshy, like the rest of us. Girls get with gangsta boys because they want to try to pass the exterior, see how far they can get, see how much he'll open up to you.
So true.

Most girls are a SUCKER for a guy who looks badass, but is WAYY sweet to you.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 22 2002, 04:51 PM
Goodness...you women or should I say, little girls, sound ridiculous. Gangsta boys? Playing games? Getting a challenge?....What's that all about....Obviously, your half is still primitive and standing in line waiting for the civilized window. C'mon people I know this is the women's forum and I shouldn't be in here but you have got to be kidding me!

It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.
hahhahahah oh man flint there's a big difference between an ideal world and the real world.

don't you know, to get a girl hooked on you, you have to NOT give her what she wants?

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by applehead@Nov 22 2002, 10:18 PM
Originally posted by Flint@Nov 22 2002, 01:51 PM
Goodness...you women or should I say, little girls, sound ridiculous. Gangsta boys? Playing games? Getting a challenge?....What's that all about....Obviously, your half is still primitive and standing in line waiting for the civilized window. C'mon people I know this is the women's forum and I shouldn't be in here but you have got to be kidding me!

It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.
oh flint. flint flint.

don't even tell me you don't find women who seem a bit dangerous juuuuust a little bit enticing. :P :P
and plus.. i think these girls are a bit young.
NOT TO SAY that age should matter a great deal. okay?
but.. i understand you girls!!

and i think men are allowed to post and read and whatnot in the women's forum..
no pistol whipping.. though.
uhmm.. no.

i hope my bitch will be my complete opposite.

well... not my complete opposite of me today, rather me a few years ago. *confuseded*

Secondly, some people are capable of stringing together coherent sentences for another's understanding when and if the need arises. However.. wutevazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....

let's play house.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 22 2002, 09:51 PM
Goodness...you women or should I say, little girls, sound ridiculous. Gangsta boys? Playing games? Getting a challenge?....What's that all about....Obviously, your half is still primitive and standing in line waiting for the civilized window. C'mon people I know this is the women's forum and I shouldn't be in here but you have got to be kidding me!

It's all about compatibility, honesty and genuiness. If you don't have that then there's no reason why anyone should have a relationship. He can carry a 9mm and a color rag all he wants...that's not going to make a difference....and it shouldn't....do you get it or should I pistol whip you.
Oh yeah, and by the way, you aren't better than anybody else on this forum.

[applehead]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Nov 23 2002, 12:14 AM


Secondly, some people are capable of stringing together coherent sentences for another's understanding when and if the need arises. However.. wutevazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....

let's play house.
yeah, exactly SOME people.

[Saiko]

The bad boys I go for are punks or certain goths (not the heavy heavy poser kind). Mm. Now that's something worthwhile.

[hormiga]

Originally posted by amietron@Nov 22 2002, 06:35 PM
Mr. Flint has his shit together. Listen to him!

Compare it to an orange. On the outside, they're hard and tough, but beneath the surface they're soft and fleshy, like the rest of us. Girls get with gangsta boys because they want to try to pass the exterior, see how far they can get, see how much he'll open up to you.
In other words: You're trying to change him!

[Flint]

Ok...here's where the problem is...the thing about you women is...you ultimately set yourself up for failure...you blindly jump into a relationship then when it turns bad you cried, get upset, get angry or whatever crazy emotional temper tantrum that you have and then you ask yourself....why...why me...why this...why that...why can't I find the right person....why...why...why

Initially, if you would just ask yourself these question then you wouldn't have these kind of dilemma and you can save yourself a lot of headache...Whatever the case may be...in general, women have no idea what they want...make up your mind! :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by applehead@Nov 23 2002, 03:23 PM
Originally posted by mrazntre@Nov 23 2002, 12:14 AM


Secondly, some people are capable of stringing together coherent sentences for another's understanding when and if the need arises. However.. wutevazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....

let's play house.
yeah, exactly SOME people.
is SOME the same as FEW ?

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 24 2002, 08:43 AM
Ok...here's where the problem is...the thing about you women is...you ultimately set yourself up for failure...you blindly jump into a relationship then when it turns bad you cried, get upset, get angry or whatever crazy emotional temper tantrum that you have and then you ask yourself....why...why me...why this...why that...why can't I find the right person....why...why...why

Initially, if you would just ask yourself these question then you wouldn't have these kind of dilemma and you can save yourself a lot of headache...Whatever the case may be...in general, women have no idea what they want...make up your mind! :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
damn!


