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SunWuKong
10-25-2002, 03:22 PM
insist to the guy that he's not ok when he keeps repeating that he indeed is ok??? it's fucking annoying! :angry:
amietron
10-25-2002, 03:29 PM
because they're worried about you for whatever reason, and what to appear to you as a caring person (like your mother! haha, just kidding!).
kimpossible
10-25-2002, 03:32 PM
eh hehehehehe... i do this. :blush:

I dunno. Why do guys pretend that they don't know what they did wrong when they damn well know what they did.

Ooh, I feel a battle of the sexes coming on. I sense an angry Monkey King. MK, I know something's wrong, tell me... no, TELL ME dammit!
SunWuKong
10-25-2002, 03:33 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 06:32 PM
Why do guys pretend that they don't know what they did wrong when they damn well know what they did.
ok i admit i've been guilty of this. :P
kimpossible
10-25-2002, 03:36 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 03:33 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 06:32 PM
Why do guys pretend that they don't know what they did wrong when they damn well know what they did.
ok i admit i've been guilty of this. :P
I know. I'm married. I come equipped with Detect Male Bullshit radius 10'. Similar to Detect Evil.
not-a-twinkie?
10-25-2002, 03:39 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 11:22 PM
insist to the guy that he's not ok when he keeps repeating that he indeed is ok???   it's fucking annoying!   :angry:
because....
Many times it seems that guys aren't so great about being open with their feelings, or that they aren't so great about communicating...
so when I've found myself in that situation w/ a guy when I think he's not telling the truth.... I try to figure out what's wrong... like if he's pissed off, or whatever...... kuz I'd want to know about it... kuz I care.

and yeah -- I know -- when he wasn't originally pissed off, my insistance on figuring out what was bugging him may CAUSE him to become pissed off, even if he wasn't already pissed off in the first place.
SunWuKong
10-25-2002, 03:40 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 06:36 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 03:33 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 06:32 PM
Why do guys pretend that they don't know what they did wrong when they damn well know what they did.
ok i admit i've been guilty of this. :P
I know. I'm married. I come equipped with Detect Male Bullshit radius 10'. Similar to Detect Evil.
do you also know how to cast Boner Summoning IX?
SunWuKong
10-25-2002, 03:43 PM
Originally posted by not-a-twinkie?@Oct 25 2002, 06:39 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 11:22 PM
insist to the guy that he's not ok when he keeps repeating that he indeed is ok??? it's fucking annoying! :angry:
because....
Many times it seems that guys aren't so great about being open with their feelings, or that they aren't so great about communicating...
so when I've found myself in that situation w/ a guy when I think he's not telling the truth.... I try to figure out what's wrong... like if he's pissed off, or whatever...... kuz I'd want to know about it... kuz I care.

and yeah -- I know -- when he wasn't originally pissed off, my insistance on figuring out what was bugging him may CAUSE him to become pissed off, even if he wasn't already pissed off in the first place.
see, you err in assuming that something is bugging him in the first place. i mean i know women are more empathic but it could well be minor enough that it's inconsequential. and you know, the best way to make him feel better is not to bug him about it, but keep his mind off of it.
kimpossible
10-25-2002, 03:45 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 03:43 PM
i mean i know women are more empathic but it could well be minor enough that it's inconsequential. and you know, the best way to make him feel better is not to bug him about it, but keep his mind off of it.
Moral of the story: if we sense something is bugging a man, do not ask if he is okay but immediately perform oral sex on him.
amietron
10-25-2002, 03:49 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 03:45 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 03:43 PM
i mean i know women are more empathic but it could well be minor enough that it's inconsequential.  and you know, the best way to make him feel better is not to bug him about it, but keep his mind off of it.
Moral of the story: if we sense something is bugging a man, do not ask if he is okay but immediately perform oral sex on him.
yow. is sex in some way or form the answer to everything?
deez nuts
10-25-2002, 04:26 PM
Just ignore her, she just wants to have a "moment" with you. Bonding, feeling as one, etc etc etc, the stuff you don;t like doing. Just use monosyllable words, shake or nod your head alot. She'll get the message sooner or later.



