Best way to break up?

[deez nuts]

How do you typically break up with a your partner?

Do you typically have messy break ups or clean ones.

How do you ditch that ex that just doesn't understand that it's over.

[Chris]

I break it off by telling the truth and being understanding. Most of my break up has been clean expect for one of them. Which left me in debt*growl* :angry:



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[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Chris@Sep 21 2002, 06:33 PM
I break it off by telling the truth and being understanding. Most of my break up has been clean expect for one of them. Which left me in death. *growl* :angry:
Ouch, sorry to hear that Chris.

I have two ways to break up:

1)Place the blame on why the relationship bombed on me.

2)Don't call her back.

I did have to change all my phone numbers because of this one psycho chick.

Overall my break ups, have been a mixture of clean and messy.



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[AliBabaIncorporated]

i flee the country.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Sep 22 2002, 05:17 AM
i flee the country.
Lol

[thaite]

I dunno 'bout the best way, but as I found out in HS one of the not-so-best ways is to play Tainted Love onto her answering machine.

:ph34r:

[Saiko]

My friend was a jerk. He shoved her, and was like, "Get out of here, bitch. I don't want your ugly ass." Then he goes and says that my friend was so mean for breaking up with her boyfriend on the phone, and said that he was so nice when breaking up with his girl. I guess at least he broke up in person? o_O

[wylin]

just say

"Get off Deeezzzz Nutz!, Biatch!"

or

the passive aggressive way dont call her for a while then throw the stuff she gave u on her drive way w/ extreme malice.

or

"say its ends now." and walk away w/o explanation.

[deez nuts]

I also opt for the wussy way out sometimes, by starting to date someone else before having closure on the previous relationship. It could either end up being a clean break up or one hell of a messy one.

Or do what my boy did, "accidentally" forget to pick her up a few times and if she doesn't catch on drive off without her :ph34r:

I think guys in general suck at breaking up.



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[CrX3183]

i just start getting more and more distant from her, but all my break ups tend to be good ones because we still keep in touch. :blink:

[amietron]

best way is to not break up at all. hmmph. :angry:

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by amietron@Sep 27 2002, 01:56 AM
best way is to not break up at all. hmmph. :angry:
every party must end

[amietron]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Sep 26 2002, 11:02 PM
Originally posted by amietron@Sep 27 2002, 01:56 AM
best way is to not break up at all. hmmph. &nbsp;:angry:
every party must end
i beg to differ. :(

[karizma]

>> id prefer a guy to just end it swiftly as opposed to dropping little *annoying* hints...lol be a man!! chrissakes. phone call..iM...eMail...in person...just say you dont want to be with me anymore instead of letting me eat raw meat or throwing siu mai at my head when im not looking...

>> what do you do when a girl doesnt *let* you break up with them? like calls repeatedly...cries forever and crap like that? do you just kick em to the curb and block their number or wha?

[wylin]

nothing beats writting profanities w/ gasoline in their lawn then setting it on fire.

yippers!



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[mrazntre]

"you're a great person, but i'm not ready for this. you were the perfect gf/bf, but i'm just not good enough for you. i need time to learn more and be better for you. mebbe we can get back together later"


has anyone ever heard that before?

[thaite]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 28 2002, 11:17 PM
>> what do you do when a girl doesnt *let* you break up with them? like calls repeatedly...cries forever and crap like that? do you just kick em to the curb and block their number or wha?
With those people, I've learned that you have to be tough. They are manipulators and you cannot give them anything to go on. They will take even the most platonic conversation you have with them and twist it into something they want. They will lie, beg, threaten, cry, whatever just to hear something from you that could sound like you might change your mind. You have to just cut them off.

Buoywonder knows.