I AGREE 100% !

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Flint@Nov 24 2002, 03:43 AM
Ok...here's where the problem is...the thing about you women is...you ultimately set yourself up for failure...you blindly jump into a relationship then when it turns bad you cried, get upset, get angry or whatever crazy emotional temper tantrum that you have and then you ask yourself....why...why me...why this...why that...why can't I find the right person....why...why...why

Initially, if you would just ask yourself these question then you wouldn't have these kind of dilemma and you can save yourself a lot of headache...Whatever the case may be...in general, women have no idea what they want...make up your mind! :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
ermm... yeah...

OR alternatively guys can put a little less effort in being assholes...

but of course how would we ever get laid if we become nice guys? :)

asshole away fellas!

[applehead]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Nov 24 2002, 02:34 AM
Originally posted by applehead@Nov 23 2002, 03:23 PM
Originally posted by mrazntre@Nov 23 2002, 12:14 AM


Secondly, some people are capable of stringing together coherent sentences for another's understanding when and if the need arises. However.. wutevazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....

let's play house.
yeah, exactly SOME people.
is SOME the same as FEW ?
umm. i never used the word few.
and plus i said i was exaggerating. a bit.

[deez nuts]

The one's that dated the gangsta boyz which one of ya's was gangsta bitch or were you the gangsta's bitch in other words were you the c00ch on call?

Just curious since we're on the subject. Which one of ya's was raw?

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by applehead@Nov 24 2002, 02:36 PM
Originally posted by mrazntre@Nov 24 2002, 02:34 AM
Originally posted by applehead@Nov 23 2002, 03:23 PM
Originally posted by mrazntre@Nov 23 2002, 12:14 AM


Secondly, some people are capable of stringing together coherent sentences for another's understanding when and if the need arises. However.. wutevazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....

let's play house.
yeah, exactly SOME people.
is SOME the same as FEW ?
umm. i never used the word few.
and plus i said i was exaggerating. a bit.
i know you didnt' use the word "few," I was asking you a question.

[kasia]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Nov 24 2002, 03:53 PM
The one's that dated the gangsta boyz which one of ya's was gangsta bitch or were you the gangsta's bitch in other words were you the c00ch on call?

Just curious since we're on the subject. Which one of ya's was raw?
no way. we're just the good girls seeking adventure.

and why are you assuming that we'd be the 'bitches on call'? perhaps the guys were? :)

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by kasia@Nov 24 2002, 10:51 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Nov 24 2002, 03:53 PM
The one's that dated the gangsta boyz which one of ya's was gangsta bitch or were you  the gangsta's bitch in other words were you the c00ch on call?  

Just curious since we're on the subject.  Which one of ya's was raw?
no way. we're just the good girls seeking adventure.

and why are you assuming that we'd be the 'bitches on call'? perhaps the guys were? :)
Is there no such thing as an equal relationship or what? Just 'cuz the guy is different, doesn't mean he's not gonna treat a relationship normally.

[karizma]

i is no one's bitch dammit..unless iget tricked and become an OSP *bitter*...lol...geezus i been watching too many goo wak tsai movies haha...

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by karizma@Nov 25 2002, 12:17 AM
i is no one's bitch dammit..unless iget tricked and become an OSP *bitter*...lol...geezus i been watching too many goo wak tsai movies haha...
hahahahhha!!!!!!!!!1


O. S. P.

[hormiga]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Nov 24 2002, 04:44 AM
Originally posted by Flint@Nov 24 2002, 03:43 AM
Ok...here's where the problem is...the thing about you women is...you ultimately set yourself up for failure...you blindly jump into a relationship then when it turns bad you cried, get upset, get angry or whatever crazy emotional temper tantrum that you have and then you ask yourself....why...why me...why this...why that...why can't I find the right person....why...why...why

Initially, if you would just ask yourself these question then you wouldn't have these kind of dilemma and you can save yourself a lot of headache...Whatever the case may be...in general, women have no idea what they want...make up your mind! :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
ermm... yeah...

