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mrazntre
01-09-2004, 11:18 PM
Where can I get a white scrapbook, clothes, traditions, customs and an adoption lawyer?

Hopefully I can find one that has freckles and red hair so that it will match with my wife's oriental red dress.

So if you know any red heads, hook a brutha up.

Thanks.

hooligan
01-09-2004, 11:24 PM
make sure they speak english and remember to get them young.

ism
01-09-2004, 11:34 PM
I suggest you read some white cookbooks. From what I understand, white people eat meat and potatoes. If you feed that to your child, perhaps once or twice a week, it will help him or her understand what it means to be white. They also like boring and bland foods such as macaroni & cheese. Try to remove any variety of flavors from your meals. Perhaps they, in turn, will also become boring and bland.

Since white people generally have nothing to fight for, you could expose your child to substitute causes such as the environment, world peace, or vegetarianism. By letting your child focus on such diversions, they will not think of their racial identity. Perhaps they may even forget.

The goal is to ensure that your child never thinks of him or herself as different or interesting, but of everyone else as different from himself. You'll know you've succeeded when he or she obtains a Thomas Kinkade print. This will soon progress to a coopting of various cultures. Perhaps he or she will coopt yours.

Ogumo
01-09-2004, 11:44 PM
Where can I get a white scrapbook, clothes, traditions, customs and an adoption lawyer?

Hopefully I can find one that has freckles and red hair so that it will match with my wife's oriental red dress.

So if you know any red heads, hook a brutha up.

Thanks.

Yes adopting a white kid is the latest craze this season. Get them while they are available.

mrazntre
01-09-2004, 11:55 PM
My white friend said that white people like eating food with gravy.

What's gravy? and how should I go about making it? Oh wait, ism already told me to go read some white cookbooks.

Texas chili anyone?

So what are the odds of me getting a red head? I don't want a blonde or brown haired one, those ones are just plain boring. So should I teach him Spanish ?

Fireblade
01-09-2004, 11:55 PM
You're not doing a reverse Woody Allen thing right? Like get a white daughter who's like 8, and then 10 years down the road marry her?

hooligan
01-09-2004, 11:56 PM
My white friend said that white people like eating food with gravy.

What's gravy? and how should I go about making it? Oh wait, ism already told me to go read some white cookbooks.

Texas chili anyone?

So what are the odds of me getting a red head? I don't want a blonde or brown haired one, those ones are just plain boring. So should I teach him Spanish ?
they also like boiled hot dogs and they hate people that don't look like them.

bluemonq
01-09-2004, 11:57 PM
You're not doing a reverse Woody Allen thing right? Like get a white daughter who's like 8, and then 10 years down the road marry her?
what was going on in that mind of his??? it's not quite incest but still it's so freaking...gah

Ogumo
01-09-2004, 11:58 PM
You're not doing a reverse Woody Allen thing right? Like get a white daughter who's like 8, and then 10 years down the road marry her?

It took me 6 months to forget about woody allen and the daughter. Now you have ruined my progress. I just cannot that picture out of my now...

hooligan
01-09-2004, 11:58 PM
http://www.bol.ucla.edu/%7Ebgwu/Owned.gif

mrazntre
01-10-2004, 12:27 AM
It took me 6 months to forget about woody allen and the daughter. Now you have ruined my progress. I just cannot that picture out of my now...

Hopefully she looks like ... shit... i'm not really attracted to white chix. Let's say Jennifer Love Hewitt or Sandra Bullock (I'm just shooting in the dark okaY?!?!!!). I'd tap it. Just gimme a few beers.

Faithless
01-10-2004, 12:35 AM
Where can I get a white scrapbook, clothes, traditions, customs and an adoption lawyer?

Hopefully I can find one that has freckles and red hair so that it will match with my wife's oriental red dress.

So if you know any red heads, hook a brutha up.

Thanks.

I know someone who did just that. He and his wife adopted the wife's sister's two white boys.

