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rice cracker
08-07-2004, 11:08 AM
The bias against those who have a foreign parent is eroding as the nation's Amerasians find fame and success.

SEOUL — For years, Lee Yu Jin kept her secret.

Whenever anybody asked — and they did all the time as her celebrity as an actress and model spread — she simply denied the rumors. No, she was not a foreigner. She was Korean.

Finally, last year, Lee called a news conference and tearfully acknowledged that her father was an American GI. As her fans had long suspected from her 5-foot-9 stature, she was of mixed race.

"People ask why didn't I come out earlier and why this is such a big deal," the 27-year-old said. "It wouldn't be anywhere else, but Korea is still a closed society where people like to talk about the purity of the race."

With her acknowledgment, Lee raised the curtain on what has become a phenomenon in the South Korean entertainment industry. Once considered a national embarrassment, a number of biracial entertainers have become famous in the last few years. Many of them, like Lee, have American fathers.

Sonya, a popular singer who goes by only her first name, has landed starring roles in the South Korean stage versions of the musicals "Fame" and "Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde." Jennifer Young Wisner, a bilingual 20-year-old who grew up in North Carolina, has a television show on the English-language Arirang channel and will release an album this year. Another biracial South Korean, Kim Dong Kwang, is a well-known basketball coach.

In a country that prides itself on the homogeneity of its population, these success stories have helped to erode long-standing prejudices.

Changing attitudes toward race reflect the larger changes in the society. Korea was once nicknamed the "Hermit Kingdom" for its extreme isolation from the outside world, and few Westerners visited before the end of World War II. The first mixed-race children here were widely assumed to be the illegitimate offspring of GIs and were usually put up for adoption.

"My impression is that there is more discrimination against Amerasians in South Korea than anywhere else in Asia and that it has not improved significantly," said Janet Mintzer, president of Pearl S. Buck International. The Pennsylvania-based foundation, which is credited with coining the term "Amerasian," works with the biracial children in not only South Korea, but also the Philippines and Vietnam, among other Asian countries in which the U.S. military has had a presence.

To some extent, the discrimination is institutionalized. Biracial men cannot join the army, which makes them ineligible for many jobs and benefits.

South Korea uses a traditional Confucian-inspired family registry that requires children to be listed under their fathers' names and their fathers to be Korean — so that children with foreign fathers are in effect nonpersons under the law. Lee, for example, was registered under her grandfather's name, making her, under the law, her mother's sister.

Her parents divorced when she was 1. All she remembers of her father is that he was Latino and lived in New York.

Lee grew up in Seoul. As a child, she was beautiful and athletic. She received excellent grades in school. Yet everybody pitied her.

"They said I would come to a bad end, maybe end up in a brothel, because I was of mixed blood," Lee said. "Even my mother felt sorry for me. She still does. Even if I became president, she would feel sorry for me. That's Korea."

She started modeling as a teenager and switched quickly to acting. She landed a part in a television sitcom, "My High School Days," in which she played a typical Korean schoolgirl. That's when she decided it would be better not to disclose the facts of her paternity.

But there were clues. Her creased eyelids, for example — a feature many South Korean women and even some men obtain through plastic surgery. Lee sees a certain hypocrisy in a society in which people go under the knife to make themselves look more Caucasian, yet look down on those of mixed race.

She says her career has not suffered since she "came out of the closet." The main inconvenience is her height — a full 5 inches taller than the average woman here.

"Next to other Korean actors and actresses, I look like the Incredible Hulk," she said. "That's the one thing I'd change about my looks if I could."

The offspring of African Americans face even more racism.

Sonya, the singer, grew up in the conservative city of Taegu. Her GI father was reassigned from South Korea shortly after her birth, and her mother died of cancer when she was 7, leaving Sonya to live with her grandparents.

"My grandfather hit me and called me names. He was embarrassed by me. He used to say, 'What kind of ugly seed did you come from?' " the lovely 24-year-old recalled, fighting back tears.

Last year, Sonya was reunited with her father, a car salesman in Raleigh, N.C. The South Korean television network MBC, which sent the actress to the United States for the meeting, broadcast the teary reunion. She acknowledges that her life might be easier socially in the United States but says she is not ready to give up on her homeland.

In many ways, her unusual look has become an asset, getting her, for example, her first big part as Carmen, a Latina high school student in "Fame."

Several of her closest friends today are classmates who ridiculed her as a child. "I don't hold grudges," she said.

Both Sonya and Lee consider themselves to be entirely Korean in mentality. As is customary for unmarried South Korean women, they live at home — Sonya with her grandmother and Lee with her mother. Neither speaks much English.

Their problems with social acceptance stem not only from being biracial but also from being raised by single mothers. In cases in which the parents have remained together, the children are usually U.S. citizens and their experiences are somewhat easier.

Wisner, whose father is retired from the U.S. military, was spared much of the abuse faced by other Amerasians because her parents are happily married, she says, and because she attended an international Christian school in South Korea.

"In school, it was OK. Many of the teachers were Americans and the kids were Koreans who had lived abroad. But when we went out on the street, there was a sense that the grown-ups didn't like us or approve. We got dirty looks on the subway," said Wisner, a student at Seoul's Yonsei University in addition to being an actress and singer.

As the country becomes more cosmopolitan, it is attracting a more diverse and international population. Nowadays, mixed-race children in South Korea are as likely to be offspring of diplomats, expatriate bankers or academics as of GIs, and an increasing number come from unions in which the father is Korean.

Yet old stereotypes hold sway, and the assumption is that their mothers were either impoverished war brides, or even prostitutes servicing U.S. troops.

"The first experience South Koreans had of mixed race were the children of very poor women living in villages near the U.S. military bases," said Park Kyong Tae, a sociologist who worked on the recent report for Durebang, a human rights group.

The population of Amerasians near the villages probably numbers about 500 today, he said. Their experiences, Park noted, are different from the children of international marriages, who tend to be more affluent than ordinary South Koreans and live in an expatriate bubble.

"One of the first questions people ask me is, 'Is it your father or your mother who is Korean?' " said Maria Hajiyerou, a 24-year-old law student at George Washington University, who is working in Seoul for the summer. "When I answer, 'My mother,' they say, 'Oh,' and give me a certain look like they've figured out everything they need to know about my background. At first I didn't understand what that look meant, but then it was something I picked up on."

Her father, a Cypriot, met her mother while they were working in New Jersey.

"I think it is getting better," Hajiyerou said. "When I was here earlier, people would point at me and even follow me. Now people don't seem to take much notice."

http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/world/la-fg-amerasian6aug06,1,1399605.story?coll=la-headlines-world

yoMAMA
08-07-2004, 11:12 PM
First, the gay actor comes out of the closet, now hapas are getting equal treatment.

I tell you, South Korea is going down the tubes.

:smile:

SunWuKong
08-07-2004, 11:20 PM
similarly in HK, they love Asian-white mixed people. they're used as models all the time. the problem is that not many of them can speak fluent and accentless Cantonese so they don't usually get very many good acting roles.

mr. x
08-08-2004, 12:10 AM
i think i speak for all yw males when i say some s. korean women need saving :rolleyes:

stunninglyAsian
08-08-2004, 06:12 AM
Is it really a silver lining?

You go from being actively discrimated against to what it seems like being exoticized for being mixed. You're a freak show for being different in a bad way to now being a freak show for being different in a good way.

But I'll say this - the future of all Asians lies with mixed Asians. I firmly believe in the future more Asians will be mixed than all Asians.

asvenus
08-08-2004, 07:56 AM
Is it really a silver lining?

You go from being actively discrimated against to what it seems like being exoticized for being mixed. You're a freak show for being different in a bad way to now being a freak show for being different in a good way.