OR alternatively guys can put a little less effort in being assholes...

but of course how would we ever get laid if we become nice guys? :)

asshole away fellas!
More nice guys who complain about being doormats need to put a little more effort in being a bit of a jerk and an asshole. You're right on the money when you wonder how will guys get pussy if they remain nice guys.

Hell, guys aren't turned on by nice girls.

[Hiroshi2]

Such a depressing thread...........

[karizma]

the trick is finding a happy medium...but looks like some of ya'll arent having too good of luck with that haha...

why is this depressing btw?

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by hormiga@Nov 24 2002, 11:00 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Nov 24 2002, 04:44 AM
Originally posted by Flint@Nov 24 2002, 03:43 AM
Ok...here's where the problem is...the thing about you women is...you ultimately set yourself up for failure...you blindly jump into a relationship then when it turns bad you cried, get upset, get angry or whatever crazy emotional temper tantrum that you have and then you ask yourself....why...why me...why this...why that...why can't I find the right person....why...why...why

Initially, if you would just ask yourself these question then you wouldn't have these kind of dilemma and you can save yourself a lot of headache...Whatever the case may be...in general, women have no idea what they want...make up your mind! :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
ermm... yeah...

OR alternatively guys can put a little less effort in being assholes...

but of course how would we ever get laid if we become nice guys? :)

asshole away fellas!
More nice guys who complain about being doormats need to put a little more effort in being a bit of a jerk and an asshole. You're right on the money when you wonder how will guys get pussy if they remain nice guys.

Hell, guys aren't turned on by nice girls.
shit, i don't know about you, but i'm turned on by girls who are hot whether or not they're nice.

but yeah in my experience of having been a really nice guy and an asshole, the asshole gets more action.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by hormiga@Nov 25 2002, 04:00 AM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Nov 24 2002, 04:44 AM
Originally posted by Flint@Nov 24 2002, 03:43 AM
Ok...here's where the problem is...the thing about you women is...you ultimately set yourself up for failure...you blindly jump into a relationship then when it turns bad you cried, get upset, get angry or whatever crazy emotional temper tantrum that you have and then you ask yourself....why...why me...why this...why that...why can't I find the right person....why...why...why

Initially, if you would just ask yourself these question then you wouldn't have these kind of dilemma and you can save yourself a lot of headache...Whatever the case may be...in general, women have no idea what they want...make up your mind! :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
ermm... yeah...

OR alternatively guys can put a little less effort in being assholes...

but of course how would we ever get laid if we become nice guys? :)

asshole away fellas!
More nice guys who complain about being doormats need to put a little more effort in being a bit of a jerk and an asshole. You're right on the money when you wonder how will guys get pussy if they remain nice guys.

Hell, guys aren't turned on by nice girls.
Girls are turned on by hot guys. As it turns out, hot guys are usually more on the asshole side than the nice guy side. The hot and nice guy, though, is a prized possession. I'm glad I have one of those.

[hormiga]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 24 2002, 10:02 PM
Originally posted by hormiga@Nov 25 2002, 04:00 AM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Nov 24 2002, 04:44 AM
Originally posted by Flint@Nov 24 2002, 03:43 AM
Ok...here's where the problem is...the thing about you women is...you ultimately set yourself up for failure...you blindly jump into a relationship then when it turns bad you cried, get upset, get angry or whatever crazy emotional temper tantrum that you have and then you ask yourself....why...why me...why this...why that...why can't I find the right person....why...why...why

Initially, if you would just ask yourself these question then you wouldn't have these kind of dilemma and you can save yourself a lot of headache...Whatever the case may be...in general, women have no idea what they want...make up your mind! :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
ermm... yeah...

OR alternatively guys can put a little less effort in being assholes...

but of course how would we ever get laid if we become nice guys? :)

asshole away fellas!
More nice guys who complain about being doormats need to put a little more effort in being a bit of a jerk and an asshole. You're right on the money when you wonder how will guys get pussy if they remain nice guys.

Hell, guys aren't turned on by nice girls.
Girls are turned on by hot guys. As it turns out, hot guys are usually more on the asshole side than the nice guy side. The hot and nice guy, though, is a prized possession. I'm glad I have one of those.
When you're hot you're hot, and when you're not you're not.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Nov 24 2002, 11:28 PM
the trick is finding a happy medium...but looks like some of ya'll arent having too good of luck with that haha...


O.S.P.