He says that he gets a lot of comments when he disciplines the boys in public, as in, "how dare you talk to those white children like that!" :frown:

Hiroshi2
01-10-2004, 08:18 AM
LOL @ hooligan

kitty
01-10-2004, 10:30 AM
jose... you da man!! :)

etcj
01-10-2004, 11:39 AM
http://www.bol.ucla.edu/%7Ebgwu/Owned.gif
Man, that really made me smile. Oh wait...that's child abuse! Police! Police! Police! Another reason why white people shouldn't raise children? :eek:

thaite
01-10-2004, 11:45 AM
I thought you didn;t like freckles, man!

tazadar
01-10-2004, 12:30 PM
You're not doing a reverse Woody Allen thing right? Like get a white daughter who's like 8, and then 10 years down the road marry her?
That is sick.

sOrr1ez
01-10-2004, 01:56 PM
You're not doing a reverse Woody Allen thing right? Like get a white daughter who's like 8, and then 10 years down the road marry her?
That is sick.

I second that

mrazntre
01-10-2004, 03:09 PM
I thought you didn;t like freckles, man!

I don't like freckles on my bitches!!! but adoptees are fine.

mrazntre
01-10-2004, 03:10 PM
I know someone who did just that. He and his wife adopted the wife's sister's two white boys.

He says that he gets a lot of comments when he disciplines the boys in public, as in, "how dare you talk to those white children like that!" :frown:

now this is reallly getting juicy.

hooligan
01-10-2004, 03:11 PM
now this is reallly getting juicy.
we all know asian parents are the best/craziest disciplinarians. the coat hanger beatings i took when i was younger didn't mess with me at all.

Tao
01-10-2004, 03:12 PM
we all know asian parents are the best/craziest disciplinarians. the coat hanger beatings i took when i was younger didn't mess with me at all.
says the man with the speedo underwear avatar

hooligan
01-10-2004, 03:13 PM
says the man with the speedo underwear avatar
it's my wrestling uniform!

rice cracker
01-10-2004, 03:17 PM
we all know asian parents are the best/craziest disciplinarians. the coat hanger beatings i took when i was younger didn't mess with me at all.

Lol, yes, it's all in my blog, under "Why I Kill People."

Tao
01-10-2004, 03:17 PM
it's my wrestling uniform!
hmm...ultra tight speedos that show off your nut sack....whilst another man in the same uniform is trying to grab you

are you trying to tell us something ben

hooligan
01-10-2004, 03:20 PM
hmm...ultra tight speedos that show off your nut sack....whilst another man in the same uniform is trying to grab you

are you trying to tell us something ben
i'm a dirty fornicator.

mrazntre
01-10-2004, 03:35 PM
we all know asian parents are the best/craziest disciplinarians. the coat hanger beatings i took when i was younger didn't mess with me at all.

d00d. i dunno HOW MANY FUCKING PLASTIC HANGERS BROKE ON MY ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!

mrazntre
01-10-2004, 03:36 PM
i'm a dirty fornicator.

you need those star stickies for your tEEtz.

hooligan
01-10-2004, 03:41 PM
d00d. i dunno HOW MANY FUCKING PLASTIC HANGERS BROKE ON MY ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!
OMGWTFBBQ yeah, shit man, those fuckers HURT. not as bad as those steal ones that you get from the dry cleaners!

see this is how you should raise white children. everyone needs a sound beating once in a while to drive the point home.

rice cracker
01-10-2004, 03:48 PM
In my household it was soup ladles, not coat hangers. THOSE fucking hurt.

mrazntre
01-10-2004, 03:51 PM
OMGWTFBBQ yeah, shit man, those fuckers HURT. not as bad as those steal ones that you get from the dry cleaners!

see this is how you should raise white children. everyone needs a sound beating once in a while to drive the point home.

and to beat a few hundred years of oppression into them.

sOrr1ez
01-10-2004, 03:51 PM
Mine was... whatever you could get your hands on... that was allowed to break or throw...


I guess that's why asians are disciplined

mrazntre
01-10-2004, 03:52 PM
Mine was... whatever you could get your hands on... that was allowed to break or throw...


I guess that's why asians are disciplined

I don't get it :confused:

Tao
01-10-2004, 03:55 PM
my parents never beat me...hahaha take that fuckers!

mrazntre
01-10-2004, 03:56 PM
my parents never beat me...hahaha take that fuckers!

which led to this:

How can you resist those puppy-dog eyes?
I guess it isn't a surprise
That hooligan let Tao measure his frank and beans
They're sexual machines
And additionally they seem like nice guys.

