provacative private messages

[kasia]

some may be flattering, but some may cross the line when they become too explicit or sexual.

do you get offended as a female? or do you think it's not a big deal because we can do the same to males?

on a similar note, do you find cat-calling offensive?

[angel nympho]

i just like to toy with them back.

for instance... a guy told me he wanted to .. umm put his thingy up my butt.. n i told him that yeah, that sounded good cuz my dick was getting hard just thinking about it... he freaked out and blocked me.

[kasia]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Aug 22 2002, 09:00 PM
i just like to toy with them back.

for instance... a guy told me he wanted to .. umm put his thingy up my butt.. n i told him that yeah, that sounded good cuz my dick was getting hard just thinking about it... he freaked out and blocked me.
funny :)

[Saiko]

Originally posted by angel nympho@Aug 22 2002, 04:00 PM
i just like to toy with them back.

for instance... a guy told me he wanted to .. umm put his thingy up my butt.. n i told him that yeah, that sounded good cuz my dick was getting hard just thinking about it... he freaked out and blocked me.
Haha. I do the same. Why waste a good chance at scaring people?

[tapestrybabe]

i feel if a guy wants to get to know me.... and they send a message like that... you know that they're just looking for one thing.... so when i get messages like that... i just tend to ignore them all together...

[deez nuts]

I send hot provocative private messages to SunWuKung, in hopes of getting hot cyber. He never responds :( .


Haha J/K, MK!

[artsfartsyjanet]

I usually screen my IMs before I actually accept them. In the past, back when I didn't know I could do that, I would just block or ignore them. Why waste my breath when i could be doing something else productive with my life.

[bigwong235]

*ahem*


how YOU doin'?

[Saiko]

Originally posted by bigwong235@Aug 24 2002, 03:50 AM
*ahem*


how YOU doin'?
You can't say no to that.

[CrX3183]

i hate it when people IM me with crap about porn :angry:

[achtungbaby]

Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Aug 22 2002, 04:12 PM
I send hot provocative private messages to SunWuKung, in hopes of getting hot cyber. He never responds :( .



That's because he's busy with me.

[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by achtungbaby@Aug 25 2002, 04:37 AM
Originally posted by Chasiubao_Boy@Aug 22 2002, 04:12 PM
I send hot provocative private messages to SunWuKung, in hopes of getting hot cyber.  He never responds  :( .



That's because he's busy with me.
now now boys don't fight over me
there's alot of me to go around

[kasia]

but back to my original question: do any of you find it offensive?

what do you think is going on in the guy's minds when he makes such explicitly sexual remarks? i mean, he certainly wouldn't do it to a girl that he is truly interested in and/or respects, right? in the past, some guy friends have justified it with, "it's okay, she's a hoe."

so in a sense, these messages have to be demeaning. i find them so--in the same way that i get disgusted by construction workers and gardeners cat-calling. it's like we're meat.

doesn't this anger any of you?

[karizma]

>> gah stupid cyber messages...i never really respond to them unless im in a particularly playful mood..then ill either make them feel stupid or tell them my penis is bigger than theirs...pleasant mental image, no?

>> cat-calls disgust me... ive come to dread walking by construction sites and when im walking downtown i get mad when i see guys stare at me like im on display...its really uncalled for...

[artsfartsyjanet]

The more these "cat-calls" pry into my life, the more I'm eager to block them.



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[SunWuKong]

Originally posted by karizma@Aug 25 2002, 07:19 PM
>> cat-calls disgust me... ive come to dread walking by construction sites and when im walking downtown i get mad when i see guys stare at me like im on display...its really uncalled for...
cat calls are very uncalled for. but how old are these guys usually that stare at you? it took me i think about... 22 or 23 years to really understand that it's rude to stare at good looking girls. (i'll be 26 soon). sometimes it still gets difficult to completely ignore the presence of a very attractive woman. you really have to keep telling yourself to look straight, or just anywhere else but the girl. men are very visually driven.

[karizma]

the age of guys range from 14 to id say about mid 30's...ick.

[kasia]

Originally posted by SunWuKung@Aug 26 2002, 05:26 AM
Originally posted by karizma@Aug 25 2002, 07:19 PM
>> cat-calls disgust me... ive come to dread walking by construction sites and when im walking downtown i get mad when i see guys stare at me like im on display...its really uncalled for...
cat calls are very uncalled for. but how old are these guys usually that stare at you? it took me i think about... 22 or 23 years to really understand that it's rude to stare at good looking girls. (i'll be 26 soon). sometimes it still gets difficult to completely ignore the presence of a very attractive woman. you really have to keep telling yourself to look straight, or just anywhere else but the girl. men are very visually driven.
i think at the very least that guys above 30 should refrain from staring at young teenage girls b/c these girls. i know when i was that age, it was very confusing when (typically mexican) older men would stare b/c these men would be the same age as my father. i think the first few times it happened when was i came to the realization that i can't trust every adult to look out for me. i was naive--but i still don't think it's right that i had to come to the realization in *that* way.

[princess]

yuck...catcalls. forget walking past construction sites, i dont like standing by the side of the street by myself anymore

[tapestrybabe]

when guys make cat calls and stare... not only can it disgust someone...but i think it can also feel somewhat threatening... Like lets say.. your walking the streets by yourself, wearing a dress or something... and you hear a guy make a cat call at you... i feel it can make you feel somewhat vulnerable... like you wanna cover yourself up... Me, its not just uncalled for... but it also makes me feel uncomfortable when i've been in that type of situation...

[mrazntre]

i've also tried not to stare or look at attractive women. it may be offensive to them, who knows, but sometimes you just can't help it.


you know, I do find those provocative messages offensive. especially when it's a guy and he thinks my S/N is a chick's S/N. Frickin NASTY dog. I usually IM back, "so you like guys huh?" That's when they disappear completely. You'd think they'd screen their prospects a bit more.