The "M" word.

[artsfartsyjanet]

I'm not going to ask you if you masturbate. So not to worry, and I am not curious if you do or not. Of course, you are free to express your views on this topic, but what have you heard from people who are against it? What about people who think of it as a normal growing experience? I understand it's a highly sensitive topic, but I dare to ask. :lol:

[wylin]

i call it self love hence my old topic

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by artsfartsyjanet@Sep 20 2002, 03:53 PM
I understand it's a highly sensitive topic
hehehe... she said 'sensitive topic'

My take on it is that no one ever admits it but everyone knows that everyone does it. So I've never really heard of for or against... except didn't we have a Surgeon General who thought it should be taught in school?

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 20 2002, 10:15 PM
Originally posted by artsfartsyjanet@Sep 20 2002, 03:53 PM
I understand it's a highly sensitive topic
hehehe... she said 'sensitive topic'

My take on it is that no one ever admits it but everyone knows that everyone does it. So I've never really heard of for or against... except didn't we have a Surgeon General who thought it should be taught in school?
Yeah we did and we had another surgeon general say it's bad for you too.

I do it, I think I do it more when I'm in a relationship, to ease my stress in the relationship.

A man needs his private happy time.



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[karizma]

>> i have no shame *rub rub rub*

[mrazntre]

haha.. "happy time"

I thought the "M" was gonna stand for marriage. bAH!!

Okay, masturbation. What's there to talk about?
*whack whack whack, aHHHhhhh* :lol: no cuddling involved !!
dUm@.

[kimpossible]

Okay since wylin already covered self-love in general and to keep on topic with janet's thread:

Assuming there is a right and wrong to masturbation, is it more 'wrong' to use devices/aids/toys? Do you think it's deviant, normal, or not a big deal? Should it always be 'natural' tools only?

[Chris]

Like my lil sis this boy got no shame *stroke stroke stroke* puhahaha

[Saiko]

Shame is a waste of good fun. Throw away your shame.

[artsfartsyjanet]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 20 2002, 10:15 PM
Originally posted by artsfartsyjanet@Sep 20 2002, 03:53 PM
I understand it's a highly sensitive topic
hehehe... she said 'sensitive topic'

My take on it is that no one ever admits it but everyone knows that everyone does it. So I've never really heard of for or against... except didn't we have a Surgeon General who thought it should be taught in school?
I knew that was going to come back to me.... hahaha... I know I'm still in the pun zone. :lol:

[angel nympho]

Masturbation: The only safe sex. =)

Who gives a shit, people can do it if they want. I won't think they're weird. And besides, it's probably a good way to figure out what you like and what works for you. Right?

[Endangered_Asian_Male]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 22 2002, 09:17 AM
Masturbation: The only safe sex. =)

Who gives a shit, people can do it if they want. I won't think they're weird. And besides, it's probably a good way to figure out what you like and what works for you. Right?
Rite On!I hears ya sista, mo power to ya. Just git on up like a sex machinne....wap..wap..wap..wap..wap..I dey godfatha of ho's, livin in Amerika n I feels good.

[kimpossible]

i'm suprise most guys dont know where the girls Gspot is heheheh &nbsp;I mean they really dont!!! It not that hard to find it &nbsp;

This was stolen from Chris's post in the mens' forum. What the hell exactly is considered the G-Spot? It's not like I can't hit the right places (yes, plural), but where is this exactly? I guess I just don't think in terms of 'G-Spot'. Is it the place on the outside or on the inside?

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 23 2002, 12:53 AM
i'm suprise most guys dont know where the girls Gspot is heheheh I mean they really dont!!! It not that hard to find it

This was stolen from Chris's post in the mens' forum. What the hell exactly is considered the G-Spot? It's not like I can't hit the right places (yes, plural), but where is this exactly? I guess I just don't think in terms of 'G-Spot'. Is it the place on the outside or on the inside?
i always assumed that it was at the "ceiling" of the pussy (while she's laying down). and that's why the "come hither" motion of the fingers is good when fingering a girl.

[mrazntre]

HH: shiet. if you can't tell, how the hell can your man tell ?

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Sep 22 2002, 10:35 PM
HH: shiet. if you can't tell, how the hell can your man tell ?
Baby, it's how I can tell. As in self-serve. Besides, I said I know where to hit. I just don't know which area is technically termed the G-Spot.