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not-a-twinkie?
10-25-2002, 04:32 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 11:43 PM
Originally posted by not-a-twinkie?@Oct 25 2002, 06:39 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 11:22 PM
insist to the guy that he's not ok when he keeps repeating that he indeed is ok??? it's fucking annoying! :angry:
because....
Many times it seems that guys aren't so great about being open with their feelings, or that they aren't so great about communicating...
so when I've found myself in that situation w/ a guy when I think he's not telling the truth.... I try to figure out what's wrong... like if he's pissed off, or whatever...... kuz I'd want to know about it... kuz I care.

and yeah -- I know -- when he wasn't originally pissed off, my insistance on figuring out what was bugging him may CAUSE him to become pissed off, even if he wasn't already pissed off in the first place.
see, you err in assuming that something is bugging him in the first place. i mean i know women are more empathic but it could well be minor enough that it's inconsequential. and you know, the best way to make him feel better is not to bug him about it, but keep his mind off of it.
ha ha...
yeahhhh -- I guess I shouldn't always assume that I'm right in thinking the dude isn't just trying to NOT TALK ABOUT things...

but there are times where the insistance pays off...
well -- in my experience, anyway....
for ex.) there have been times where finally after all of that prodding... the dude admitted that something really was buging him... and we ended up having a pretty productive conversation that helped to resolve things...
karizma
10-25-2002, 07:37 PM
>> because we're women and we're put here to deny you sex, take your money, and pry into your life...teehee!!!
mrazntre
10-25-2002, 09:18 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 11:45 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 03:43 PM
i mean i know women are more empathic but it could well be minor enough that it's inconsequential. &nbsp;and you know, the best way to make him feel better is not to bug him about it, but keep his mind off of it.
Moral of the story: if we sense something is bugging a man, do not ask if he is okay but immediately perform oral sex on him.
you are definitely MY kind of woman.
DaBestSpooner
10-25-2002, 10:16 PM
why do girls like to peep when I pee pee?
ChinaLama
10-25-2002, 10:21 PM
Originally posted by DaBestSpooner@Oct 26 2002, 06:16 AM
why do girls like to peep when I pee pee?
time to mis-aim? ;)
deez nuts
10-26-2002, 07:58 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 06:45 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 03:43 PM
i mean i know women are more empathic but it could well be minor enough that it's inconsequential. and you know, the best way to make him feel better is not to bug him about it, but keep his mind off of it.
Moral of the story: if we sense something is bugging a man, do not ask if he is okay but immediately perform oral sex on him.
I can't believe I missed that one. :o

HH :wub:



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Grass Monkey
10-26-2002, 10:31 AM
Si, da chicas are muy locos, mang.
unordinary.girl
10-26-2002, 05:50 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 11:22 PM
insist to the guy that he's not ok when he keeps repeating that he indeed is ok??? &nbsp; it's fucking annoying! &nbsp; :angry:
omg, i have to admit that im guilty of doin that to a guy.....LOL

well i think we just do it because we're concerned about you guys and we really just wanna know whether somethings wrong or not.....

if we didnt do that, than that would mean we dont give a f*** about you!! hahaha j/k
mrazntre
10-26-2002, 07:37 PM
Originally posted by unordinary.girl@Oct 27 2002, 01:50 AM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 11:22 PM
insist to the guy that he's not ok when he keeps repeating that he indeed is ok??? it's fucking annoying! :angry:
omg, i have to admit that im guilty of doin that to a guy.....LOL

well i think we just do it because we're concerned about you guys and we really just wanna know whether somethings wrong or not.....

if we didnt do that, than that would mean we dont give a f*** about you!! hahaha j/k
the latter is great cuz most of us men don't care either. we're just there for the b00ty.

*wham*bam*door slam*
SunWuKong
10-28-2002, 08:37 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 06:45 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 03:43 PM
i mean i know women are more empathic but it could well be minor enough that it's inconsequential. &nbsp;and you know, the best way to make him feel better is not to bug him about it, but keep his mind off of it.
Moral of the story: if we sense something is bugging a man, do not ask if he is okay but immediately perform oral sex on him.
:D

seriously, this is probably a good idea. i read (written by a woman psychologist) that women need emotional intimacy to reach physical intimacy, and men need physical intimacy to reach emotional intimacy.

but then again, you might just be reinforcing negative behavior if you give the guy sex because of every little thing he might be unhappy about. it's like giving a kid candy when he cries.

unless of course, you love sucking dick anyway.
kimpossible
10-29-2002, 10:13 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 28 2002, 08:37 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 06:45 PM
Originally posted by SunWuKung@Oct 25 2002, 03:43 PM
i mean i know women are more empathic but it could well be minor enough that it's inconsequential. and you know, the best way to make him feel better is not to bug him about it, but keep his mind off of it.
Moral of the story: if we sense something is bugging a man, do not ask if he is okay but immediately perform oral sex on him.
:D

seriously, this is probably a good idea.
Before you start feeling really good about it, I posted it because I believe men are easily controled through two means: their penis and mouth. Keep the guy and his penis fed regularly and the bullshit factor is kept to a minimum.

