For the young professionals/graduates/Full Timers

[johnny]

Through work? some sort of association? church? events? activities(sport or non-sporting)? bars? clubs? friends?


Also, I know this is a vague question, but how hard or how easy is it for you to meet new people and get to know them? More difficult then when you were in school?


Also, How would you rate your dating/sex/relationship life? (scale 1 to 10).

[wylin]

let see, meeting girls.

Work theirs 0

School it was pretty easy meet them in class or thru friends or both.

Clubs pretty hard unless u got liquid confidence

Friends and friends for example I meet most girls randomly through friends or of all retarded places tapioca express. I became friends w/ the manager and thru her and her coworkers have met a majority of the hot tapioca express workers in gardena TE. =X I count 4 pretty cute ones and since i met them all service is always top notch!

Another retarded way i met sum was thru church. but theres a saying "Our EFC _______(instert efc church name) girls are the worse overall taiwanese girls known to man!" and you shouldnt meet chicks at church cuz thats shaddy.

YW - jk

meeting guyz

Car stuff i meet alot like seriously

Work theirs lotsa young men and old fat married women so all the young men know each other.

Church - men of god and who need god

friends of friends - meet alot

social life is about the same , but as i got older my tollerance for immaturity went down.

0/10 cuz i dont got time at the moment for relationship tho one of the hot tapioca express girls i wouldnt mind =X



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[johnny]

wylin,
how old are ya and whats your religion?

and why is meeting girls through church so shady?

IMO, I think the best match would be through a person who has the same spirituality and beliefs as you do. That also means the person is most likely a nice person, a person of God which is much better than let's say hooking up with a Atheist or a Shaman freak(ok Im kidding).

I got close to getting engaged with my EX 2 years ago and the sole reason why we broke up was due to religion.

[wylin]

im 23 im christian. EFC is an acronym for Evangelical Formosan Church.

Nah u shouldnt turn church into a meet market, i seen many (especially korean) churchs become meat markets and im thankful that the girls in my own personal church are unattractive. Finding a girl who has the same faith and has the same belief system is helpful yes but its very weird dating people you known for like 10yrs. Although since i didnt goto thaty chuch all thru college (went one closer to UCI) is a factor all but like 1 of the girls around my age are now married anyhow. Mainly my point is that i do not see THE CHURCH I ATTEND church as a valid place for making hook ups. i think its not proper to date ur home church sisters. Maybe other christian girls are fine just not ones i known since junior high school.

[johnny]

^ see that's different, you didn't say in your previous post that it was a hometown church you been going to for decade. That's like going out with your sisters :P

btw, I'm going to a new church away from home and find quite a few gals there attractive. I heard there are like 5 current couple who are now married nad have met through that same church. I think it's awesome.

[Saiko]

If I were looking for a guy, I'd look for him in school, at church, at concerts, or downtown. I already meet a lot of friends at those places. It's fun. You start talking to a stranger, and halfway into the conversation, you're like, "Who the hell are you?!"

[johnny]

^ DOWNTOWN?!! YIKES!

Hope you're not in LA :P

[mrazntre]

i'm single now...


I have no clue on how to meet other singles. I have no desire to go the clubbing/bar route or just the whole activities meet up sort of thing. Basically, I have no desire to impress a bitch. I have better things to spend my money on.

I'm sticking with working on my car, hanging out with my family and kciking it with my friends. We'll see what happens from there.

Trying to get down with some girls form your hometown church is so disgusting. I must admit that there were a few nice looking girls at my church, but.... how the hell do you do that?

[johnny]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Aug 30 2002, 07:05 PM
i'm single now...


I have no clue on how to meet other singles. I have no desire to go the clubbing/bar route or just the whole activities meet up sort of thing. Basically, I have no desire to impress a bitch. I have better things to spend my money on.

I'm sticking with working on my car, hanging out with my family and kciking it with my friends. We'll see what happens from there.

Trying to get down with some girls form your hometown church is so disgusting. I must admit that there were a few nice looking girls at my church, but.... how the hell do you do that?
I said I'm going to a freaking new church, or do some people not read/pay attention?


so I have to ask, whats your age? what car is it that your fixing up?

[thaite]

Beats me. I met a few women through work. It's s'okay, but i don't like to make a habit of dating people from work. I'm a talker, so clubs don't work either. And when I go to clubs, I go to dance. Professional organizations work pretty well for me; it's like work, except I don't really work with these people.

Church is out. buoywonder and church do not get along.

And once in a while, you find someone when you're not even looking. That's the best.

[Chris]

I meet people through friends or online chatting. We have an asian mixer club in San Francisco Every Thrusday and that how you meet more people. Volunteering is another way as well.

[deez nuts]

I pick up female patients that just came out of the OR and hit them up for dates while they are still woozy from the anathesia!

[Saiko]

Originally posted by johnny@Aug 30 2002, 01:50 PM
^ DOWNTOWN?!! &nbsp;YIKES!

Hope you're not in LA &nbsp;:P
Nah. Downtown Toronto. It's not bad. A lot of people, including the freaky ass ones. But you meet some nice people. Sometimes I sit down and have conversations with the homeless teenage punks. They're really not that bad. The ones I meet are so funny. I like starting conversations. I saw these punks on the street with sign saying, "We're ugly. We're broke. Nobody wants us." I said, "I want you!" and they replied with, "I want you too."

Originally posted by buoywonder @ Aug 30 2002@06:00 PM
Church is out. buoywonder and church do not get along.

Same. The guys at my church aren't that bad, but the girls. Oh god. I was surrounded by preps and teenyboppers. I'm sorry, but I do not enjoy conversations about Britney Spears' music unless it's bashing. Thankfully, I haven't gone to church since my sister left to travel the world in January. She's not back yet, and if she does come back, she's gonna drag me to church again. Help me.

[mrazntre]

i did read your post. i was echoing what wylin was saying. I did not say that you, or did i imply, that you were hitting up on girls in your hometown church. i was simply saying that hitting up girls in your hometown church was disgusting. period.

i'm 24


fixing up an 86 mr2

[Barbs]

i guess thru friends?

clubs?

nah..i'm too old for that.

i guess i just *don't* meet anyone?

certainly not at work. everyone i work with is about 40+, white, married with kids.

[amietron]

Originally posted by mrazntre@Aug 30 2002, 12:05 PM
Basically, I have no desire to impress a bitch. I have better things to spend my money on.
Right on. :) *high 5*

[mrazntre]

Posted on Aug 31 2002, 08:32 PM
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QUOTE (mrazntre @ Aug 30 2002, 12:05 PM)
Basically, I have no desire to impress a bitch. I have better things to spend my money on.

Right on. &nbsp;*high 5*


*High 5*
we don't need no stinkin' bitches. :angry: