Where to take a girl on 1st date? [Archive]

SunWuKong

12-06-2004, 03:26 PM

she's around your age? if so, she might not mind going to a movie for a first date. i think it's just that at a certain age, women get tired of going to the movies for a date. but then again, what do i know about women, especially teenagers nowadays. but definitely take her to a nice restaurant. Wendy's is out of the question, but don't take her to one that's too expensive though or it may be intimidating.

deez nuts

12-06-2004, 04:09 PM

like i've said time and time again, take her to sizzlers and let her have anything she wants at the all you can eat buffet.

that'll show her how money you are.

can't go wrong with good old sizzlers. i stand by it 100%.

Tao

12-06-2004, 04:19 PM

YuheiCarreau

12-06-2004, 04:24 PM

You may want to try going to an interesting part of your city, like the Botanical Gardens or a boardwalk-type area, somewhere where there's a lot of options for food and interesting stuff to see.

deez nuts

12-06-2004, 04:25 PM

where can i find a sizzlers around here?

there's one right on northern blvd in frushing and another one in rego park.

tell her, "we're going to sizzlers, bitch."

Chester

12-06-2004, 04:30 PM

can't go wrong with good old sizzlers. i stand by it 100%. True dat. Ain't nothin' says "pimp" like treating your bitch to all-you-can-eat popcorn shrimp.

Tao

12-06-2004, 04:31 PM

there's one right on northern blvd in frushing and another one in rego park.

tell her, "we're going to sizzlers, bitch."

hot, i'm sold. grab the kids mothafuckas, we're eatin' good tonight

kpih

12-06-2004, 04:33 PM

Some place that you are comfortable with (not your bedroom of course). Also a place that you can carry a decent conversation. I don't think an extravagant place will be any good. It is already stressful enough going on a first date...

So a nice (not necessarily expensive), quiet, presentable place that YOU enjoy probably is best.

Of course it also depends on her interests. But I think it is more important that at least one of you is relaxed and natural.

Good luck.

kasia

12-06-2004, 06:06 PM

what city are you in?

Irezumi Kiss

12-06-2004, 06:09 PM

there's one right on northern blvd in frushing and another one in rego park.

tell her, "we're going to sizzlers, bitch."
What, Red Lobster not good enuff for y'all anymore?

I'd use her as an excuse to go somewhere you've been wanting to go to but is significantly better going into on a date or as a couple. If you take her somewhere familiar, heads you know on the regular might blow up your spot.

Kennyb

12-06-2004, 06:13 PM

Going to the pictures is probably one of the most anti-social thing you can do on a date.

I normally take my dates to places that they never thought about. For example, somewhere to eat that she never knew or tried before.

Wining and dining always makes the date a good night and it doesn't have to be expensive places - it's a place where you can actually get to know one and other.

applehead

12-06-2004, 06:16 PM

hot, i'm sold. grab the kids mothafuckas, we're eatin' good tonight

we'll go stuff our face with corn nuggets, tony.

not to the movies

what's wrong with the movies?
i think it's great for a first date. you can watch a movie
first, then eat at a casual diner.
plus you'll have the movie to talk about too if
you guys run out of topics.
too much "alone" time during a first date
is just too much pressure.

Irezumi Kiss

12-06-2004, 06:26 PM

we'll go stuff our face with corn nuggets, tony.

what's wrong with the movies?
i think it's great for a first date. you can watch a movie
first, then eat at a casual diner.
plus you'll have the movie to talk about too if
you guys run out of topics.
too much "alone" time during a first date
is just too much pressure.
I was gonna say that there's really NOTHING wrong with it in principle. I've done it, for "dates" and for "I don't wanna date you per se but just mess around with you a bit later on so let's wring the most out of the day instead of making it seem like a booty call" dates.

I think the negative point about it, especially for a FIRST date is that a movie gives a body a bonafide excuse to spend at least two hours with someone without needing to talk to them. And then even if that was all you two did, you can still write it off as a legit "date," see?

That's the modus operandi for people who can't communicate with another body face-to-face. That's when it gets weak. If you have no problem talking to someone, however, and if you have similar interests, you both can go see a movie you've been wanting to see, and yeah, talk about it afterwards over some roasted snails and herbal butter.

I dunno how well that works for high school heads, tho...I'll be hanging until past 4 in the morning with someone after a flick, no problem...fuckin' 30 plus year ol' bastid... :tongue:

Tao

12-06-2004, 06:39 PM

i've always thought it was dinner and then a movie...that way if you guys hit it off at dinner, the movie's a great time to make your move.

applehead

12-06-2004, 06:48 PM

yeah. you know what's good?
dinner, the movies and then dessert/coffee.

oh right. i guess both parties should be movie
buffs, if not then the convo would go...
"i liked the movie, you?"
"eh, it was okay."
"..."
"..."

Kennyb

12-06-2004, 07:04 PM

I think the negative point about it, especially for a FIRST date is that a movie gives a body a bonafide excuse to spend at least two hours with someone without needing to talk to them. And then even if that was all you two did, you can still write it off as a legit "date," see?

That's the modus operandi for people who can't communicate with another body face-to-face. That's when it gets weak. If you have no problem talking to someone, however, and if you have similar interests, you both can go see a movie you've been wanting to see, and yeah, talk about it afterwards over some roasted snails and herbal butter.

Great minds think alike. *high five*

As I said before, I find going to the movie is an anti-social thing on a date since the whole purpose is to get to know each other. Okay, benefit of the doubt if you share the same interests but still, 2 hours of wasted time where you can really get to know them if you were out walking and talking or something.

I tell you what, ice skating is a real treat to do on a date. :cool:

Irezumi Kiss

12-06-2004, 07:09 PM

i've always thought it was dinner and then a movie...that way if you guys hit it off at dinner, the movie's a great time to make your move.
The only possible problem with that order is...if you're watching a 2-plus hour flick...

1) indigestion and possible farting
2) piss/poop breaks and having to cross people in the same row coming out and going back in

at least with snacks you can curb your prospective hungers without spoiling your dinner significantly. I made it a point to go dining and drinking after LOTR, not before!

Mr.Lum

12-06-2004, 07:46 PM

what city are you in?

Hamden, Ct.

s1eve

12-06-2004, 07:56 PM

I tend to do a coffee chat, followed by a movie and then dinner. This order is good for me, though I did find one problem when my partner and I went to a busy Japanese restaurant after a film, we ended up having to wait ages for our meals and this kinda made me grumpy cos I was quite hungry.

PropellerheadCP

12-06-2004, 08:36 PM

I don't think going to the movies is a good idea for a first date, either. I've always had a lot of success with doing things that the girl doesn't expect. As a former art student, I use my knowledge of art to my advantage. So a trip to the museum or art gallery is perfect. We can talk and I can show off all the stuff that I know. Plus, it's either for me to "weed out" the girls who don't like to think. Personally, stupid girls bother me.

So the rule of thumb? Find out what you want in a significant other and then figure out where to go for the first date. You can't have a generic activity, if you really want to "wow" the person.

applehead

12-06-2004, 09:04 PM

Great minds think alike. *high five*

As I said before, I find going to the movie is an anti-social thing on a date since the whole purpose is to get to know each other. Okay, benefit of the doubt if you share the same interests but still, 2 hours of wasted time where you can really get to know them if you were out walking and talking or something.

I tell you what, ice skating is a real treat to do on a date. :cool:

oh ice skating is a great idea.
lots of chances for innocent touching.
:biggrin:

BeTheReds

12-06-2004, 10:19 PM

Take her to a sporting event followed by an hour of street fighter. If she doesn't enjoy it, then this relationship won't work out and you'll have to kick her to the curb.

YuheiCarreau

12-06-2004, 11:20 PM

oh ice skating is a great idea.
lots of chances for innocent touching.
:biggrin:

I reccomend hot tubbing. Lots of opportunities for not-so-innocent touching.

etcj

12-07-2004, 01:48 AM

oh ice skating is a great idea.
lots of chances for innocent touching.
:biggrin:
Yeah, and folks wonder how tongues might end up touching.

I'd suggest a trip to the beach...or coastal area. Even if it's in the dead of winter (CT and all), you can still observe the desolate seascape...it makes for a good lead-in for snuggling. "Brr...you wanna get out of the cold and into my bed?"

Gwahahaha..

Kennyb

12-07-2004, 04:17 AM

Take her to a sporting event followed by an hour of street fighter. If she doesn't enjoy it, then this relationship won't work out and you'll have to kick her to the curb.