But I'll say this - the future of all Asians lies with mixed Asians. I firmly believe in the future more Asians will be mixed than all Asians.

yeah i was going to say that...to be honest alot of whats up there (to a lesser extent) happens everywhere....i mean 'better' youre still objectified and treated a certain way due to your background...i dont know, its good in a way but :confused:

i dont understand your last statement...do you mean mixed asians are going to do more for society than asians or do you mean soon we'll all be mixed so they better get used to it??

stunninglyAsian
08-08-2004, 11:13 AM
i dont understand your last statement...do you mean mixed asians are going to do more for society than asians or do you mean soon we'll all be mixed so they better get used to it??

Both - I think full Asians are seen as an anachronism in society. We're too traditional and too different for the global culture. We take off our shoes inside, women are second class citizens, we show respect to elders in extreme ways, etc. Non-Asians see us this way and Asians look to the west for inspiration in all things. But now western culture is beginning to look to the east for cultural inspiration. So I think we're headed toward a blend of Asian/western culture. And who better to be an ambassador of this than a mixed person? As it becomes more socially acceptable in Asia to be mixed and have a non-Asian SO, more people will go IR. Why limit yourself to one small group of people for dating opportunities?

Eventually full Asians will go the way of the stereotypical hillbilly, country-living American. They will be a minority and live life their own way clumped together in the outskirts of civilized societies while the rest of the world lives life in a "better" and more civilized manner and will look down to the full Asians.

rice cracker
08-08-2004, 12:53 PM
Is it really a silver lining?

You go from being actively discrimated against to what it seems like being exoticized for being mixed. You're a freak show for being different in a bad way to now being a freak show for being different in a good way.

But I'll say this - the future of all Asians lies with mixed Asians. I firmly believe in the future more Asians will be mixed than all Asians.

Yah, that was my feeling. Like, ok, we're still not viewed as "normal" but now we're exotic tasty morsels.

golden_buns
08-09-2004, 01:27 AM
Don't worry, there's a project going on Gyeongy province which is an all international city in which the only language spoken shall be english in order to attract foreign direct investment, and according to Mr. Pietro Doran (the brain behind this project) in the future it'll be all happas.

Anyways changing topic, and talking about this new 'international city project'; I find it ironic how after a century Korea is once again back to where it started; we're a colony of some big empire, we're giving away land to them, and the language and culture are getting wiped out, except that the difference is that this time we're the ones begging to be colonized, and we're paying shit loads of money to learn english, and we're the ones despising our own culture and traditions.

rice cracker
08-09-2004, 09:10 AM
similarly in HK, they love Asian-white mixed people. they're used as models all the time. the problem is that not many of them can speak fluent and accentless Cantonese so they don't usually get very many good acting roles.

I don't think the situation in South Korea is similar to Hong Kong. From the article, it looks like people don't "love" mixed Koreans, and a lot of mixed models and actresses were in the closet, so to speak, unlike HK. Ok, I'm assuming the hapa friendly environment in Hong Kong, but yeah, from books I've read and articles like this, being mixed race in Korea means putting up with negative shit at all times. It's shameful.

Tao
08-09-2004, 10:42 AM
I don't think the situation in South Korea is similar to Hong Kong. From the article, it looks like people don't "love" mixed Koreans, and a lot of mixed models and actresses were in the closet, so to speak, unlike HK. Ok, I'm assuming the hapa friendly environment in Hong Kong, but yeah, from books I've read and articles like this, being mixed race in Korea means putting up with negative shit at all times. It's shameful.
this is all under the assumption that the parents have "beautiful" hapa children

as for the whole discrimination of hapas to exotification, isn't that what's going on in america today, well at least in the urban cities? hapas are viewed as appealing now as opposed to the 1950s when one drop means you're tainted.

rice cracker
08-09-2004, 11:37 AM
this is all under the assumption that the parents have "beautiful" hapa children

as for the whole discrimination of hapas to exotification, isn't that what's going on in america today, well at least in the urban cities? hapas are viewed as appealing now as opposed to the 1950s when one drop means you're tainted.

