nympho-ism

[karizma]

>> alright so people say youre only young once and to live it up...sex is fun and i love it lots but what takes the fun out of it is thinking about what people will think of you later on or developing a bad name for yourself. do you think i should just forget what people say about me and do my thang [responsibly of course] or keep everything on the dL and keep it to a minimum?

[angel nympho]

Do your thing. Who gives a FUCK what people say. You're real friends are the ones who won't say anything at all. But, please, have standards.

[thaite]

So, uh... How you doin' ?

[karizma]

>> lol...you dont think a high number of ftfs might scare off a potential bf?

[kimpossible]

ftfs ??

edit: what does this mean?



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[wylin]

it would scare me away j ur prowness
intimidates me and Sarah's sexuality is too much sum times. kids these days is what i think in my head every time.

shakes head says be a ninja and say ur a virgin 17 times over like my friend did!



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[mizkisses]

i forgot what i was gonna say.

WingZeroWill: interject sum innocence here and there

okay. um. abstinence is the key! even if you go and have sex and expect your boyfriend to keep it on the down low, boys will be boys and he just might spill to a close guy friend who just might spill to another close guy friend who just might spill to his girlfriend, who just might spill to a close girl friend and eventually, it'll come back to you and slap you in the face.

i don't know why people my age are so eager to have sex.

[wylin]

thats our voice of reason, thank you miss kisses

i dont know why either ppl are so sexual at ur age. maybe its the TV they watched as a kid i watched robotech and transformers and GI joe and other manly things, and girls carebares and my lil pony, but now they watch MTV, 90210 and Dawsons creek where everyone plugs each other and is happy bout that life. Teenagers have been oversexualized and children like karizma and angel have been over influenced by that TV/ media sexuality.!

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 20 2002, 08:31 PM
ftfs ??

edit: what does this mean?
fuck time friend

or friend to fuck

aka a friend with fringe benefits and stock options, with no 401k plan (ie no plans to grow old together).



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[kimpossible]

oh. thx.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 20 2002, 08:23 PM
>> lol...you dont think a high number of ftfs might scare off a potential bf?
Nah doesn't scare me.

As to topic, it's your call. But just be safe about it, ya heard?

edit hehe HH you seem shocked and/or confused. Or are you just sleepy now?



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[karizma]

>> abstinence is not a realistic possibility for me because:

a] i just love it way too much
b] i see no reason why i should be holding out other than the aformentioned.

>> as for WHY people are so sexual at our age i cant really answer this. but i can say that its become more accepted. have you noticed no one is really preaching abstinence anymore but rather theyve switched to promoting the use of condoms and birth control pills and planned parenthoods have popped up everywhere. kids today arent very wholesome =/...most of us grow up watching tv and being swayed by the ideas of media which use sex appeal as a marketing tool....but we've heard this already.

>> why am i so sexual? *shrugs* i dont think im any more sexual than the next person but im just a lot more open about it. i dont care to keep everything a secret and act like sex is something that should be done quietly and shamefully...its natural and its...nice? the reason i encounter trouble with this is because others arent as open to it as i am or angel is....

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 20 2002, 05:42 PM
Originally posted by karizma@Sep 20 2002, 08:23 PM
>> lol...you dont think a high number of ftfs might scare off a potential bf?
Nah doesn't scare me.

As to topic, it's your call. But just be safe about it, ya heard?

edit hehe HH you seem shocked and/or confused. Or are you just sleepy now?
Not shocked. Just never heard the term. "Oh" = Oh that makes sense. I've heard of friends with benefits but I figured that would have been like fwb or something.

I blew all my creative thoughts on the mraztre Refridgerator Magnet Poetry and some gov't bullshit about building requirements I'm working on. So no input as of the moment.

But that's off topic.

[SunWuKong]

i used to say "the hell with it" but now that i'm older i worry about getting a girl pregnant. so i think teenagers should abstain, because unless you're ready to handle the responsibility of raising a child, you're not ready to have sex.

[kasia]

i would say..do your thang but don't publicize it. it'd be nice to say--fuck it, if he's going to care, he's not worth it. but...actually, it's a tough question. give it some thought before you go all out b/c, as we grow older, ppl tend to grow more conservative (so it seems). a lot of the guys i've dated have been around...and *say* that they wouldn't judge a girl who has been around---but then you take a look at the girls they choose to actually date long-term--you get my gist. to be practical, i'd say to have fun--but protect yourself and your rep.

and don't let guys take advantage of you!

so long as you care for yourself (both physically and emotionally) and you feel comfortable, do what you want.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 21 2002, 01:23 AM
>> lol...you dont think a high number of ftfs might scare off a potential bf?
Well, personally, I don't fuck more than one person at a time. Too risky. But I don't tell my potential boyfriend's if I have an FTF. If I meet a potential boyfriend, I cut it off with the FTF. And I really have only had like 1 or 2 fuck buddies in my life. I've never run into the problem before.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by wylin@Sep 21 2002, 01:32 AM
it would scare me away j ur prowness
intimidates me and Sarah's sexuality is too much sum times. kids these days is what i think in my head every time.

shakes head says be a ninja and say ur a virgin 17 times over like my friend did!
Just cuz you're wimpy! Hahaha, I never even say anything to you about it!!! You always bring it up!