:D

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Nov 25 2002, 01:02 AM
The hot and nice guy, though, is a prized possession.  I'm glad I have one of those.
Only one? Come on! You is slipping? I figured at least 3 or 4 with you.


Haha j/k! :D

Sorry couldn't resist. Don't be mad? :unsure:

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Nov 25 2002, 01:12 PM
Only one? Come on! You is slipping? I figured at least 3 or 4 with you.


Haha j/k! :D

Sorry couldn't resist. Don't be mad? :unsure:
LOL. Ahh, those days are over. <3 <3

[kwalan]

one of my chick friends, Minnie, wrote this awesome entry about girls and bad boys...


We've all done it at one time or another....we whine to our friends about the lack of nice available guys, and then, when given the choice between a nice, sweet (safe) guy and a bad boy who makes our toes curl, we invariably go for the toe-curler...the heartbreak-waiting-to-happen...The bad boy...doesn't make any sense, does it? so WHY do women tend to pick that route in relationships? here's my take..

When women are looking for a certain guy, they often go for that which they complain about most or things that they can't have...nearly all women go through some period in their lives when they're swept up by a bad boy...the army guy with the amazing bod and the mental prowess of a fruit plate...the Harley guy with mean beard stubble and an attitude to match...the Josh Hartnett look-alike who makes us feel like the center of the universe, and then puts the moves on our roommate the minute we leave for the ladies room...we can see these guys coming a mile away, and yet we fall for it every time. Why?!?!?

Part of us actually like to believe we can be the one girl to turn this wild man into a pussycat...part of us just like that down-to-our-toes thrill, the excitement of something we KNOW is bad for us...part of us are just gluttons for misery...our girlfriends start to couple off, and we start wondering if we used up our nice guy quota in college when were still torturing men for sport...that's where you come in, Mr. Sweet Guy....because you're the guy we really want...there is nothing worse than dating a good guy who breaks your heart...when u date a good guy, u expect the world from him and u think he can do no wrong...good guys are hard to date because you're constantly worrying that you're going to lose him or that u're not good enough for him..however, when you date a bad boy, u expect the worse...having a bad boy break your heart isn't quite so bad, because in the back of your mind, u know that it will happen eventually...Plus, when u date a bad boy, u feel like u are the better person in the relationship...so

Here's my advice for all the nice guys:

Remember what we were wearing on our first date....give romantic gifts on birthdays and anniversaries (and remember flower-mandatory holidays such as Valentine's Day.) get what we're all about...*or try to at least*..let us know what you're all about...make US your ONLY hobby..not sports..not cars...not video games..but US...open the doors at ALL TIMES!! kill any bugs that sneak into the kitchen...wash the dishes for us!! COMPLIMENT US!! *girls love hearing nice things gawd damn it!!* give us your coat when it gets chilly outside...offer a helping hand always...do romantic things JUST BECAUSE (not b/c it's a special occasion or that u have to make-up for your mistakes)...call us to let us know where u are just so we won't have to sit and wait for your asses...and remember there's a fine line between being a nice guy and being a doormat - don't take any crap from us.... =) STAND UP for yourselves too!! i know girls can be the biggest bitches alive..so keep us in check when we're in our moods..but also be supportive!! =P i promise u that when the good girls want to settle down, they will want to do it with the good guys...part of growing up is experiencing both the good and the bad, and i would much rather get the bad over with now..

So, to all the good guys out there, just remember that "good things come to those that wait."..that goes for all of the girls out there too who keep going out with all of the wrong guys...after all, u don't want to be a good boy in love with a bad girl.... ^_*


she is brilliant. :)

[blkjade]

Every girl like that "bad boy" It's something about them that makes you wonder. Just like every guy wants to know that "bad girl" Now what you do after you get to know them is a whole another question.

[mrazntre]

i wonder if i'm a "safe" nice guy. . . .



:confused:

[princess]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Nov 26 2002, 06:03 AM
i wonder if i'm a "safe" nice guy. . . .



:confused:
*sputters* HA




:P

[537]

"Dating asian gangsta boys"....are you all high schoolers or something?