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[mrazntre]

HH: so are you sure you're just not fooling yourself at the same time you're fooling him? fAkeRRr . . .!

SWK has it right, i think the G spot is named so after a German scientist's name for finding it?

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Sep 23 2002, 01:59 AM
SWK has it right, i think the G spot is named so after a German scientist's name for finding it?
er... they're basically just giving a name to a sensitive area in the vagina as far as i'm concerned... it wasn't exactly difficult to find it... all part of my teenage experimentation with sex... i didn't even know that was the g-spot (or is it really?) until i read about it some years later.

[deez nuts]

It's inside like SWK said, on the ceiling. Yes gotta know where and how to find the clitoris and the g-spot, then basically you can almost get away with anything.


The guy's G-spot is between the scrot and near the anus, allegedly. It's still open for debate whether it exists.



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[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 23 2002, 08:12 AM
The guy's G-spot is between the scrot and near the anus, allegedly. It's still open for debate whether it exists.
yeah i've read about that too. but i don't really get anything out of it. a blowjob is still 20 or 30 times better.

[Saiko]

The g-spot is 2-3 inches into the vagina, on the wall nearest to the belly. Now go find it.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 23 2002, 01:12 PM

The guy's G-spot is between the scrot and near the anus, allegedly. It's still open for debate whether it exists.
Nahh.. that's his *taint*

G-spot aka PROSTATE GLAND... is UP the ass.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 23 2002, 09:50 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 23 2002, 01:12 PM

The guy's G-spot is between the scrot and near the anus, allegedly. &nbsp;It's still open for debate whether it exists.
Nahh.. that's his *taint*

G-spot aka PROSTATE GLAND... is UP the ass.
Wow you learn something everyday :blink:

[kimpossible]

Huh. I knew that. Knew one that the doc didn't.

*pats self on back*

warning: slightly inebriated while posting now

edit: whoah. should stop now. editing random posts.



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[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 25 2002, 11:38 PM
Huh. I knew that. Knew one that the doc didn't.

*pats self on back*

warning: slightly inebriated while posting now

edit: whoah. should stop now. editing random posts.
hahaha what's up with you and mk drinking and posting.



**pats HH on the back** just let the alcohol ride and ride that buzz, baby ride the buzz!



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[amietron]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 23 2002, 06:50 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 23 2002, 01:12 PM

The guy's G-spot is between the scrot and near the anus, allegedly. &nbsp;It's still open for debate whether it exists.
Nahh.. that's his *taint*

G-spot aka PROSTATE GLAND... is UP the ass.
yeah. i'm sure the guy g-spot is up the ass. i thinks chicks have it too, don't they? that's why they say anal can be pleasurable? shoot. i dunno, i read it somewhere. haha. *cough*

maybe you can experiment and find out for us. then we can all be sure..

[amietron]

is it just me, or are white chicks generally more uninhibited when talking about sex. i mean i've talked to jess and alicia about masturbation, and their dildos/vibrators on our way to school, outside of michael's craft store, but never with any of my other friends.

well, actually.. summer of 2001, learned lots of stuff about some of my friends during our chick road trip to yosemite. none of them said they did, cus they always had someone to have sex with instead. i dunno. my just a little bit promiscuous friends.

[Arex]

Originally posted by amietron@Sep 26 2002, 11:15 PM
well, actually.. summer of 2001, learned lots of stuff about some of my friends during our chick road trip to yosemite. none of them said they did, cus they always had someone to have sex with instead. i dunno. my just a little bit &nbsp;promiscuous friends.
If I had a girl that wanted to have sex as much as I do, I wouldn't need to masturbate either... Alas, I've never been with a girl as horny as myself and, right now, I have no girl... Como se dice en espanol, "frustrated?"

RX>=(

[AliBabaIncorporated]

Originally posted by amietron@Sep 27 2002, 06:11 AM

yeah. i'm sure the guy g-spot is up the ass. i thinks chicks have it too, don't they? that's why they say anal can be pleasurable? shoot. i dunno, i read it somewhere. haha. *cough*

maybe you can experiment and find out for us. then we can all be sure..
uh ... girls haven't got the prostate gland or anything in that region which is highly ennervated, if i recall correctly. or if she has, then possibly she is not originally a girl. be wary. if your girl has too much fun in anal sex, maybe she isn't telling you something about her past. any comments from our medical staff?