Tao
01-10-2004, 03:59 PM
which led to this:

How can you resist those puppy-dog eyes?
I guess it isn't a surprise
That hooligan let Tao measure his frank and beans
They're sexual machines
And additionally they seem like nice guys.
I cry for myself :frown:

Faithless
01-10-2004, 04:45 PM
d00d. i dunno HOW MANY FUCKING PLASTIC HANGERS BROKE ON MY ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!
Whoa! Plastic hangers.
yu0=uPpeR cLaSS

Fireblade
01-10-2004, 04:57 PM
That is sick.

You're jealous because I came up with that idea first. :biggrin:

sOrr1ez
01-10-2004, 05:18 PM
Mine was... whatever you could get your hands on... that was allowed to break or throw...


I guess that's why asians are disciplined
I don't get it :confused:

That's what my parents would do whenever we needed a discipline... but techinically I never got hit..... just my older brother...

due to asians being taught what is right from wrong.....
I'm guessing that's why most are very well disciplined

DragonKnight
01-10-2004, 05:22 PM
we all know asian parents are the best/craziest disciplinarians. the coat hanger beatings i took when i was younger didn't mess with me at all.
Wimps. It's all about the steel end of a belt or power cord. :biggrin:

mr. x
01-10-2004, 07:32 PM
i dont think this is something to be proud of...but as long as we're talking about it:

just today at breakfast:

my mom, older sister, and i fought eachother with: a ketchup bottle, a strawberry jam jar, water, our hands/fists, oranges, and a broom.

love,
prof. frink

ouch what over?

Fireblade
01-10-2004, 08:42 PM
i think my sister was making fun of my mom's accent...and then my mom started making fun/mocking my sister's accent, and then i joined in because i like fist fighting.

love,
prof. frink

I need you around the next time I get into a bar fight. :biggrin:

Deadpool
01-10-2004, 08:58 PM
I know someone who did just that. He and his wife adopted the wife's sister's two white boys.

He says that he gets a lot of comments when he disciplines the boys in public, as in, "how dare you talk to those white children like that!" :frown:

Heh...I'd make sure they learned Mandarin or Cantonese then other people would know what I was saying to them and the people who do know would probably think its normal and not say anything.

"AIYAAAHH!!! Wo Da Shi Ni A!"

tommyhtown
01-10-2004, 09:26 PM
Heh...I'd make sure they learned Mandarin or Cantonese then other people would know what I was saying to them and the people who do know would probably think its normal and not say anything.

"AIYAAAHH!!! Wo Da Shi Ni A!"

As I was reading your post Jin's 'Learn Chinese' was playing in my head.

thaite
01-10-2004, 10:25 PM
You're gonna name it Magnus, right, mrazntre?

Chris
01-10-2004, 10:43 PM
Man, that really made me smile. Oh wait...that's child abuse! Police! Police! Police! Another reason why white people shouldn't raise children? :eek:


Maybe I am on male PMS. But am I the only one who didn't find this funny. Maybe because all my friends are preggo and I see a lot of baby as of lates.

mrazntre
01-10-2004, 11:49 PM
You're gonna name it Magnus, right, mrazntre?



but of course my friend. It will be named Magnus.

applehead
01-11-2004, 08:19 PM
the original post wasn't really sy.
right?
just someone who stole his identity.
it's okay sy.
if ain't yo fault.

Martino
01-12-2004, 03:20 AM
I object! Cheese is not bland! It's exciting and adventurous and comes in many interesting colours.

I suggest you read some white cookbooks. From what I understand, white people eat meat and potatoes. If you feed that to your child, perhaps once or twice a week, it will help him or her understand what it means to be white. They also like boring and bland foods such as macaroni & cheese. Try to remove any variety of flavors from your meals. Perhaps they, in turn, will also become boring and bland.

Since white people generally have nothing to fight for, you could expose your child to substitute causes such as the environment, world peace, or vegetarianism. By letting your child focus on such diversions, they will not think of their racial identity. Perhaps they may even forget.

The goal is to ensure that your child never thinks of him or herself as different or interesting, but of everyone else as different from himself. You'll know you've succeeded when he or she obtains a Thomas Kinkade print. This will soon progress to a coopting of various cultures. Perhaps he or she will coopt yours.