In a way. It's trendy in America to be multi-ethnic, but it's not exactly a privileged position. I think rising numbers of miscegens is leading to the greater marketing appeal of mixed race actors and models. Korea, though, has a much less diverse population that the states, so mixed race people aren't as common, thus acceptable. You're right about hapas going from the "tragic" to "exotic" reputation in America, but I dunno, it's just different in Korea. I have a sinking feeling that it's still not all the way ok to be mixed there, like, in America I've never had anyone tell me I'd end up in a brothel because my daddy's white.

Heh, a manga about a half Korean "Soul to Seoul" http://www.tokyopop.com/dbpage.php?propertycode=EST&categorycode=BMG

Kai feels discriminated against by the Korean side of his family because he is not full-blooded Korean; he is half Korean and half Caucasian. Even though everyone is against him, Kai decides to date a Korean girl. He also takes comfort in his friend Spike, who is half African-American and half Korean. The sparks fly when Kai's malicious cousin from Korea comes to the U.S. to study and lives with Kai's family. Will Kai's mixed-blood begin to boil?

Seamus
08-09-2004, 12:35 PM
Both - I think full Asians are seen as an anachronism in society. We're too traditional and too different for the global culture. We take off our shoes inside, women are second class citizens, we show respect to elders in extreme ways, etc. Non-Asians see us this way and Asians look to the west for inspiration in all things. But now western culture is beginning to look to the east for cultural inspiration. So I think we're headed toward a blend of Asian/western culture. And who better to be an ambassador of this than a mixed person? As it becomes more socially acceptable in Asia to be mixed and have a non-Asian SO, more people will go IR. Why limit yourself to one small group of people for dating opportunities?

Eventually full Asians will go the way of the stereotypical hillbilly, country-living American. They will be a minority and live life their own way clumped together in the outskirts of civilized societies while the rest of the world lives life in a "better" and more civilized manner and will look down to the full Asians.

"We take off our shoes inside, women are second class citizens, we show respect to elders in extreme ways, etc. "

Speak for yourself. It's not our problem if you personally treat women like second-class citizens or show respect to your elders in extreme ways.*

More generally, your statement doesn't make any sense. There are Asians who fit the description you gave, and those who don't, just as there are white people who are hillbillies and white people who are not. You don't need to be mixed in order to become enlightened, civilized, or cosmopolitan.

* How exactly do you show respect to your elders in extreme ways? Most Asians don't worship their ancestors or do any of that kow-towing hoohah, you know. I show my respect to my elders by listening to them, acknowledging their opinions, and recognizing that they've been on this earth for many more years than I. But I don't bow and scrape, or light incense sticks or do any of that shit. Nor does anyone I know.

Tao
08-09-2004, 12:37 PM
"We take off our shoes inside, women are second class citizens, we show respect to elders in extreme ways, etc. "

Speak for yourself. It's not our problem if you personally treat women like second-class citizens or show respect to your elders in extreme ways.*

More generally, your statement doesn't make any sense. There are Asians who fit the description you gave, and those who don't, just as there are white people who are hillbillies and white people who are not. You don't need to be mixed in order to become enlightened, civilized, or cosmopolitan.

* How exactly do you show respect to your elders in extreme ways? Most Asians don't worship their ancestors or do any of that kow-towing hoohah, you know. I show my respect to my elders by listening to them, acknowledging their opinions, and recognizing that they've been on this earth for many more years than I. But I don't bow and scrape, or light incense sticks or do any of that shit. Nor does anyone I know.
karma for that post

rice cracker
08-09-2004, 12:38 PM
karma for that post

Can I sign the karma card too? I have to spread some around before I can karma Seamus again.

golden_buns
08-09-2004, 07:02 PM
I don't think the situation in South Korea is similar to Hong Kong. From the article, it looks like people don't "love" mixed Koreans, and a lot of mixed models and actresses were in the closet, so to speak, unlike HK. Ok, I'm assuming the hapa friendly environment in Hong Kong, but yeah, from books I've read and articles like this, being mixed race in Korea means putting up with negative shit at all times. It's shameful.