:ph34r:

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by kwalan@Nov 26 2002, 04:24 AM


Here's my advice for all the nice guys:

Remember what we were wearing on our first date....give romantic gifts on birthdays and anniversaries (and remember flower-mandatory holidays such as Valentine's Day.) get what we're all about...*or try to at least*..let us know what you're all about...make US your ONLY hobby..not sports..not cars...not video games..but US...open the doors at ALL TIMES!! kill any bugs that sneak into the kitchen...wash the dishes for us!! COMPLIMENT US!! *girls love hearing nice things gawd damn it!!* give us your coat when it gets chilly outside...offer a helping hand always...do romantic things JUST BECAUSE (not b/c it's a special occasion or that u have to make-up for your mistakes)...call us to let us know where u are just so we won't have to sit and wait for your asses...and remember there's a fine line between being a nice guy and being a doormat - don't take any crap from us.... =) STAND UP for yourselves too!! i know girls can be the biggest bitches alive..so keep us in check when we're in our moods..but also be supportive!! =P i promise u that when the good girls want to settle down, they will want to do it with the good guys...part of growing up is experiencing both the good and the bad, and i would much rather get the bad over with now..


Ok. That's disturbing. I think I'm gonna go for a mail-order bride and skip the whole relationships thing cuz it's just not worth it.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by kwalan@Nov 25 2002, 11:24 PM

We've all done it at one time or another....we whine to our friends about the lack of nice available guys, and then, when given the choice between a nice, sweet (safe) guy and a bad boy who makes our toes curl, we invariably go for the toe-curler...the heartbreak-waiting-to-happen...The bad boy...doesn't make any sense, does it? so WHY do women tend to pick that route in relationships? here's my take..

When women are looking for a certain guy, they often go for that which they complain about most or things that they can't have...nearly all women go through some period in their lives when they're swept up by a bad boy...the army guy with the amazing bod and the mental prowess of a fruit plate...the Harley guy with mean beard stubble and an attitude to match...the Josh Hartnett look-alike who makes us feel like the center of the universe, and then puts the moves on our roommate the minute we leave for the ladies room...we can see these guys coming a mile away, and yet we fall for it every time. Why?!?!?

Part of us actually like to believe we can be the one girl to turn this wild man into a pussycat...part of us just like that down-to-our-toes thrill, the excitement of something we KNOW is bad for us...part of us are just gluttons for misery...our girlfriends start to couple off, and we start wondering if we used up our nice guy quota in college when were still torturing men for sport...that's where you come in, Mr. Sweet Guy....because you're the guy we really want...there is nothing worse than dating a good guy who breaks your heart...when u date a good guy, u expect the world from him and u think he can do no wrong...good guys are hard to date because you're constantly worrying that you're going to lose him or that u're not good enough for him..however, when you date a bad boy, u expect the worse...having a bad boy break your heart isn't quite so bad, because in the back of your mind, u know that it will happen eventually...Plus, when u date a bad boy, u feel like u are the better person in the relationship...so

Here's my advice for all the nice guys:

Remember what we were wearing on our first date....give romantic gifts on birthdays and anniversaries (and remember flower-mandatory holidays such as Valentine's Day.) get what we're all about...*or try to at least*..let us know what you're all about...make US your ONLY hobby..not sports..not cars...not video games..but US...open the doors at ALL TIMES!! kill any bugs that sneak into the kitchen...wash the dishes for us!! COMPLIMENT US!! *girls love hearing nice things gawd damn it!!* give us your coat when it gets chilly outside...offer a helping hand always...do romantic things JUST BECAUSE (not b/c it's a special occasion or that u have to make-up for your mistakes)...call us to let us know where u are just so we won't have to sit and wait for your asses...and remember there's a fine line between being a nice guy and being a doormat - don't take any crap from us.... =) STAND UP for yourselves too!! i know girls can be the biggest bitches alive..so keep us in check when we're in our moods..but also be supportive!! =P i promise u that when the good girls want to settle down, they will want to do it with the good guys...part of growing up is experiencing both the good and the bad, and i would much rather get the bad over with now..

So, to all the good guys out there, just remember that "good things come to those that wait."..that goes for all of the girls out there too who keep going out with all of the wrong guys...after all, u don't want to be a good boy in love with a bad girl.... ^_*

She put alot of thought into this, I see.

I kinda stopped reading after the first paragraph. :ph34r:

I, too, would like the world on a silver platter, please.