Craig
01-12-2004, 03:46 AM
the original post wasn't really sy.
right?
just someone who stole his identity.
it's okay sy.
if ain't yo fault.
It wasn't ? I was about to give 'tre' some karma points for his novel idea.

applehead
01-12-2004, 03:06 PM
It wasn't ? I was about to give 'tre' some karma points for his novel idea.

he deserves 'em.

deez nuts
01-12-2004, 03:12 PM
yes i agree.

adopt a white kid.

save that fetus from the death grips of ye ol'rusty clothes hanger.

i have the baby crib, baby bottles, pacifers and all the "friends" episodes on dvd. i am ready for my white baby. are you?

Fireblade
01-12-2004, 04:05 PM
yes i agree.

adopt a white kid.

save that fetus from the death grips of ye ol'rusty clothes hanger.

i have the baby crib, baby bottles, pacifers and all the "friends" episodes on dvd. i am ready for my white baby. are you?

You forgot to include the mass marketing commerical powers of disney and sesame street. You gotta have tons of toys and crap about. I think a pooh bear stuffed animal set and a tickle me elmo will do just fine.

Emperor_Mike
01-12-2004, 05:42 PM
Orphans should be adopted regardless of race, I think. It's disturbing when you think about what must be going through the minds of prospective parents when they're looking for a child to adopt. For the lack of a better comparison, it's like window shopping. "Oh, he's cute, but he's not white/asian/black so it might be awkward later on in life" etc, etc. That is not to say that everyone does this, but I'm quite sure that the thought has crossed many minds before. Couples who cannot conceive children should be equal opportunity adopters (right word to use?)

>:^|
01-12-2004, 06:47 PM
Wouldn't it be a little weird to adopt a White kid? What if people always assumed you were the kid's nanny or that you were an abducter?

nonamerasian
01-12-2004, 06:57 PM
Wouldn't it be a little weird to adopt a White kid? What if people always assumed you were the kid's nanny or that you were an abducter?

Something like that happens to my cousin!

Her daughter isn't adopted nor has my cousin been viewed as an abducter, but people seem to think she's a nanny.

Quite annoying.

>:^|
01-12-2004, 06:59 PM
Her daughter isn't adopted nor has my cousin been viewed as an abducter, but people seem to think she's a nanny.

Quite annoying.

I thought it might be.

I have an elderly White relative that I drive around sometimes, and people always assume I'm hired help.

kasia
01-12-2004, 07:08 PM
can somebody please tell me what white people do on chinese new year? please? i need to know so my adopted kid won't grow up all asian and stuff.

rice cracker
01-12-2004, 07:19 PM
Wouldn't it be a little weird to adopt a White kid? What if people always assumed you were the kid's nanny or that you were an abducter?

That happened to my mom. My half brother has like really white skin and red hair. She told me about this one time at the supermarket where the cashier looked at her, looked at him, and looked back at her confused.

mrazntre
01-12-2004, 09:17 PM
Wouldn't it be a little weird to adopt a White kid? What if people always assumed you were the kid's nanny or that you were an abducter?


i'd just put that kid on a leash.

mr. x
01-12-2004, 10:47 PM
name the kid Dan W. and teach him all about racial tolerance

take that!

and make him forget all about his aryan heritage...

Deadpool
01-13-2004, 07:30 AM
If ma white adopted son brings home a white girl I'll go ape shit and threaten to disown him. :p

hooligan
01-13-2004, 07:33 AM
If ma white adopted son brings home a white girl I'll go ape shit and threaten to disown him. :p
then beat him soundly with a coat hangar, they've just gotta learn you gotta keep it within asian peoples.

mr. x
01-13-2004, 10:29 AM
then beat him soundly with a coat hangar, they've just gotta learn you gotta keep it within asian peoples.

wait but then if he were to get himself an asian girl then guys would be like "wuts up wit dat whyte boi and dat asian girl yo! WUTS UP WIT DAT!?!"

Filiprish
08-29-2004, 03:20 PM
"White" people adopt Asians all the time, so I don't see why Asians can't return the favor so to speak.

kimpossible
08-29-2004, 03:27 PM
yes i agree.

adopt a white kid.

save that fetus from the death grips of ye ol'rusty clothes hanger.

i have the baby crib, baby bottles, pacifers and all the "friends" episodes on dvd. i am ready for my white baby. are you?

i will lead the White Camps where I will teach whiteness.

NotAsian
08-29-2004, 04:48 PM
Someone resurrected this thread. Thread resurrector!!!