Korea is a counntry in which things and views change very fast, it might be true that some older generation might discriminate happas, but overall I think people accept happas as they are.

rice cracker
08-09-2004, 07:16 PM
^ Well, that's good to know, at any rate. The hapa pedestal is still not a very cool thing to think about, though.

golden_buns
08-09-2004, 07:23 PM
Yeah, I know.
Right now it's more of a hapa exotification around here. In that sense I think it'll take some time for people to start seeing hapas as just regular ppl

Leviticus
08-10-2004, 12:10 AM
I don't bow and scrape, or light incense sticks or do any of that shit. Nor does anyone I know.

shit? I dont really care if you dont follow korean traditions or even care about korea. But dont ever call those traditions shit.

We're too traditional and too different for the global culture

How can you define too traditional? And would you want the Korean culture to be the same as this "global culture"

And with the issue with Koreans excepting hapas or whatever you people call yourselves. The idea of foreigners is still new in Korea. How long did it take for Americans to except non whites or even half whites ect. And even now, do Americans really except non whites or hapas? Don’t criticize Koreans on how they treat foreigners or hapas. What if a Korean in Korea doesn’t like you because your half? Does it matter when someone in the US doesn’t like you because you’re half Asian? I’m not saying Korea is perfect. But Korea changes faster than you think. Soon enough you won’t even remember old Korea.

asvenus
08-10-2004, 05:04 AM
Both - I think full Asians are seen as an anachronism in society. We're too traditional and too different for the global culture. We take off our shoes inside, women are second class citizens, we show respect to elders in extreme ways, etc. Non-Asians see us this way and Asians look to the west for inspiration in all things. But now western culture is beginning to look to the east for cultural inspiration. So I think we're headed toward a blend of Asian/western culture. And who better to be an ambassador of this than a mixed person? As it becomes more socially acceptable in Asia to be mixed and have a non-Asian SO, more people will go IR. Why limit yourself to one small group of people for dating opportunities?

Eventually full Asians will go the way of the stereotypical hillbilly, country-living American. They will be a minority and live life their own way clumped together in the outskirts of civilized societies while the rest of the world lives life in a "better" and more civilized manner and will look down to the full Asians.

i kind of undersatnd what you are saying BUT speaking as a mixed Asian (half Black) i think this is abit of a dangerous route to go down, as the scenario you are talking about only appears to be catering or valuing Asians that are mixed with White, thereby creating a whole new sphere and category of racial problems and tensions, what you are suggesting to me sounds like forming some kind of new hierarchy between mixed race people...im scared!! is that what you mean?? :frown:

as for saying that Asian ways of life are outmoded and they will soon be resigned to hillbilly status...i dunno, i mean alot of the things you metioned can be applied to various ethnic groups, like subordination of women, etc...also i think mixed peoples, we tend to become assigned to one 'race' or the other so unfortunately i dont see us as being 'ambassadors' for anyone anytime soon...maybe thats just me....also i dont know if i buy this whole IR thing, in the sense that..just cos we are creating more mixed race kiddies we are somehow progressing and coming together as a world, free of ignorance and exclusion....would be nice, but i dont see it

also the 'global' culture' being bandied about need to be put into perspective...we are not talking about anyother culture than one centered around the values of western capitalism, lets not pretend we are talking about anything else here....

stunninglyAsian
08-10-2004, 05:34 AM
Well the mixed Asians with white ancestry are going to be placed with a premium since we're talking about western (white) culture. But I don't think mixed Asians with different ancestries would be placed lower on the scale because even among mixed Asians that come with the same background, they look totally different. It's not like full Asians- we all look the same to everybody and are expected to act the same. Your diversity is your greatest strength, but now it can be your greatest weakness. But then again, I can understand where you're coming from.

