Making Up

[boredlikewah]

Okay. Advice?

I have a friend. Well.. I used to have a friend and some stuff happened between us and we've basically blown each other off. No more talking, no more waving fake hellos in the hallway, no more acknowledging the other's existence. Lately, it's really been bothering me. Maybe it's because I've been getting nostalgic about high school and all the good times I'll be leaving when I go to college, but I really wish we could make up. I think I'm starting to feel really guilty for giving up this good friendship over stupid stuff. Maybe I just don't like being shunned and kicked out of someone's life... even though I did it myself. I don't know, anyway, I'd just like to be friends again. Or at least on good terms. I don't wanna leave high school knowing that there's someone out there that hates my guts. But I really don't know how to initiate it. I don't even know if this person still cares. Have you guys ever been in this situation? Drop a little knowledge on me? :)

[BigLew]

Well if you were a guy I'd tell you to hang out and have a few beers and act like nothing happens. But it seems to much more complicated when it comes to the opposite sex.

[amietron]

call her. or just walk up to her and talk. long time no talk.

[Kuchana]

Harboring negativity inside you is unhealthy.

[rice cracker]

Any reason other than guilt for wanting this person back in your life? Clean slate, schmlean slate, if she's a bitch to you, you really don't need her.

[applehead]

if it's just the fact that you feel uncomfortable
knowing that someone hates you and that's the
only reason for wanting to rekindle your friendship
then don't bother.
i've had instances where i broke off friendships
and then mended but it's not worth it.

it's the saaaaame shit. over and over again.
if the friendship was that good, it wouldn't have ended
over what you called "stupid stuff"