The Enigmatic "O"

[deez nuts]

Was gonna post this in the sex section, but kinda figure the fellas have priority on this one.

Question 1: Do you have a special technique that enables your lover to reach orgasm? (oustide of buying her a diamond ring). Such as hand and/or oral technique, a specific position? etc etc.


Question 2: Can you tell if your woman is faking it and would you be offended.


Hehe I'll answer later.

Happy AB?



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[kimpossible]

Thanks so much for getting my mind going on this topic. And here I was so efficiently shredding papers and filing.

edit: this lowly female humbly asks - nay, begs your forgiveness for intruding into man territory



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[Chris]

hehehe Im out of this one hehehe you know it more about this bro you're the one getting the girls not me! :lol:

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 21 2002, 06:33 PM


edit: this lowly female humbly asks - nay, begs your forgiveness for intruding into man territory
Haha, a post wouldn't be a post if there are no inputs from HH.

Chris yeah I know, sorry you feel excluded, but feel free to contribute. Oh wise one.

I'll post my input later. I'm trying to keep this high up, hahah bro passed out. Sorry, off topic.



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[deez nuts]

What seems to work for me, generally. Oh boy, if my parents can see me now, they'll be the proudest ;)

Hands: Use a "come here motion" inside her with your thumbs placed near the clitoris. The "come here motion" generally will stimulate the G-Spot.

Orally: Don't go straight for the clitoris. Use circular motions with your tongue around it. Then slowly work your way to the clitoris. Use an upward licking motion and maybe sucking on it.

Intercourse: Generally, if she's on the bottom, I find if you place a pillow underneath her butt, it'll enhance the feeling. If she's on top, make her arch her back a little.


Ways to tell if she has an orgasm (just my experience)

1)Vasodilation: increased diameter of the blood vessels, causing more bloodflow. I have noticed the chest area, area near the genitilia and her stomach will be red (flushed with blood) if she climaxes.

2)Her clitoris will suddenly disappear when she is approaching and having orgasm.

3)Vaginal contractions.

Like I said every woman is different. Just gotta read her body language.


Am I offended if my girl doesn't have an orgasm? Nah, it's so hit or miss from my experience.


Sheesh 4 years of med school did pay off.



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[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 21 2002, 07:43 PM
Hands: Use a "come here motion" inside her with your thumbs placed near the clitoris. The "come here motion" generally will stimulate the G-Spot.

Orally: Don't go straight for the clitoris. Use circular motions with your tongue around it. Then slowly work your way to the clitoris. Use an upward licking motion and maybe sucking on it.

Intercourse: Generally, if she's on the bottom, I find if you place a pillow underneath her butt, it'll enhance the feeling. If she's on top, make her arch her back a little.
this confirms my findings. :D

except for the oral part, because to be honest i don't do much of that.

[wylin]

when she scream some one elses name u know shez lost her self and had the BIG O

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by wylin@Sep 21 2002, 07:55 PM
when she scream some one elses name u know shez lost her self and had the BIG O
hahahahaha

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by Chris@Sep 21 2002, 03:34 PM
hehehe Im out of this one hehehe you know it more about this bro you're the one getting the girls not me! :lol:
Can't speak for everyone Chris, but I'd more than welcome your input on techniques w/guys in the women's forum. Or if you already have something online somewhere, PM me with a link if it's too intense for the forum. *wink*

[Chris]

i'm suprise most guys dont know where the girls Gspot is heheheh :) I mean they really dont!!! It not that hard to find it :)

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 21 2002, 02:36 PM
Was gonna post this in the sex section, but kinda figure the fellas have priority on this one.

Question 1: Do you have a special technique that enables your lover to reach orgasm? (oustide of buying her a diamond ring). Such as hand and/or oral technique, a specific position? etc etc.


Question 2: Can you tell if your woman is faking it and would you be offended.


Hehe I'll answer later.

Happy AB?
I would have appreciated a full-color .pdf attachment, but this will do.

In response to your two questions:

1) ...what you said. Whispering in her ear that you have money usually enhances the O, too.

2) The real question is, "Can you tell if she's faking...and do you care?":P

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by achtungbaby@Sep 21 2002, 10:08 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 21 2002, 02:36 PM
Was gonna post this in the sex section, but kinda figure the fellas have priority on this one.

Question 1: Do you have a special technique that enables your lover to reach orgasm? (oustide of buying her a diamond ring). Such as hand and/or oral technique, a specific position? etc etc.


Question 2: Can you tell if your woman is faking it and would you be offended.


Hehe I'll answer later.

Happy AB?
I would have appreciated a full-color .pdf attachment, but this will do.

In response to your two questions:

1) ...what you said. Whispering in her ear that you have money usually enhances the O, too.

2) The real question is, "Can you tell if she's faking...and do you care?":P
1) Hahahaa


2)No, not really to be honest. Just thought it would be interesting. Although, it would depend on the girl and the type of relationship I was in.

What'll prolly enhance my "o" is her whispering in my ear: "Ill order you a pizza with the works and get you six pack, after we're done."

Yeah Chris, I noticed that too, god bless those anatomy classes. Guys have a G-spot too.



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[kimpossible]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 21 2002, 04:43 PM
Orally: Don't go straight for the clitoris. Use circular motions with your tongue around it. Then slowly work your way to the clitoris. Use an upward licking motion and maybe sucking on it.

The only thing I woud add is having lips used only (instead of tongue) in the same manner is damn magical. I don't know exactly what the hell Mr. HH did last night but all I did after was throw my hands over my face and repeat "holyshitholyshitholyshit".

Yeah that whole baptizing our kids conflict is way over now. Fuck, I'll wear a chi pao, bind my feet and convert to Buddhism as long I get serviced with that Magic Lip technique. Consider me tamed.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 23 2002, 04:20 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 21 2002, 04:43 PM
Orally: Don't go straight for the clitoris. &nbsp;Use circular motions with your tongue around it. &nbsp;Then slowly work your way to the clitoris. &nbsp; Use an upward licking motion and maybe sucking on it.

The only thing I woud add is having lips used only (instead of tongue) in the same manner is damn magical. I don't know exactly what the hell Mr. HH did last night but all I did after was throw my hands over my face and repeat "holyshitholyshitholyshit".

Yeah that whole baptizing our kids conflict is way over now. Fuck, I'll wear a chi pao, bind my feet and convert to Buddhism as long I get serviced with that Magic Lip technique. Consider me tamed.
Or I also use the alphabet technique or create a vacuum on the vagina with your mouth. Hehe I've used mouth, nose, the bedroom lamp, the kitchen sink (hahah j/k), whatever gets the job done.

Also learn her body language if she arches her pelvis towards you that means she wants more pressure, away means your using too much pressure.

Lesson of the day for the guys: Great oral sex on your partner and you'll be out of the dog house! It has for me.

Thanks for giving the woman's side of it, HH.

[Danny]

Originally posted by Chris@Sep 21 2002, 10:03 PM
i'm suprise most guys dont know where the girls Gspot is heheheh :) I mean they really dont!!! It not that hard to find it :)
luckily Joc doesn't frequent these boards... much...

when Joc and I were first going out man... I couldn't find anything... it was like I needed an owners manual... then I did some reading (I was very represssed) and I found out where the right places were to lick and rub... took some time, but I got it damn't!!!