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by AliBabaIncorporated@Sep 27 2002, 01:09 PM
Originally posted by amietron@Sep 27 2002, 06:11 AM

yeah. i'm sure the guy g-spot is up the ass. i thinks chicks have it too, don't they? that's why they say anal can be pleasurable? shoot. i dunno, i read it somewhere. haha. *cough*

maybe you can experiment and find out for us. then we can all be sure..
uh ... girls haven't got the prostate gland or anything in that region which is highly ennervated, if i recall correctly. or if she has, then possibly she is not originally a girl. be wary. if your girl has too much fun in anal sex, maybe she isn't telling you something about her past. any comments from our medical staff?
The G-spot in a woman is the vestigial prostate gland of a man. Thanks angel and HH for clarifying this for me .

I also asked an urologist for my own curiousoty sake and there was basically nothing else to do when your on call and just sitting around. He said the G-spot in a woman is analogous to the prostate in a man. Nerve sensitivity varies for both male and female.

He also said, in some, not all, women when the G-spot is stimulated correctly allows them to or ejaculate aka "squirt."

Heh, who said you don't learn anything from YW or YW doesn't incite learning.



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[kimpossible]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 27 2002, 10:51 AM
He also said, in some, not all, women when the G-spot is stimulated correctly allows them to or ejaculate aka "squirt."
eh? what squirts from where?

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 27 2002, 02:30 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 27 2002, 10:51 AM
He also said, in some, not all, women when the G-spot is stimulated correctly allows them to or ejaculate aka "squirt."
eh? what squirts from where?
Ok so late last night during a little downtime, I had this conversation about the G-spot with an Ob/Gyn and an Urologists. Which led to the topic of female ejaculation, the conversation lasted for about an hour. It was more interesting than my routine appendectomy, I did earlier.

So, ok the female G-spot sits below the urethra sponge. Female ejaculate is release from what is called as the Skene's Glands, which surrounds the urethra, about the size of a pea.

When the woman approaches orgasm her body tightens and prevents anything from for a lack of better term "leaking out." When she hits the plateau of her orgasm her body and muscle relaxes, everything that she was holding is free to come out of the urethra.

Female ejaculate is mostly comprised of ejaculate (no sperm, obviously) lubrication and a small amount of urine. The ejaculate itself, is clear. milky, relatively odorless with a watery consistency.

The amount of ejaculate varies from women to women. And not all women can ejaculate.

After talking to the urologist a bit longer, after the Ob/Gyn got called in because his patient was going into labor. he told me, his wife ejaculated when they were dating in med school. The first time it happened it freaked him out. But his wife has said, it is the most intense orgasmic feeling in the world. Hahah I then asked him if he wore goggles, during oral sex.

I think, I'm in the wrong specialty <_<



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[angel nympho]

^-- Werd. You've never spluged before? LOL. My boy toy says that he can tell when I'm having a good time cuz I get extra juicy and he can tell when I'm done cuz I'll spluge a big one and then slowly get less and less juicy. Haha, he's gotten so good at it lately that most of the goop on my bedsheets the next morning is from me. =)

[deez nuts]

I've seen the squirt on pornos. But, some of the girls I've dated got extra juicy. But it's not like zing, ping, sorry man to get some in your eye, like that urologists told me his wife literally squirts.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 27 2002, 09:35 PM
I've seen the squirt on pornos. But, some of the girls I've dated got extra juicy. But it's not like zing, ping, sorry man to get some in your eye, like that urologists told me his wife literally squirts.
Ew, that's nasty. I don't get that bad. I think it kind of more... drools out of me.

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 27 2002, 01:24 PM
Female ejaculate is mostly comprised of ejaculate (no sperm, obviously) lubrication and a small amount of urine. The ejaculate itself, is clear. milky, relatively odorless with a watery consistency.

The amount of ejaculate varies from women to women. And not all women can ejaculate.

Hopefully, I'm part of the group who doesn't.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 27 2002, 09:55 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 27 2002, 01:24 PM
Female ejaculate is mostly comprised of ejaculate (no sperm, obviously) lubrication and a small amount of urine. &nbsp;The ejaculate itself, is clear. milky, relatively odorless with a watery consistency.

The amount of ejaculate varies from women to women. &nbsp;And not all women can ejaculate.

Hopefully, I'm part of the group who doesn't.
Aww... But judging from this:

But his wife has said, it is the most intense orgasmic feeling in the world.

You'd be missing out. :D I think it only happens when the sex is REALLY REALLY GOOD.

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 27 2002, 01:57 PM
I think it only happens when the sex is REALLY REALLY GOOD.
You mean...it doesn't happen all of the time?!?

:angry:

[kimpossible]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 27 2002, 01:57 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 27 2002, 09:55 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 27 2002, 01:24 PM
Female ejaculate is mostly comprised of ejaculate (no sperm, obviously) lubrication and a small amount of urine. The ejaculate itself, is clear. milky, relatively odorless with a watery consistency.

The amount of ejaculate varies from women to women. And not all women can ejaculate.

Hopefully, I'm part of the group who doesn't.
Aww... But judging from this:

But his wife has said, it is the most intense orgasmic feeling in the world.

You'd be missing out. :D I think it only happens when the sex is REALLY REALLY GOOD.
I guess it would be okay solo. Not that I engage in such a thing.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 27 2002, 10:14 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 27 2002, 01:57 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 27 2002, 09:55 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 27 2002, 01:24 PM
Female ejaculate is mostly comprised of ejaculate (no sperm, obviously) lubrication and a small amount of urine. The ejaculate itself, is clear. milky, relatively odorless with a watery consistency.

The amount of ejaculate varies from women to women. And not all women can ejaculate.

Hopefully, I'm part of the group who doesn't.
Aww... But judging from this:

But his wife has said, it is the most intense orgasmic feeling in the world.

You'd be missing out. :D I think it only happens when the sex is REALLY REALLY GOOD.
I guess it would be okay solo. Not that I engage in such a thing.
Hahahaha, i dont know about you... but as good as I am, solo sex is NEVER as good as the real deal... lol =)

[amietron]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 27 2002, 05:04 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 27 2002, 10:14 PM
Originally posted by angel nympho@Sep 27 2002, 01:57 PM
Originally posted by Hello_Hapa@Sep 27 2002, 09:55 PM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 27 2002, 01:24 PM
Female ejaculate is mostly comprised of ejaculate (no sperm, obviously) lubrication and a small amount of urine. The ejaculate itself, is clear. milky, relatively odorless with a watery consistency.

The amount of ejaculate varies from women to women. And not all women can ejaculate.

Hopefully, I'm part of the group who doesn't.
Aww... But judging from this:

But his wife has said, it is the most intense orgasmic feeling in the world.

You'd be missing out. :D I think it only happens when the sex is REALLY REALLY GOOD.
I guess it would be okay solo. Not that I engage in such a thing.
Hahahaha, i dont know about you... but as good as I am, solo sex is NEVER as good as the real deal... lol =)
cus one is the loneliest number..

[Geegeh7]

some of the girls I've dated got extra juicy. But it's not like zing, ping, sorry man to get some in your eye,

Yes, girls differ in terms of ejaculation.

But usually, if you stimulate a girl's G-spot, she should ejaculate. Man, I was surprised that girl's could ejaculate during an orgasm.

I guess if the clitoris is stimulated, there is only contraction during an orgasm.

But if the G-spot is stimulated, the liquidy fluid will squirt out of the girl's urethra like a super soaker water gun. :P

[ChinaLama]

so what's your favorite masturbation euphemism? I just got a new one today, from watching the banned Family Guy ep, "Wish Upon a Weinstein." the phrase is: "Finding my keys."

[ellsworth81]

American Pie's stroking the salami
a lil obvious but funny anyway

[yangbahn50]

Masturbating too much is bad for your health. I don't fall for the liberal bleeding-heart crap that doctors teach these days.

Masturbating too much can decrease your brain chemistry which makes you innattentive.

It also stunts growth, especially if you start masturbating at a young age. Why? Because each time you masturbate, you lose hormones essential to the development of your body.

And lastly, if you want a big wang, then you better stop 'choking the bishop.' Essential hormones to penis growth such as testosterone, is needed to your penis to develop.

On the other hand, research has shown that masturbation is good for stress relief. But remember, keep the rate between 1-3 times a week.

[applehead]

*yawn*

[nonamerasian]

Oh, yeah, and it also makes your palms hairy.

[yangbahn50]

hahaha..."it makes your palms hairy"...did I say masturbation makes your palm hairy?

No,....maybe your palm is hairy...but mast doesn't cause that.