[Arb Nam]

Originally posted by kwalan@Nov 25 2002, 08:24 PM

We've all done it at one time or another....we whine to our friends about the lack of nice available guys, and then, when given the choice between a nice, sweet (safe) guy and a bad boy who makes our toes curl, we invariably go for the toe-curler...the heartbreak-waiting-to-happen...The bad boy...doesn't make any sense, does it? so WHY do women tend to pick that route in relationships? here's my take..

When women are looking for a certain guy, they often go for that which they complain about most or things that they can't have...nearly all women go through some period in their lives when they're swept up by a bad boy...the army guy with the amazing bod and the mental prowess of a fruit plate...the Harley guy with mean beard stubble and an attitude to match...the Josh Hartnett look-alike who makes us feel like the center of the universe, and then puts the moves on our roommate the minute we leave for the ladies room...we can see these guys coming a mile away, and yet we fall for it every time. Why?!?!?

Part of us actually like to believe we can be the one girl to turn this wild man into a pussycat...part of us just like that down-to-our-toes thrill, the excitement of something we KNOW is bad for us...part of us are just gluttons for misery...our girlfriends start to couple off, and we start wondering if we used up our nice guy quota in college when were still torturing men for sport...that's where you come in, Mr. Sweet Guy....because you're the guy we really want...there is nothing worse than dating a good guy who breaks your heart...when u date a good guy, u expect the world from him and u think he can do no wrong...good guys are hard to date because you're constantly worrying that you're going to lose him or that u're not good enough for him..however, when you date a bad boy, u expect the worse...having a bad boy break your heart isn't quite so bad, because in the back of your mind, u know that it will happen eventually...Plus, when u date a bad boy, u feel like u are the better person in the relationship...so

Here's my advice for all the nice guys:

Remember what we were wearing on our first date....give romantic gifts on birthdays and anniversaries (and remember flower-mandatory holidays such as Valentine's Day.) get what we're all about...*or try to at least*..let us know what you're all about...make US your ONLY hobby..not sports..not cars...not video games..but US...open the doors at ALL TIMES!! kill any bugs that sneak into the kitchen...wash the dishes for us!! COMPLIMENT US!! *girls love hearing nice things gawd damn it!!* give us your coat when it gets chilly outside...offer a helping hand always...do romantic things JUST BECAUSE (not b/c it's a special occasion or that u have to make-up for your mistakes)...call us to let us know where u are just so we won't have to sit and wait for your asses...and remember there's a fine line between being a nice guy and being a doormat - don't take any crap from us.... =) STAND UP for yourselves too!! i know girls can be the biggest bitches alive..so keep us in check when we're in our moods..but also be supportive!! =P i promise u that when the good girls want to settle down, they will want to do it with the good guys...part of growing up is experiencing both the good and the bad, and i would much rather get the bad over with now..

So, to all the good guys out there, just remember that "good things come to those that wait."..that goes for all of the girls out there too who keep going out with all of the wrong guys...after all, u don't want to be a good boy in love with a bad girl.... ^_*


she is brilliant. :)
Tell me if this isn't a blatant attempt to pussified us.

[SunWuKong]

none of that matters. in the end you get the girl hooked by NOT giving her what she wants. (not something i would recommend if you're in a serious and meaningful relationship though).

[princess]

Originally posted by 537@Nov 26 2002, 03:26 PM
"Dating asian gangsta boys"....are you all high schoolers or something?


:ph34r:
hardly. theres a few of us 'round.

[Arb Nam]

Pffff, I ain't doing none of that in a serious, meaningful relationship either. Call me callous.

[Hiroshi2]

Originally posted by karizma@Nov 24 2002, 08:28 PM
why is this depressing btw?
For most of my life, i was quite an asshole. So at some point i decided to try to be *ahem* a nicer guy, thinking, hell, it may even get me some more girls. But it seems like i keep hearing about how girls want assholes and bad guys, etc. which i just am not. I was a pain in the butt, but not a "gangsta" or "bad boy" type, know whadda mean? So bottom line is what the hell do you women want??????

yes, I know it's an age-old question that has been asked by every heterosexual male that has ever lived.

[kasia]

Originally posted by 537@Nov 26 2002, 03:26 PM
"Dating asian gangsta boys"....are you all high schoolers or something?


:ph34r:
hey les. a lot of girls here are high-schoolers. and this seems to be a typical high school phase. it's fun.