I guess what I was trying to say is that mixed Asians, regardless of their non-Asian ancestry are viewed "better" than full Asians. So even though you may be half-black (which you may see as a disadvantage or lesser than the half-white Asians)- you will be seen as superior to me in the future, a full Asian. Is this happenining now? No, it's' still going to be awhile, but this is the eventual destination of Asians.


also the 'global' culture' being bandied about need to be put into perspective...we are not talking about anyother culture than one centered around the values of western capitalism, lets not pretend we are talking about anything else here....
Correction- western capitalism sprinkled with bits of cultural influence from around the world to make it look "global" Obviously, western capitalism dominates- look at Russia and China for example. Being westernized is being civilized. And this thinking is why I think the majority of Asians will be mixed in the future. Thanksgiving and Christmas is cool and fun, but Kwaanza or Chusook are seen as funny National Geographic-tribal ceremonies by the global culture. It's one thing to live a westernized life, but we take it to the extreme- we want to be western.

rice cracker
08-10-2004, 09:21 AM
Does it matter when someone in the US doesn’t like you because you’re half Asian?

Yep, it does, racism kinda bothers me. :rolleyes:

Seamus
08-10-2004, 05:31 PM
[QUOTE=Deuteronomy]shit? I dont really care if you dont follow korean traditions or even care about korea. But dont ever call those traditions shit.
QUOTE]

Sorry, I meant no disrespect. The original post was disparaging these traditions, so I was just continuing in the same vein.

AliBabaIncorporated
08-10-2004, 06:20 PM
Correction- western capitalism sprinkled with bits of cultural influence from around the world to make it look "global" Obviously, western capitalism dominates- look at Russia and China for example. Being westernized is being civilized. And this thinking is why I think the majority of Asians will be mixed in the future. Thanksgiving and Christmas is cool and fun, but Kwaanza or Chusook are seen as funny National Geographic-tribal ceremonies by the global culture. It's one thing to live a westernized life, but we take it to the extreme- we want to be western.
As an American, you're falling into the usual American fallacy of assuming that everyone around the globe wants to be American, and that they're creating some kind of "global culture" on that basis. Mainly, I guess this is cuz the American media doesn't talk much about the cultural exchange between non-American countries --- like, Malaysians who have gone to study in the Middle East, or South Africans emigrating to Hong Kong, or Chinese movies which became successful in former communist countries in Europe.

In fact, people don't want to belong to "global culture," they want to be seen as respectable or cool by the standards of their local culture. That local culture may absorb elements from many other cultures, but it tends to modify them so that they wouldn't even be recognized by someone from the source culture. You seriously think Chinese or Koreans would stop celebrating lunar new year cuz Westerners thought it was uncool or "tribal"? News Flash: even HK, which was colonized by the British for 150 years, doesn't celebrate any non-religious Western holidays besides New Year.

Anyway, how would a global culture lead to a lot of Asians becoming mixed? Are we just talking about the US, or the whole world? In the US, the only way the majority of Asians would become mixed is if immigration stopped. In the whole world, there simply aren't enough white people who want to and can qualify to immigrate to Asia to cause more than a miniscule portion of the population to become mixed.

Oh, yeah, and by the way, Kwanzaa was invented by Americans.

asvenus
08-12-2004, 05:45 AM
*claps for AliBabaInc'...globalisation is just that....the globalisation of American and Western values...the assumption that one way of life is more valued and advanced than another...

StunninglyAsian in NO way do I feel inferior to people have white heritage AT ALL...i just dont feel the same way you do, in the sense that people who are mixed will be viewed equally at all...i dont buy into the whole idea that some how through creating a world where mixed race peoples are the dominant 'race' then old prejudices and measurements of character based on race will disappear...call me cynical or a relaist..its your call...