Honoring the dead you never liked

[TB4000]

Has there ever been anyone that you particularly didn't care for in life, and they passed away, and you felt guilt about feeling that way towards them now that they've gone to the great beyond? My mom used to say she despised this one woman, but just recently she passed away, and feels remorse about it. My grandfather on the other hand, had someone he knew die recently that he didn't care for, and actually said, "good, it's about time." I guess the old folks feel they can just tell it like it is moreso. On the one hand, it is somewhat hypocritical to do the former, yet it seems like the better thing to do is just bury the hatchet, for lack of a better term when it comes to something like that.

[thaite]

No. There is one guy who I swore that if he doesn't die by my hand, I will at least pee on his grave in front of his family.

[ShortNBitter]

My retarded uncle died when I was semi young. I felt no remorse, and when I go to visit him (along with my grandfather) I do the actions, but I don't really mean it :-\

[Emperor_Mike]

My retarded uncle died when I was semi young. I felt no remorse, and when I go to visit him (along with my grandfather) I do the actions, but I don't really mean it :-\

God lord! Retarded as in mentally handicapped or retarded as in...something else?

As for the question, I don't think I'd honor dead people I don't like. Isaac Newton's incredibly smart but the man was wicked and spiteful according to contemporary accounts. Moving a little closer to my family, I don't think there's anyone I "don't really care for."

[mr. x]

not so much i didnt care, i mean i actually liked my grandma on my dad's side, very nice, its just i guess emotionally it was like nothing when i went back to taiwan cuz my dad wanted to go to the shrine where her ashes were. i guess maybe it was a distance thing, like physically we live thousands of miles away and i only saw her very rarely. but u know u always think to yourself you should feel more than that, its more a reverance thing than like an attatchment

[Banana]

I'd shit on peoples' graves if it wasn't illegal.

[Sledge]

It's illegal? Fuck.

[Fireblade]

dig up the grave, open the casket, have a dog urinate all over the body, then cut the body up and throw the parts around the graveyard, and then smash the tombstone.

this is why I want to cremate my body and have my ashes be thrown out into the sea. So no one fucks with my grave like that.

[Adaon]

^--for everyone who pisses in the ocean, that's piss on someone's cremated grave. Not to mention all the sea life jizm that's spread all in the water. Yum. Seafood cocktail.