What was it they called it on Ally McBeal? The Dumbstick?
kimpossible
10-29-2002, 10:14 PM
Originally posted by DaBestSpooner@Oct 25 2002, 09:16 PM
why do girls like to peep when I pee pee?
What? Who wants to see you take a leak? I wouldn't say most women are curious to see that. :gross:
deez nuts
10-30-2002, 04:43 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 30 2002, 01:14 AM
Originally posted by DaBestSpooner@Oct 25 2002, 09:16 PM
why do girls like to peep when I pee pee?
What? Who wants to see you take a leak? I wouldn't say most women are curious to see that. :gross:
My girl gets offended when I close the bathroom door when I take a leak.
kimpossible
10-30-2002, 08:07 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 30 2002, 04:43 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 30 2002, 01:14 AM
Originally posted by DaBestSpooner@Oct 25 2002, 09:16 PM
why do girls like to peep when I pee pee?
What? Who wants to see you take a leak? I wouldn't say most women are curious to see that. :gross:
My girl gets offended when I close the bathroom door when I take a leak.
:gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross:

Bathroom door stays shut in my house. Pee and poo are kept to one's self.
deez nuts
10-30-2002, 08:21 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 30 2002, 11:07 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 30 2002, 04:43 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 30 2002, 01:14 AM
Originally posted by DaBestSpooner@Oct 25 2002, 09:16 PM
why do girls like to peep when I pee pee?
What? Who wants to see you take a leak? I wouldn't say most women are curious to see that. :gross:
My girl gets offended when I close the bathroom door when I take a leak.
:gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross:

Bathroom door stays shut in my house. Pee and poo are kept to one's self.
I'm with you. But, there's not much I can do when I'm standing there doing my bizness. She walks by, opens door and whines "Why'd you close the door."

As for pooping, the door stays shut. She learned the hard way.
not-a-twinkie?
10-30-2002, 11:41 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 30 2002, 08:07 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 30 2002, 04:43 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 30 2002, 01:14 AM
Originally posted by DaBestSpooner@Oct 25 2002, 09:16 PM
why do girls like to peep when I pee pee?
What? Who wants to see you take a leak? I wouldn't say most women are curious to see that. :gross:
My girl gets offended when I close the bathroom door when I take a leak.
:gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross:

Bathroom door stays shut in my house. Pee and poo are kept to one's self.
I'd definitely agree w/ HH's policy....

It's great to know your s.o. "inside and out"..... but ..... uh not so great to know everything about what WAS inside and is getting pushed or let out...

blecch.....
mydnyht
11-02-2002, 01:41 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 25 2002, 10:32 PM
Ooh, I feel a battle of the sexes coming on.
:grabs the weapons, then hides in a corner: :!
kasia
11-02-2002, 03:22 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 30 2002, 04:21 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 30 2002, 11:07 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Oct 30 2002, 04:43 AM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Oct 30 2002, 01:14 AM
Originally posted by DaBestSpooner@Oct 25 2002, 09:16 PM
why do girls like to peep when I pee pee?
What? Who wants to see you take a leak? I wouldn't say most women are curious to see that. :gross:
My girl gets offended when I close the bathroom door when I take a leak.
:gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross: :gross:

Bathroom door stays shut in my house. Pee and poo are kept to one's self.
I'm with you. But, there's not much I can do when I'm standing there doing my bizness. She walks by, opens door and whines "Why'd you close the door."

As for pooping, the door stays shut. She learned the hard way.
it's fun to watch. it's cause we don't get to stand up.
igcognito
11-02-2002, 10:13 PM
I have been posting a lot of sites today. I can't find the one with this issue on it. I will do my best to remember what it said

*takes out fake PhD*

Well the reason women ask and continue to insist something is wrong is because they know that guys will attempt to hide their feelings. Naturally women want to take care of the men. So if something is wrong, they would like to fix it. They also feel "pushed away" when guys say "nothing" and they feel something is wrong.

Now why do guys insist there is nothing wrong there is. Ego, and protection. They have to be manly and they don't want their women to feel unsafe or feel like their man is weak and can not do his "job".

*puts away fake PhD*

I need to find that site ><