signs that he's hot for you

[amietron]

-acts protective
-stops asking for advice
-criticizes competition
-always looks tense

courtesy of Cosmo.

i love cosmo. i'm sure angel nymph would agree that she does too. any other cosmo readers?

do you think those criteria are really true? cus they seem general/vague enough that they could be pushed onto anybody. =\

[wylin]

sounds like hez 15 and insecure bout his abilities and maybe sexuality.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by amietron@Oct 8 2002, 06:44 PM

-criticizes competition

what if he just starts criticizing YOU? ;)

[angel nympho]

He can't keep it down....

[amietron]

so you're all disagreeing with the mag?

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by amietron@Oct 8 2002, 01:44 PM
-acts protective
-stops asking for advice
-criticizes competition
-always looks tense


If a fella does that, I would definitely place him the moist category. And the woman prolly don't want none of that.

[ChinaLama]

Originally posted by amietron@Oct 8 2002, 10:18 PM
so you're all disagreeing with the mag?
nah, just supplementing it. :D

[Saiko]

I read cosmo. And um, it's also known that he's got it bad for you if his body's turned towards you or his feet point at you.

[angel nympho]

I thought the body sign thing (pointing his feet at you, etc) was kinda lame. But the one about acting protective and stops asking for advice seems like it could be accurate, I guess. I wouldn't say that those are the ONLY signs, though.

[achtungbaby]

I usually just point with my finger, leave my mouth agape, and groan.

[kasia]

Originally posted by amietron@Oct 8 2002, 06:44 PM
-acts protective
-stops asking for advice
-criticizes competition
-always looks tense

courtesy of Cosmo.

i love cosmo. i'm sure angel nymph would agree that she does too. any other cosmo readers?

do you think those criteria are really true? cus they seem general/vague enough that they could be pushed onto anybody. =\
it may be true, but would you really want to be with a guy who's like this? sounds like a future abuser...

[johnny]

A agree with Cosmo - those signs somewhat describe me
:dance: <==I like this

[kimpossible]

Normally I would say with confidence that I think the Cosmo signs are a bunch of BS, but I've come to realize that I am still clueless as to if and when a guy is hot for me. Maybe if he was humping my leg or something.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by amietron@Oct 8 2002, 01:44 PM
-acts protective
-stops asking for advice
-criticizes competition
-always looks tense
hmm...

1. i don't act protective. when i was younger i definitely did. but nowadays i act LESS protective.

2. yeah i would probably stop asking advice, that is, if i was actually asking advice about my personal life from a woman in the first place. which i generally don't, unless it's someone that is like a big sister to me.

3. i don't criticize the competition. that's childish and a dead giveaway. concerning competition, i would act like i don't give a damn and that it doesn't even exist.

4. i hope i don't always look tense. at least i try not to. but i'm definitely more quiet.

[wylin]

Originally posted by johnny@Oct 9 2002, 07:43 AM
A agree with Cosmo - those signs somewhat describe me
:dance: <==I like this
toward korean women mostly right? u shake ur bootty and she comes bookin over =P

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by amietron@Oct 8 2002, 01:44 PM
-acts protective
-stops asking for advice
-criticizes competition
-always looks tense

Makes sense to me:

1. I'd want a guy to act protective of me... because it shows that he wouldn't want anything bad to happen to me.

2. I don't want a guy that I like asking me for advice about other girls. And if he was into me, he probably woludn't ask me for advice about me.

3. I find it sexy when a man has enough confidence to think that he can beat his competition. As opposed to "dammit, that other guy likes her and he's richh... ahhhh forget it..."

4. It's kinda cute when guys tense up or act nervous around me. But that hardly ever happens... I'm not very intimidating. I'd much rather have a guy be comfortable and be himself.

[AliBabaIncorporated]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Oct 10 2002, 01:28 AM
2. I don't want a guy that I like asking me for advice about other girls. And if he was into me, he probably woludn't ask me for advice about me.
hmm. one time in frosh year, i asked a female friend of mine for girl advice. in some twisted way, she rationalized it that I must be asking about other girls in order to make her jealous and try to get her attention, and that at the root of the matter I was really interested in her. ka-ching ... instant stalker.

[Saiko]

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Oct 10 2002, 01:15 AM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Oct 10 2002, 01:28 AM
2. &nbsp;I don't want a guy that I like asking me for advice about other girls. &nbsp;And if he was into me, he probably woludn't ask me for advice about me.
hmm. one time in frosh year, i asked a female friend of mine for girl advice. in some twisted way, she rationalized it that I must be asking about other girls in order to make her jealous and try to get her attention, and that at the root of the matter I was really interested in her. ka-ching ... instant stalker.
I might need a bigger measuring tape to measure the size of her ego.

[karizma]

>> the always looks tense thing reminds me of a chihuahua...something id imagine a guy wouldnt like being associated with...ive never really had a guy act tense around me unless he was one of those guys that had no experience with girls whatsoever....any of you remember those hordes guys who sat in the secluded halls of your high school playing Magic?...when me and my friends would walk by theyd immediately stop playing and just kinda stare and kinda primp...haha...soo bizarre...it scared me a little so i just walked really really fast by them...

>> protective is okay to a certain extent...if he's treating me like i could suddenly shatter into a million pieces at any moment that could get very annoying and id probably just take it as another way to be machooo...

>> criticizing competition makes him seem insecure...when ur constantly belittling your competitor sure it gives me the impression ur interested but also makes me think you got issues 0_o...

>> stops asking for advice...i probably wouldnt even notice if he did =/...

[mrazntre]

My POV, when I'm hot for a girl:

Usually, when I'm trying to get with a girl, I sorta know already where things are going. I usually don't try the "friends first" thing. I hit it up as a potential gf/talking to/seeing/dating girl. Although there have been times where at first I'm not interested or anything and don't spew pheromones, but as time passes I do start to become attracted to the girl. Either in that situation, or when I do have a gf and meet another girl, I try to maintain the proper "friend" distance, but then after my girlfriend breaks up with me, I might want to try to get with the other girl, but since I have put my best friend foot foward, it just becomes a little awkward. Do I make any sense ?

The latter situation is where I usually get lost in the "friend zone." When I first meet a girl, it's quite apparent if she's interested or not. If I'm really interested I'll go after her even if at first she is a bit hesitant.



*sigh*



:wub:

[Barbs]

girls are clueless a lot of the times when a guy likes them unless the guy wears his heart out on his sleeve. usually i've noticed that guys will use a different "voice" with u if he likes u, even if u're his friend. if u're perceptive enuff u can tell. however, that is all so very juvenile. as a pseudo-adult, i think that most of the guys i meet make it pretty clear soon enuff what their intentions are unless they see caution signs all around you in which case they take the slow approach where they stick around u as ur friend.

[mydnyht]

People don't like me... in fact, they tend to avoid me at all costs.
Never read Cosmo. Mayhap I'll get into it... :shrug: Who knows?