[artsfartsyjanet]

Actually, call me prissy... but asian gangsta dudes never really appealed to me. ;)

[537]

Originally posted by kasia@Nov 26 2002, 05:57 PM
hey les. &nbsp;a lot of girls here are high-schoolers. &nbsp;and this seems to be a typical high school phase. &nbsp;it's fun.
Cool you know my name. I know it's a typical high school phase, one that everybody likes to talk about for some reason...


But I've known too many people left for dead because of the 'gangsta boys.' I can name plenty of girls that were either pregnant or already moms, with the father in prison. Or dead. Look, I'm not trying to be rude or anything....maybe I'm just becoming my own parents. :o

Side note: I may be just taking a shot in the dark....but does kasia = dot?

[Saiko]

Damn, doesn't anybody in here go for white punks and rockers or maybe even goths?

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Saiko@Nov 27 2002, 10:21 PM
Damn, doesn't anybody in here go for white punks and rockers or maybe even goths?
*Drools* minus the goth part.

[princess]

Originally posted by artsfartsyjanet@Nov 27 2002, 03:26 PM
Actually, call me prissy... but asian gangsta dudes never really appealed to me. ;)
thats good. i wish they didnt appeal to me. i wish i could control who i like

[mrazntre]

Originally posted by princess@Nov 27 2002, 10:54 PM
thats good. i wish they didnt appeal to me. i wish i could control who i like
that's cuz you live in a rathole.

[windtorch]

Originally posted by Morientes@Nov 23 2002, 04:51 AM
You obviously don't know me; I really really wished that girls were more upfront about whether they like you or not. It seems that both sexes are capable of playing mind games and I'd say this: It's pretty awful.

I certainly would'nt mind a girl who liked me taking the first initiative.
You got to go with the mind games, it's all part and parcel. Don't complain.

[Bookworm011]

I haven't been really interested in guys that much. It was not until Grade 7 when I started talking about celebs with friends. Right now, I just like to talk about them lol :) But I'm still not interested in them....I'm too shy to ask a guy out....

[Cipherous]

how about this scenerio

Both guys' attractiveness is the same

one is a nerdy boyscott

one is a big bad thug

the nerdy ones kicks his ass in a fight,

has their attractiveness changed?

[coagulated fat]

Hey - dude, I'm telling you straight now: women should be more upfront about if they like you or not, even if they are rude to you. I certainly don't want to spend alot of my time chasing a girl only to find out that she's been wasting my time; give me a break, I've got better things to do if she is'nt interested.

Is it leading a guy on, then, if you go out on one date with a guy you don't know and you're not really initially attracted to? Because I always thought that was the fair way to do things.. in case we really hit it off and they then became attractive to me.

[himura-dono]

Hey - dude, I'm telling you straight now: women should be more upfront about if they like you or not, even if they are rude to you. I certainly don't want to spend alot of my time chasing a girl only to find out that she's been wasting my time; give me a break, I've got better things to do if she is'nt interested.

um, you realize this person posted that almost a year ago, and no longer posts here, right?

[Tao]

No, that's not misleading. Actually, I'm not talking about dates; at least with dates, there's a possibility of something happening. What I'm talking about is the process *leading* up to the potential date; the conversations, e-mailing etc.

I know what you mean...it's a pain in the ass.

[mr. x]

i live in a area with hella AGB's

anyway i have a theory that they are all trying to act thuggish to wash away that nerdy asian image (shit im sure all of you have that theory). am i right?

anyway not just asians but at my school u got dark skinned non-blacks doing it (tend to be indian) not so much thuggish but adopting that hip hop thing. there was this one white kid, real scrawny, it was funny cuz he wears glasses and basically think of someone out of the movie "Holes" trying to talk gangsta and you have an idea

[stunninglyAsian]

It's not about being gangsta and representin' da streets, although some girls do like that.

Girls like guys that are as tough as a rock on the outside and soft on the inside. Girls will kill for a guy like that.

[TTChino]

All men should just face it. Women wanna marry the man with a Benz S600 in the driveway, but be bangin the man across the street with the Viper.

[mr. x]

All men should just face it. Women wanna marry the man with a Benz S600 in the driveway, but be bangin the man across the street with the Viper.

thing is, girls wanna have it all, they want the bad boy, but they dont like getting beaten all the time

so they marry a rich boring guy who sucks in bed

sigh, women