So go ahead and jerk off all you want. I couldn't care less if your growth is stunted and your attention span decreases over time. You are probably also breaking out with lots of acne.

Good luck living a long life!

[applehead]

Oh, yeah, and it also makes your palms hairy.


totally.
you should see my palms.

[yangbahn50]

Oh my goodness.....okay whatevers.

I didn't say mast causes hairy palms....but you can believe in that.

Have fun!! ;)

[Fireblade]

So you mean that anyone who's short masturbates way too much?

Frick, I guess that applies to me too.

[Irezumi Kiss]

So you mean that anyone who's short masturbates way too much?

er..."short" in WHICH way?

:ohmy:

[yangbahn50]

So you mean that anyone who's short masturbates way too much?

Frick, I guess that applies to me too.

No no no no no no!!!!

I said that the more you masturbate, the more likely your growth will be stunted.

No all short people masturbate....and that's a bad assumption.

However, I do know this kid in my class in middle school who was short, underweight and bragged about his masturbation hobby. He was gay and also a trouble maker. Anyhow....I do believe his short stature was due to masturbating too much in front of guys.

[nonamerasian]

No no no no no no!!!!

I said that the more you masturbate, the more likely your growth will be stunted.

No all short people masturbate....and that's a bad assumption.

However, I do know this kid in my class in middle school who was short, underweight and bragged about his masturbation hobby. He was gay and also a trouble maker. Anyhow....I do believe his short stature was due to masturbating too much in front of guys.

Yep, because if he had jacked off in front of women instead, he'd be at least a good foot taller.

[applehead]

wait. if he jacked off in front of men AND women.
would that negate each other?

[Irezumi Kiss]

wait. if he jacked off in front of men AND women.
would that negate each other?

What if Yao Ming jacked off in front of Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman? Would that cause a cataclysmic galactic explosion, causing a temporal rift in the time-space continuum?

[applehead]

that's a very good question.

[kboy75]

What if Yao Ming jacked off in front of Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman? Would that cause a cataclysmic galactic explosion, causing a temporal rift in the time-space continuum?


things that make you go "Hmm..."

[kboy75]

Ok so late last night during a little downtime, I had this conversation about the G-spot with an Ob/Gyn and an Urologists. Which led to the topic of female ejaculation, the conversation lasted for about an hour. It was more interesting than my routine appendectomy, I did earlier.

So, ok the female G-spot sits below the urethra sponge. Female ejaculate is release from what is called as the Skene's Glands, which surrounds the urethra, about the size of a pea.

When the woman approaches orgasm her body tightens and prevents anything from for a lack of better term "leaking out." When she hits the plateau of her orgasm her body and muscle relaxes, everything that she was holding is free to come out of the urethra.

Female ejaculate is mostly comprised of ejaculate (no sperm, obviously) lubrication and a small amount of urine. The ejaculate itself, is clear. milky, relatively odorless with a watery consistency.

The amount of ejaculate varies from women to women. And not all women can ejaculate.

After talking to the urologist a bit longer, after the Ob/Gyn got called in because his patient was going into labor. he told me, his wife ejaculated when they were dating in med school. The first time it happened it freaked him out. But his wife has said, it is the most intense orgasmic feeling in the world. Hahah I then asked him if he wore goggles, during oral sex.

I think, I'm in the wrong specialty <_<



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i'm learning so much on YW... :happy:

[ChinaLama]

man i'm sorry i dug up this thread now. all i wanted to do was add to my vocabulary. :(

[Irezumi Kiss]

man i'm sorry i dug up this thread now. all i wanted to do was add to my vocabulary. :(

There's nothing wrong with a little "hands-on" research, Lama.

[ChinaLama]

There's nothing wrong with a little "hands-on" research, Lama.

yeah but instead *someone* had to turn it into a masturbation is bad, m'kay thread.

[Fireblade]

er..."short" in WHICH way?

:ohmy:

Short, as in I come up short in Intelligence. Woo. :boldred:

[mr. x]

What if Yao Ming jacked off in front of Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman? Would that cause a cataclysmic galactic explosion, causing a temporal rift in the time-space continuum?

oh man houston would be covered....

[ChinaLama]

oh man houston would be covered....

yeah we should involve Houston in it, too. And I don't mean the city. Unless it was Houston does Houston. :D "Debbie's Done with Dallas, going to do Houston and Austin."