But anyway, I have something slightly relevant to say. I might be wrong, but I think here in Britain it's illegal to adopt a child of any race if you're not at least partially that race yourself (but maybe anyone can adopt a white baby... I really don't know). I vaguely remember an article in the Guardian or something from a few years ago about a woman who adopted a Chinese baby and was only allowed to because she was 1/4 or 1/8 Chinese or something.

I might have to do a bit of searching to confirm/deny this one.

Filiprish
08-29-2004, 04:51 PM
Someone resurrected this thread. Thread resurrector!!!
:redface: :biggrin:

asvenus
09-02-2004, 04:34 AM
god you people are toooo crazy!! but the Asian parent thing...lawdy too true!! teehee...

NotAsian..in the UK, the adopting process is quite complicated and they prefer you to be able to reflect your childs ethnic background, this stems from when alot of mixed and Black children were placed with white families in during the 60'-80's and alot of them, when they got older were very confused/abused and decided it was best for children to be placed with families that reflect their ethnicity....this is a nice idea but there are soooooo many problems with the whold idea.... but anyway euuuuww @ freckles

u r a racist
06-11-2005, 09:15 AM
you all are fucking racist. i only signed up to tell you fucking assholes how biggoted you are. would you ever say any of this to a white person? it's takes a big person to talk shit online.

deez nuts
06-11-2005, 09:24 AM
you all are fucking racist. i only signed up to tell you fucking assholes how biggoted you are. would you ever say any of this to a white person? it's takes a big person to talk shit online.

lol

Filiprish
06-11-2005, 09:32 AM
Check this out. I know this adopted girl from college and us and a bunch of AAs, 7 of us (3 guys, 4 girls) stayed at her parent's during spring break one year. One time her mom says to the four AFs, "Oh my, I feel like I have 5 daughters now!" Just think about how alienating that was to those 4 AFs. :eek:

kimpossible
06-11-2005, 10:27 AM
lol

he'd be very disappointed to know how white i was.

Fireblade
06-11-2005, 10:30 AM
you all are fucking racist. i only signed up to tell you fucking assholes how biggoted you are. would you ever say any of this to a white person? it's takes a big person to talk shit online.

Actually we would. With a backhanded slap to the face with it as well. Maybe a beat down, that is... if we call up the triads to deal in the matter. Cuz we're all so damn connected you know. One big ass Asian Mafia. I mean Family. :biggrin:

Filiprish
06-11-2005, 10:37 AM
What if the elite in China, or anywhere else in Asia, adopted "white" children?

kimpossible
06-11-2005, 10:49 AM
okay everyone. the guy or gal had to blow off some steam. let's not get out the pitchforks and torches or i'll have to close the thread.

DragonKnight
06-11-2005, 11:27 AM
Meh, just another troll.

kimpossible
06-11-2005, 11:47 AM
I don't think it was garden variety troll, probably a white adoptive mother of an Asian child. Although I'm very critical of race politics in transracial adoption, I could see why someone would be upset by our backlash humor directed at the system that involves racist ideals of Asians and Asian culture. They get a certain picture painted by the industry. How often do they come across the honest thoughts of Asian Americans on subjects like this?

They were just bad assumptions that (1) none of us are white and (2) we wouldn't or haven't said things like this directly at the street level.

It was angry, for sure but I don't think it was unfounded. Controversial topic.

Hiroshi2
06-12-2005, 05:01 PM
This thread was a trip, especially the part about what do white people eat. :biggrin:

Grasshopper
06-12-2005, 05:34 PM
I don't like freckles on my bitches!!! but adoptees are fine.
Another Lucy Liu hater! :biggrin:

>:^|
06-14-2005, 07:59 AM
I changed my mind. I'm going to get me one too. White babies are sooooo cute! Then I'm going to use it as an entree into the White world. Maybe it will grant me access to privilege. After all, we'll be a White family then. Sign me up for that White Camp, kimpossible.

Chad
06-14-2005, 08:20 AM
Seriously though.. what kind of reactions do you think an Asian couple would get if they had an adopted white baby? What about a black couple with a white baby?

Martino
06-14-2005, 08:48 AM
I changed my mind. I'm going to get me one too. White babies are sooooo cute! Then I'm going to use it as an entree into the White world. Maybe it will grant me access to privilege. After all, we'll be a White family then. Sign me up for that White Camp, kimpossible.

I'm putting myself up for adoption. Just feed me regular and give me lots of pocket money and toys.