HAHAAHAHHAA.... You know I actually did that with one of my date but we went to play on those dancing games in the arcade - she was very good at it too!!! That was one date that I can't forget actually, she was a real tom boy and a game fanatic. :biggrin:

Emperor_Mike

12-07-2004, 04:27 AM

SunWuKong

12-07-2004, 10:13 AM

one good thing about DC is the Smithsonian. they always have some new exhibitions opening and you can take girls there as part of the date. then they get fooled into thinking you're some culturally-aware and/or artsy individual. plus the Smithsonian doesn't charge for admission so that's doubly good.

kpih

12-07-2004, 10:17 AM

Mr.Lum

12-07-2004, 02:08 PM

Skip dinner and make it a lunch date. Get to know each other over a nice meal and take mental notes on her interests. The lunch need not be fancy, just make sure it's not fastfood or some cookie cutter sit-down chain restaurant. Find a unique place. Following lunch, maybe you can take a walk in a park if it's not too cold or perhaps you can indulge in some cultural pursuits - you can decide on what exactly constitutes a "cultural pursuit." If the both of you can tolerate each other for a second date, then make it a dinner event. You should have more material to work with when coming up with a to-do list.

I like this idea.

one good thing about DC is the Smithsonian. they always have some new exhibitions opening and you can take girls there as part of the date. then they get fooled into thinking you're some culturally-aware and/or artsy individual. plus the Smithsonian doesn't charge for admission so that's doubly good.

This too...we have a bunch of meuseums here, shes into that sort tooo........

SunWuKong

12-07-2004, 02:37 PM

This too...we have a bunch of meuseums here, shes into that sort tooo........

well there you go. it's better than going to the movies in my opinion, because you don't get to interact with her at the movie theater. plus, some women get horny at museums.

Tao

12-07-2004, 03:56 PM

plus, some women get horny at museums.

gah? no way

tommyhtown

12-07-2004, 05:25 PM

A horse track or a dog track. Some chic can get really excited and start jumping up and down. You can check her boobs and see how bouncy they are. Plus, with all the yelling and jumping the endorphin will eventually kick in so you'll be money, barring catastrophic first date mistake that is. :) It worked for me once, but there was this one time a girl thought that I have a problem with gambling or someting just because I took her there.

There is nothing wrong with taking a girl to a movie on your first date. There are pros and cons as somebody already mentioned. However, I prefer to take my date to an entertainment-plex like Jillians' or Dave&Buster, a cultural event, a basketball game (believe it or not some girls really dig NBA games, shoot they start cheering and yelling next thing you know they are hugging you), basically somewhere that she and I can interact a lot with each other. But really, it boils down to how comfortable you are with her or rather what kind of things would you be comfortable doing with her.

Irezumi Kiss

12-07-2004, 05:33 PM

gah? no way
Apparently you haven't been to the Museum of Sex in Manhattan yet, have you? :biggrin:

Emperor_Mike

12-07-2004, 05:34 PM

Oh, and if you're making conversation, try to make it all about her but not to the point where it seems as though you're prying. The more she has to say about herself the more you'll learn about her as an individual. Don't talk about yourself unless she asks about your interests and the like or if an opportunity for you to insert stuff about yourself presents itself in mid-conversation. See, this way it somewhat lowers the risk of you making some godawful/bonehead remark that may offend her in some fashion that you didn't know. For example, if she's a PETA activist and here you are talking about the thrill of your last baby seal clubbing expedition, things will likely go belly-up from there.

As for museums, don't go because you think she might like that sort of thing. I'd find out first. If she's not into art and the like you'll be running a risk of boring her to tears. Sure, she might laugh it off, but what if she goes home thinking that you're about as exciting as a wet dishcloth? Go for lunch first! There's less pressure involved and since it's day time, you'll have a larger selection of after-meal activities to indulge in.

fossilfuel

12-07-2004, 06:24 PM

Kennyb

12-07-2004, 06:30 PM

Kevin Lyttle says all you need is popcorn and sprite.

Anyway, some sort of sporting activity can be good, go skating, biking, surfing, whatever. That works unless you really suck at it, so practice a bit first, but dont be too good so she feels left out.

But it's always better to do something that the two of you aren't good at - makes the date more memorable.

Just reading through this thread again, it seems that we bombarded a lot of ideas to our young chap and with debates about certain things to do on first date isn't really helping him at all.

For me to draw the line, I would go with Emperor_Mike's idea of a lunch date.

SunWuKong

12-08-2004, 10:10 AM

reading all the suggestions... i realised we collectively haven't been much help, because we keep disagreeing with each other. :rolleyes:

i think it may have been better if the question was addressed to the women instead. :tongue:

sageb1

12-08-2004, 11:08 AM

I'm sorta wondering if the reason the lady whom i love (surprise, i found someone sight unseen) wants to meet me at a nightclub is to see how much i really love dancing. she's hapa (south asian & european), 5'9 to my 5'2, and from a higher strata of society than i've chosen.

asvenus

12-08-2004, 02:39 PM

im gald SWK has pointed it out because whats worrying is not only have you all been disagreeing amongst yourselves as men, if you read the sparse female posts, by and large youre disagreeing with what all the women are saying...not good!!

i think the main thing is not ot be too pretentious or flashy...what do you know about her? simply use that...dinner is a nice idea but some women dont like to eat in front of men they barely know (wierd but true!!), museums are nice but it sooo depends whats being exhibited...movies are cool too, although maybe not for a first date if you cant hang out all night afterwards....

you really need just think about what kind of a girl she is and what you think she likes...if youre wrong so what!! you made an effort and thats what she'll appreciate more than anything and if she doesnt...dump her...shes some kind of bitch!!

BigLew

12-08-2004, 03:21 PM

Shes a nice girl. She wants a date before the boomshakaboomboom. Real classy naah mean?First mistake, is assuming she doesn't want some one the first date. You don't know her well enough to make that assesment if it's your first date. And realy it shouldn't matter what your first date is as long as she realy likes you.

SunWuKong

12-08-2004, 03:55 PM

First mistake, is assuming she doesn't want some one the first date. You don't know her well enough to make that assesment if it's your first date. And realy it shouldn't matter what your first date is as long as she realy likes you.

that's very true. that's why i think it should be straight to the bedroom on the first date. either you get some, or it'll weed out the ones that don't want to do it, so you wouldn't waste your time. it's good either way.

Mr.Lum

12-08-2004, 04:40 PM

First mistake, is assuming she doesn't want some one the first date. You don't know her well enough to make that assesment if it's your first date. And realy it shouldn't matter what your first date is as long as she realy likes you.

Well, Ive known her pretty well for a while...Im just taking her out for the first time.

kasia

12-08-2004, 05:29 PM

i just won't go if suggests going to a movie.

girls like to talk and be admired. go to a place where she can talk and you can admire.

applehead

12-08-2004, 09:29 PM

im gald SWK has pointed it out because whats worrying is not only have you all been disagreeing amongst yourselves as men, if you read the sparse female posts, by and large youre disagreeing with what all the women are saying...not good!!

AAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA
oh. that's so funny.

oh right. sporting event and street fighter.
kekekekekekeke
you guys are so funny.

this whole thread is freakin hilarious.

nola

12-09-2004, 12:03 AM

nothing too elaborate, just something comfortable because it's stressful enough as it is. a common interest, coffee, art gallery, a book reading or something.

deez nuts

12-09-2004, 06:23 AM

First mistake, is assuming she doesn't want some one the first date. You don't know her well enough to make that assesment if it's your first date. And realy it shouldn't matter what your first date is as long as she realy likes you.

noooobies

i'm just happy that someone has moved past the "how to ask a girl out part" and advanced to stage two "where to take a girl on the first date."

SunWuKong

12-09-2004, 10:34 AM

AAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA
oh. that's so funny.

oh right. sporting event and street fighter.
kekekekekekeke
you guys are so funny.

this whole thread is freakin hilarious.

nothing wrong with a night of Playstation2 and sex for a 1st date.
i mean, hell, this discussion has been all about what the woman wants. what about what the man wants???

tommyhtown

12-09-2004, 10:56 AM

i mean, hell, this discussion has been all about what the woman wants. what about what the man wants???

So true.

My take is this if I ain't having a good time I am sure she prolly ain't either. It doesn't matter where you take her just make sure you have a good time, but also be considerate of her.

TB4000

12-09-2004, 11:20 AM

I know it's a long shot, but what about the museum? If she's into that scene, I mean. Any girl that doesn't mind checking out works of Da Vinci is ok by me, baby.

kasia

12-09-2004, 11:41 AM

nothing wrong with a night of Playstation2 and sex for a 1st date.
i mean, hell, this discussion has been all about what the woman wants. what about what the man wants???

b/c we won't go. but if we say we want to go to a nice restaurant, etc., you guys would go.

deez nuts

12-09-2004, 11:52 AM

realistically;

initially for the first few dates: dinner at sizzlers. you gotta make her feel special and spoil her.

once she puts out and you get her then your dates can be at home playing with the PS2, requests for a blowjob and also telling her what you want to eat so she can cook it.

it's all about baiting and luring the bitches in.

yoMAMA

12-09-2004, 11:57 AM

take her to a bondage club to show her your wild side.....girls like that....

;)

SunWuKong

12-09-2004, 12:06 PM

it's all about baiting and luring the bitches in.

see, exactly. like i always say, it's just like fishing.

Irezumi Kiss

12-09-2004, 12:49 PM

see, exactly. like i always say, it's just like fishing.
Some guys don't like eating fish, though.

At least initially...then they learn real quick... :wink:

deez nuts

12-09-2004, 02:06 PM

Some guys don't like eating fish, though.

At least initially...then they learn real quick... :wink:

dUrRrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

you don't have to eat it.

you can catch it and throw it back.

sometimes the fun part is just reeling it in.

YuheiCarreau

12-09-2004, 07:31 PM

This is like reading the stuff written on bathroom walls. What's next, a gloryhole?

rice cracker

12-09-2004, 09:18 PM

oh ice skating is a great idea.
lots of chances for innocent touching.
:biggrin:

NO ICE SKATING!

The skates cut into the ankles, then there's the terror of falling on your ass. Let's not forget the atrocious snack counter food. And ankle biters zooming around you skating backwards and showing you up.

Unless you're some sort of masochist like Meena and enjoy that sort of thing :wink: :tongue:

What's next, a gloryhole?

Now THAT is a first date.

kimpossible

12-09-2004, 09:31 PM

Take her to a graveyard to show how dark and mysterious you are. Make sure to wear a cape and fangs. With glasses, if you wear glasses.

Tao

12-09-2004, 10:51 PM

Napoleon Chynamite

12-09-2004, 11:53 PM

NO ICE SKATING!

The skates cut into the ankles, then there's the terror of falling on your ass. Let's not forget the atrocious snack counter food. And ankle biters zooming around you skating backwards and showing you up.

Well, the first and only time I ever went ice-skating, the terror of falling on my ass wore off pretty quick cause like I fell on my ass over 20 times in the first five minutes.

Emperor_Mike

12-10-2004, 03:04 AM

Laser tag? Girls love it when you blind them with a concentrated beam of light and then cheer like a frat boy as she screams bloody murder.

applehead

12-10-2004, 05:20 PM

NO ICE SKATING!

The skates cut into the ankles, then there's the terror of falling on your ass. Let's not forget the atrocious snack counter food. And ankle biters zooming around you skating backwards and showing you up.

Unless you're some sort of masochist like Meena and enjoy that sort of thing :wink: :tongue:

oh right. i forgot. ice skating is only fun
for people who are good at it.

i remember when i first went ice skating
and my friend's older brother told me to wear
gloves at all times because if i fall and have
my hand on the ice someone might run over it
and doctors will take too long trying to recover
my severed fingers.

Irezumi Kiss

12-10-2004, 05:30 PM

oh right. i forgot. ice skating is only fun
for people who are good at it.

i remember when i first went ice skating
and my friend's older brother told me to wear
gloves at all times because if i fall and have
my hand on the ice someone might run over it
and doctors will take too long trying to recover
my severed fingers.
A pair of gloves is strong enough to stop the speeding, kinetic force of a pair of sharp blades?

What kinda gloves is he talking about? Adamantium? :tongue:

Azn Retribution

12-23-2004, 06:07 AM

Worst I can think of:

- Parent's basement and play playstation.
- Offer to Cosplay together and go to A-Kon

Faithless

12-25-2004, 09:11 AM

HAHAAHAHHAA.... You know I actually did that with one of my date but we went to play on those dancing games in the arcade - she was very good at it too!!! That was one date that I can't forget actually, she was a real tom boy and a game fanatic. :biggrin:
Dancing on a first date -- something that shows a little excitement in this man she's dating.

Movies -- eh. Sizzler -- wah?

stunninglyAsian

12-25-2004, 03:47 PM

Doesn't matter where you take her. Sometimes it's like people get more caught up in where to go and what to do rather than the point of the date, which is to charm her and get the chance to know each other. It's also the more intimidating thing to do for both people- if you sit down with each other over coffee, that's it- it's just the two of you. Fuck it up and there's awkward silences and other unpleasantness. If you go ice skating or whatever, you don't have to really talk to her, the activity will fill in the blanks.

artsfartsyjanet

12-26-2004, 10:48 AM

i'm fine with a movie on a first date. =) i could care less if it's childish. =) as long as i have dinner before or after is fine by me.

Shogun Empress

12-28-2004, 10:32 AM

To a hospice!

jz87

12-30-2004, 10:10 PM

The local USMC recruiting office. Impress her with your patriotism by signing up to be a cannon fodder in Iraq.

ModernLogic

12-31-2004, 12:15 AM

Going to a cafe is pretty cool. It's a great place for conversation over a cup of joe.

Also, I don't think there's anything sleazy about asking a girl over to your pad.

Once I took a girl on a date to the zoo. It was surprisingly fun.

Tao

12-31-2004, 12:30 AM

what if the girls not much of a talker. can't really listen and admire, if she doesn't open her mouth

ModernLogic

12-31-2004, 12:33 AM

what if the girls not much of a talker. can't really listen and admire, if she doesn't open her mouth

This is a generalization, but usually girls are a lot more talkative than guys. I think if a girl doesn't talk much on a date, she probably isn't that interested in you.

Cipherous

12-31-2004, 05:19 AM

This is a generalization, but usually girls are a lot more talkative than guys. I think if a girl doesn't talk much on a date, she probably isn't that interested in you.
that or she could be intimidated by your good looks

moJo

12-31-2004, 10:41 AM

I always think county fairs or theme parks are fun date places, especially if it's a first date. Of course, these aren't really winter time options. Then I'd hafta say a cafe.

Tao

12-31-2004, 11:37 AM

This is a generalization, but usually girls are a lot more talkative than guys. I think if a girl doesn't talk much on a date, she probably isn't that interested in you.

thing is that's not it. like she's all touchy and feely and stuff, but we've never officially been on a date. and i don't want to make a move without going on a few dates at least....cause then that'd just be sleazy

plus i have a feeling she's afraid of opening up cause she might think that revealing her true self to me would scare me away. which is a scary thought in of itself.

stunninglyAsian

01-01-2005, 10:19 PM

thing is that's not it. like she's all touchy and feely and stuff, but we've never officially been on a date. and i don't want to make a move without going on a few dates at least....cause then that'd just be sleazy

plus i have a feeling she's afraid of opening up cause she might think that revealing her true self to me would scare me away. which is a scary thought in of itself.

Well she could be touchy/feely with her good guy friends and may see a hug or putting her arm around you as no big deal.

A lot of people are afraid of revealing their true selves. It's a scary thing to do. We live in a society where perfection is expected and any flaw is a deal breaker.

Some girls clam up in front of guys that they really like, so just because they're not talking doesn't mean they don't like you. Different personalities. Really the best way to find out is to ask her out again. If she says yes, then she may be shy. If she says no, well now you know.

kimpossible

01-01-2005, 10:57 PM

This is a generalization, but usually girls are a lot more talkative than guys. I think if a girl doesn't talk much on a date, she probably isn't that interested in you.
or you shouldn't drug her drink so heavily.

deez nuts

01-02-2005, 12:27 PM

take her to your local mosque.

ZiJing

01-02-2005, 06:57 PM

take her for dinner, and then maybe a nice quaint lil walk in the park

mr. x

01-03-2005, 02:43 PM

or pull one of those things where you have a friend try to steal her purse and you plan to "kick his ass" to impress her but get embarassaingly shown up when she busts out her ninja skills and beats you to it

Shogun Empress

01-04-2005, 03:00 PM

what if the girls not much of a talker. can't really listen and admire, if she doesn't open her mouthFind out what she likes, then talk about it.

Ex. If she's a nympho, talk about sex.

Mr.Lum

01-04-2005, 03:35 PM

I took her out a long ass time ago...but we've had a few dates after so it went well. Went to get pho and then to the movies and then coffe.

ModernLogic

01-06-2005, 03:55 AM

what if the girls not much of a talker. can't really listen and admire, if she doesn't open her mouth

This is just my opinion, but I think on a date, you don't have to feel obligated to talk constantly. Sometimes, it's good to let moments of silence come and go. If you're both comfortable with each other in complete silence, that's a good sign. I've always found a type of beauty in tension of silence.

Balthus Dire

01-08-2005, 01:28 PM

I've spent most of my life in big cities, so on the first date I'd take a honey somewhere quiet so we can talk and hear what each other has to say. I'd avoid clubs or noisy bars. I like parks.

deez nuts

01-12-2005, 08:53 AM

what if the girls not much of a talker. can't really listen and admire, if she doesn't open her mouth

a possible keeper.

Fireblade

01-12-2005, 12:43 PM