Birds and the Bees

[artsfartsyjanet]

How did you learn about sex? What did your parent(s) say about it?

As for me, my mom just said that I should save myself til I'm married. That was it. I learned about it in sex education during junior high. My dad doesn't even talk to me about it when I ask him. HHAHAH.

My brother's almost 12 and he's already talking about "his" girlfriend... a girlfriend who's already moved away and probably won't see him again. How the heck should I teach him the birds and the bees? he thinks gay only means happy. I feel like his "serogate" parent.... ;) :blink:

[karizma]

>> i learned about sex in sex ed during 5th through 10th grade. what a pain in the ass it was to learn about the same exact stuff 5 years straight. but i admit putting condoms on styrofoam penises was quite amusing. no one ever really gave me "the talk"...but there was a lot of talk about periods and other female things...

>> god kids these days scare me...i remember on the bus there was this little boy...he didnt look more than 10...he screamed to this other kid of the same age "suck my dick!" while the kid he screamed to looked away red-faced...very...very scary.

[angel nympho]

my parents said nothing to me about it, ever.

...except "YOu better not do it."

everything i know, i learned from TV. discovery channel, hbo and mtv.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by artsfartsyjanet@Sep 4 2002, 06:02 AM
My brother's almost 12 and he's already talking about "his" girlfriend... a girlfriend who's already moved away and probably won't see him again. How the heck should I teach him the birds and the bees? he thinks gay only means happy. I feel like his "serogate" parent.... ;) :blink:
Mm... I know a girl who's about 12... she got suspended from school cuz she got caught giving a large and undisclosed number of guys head.

reason for suspension: bad judgement.

I asked a friend's little brother about her to see what kind of rumors were circulating and his answer: "I heard she's a total slut and does a lot of drugs."

I for one KNOW that she does not do a lot of drugs. But it bothers me that she's so young and is already getting started down this path. She wrote in her journal thing once about how she plans to give this ring she always wears to the guy she loses her virginity to. Umm.. if you ask me, when you're 12 years old, you shouldn't be thinking about losing your virginity and making plans for it.

[wylin]

i know alota girls like angel is mentioning but now their 20-25 and reaping the results of "bad judgement" and sorta regreting sum stuff and starting so young...

my parents told me 2 things
1. dont be a daddy
2. if u are a daddy fix it and dont tell us

[thaite]

I'm still waiting for my parents to talk to me about it.

[amietron]

Learned about it in school (5th grade). It sparked no interests in my head. I thought it was gross.

Parents told me: If you ever get pregnant, you're outta my house. Don't come to me for anything. Something along the lines of.. "If you do it, you're not my kid and I don't want to have anything to do with you ever again."

[Arex]

What's "sex?" :unsure:

Actually, after skimming through some of my dad's nudie magazines, I figured out that guys and girls had their respective parts and, in the second or third grade, kind of just came to my own conclusion that tab "A" fit into slot "B." (no experimentation 'til many many years later though).

Of course, there was the requisite sex-ed in the 5th grade.

I never really talked about it with my parents, at least in the sit down and talk abot it sense. My mom asked if I had any questions on a few occasions, but I never really did. (Sex? that's child's play!).

This one time, I was talking to my dad, asking him permission to stay over at my girlfriend's place in the 10th grade (she was having a party) and I could hear my mom in the background telling me I better use protection. Hell, I didn't even kiss the girl (yeah, stupid me)!

The next time the subject was brought up was kinda funny. Three or so years ago, my dad was about to be remarried and he says to me, "Alex, do you use condoms? 'cause I have all these extra ones. Turns out your step-mom-to-be has her tubes tied so I don't need 'em." He then directs my attention to this 40 pack of standard Trojans. I respond, "Nah, dad, I got plenty of my own." And then we both smiled. It was quite the touching father-son moment.

Alex

[thaite]

You should have said something like "Sure, Dad. Oh wait, you got the regular-sized ones? Sorry, these won't work at all -- too small for me."

:D

[artsfartsyjanet]

Originally posted by buoywonder@Sep 4 2002, 06:24 PM
You should have said something like "Sure, Dad. Oh wait, you got the regular-sized ones? Sorry, these won't work at all -- too small for me."

:D
LOL..... !!! Well, my mom found an unused condom in the trash can when my bf at the time was over at my house. She looked at me in this guilt-trip mode and asked, "did you do it?" I said NO! I really didn't. My mom made me kneel down and swear that I would wait until I'm married! I was 15 then. heheh..... Anyway, i told my bf at the time to put one on just in case he pre-ejaculates while we were heavily kissing or whatever. LOL.... I didn't want anything swimming through his clothes. :wub:



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[angel nympho]

^-- My sister caught me most of the time when I was younger.

She found a box of condoms in my bag once... they were a birthday present... just as a joke. So she didn't really care.

Then she walked in on me once giving head to my boyfriend. We never mentioned it again.

And now that I live with her now... She knows exactly why I try to kick her out of the room every now and then when I bring a guy over.

[karizma]

>> my most vivid memory of sexual education was finding a porno tape and watching it while hiding under a pillow....i peaked out every few seconds to see if they changed positions...i had NO idea what they were doing at the time...i think i experimented with masturbation before i even know what those "things" were for...ok ok TMI lol.

[angel nympho]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 5 2002, 12:46 AM
...i think i experimented with masturbation before i even know what those "things" were for...ok ok TMI lol.
werd.. i probably did too, when i was little. i was the type of kid who poked her fingers into anything. i got them dirty a lot. :unsure:

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 4 2002, 07:46 PM
i think i experimented with masturbation before i even know what those "things" were for...ok ok TMI lol.
did it involve a vibrating broom stick? :D

[artsfartsyjanet]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 4 2002, 07:48 PM
Originally posted by karizma@Sep 4 2002, 07:46 PM
i think i experimented with masturbation before i even know what those "things" were for...ok ok TMI lol.
did it involve a vibrating broom stick? :D
LOL...that's all I have to say.

[karizma]

>> ur a sick, sick man bunboy...

>> 'sides...it involved an oscillating fan and legos.

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 4 2002, 07:57 PM
>> ur a sick, sick man bunboy...

>> 'sides...it involved an oscillating fan and legos.
No woot™. Go down to my Oh my god, wtf?!?! thread and you will see the light.

[artsfartsyjanet]

Originally posted by karizma@Sep 4 2002, 07:57 PM
>> ur a sick, sick man bunboy...

>> 'sides...it involved an oscillating fan and legos.
This forum is quite liberating. LOL.... :rolleyes:

[amietron]

Yo Woot? The first time I read that thing about oscillating fans and legos, I didn't see LEGOS.. I saw legs. Make the connection? Oscillating and legs? Made me think of-- HELICOPTER MAN!

[deez nuts]

Originally posted by amietron@Sep 5 2002, 10:52 AM
Yo Woot? The first time I read that thing about oscillating fans and legos, I didn't see LEGOS.. I saw legs. Make the connection? Oscillating and legs? Made me think of-- HELICOPTER MAN!
You guys need to let helicopter man

[amietron]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Sep 5 2002, 07:55 AM
Originally posted by amietron@Sep 5 2002, 10:52 AM
Yo Woot? The first time I read that thing about oscillating fans and legos, I didn't see LEGOS.. I saw legs. Make the connection? Oscillating and legs? Made me think of-- HELICOPTER MAN!
You guys need to let helicopter man
It's not my fault I don't know what he/it looks like.