>:^|
06-14-2005, 09:11 AM
I'm putting myself up for adoption. Just feed me regular and give me lots of pocket money and toys.

Oh, I hadn't thought about when the cute little baby grows up ... I don't want to adopt an older one, it might not be mold-able. Sorry, Martino.

P.S. Transracial adoption almost always involves White parents and kids of color, very rarely the other way around. I don't know about Asian parents and White kids (except for Scott Fujita), but courts have moved to block Black parents adopting White kids.

missmeow
06-14-2005, 11:18 PM
adopt me, im moldable.

pikachupacabra
06-14-2005, 11:28 PM
moldable? Like play-doh? Or moldable? Like you can grow mold?

Grasshopper
06-15-2005, 12:20 AM
adopt me, im moldable.
Sounds like the perfect wife! :wink:

................

......2, 3, 4...........

***nola throws a fit and goes on a rampage against the 'White supremacist capitalist patriarchy' from her cinderblock bunker complex*** :biggrin:

Meki
06-15-2005, 12:21 AM
I'm putting myself up for adoption. Just feed me regular and give me lots of pocket money and toys.

adopt me, im moldable.

Yes... I may be interested in adopting a white man-child or woman-child... However, I only have room for one of you. So let's just see which one of you is more suitable. Are you potty trained? B/c I don't do diapers. And I refuse to serve bland food... its kimchi or nothing!!

hooligan
06-15-2005, 12:21 AM
adopt meeeee

i'll adopt some of you, only the cute white chicks though.

Fireblade
06-19-2005, 03:58 AM
I don't know about Asian parents and White kids (except for Scott Fujita), but courts have moved to block Black parents adopting White kids.

Interesting... do you have any information about the courts move to block Black parents from adopting White Kids? You would figure that if the parents go through the regular legal functions and pass the state's requirements for raising a child, that race/ethnicity would not... should not be a factor in adopting a child.

cheapfujianese
06-19-2005, 04:46 AM
Im going to adopt a white girl and raise her to be a Chinese nationalist.

ahsingjai
06-19-2005, 11:19 AM
Sounds like the Blind Black KKK member from Chappelle show.

relus
06-20-2005, 10:25 AM
Asians need to start adopting white kids and asian wash them as payback :p

missmeow
06-20-2005, 04:25 PM
Yes... I may be interested in adopting a white man-child or woman-child... However, I only have room for one of you. So let's just see which one of you is more suitable. Are you potty trained? B/c I don't do diapers. And I refuse to serve bland food... its kimchi or nothing!!

I refuse to eat bland food. Let's make a deal.

>:^|
06-20-2005, 08:32 PM
Interesting... do you have any information about the courts move to block Black parents from adopting White Kids? You would figure that if the parents go through the regular legal functions and pass the state's requirements for raising a child, that race/ethnicity would not... should not be a factor in adopting a child.

Well, the trick is in the definition of the "best interest" of the child.

A black social worker was awakened from a Sunday afternoon nap by a phone call from a white youth court judge. She was told to immediately (and he really meant immediately) remove a foster child from a licensed foster home. The social worker attempted to engage the judge in some dialogue to determine the urgency of this removal and the problem with the foster placement. The social worker was told that the child just would not be comfortable with the foster family nor with the school she was attending. Again, the social worker attempted to find out why the removal of the child was so urgent. The judge did not answer other than by urging the "uncomfortableness" of the situation. The conversation ended with a severe admonishment from the judge that the social worker should do as she was ordered unless she wanted to be held in violation of a judicial order. --Angela Mae Kupenda, Adam L. Thrash, Jennifer A. Riley-Collins, LaShonda Y. Dukes, Stephany J. Lewis, and Rodney R. Dixon

There have been cases in which Black foster families housed White children for years, only to encounter difficulty when they tried to adopt.

Additionally, state law prevented Black parents from adopting White children in many states.

hooligan
06-29-2005, 02:36 PM
Well, the trick is in the definition of the "best interest" of the child.

There have been cases in which Black foster families housed White children for years, only to encounter difficulty when they tried to adopt.

Additionally, state law prevented Black parents from adopting White children in many states.

I'm going to assume, correct me if I'm wrong, that race has just a smudgen to do with this whole adoption thing?

touaregsand
06-29-2005, 03:07 PM
I thought it might be.