"So... no truck boy tonight?!?"

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by wylin@Sep 21 2002, 01:36 AM
thats our voice of reason, thank you miss kisses

i dont know why either ppl are so sexual at ur age. maybe its the TV they watched as a kid i watched robotech and transformers and GI joe and other manly things, and girls carebares and my lil pony, but now they watch MTV, 90210 and Dawsons creek where everyone plugs each other and is happy bout that life. Teenagers have been oversexualized and children like karizma and angel have been over influenced by that TV/ media sexuality.!
Bastard! The media doesn't influence me sexually! IIIII influence me sexually! As a kid, I watched the same shit you did! I think it's just because nowdays, it's not all *TABOO* to be doin' it. Kids back in the day wanted it too, they just didn't think it was okay. Now with all this "safe-sex" campaigning, it's okay to do it. Just as long as you do it responsibly.

[wylin]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 21 2002, 11:22 AM
Originally posted by wylin@Sep 21 2002, 01:32 AM
it would scare me away j ur prowness
intimidates me and Sarah's sexuality is too much sum times. kids these days is what i think in my head every time.

shakes head says be a ninja and say ur a virgin 17 times over like my friend did!
Just cuz you're wimpy! Hahaha, I never even say anything to you about it!!! You always bring it up!

"So... no truck boy tonight?!?"
i bring it up to see hows ur life goin ! since truck boy is sarah's life! =P

[wylin]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 21 2002, 11:24 AM
Originally posted by wylin@Sep 21 2002, 01:36 AM
thats our voice of reason, thank you miss kisses

i dont know why either ppl are so sexual at ur age. maybe its the TV they watched as a kid i watched robotech and transformers and GI joe and other manly things, and girls carebares and my lil pony, but now they watch MTV, 90210 and Dawsons creek where everyone plugs each other and is happy bout that life. Teenagers have been oversexualized and children like karizma and angel have been over influenced by that TV/ media sexuality.!
Bastard! The media doesn't influence me sexually! IIIII influence me sexually! As a kid, I watched the same shit you did! I think it's just because nowdays, it's not all *TABOO* to be doin' it. Kids back in the day wanted it too, they just didn't think it was okay. Now with all this "safe-sex" campaigning, it's okay to do it. Just as long as you do it responsibly.
yes back when i was in HS it was oh my gosh their doing it, how naughty and even asian gang members went to church on friday nights. and yes i grew up in a more holy and happy time. its called the mid 90's and us boys were into working on cars, trying to be "gangsters/mobsters", and playing streetfighter and not dropping E and raving and having sex w/ whoever.

ah the good old days!

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by wylin@Sep 21 2002, 08:01 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 21 2002, 11:24 AM
Originally posted by wylin@Sep 21 2002, 01:36 AM
thats our voice of reason, thank you miss kisses

i dont know why either ppl are so sexual at ur age. maybe its the TV they watched as a kid i watched robotech and transformers and GI joe and other manly things, and girls carebares and my lil pony, but now they watch MTV, 90210 and Dawsons creek where everyone plugs each other and is happy bout that life. Teenagers have been oversexualized and children like karizma and angel have been over influenced by that TV/ media sexuality.!
Bastard! The media doesn't influence me sexually! IIIII influence me sexually! As a kid, I watched the same shit you did! I think it's just because nowdays, it's not all *TABOO* to be doin' it. Kids back in the day wanted it too, they just didn't think it was okay. Now with all this "safe-sex" campaigning, it's okay to do it. Just as long as you do it responsibly.
yes back when i was in HS it was oh my gosh their doing it, how naughty and even asian gang members went to church on friday nights. and yes i grew up in a more holy and happy time. its called the mid 90's and us boys were into working on cars, trying to be "gangsters/mobsters", and playing streetfighter and not dropping E and raving and having sex w/ whoever.

ah the good old days!
maybe you and your friends were just more conservative than others. as i recall, kids were having sex even in junior high. and this was late 80s early 90s. and dropping E, ok, i didn't do that when i was in highschool, but i know kids my age who did.

[deez nuts]

Yes but the naughty gang members I knew were doing it on mon-thurs.

Yeah a lot of my friends and I were already having sex by the middle and end of 7th grade. or the start of 8th grade. And doing a lot of the other bad stuff too.

[Saiko]

As long as you're not banging 50 guys at a time, then just don't give a shit about what people think.

[wylin]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 21 2002, 05:46 PM
Yes but the naughty gang members I knew were doing it on mon-thurs.

Yeah a lot of my friends and I were already having sex by the middle and end of 7th grade. or the start of 8th grade. And doing a lot of the other bad stuff too.
yes the taiwanese youth gang culture circa 1994-1995 was weak and prosiac it revolved around random gangsta wannabe who i saw in church and who like were dorks deep down.

=P

[karizma]

>> i like saiko and kasia's posts =) i think ill listen to them haha...

>> i knew people in elementary school who had sex as taboo as it was...it was actually only the underprivileged kids or "at risk" kids that were doing it *shrug*. but in middle school it became a little more accepted....and when it came to high school it went from accepted to expected. scary ass kids.

[Endangered_Asian_Male]

Originally posted by Saiko@Sep 22 2002, 05:19 AM
As long as you're not banging 50 guys at a time, then just don't give a shit about what people think.
Looks like someone's talking from experience.LOL, Annabelle Chong you can play with my dingdong...LOL

[Endangered_Asian_Male]

Hey if you two girls can't get enough, just drop by my crib and we can "beat it" while you think to yourselfs "don't stop till u geet enuf!" or until you "scream" that I'm "invincible" about "the way you make me feel" and afterwards we'll smoke and "remember the time!" Just don't be a playa hata. Peace out yall!

[kasia]

Originally posted by Endangered_Asian_Male@Sep 22 2002, 01:05 PM
Hey if you two girls can't get enough, just drop by my crib and we can "beat it" while you think to yourselfs "don't stop till u geet enuf!" or until you "scream" that I'm "invincible" about "the way you make me feel" and afterwards we'll smoke and "remember the time!" Just don't be a playa hata. Peace out yall!
i'm glad your species is endangered. :)

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by Endangered_Asian_Male@Sep 22 2002, 05:05 AM
Hey if you two girls can't get enough, just drop by my crib and we can "beat it" while you think to yourselfs "don't stop till u geet enuf!" or until you "scream" that I'm "invincible" about "the way you make me feel" and afterwards we'll smoke and "remember the time!" Just don't be a playa hata. Peace out yall!
boycott, you've been already been banned, so instead of making yourself look pathetic by creating new personas, getdafuckout.

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by achtungbaby@Sep 22 2002, 06:18 PM
Originally posted by Endangered_Asian_Male@Sep 22 2002, 05:05 AM
Hey if you two girls can't get enough, just drop by my crib and we can "beat it" while you think to yourselfs "don't stop till u geet enuf!" or until you "scream" that I'm "invincible" about "the way you make me feel" and afterwards we'll smoke and "remember the time!" &nbsp;Just don't be a playa hata. Peace out yall!
boycott, you've been already been banned, so instead of making yourself look pathetic by creating new personas, getdafuckout.
Wow. Lame has now been redefined.

[Saiko]

So what exactly is too young to be not oh-god-that's-nasty-and-all-too-taboo-so-you-must-keep-it-to-yourself?

[karizma]

>> 94

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 22 2002, 10:42 PM
>> 94
i don't get it

[karizma]

>> i was answering saiko's q lol...

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 23 2002, 01:23 AM
>> i was answering saiko's q lol...
oh you were being sarcastic...? was that an age number or the year of birth?

[karizma]

>> whichever sounds more outrageous...you can either talk to a 94 year old about sex...or an 8 year old lol...

[Saiko]

I'll put that on my to do list.

[Chris]

Originally posted by Endangered_Asian_Male@Sep 22 2002, 05:05 AM
Hey if you two girls can't get enough, just drop by my crib and we can "beat it" while you think to yourselfs "don't stop till u geet enuf!" or until you "scream" that I'm "invincible" about "the way you make me feel" and afterwards we'll smoke and "remember the time!" Just don't be a playa hata. Peace out yall!
Boy , I was gone a few days and this happens. How bitter can one person get. This is the ultimate lame i seen to date. :D

[Arex]

Originally posted by Chris@Sep 27 2002, 01:27 AM
Boy , I was gone a few days and this happens. How bitter can one person get. This is the ultimate lame i seen to date. :D
Yeah, so where've you been, Vega? We've missed you!

Alex

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 23 2002, 01:01 PM
>> whichever sounds more outrageous...you can either talk to a 94 year old about sex...or an 8 year old lol...
Well you figure that in 94 years, a person would know something.

[wylin]

she can take her dentures off and give head like our Dr mentioned.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by wylin@Sep 30 2002, 03:32 PM
she can take her dentures off and give head like our Dr mentioned.
Hell no! Not from a 94 year old. I haven't crossed over to geriatric love fetish, yet!

[karizma]

>> YET...lol :D

>> im beginning to forget what this whole thread was about 0_o...anyways...i decided abstinence was the way to go and masturbation is the key to success so no sex for 3 months...or else i owe my friend 50 bucks...heh...heh <_<

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 30 2002, 05:17 PM
>> YET...lol :D

>> im beginning to forget what this whole thread was about 0_o...anyways...i decided abstinence was the way to go and masturbation is the key to success so no sex for 3 months...or else i owe my friend 50 bucks...heh...heh <_<
Two thumbs up, you bet against yourself. You are officially now my YW betting buddy!

[SunWuKong]

on the fly, a friend bet her friends that she wouldn't smoke or drink for an entire year. and she actually did it. :blink:

[Saiko]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 30 2002, 05:17 PM
>> YET...lol :D

>> im beginning to forget what this whole thread was about 0_o...anyways...i decided abstinence was the way to go and masturbation is the key to success so no sex for 3 months...or else i owe my friend 50 bucks...heh...heh <_<
As long as you don't deteriorate and turn into a nun, good luck.