I have an elderly White relative that I drive around sometimes, and people always assume I'm hired help.

I have an old white uncle. I would never be seen alone with him in public. It's not that I care what people think, but fuck it just pisses me off when people snicker like I'm his bitch concubine.

I just wanna get into a fight.

I'm a peace lover. :wink:

>:^|
06-29-2005, 08:31 PM
I'm going to assume, correct me if I'm wrong, that race has just a smudgen to do with this whole adoption thing?

Oh, no, love is colorblind! You see, when you truly love somebody, you see past their race into their true self. You don't even notice that your child is White anymore, because it isn't important in the least. You wouldn't care if your child were blue or green or polka-dotted--because you only see that child as your child. And of course, once you have a White child, you have a convenient defense against racism. I can't be racist, I have a White child!

kusojiji
06-29-2005, 11:45 PM
So, I'm still on page one and the racism is thick as pea soup!

Meki
06-30-2005, 12:42 AM
So, I'm still on page one and the racism is thick as pea soup!

As opposed to the racial jokes that a lot of comedians make in regard to Asians?

I was informed that this thread was created after some parents of potential adoptees, requested advice on raising their adopted Asian child. Now I haven't looked for that particular thread myself but I'm willing to bet that there were broad generalizations and such, which probably made an already uncomfortable situation worse. Therefore, this thread serves to ease some of that frustration. I haven’t read everything in this thread, there could have been some things said that were over the top but I’ve probably heard worse on nationally broadcast shows, where comedians have said extremely offensive things about Asians. We are so often told to “take a joke” when we are mocked so can we not do the same? Personally, I don’t take that much issue with racial jokes, as long as I know the intent of the person telling them and also how they are told. I wouldn’t want to live in a world that was completely PC and sterile.

hbar00
06-30-2005, 12:54 AM
this thread is hilarious.

Here's the question: would the white kid seek out ethnically Asian friends in high school, go drinking in K-town, drive a rice rocket and major in Biology, only to have an identity crisis in college and journey to middle america to reconnect with her roots? Or would her skin color exclude her from large Asian-American from day one and force her to fall in line with WASPy America?

ahsingjai
06-30-2005, 01:35 AM
this thread is hilarious.

Here's the question: would the white kid seek out ethnically Asian friends in high school, go drinking in K-town, drive a rice rocket and major in Biology, only to have an identity crisis in college and journey to middle america to reconnect with her roots? Or would her skin color exclude her from large Asian-American from day one and force her to fall in line with WASPy America?

That kid won't have to go anywhere to see a big population of white people.

pikachupacabra
06-30-2005, 01:53 AM
As opposed to the racial jokes that a lot of comedians make in regard to Asians?

I was informed that this thread was created after some parents of potential adoptees, requested advice on raising their adopted Asian child. Now I haven't looked for that particular thread myself but I'm willing to bet that there were broad generalizations and such, which probably made an already uncomfortable situation worse. Therefore, this thread serves to ease some of that frustration. I haven’t read everything in this thread, there could have been some things said that were over the top but I’ve probably heard worse on nationally broadcast shows, where comedians have said extremely offensive things about Asians. We are so often told to “take a joke” when we are mocked so can we not do the same? Personally, I don’t take that much issue with racial jokes, as long as I know the intent of the person telling them and also how they are told. I wouldn’t want to live in a world that was completely PC and sterile.


I'd karma you again mel, but since you veer towards quality, not quantity (cough cough), I think I just karmaed one of your quality posts not too long ago...boo...

hooligan
06-30-2005, 04:49 PM
Parody threads are the best. It's when privelege is flipped on its head that people start taking notice. Anyway, it was bizarre to see posts I made like 2 years ago or so.

ism
06-30-2005, 07:48 PM
Yeah, it's unfortunate the thread this was a response to slid off the site. It should have been prepended to put it in context.

The funny thing is, Rice Cracker posted this (http://forums.yellowworld.org/showthread.php?t=17731) several months after our visiting prospective adoptive parent had informed us of the trend. Are we progressive or what?

The_Animal
08-03-2005, 06:21 PM
OK. My wife is "white" and I'm "Japanese". Hmmm, does that mean we can adopt a "White" kid? :biggrin:

The only problem is that I dunno if the kid's Northern or Southern. If the kid's southern, then I have to learn how to feed the kid "grits". :biggrin: