This girl had sex at the age of 15... [Archive]

karizma

07-06-2002, 05:01 PM

[quote:06853fd9b1]I was just kidding around. Cmon now...and i didn't read this off the net. I just copy and paste this stuff from our AIM chat.

I bet karizma thinks im some kind of a pedophile right now... [/quote:06853fd9b1]

>> i know you didnt read it off the net which makes it worse because you were actually talking to her bout that shit....you're the one who thinks she's way too young to be having sex and yet you talk to her about it and ask her if it hurt or if she went through all the positions? major yuck!! you should be ---> :oops:

angelnympho

07-06-2002, 06:53 PM

what's the big deal with that? i got pregnant when i was 16... ok wait, yeah its a big deal, but like....... its not like its something that's never happened before.

ImrkevinpakI

07-06-2002, 08:58 PM

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tapestrybabe

07-06-2002, 09:21 PM

[quote:5a3fde42cb="ImrkevinpakI"]
wow again. I think, personally, that girls who get pregnant under the age of 21 are considered whores. Now, i know it was mean, but think about it. What are you girls going to do with that baby? Are you really going to take care of it or put it in foster homes? I don't think your parents want to take care of something that you created at an early age. It doesn't surprise me. I know alot of girls who got pregnant and some even had abortions....why can't girls control their hormones and wait til they get married? If you're going to have sex, atleast use a damn condom.[/quote:5a3fde42cb]

Oh, here's a big [b:5a3fde42cb]F-YOU[/b:5a3fde42cb] to you for saying that!! Altho my sister got pregnant at age 15... she's NOT a whore!! Altho i dont promote ppl having sex at that age... its not a perfect world and ppl will go about doing their business.. no matter how much ppl get lectured to wait. And yes, my sister was responsible enough to use a condom... but you know, she got pregnant anyways. And altho it wasn't ideal.. all teenage pregnancys dont turn awry. My parents were very supportive. My sister, she finished high school, attended a prestiges college, and is now a successful business women, and is raising a bright, young, ambitious daughter who is now 14 years old going off to high school soon...

Altho a part of it is being patient to wait... I think another part of it is being able to take responsibility... which is what my sister did at a young age.. which shows maturity in her...

and this particular girl in whom you chatted with... if she's for real... i think her main problem is her lack of taking responsibility for her actions...

achtungbaby

07-06-2002, 09:29 PM

[quote:3662b298f6="ImrkevinpakI"]

wow again. I think, personally, that girls who get pregnant under the age of 21 are considered whores.

[/quote:3662b298f6]

Comments like those will never score you points with the females :D

[quote:3662b298f6="ImrkevinpakI"]I know alot of girls who got pregnant and some even had abortions....why can't girls control their hormones and wait til they get married? If you're going to have sex, atleast use a damn condom.[/quote:3662b298f6]

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ImrkevinpakI

07-06-2002, 09:47 PM

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ImrkevinpakI

07-06-2002, 09:51 PM

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tapestrybabe

07-06-2002, 09:53 PM

[quote:d0b5005178="ImrkevinpakI"]but anyhow, i don't see the reason to use foul language against me. This is a forum you know.[/quote:d0b5005178]

When it comes to [b:d0b5005178]MY FAMILY[/b:d0b5005178]... i will say [b:d0b5005178]F-YOU[/b:d0b5005178] to anyone who insults them... which i feel you did with your general statement that girls who get pregnant under the age of 21 are considered whores.

ImrkevinpakI

07-06-2002, 10:08 PM

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tapestrybabe

07-06-2002, 10:19 PM

[quote:918d5493b8="ImrkevinpakI"]First off, i didn't know you had a family member who had gotten pregnant at an early age.

If you read my statement, i meant ANY girl who had gotten pregnant before the age of 21. I was not attacking your sister there with that statment personally.

How was i suppose to know?[/quote:918d5493b8]

It doesnt matter that you didnt know. Even if i didn't have a sister who got pregnant at age 15... I still find your comment to be [b:918d5493b8]EXTREMELY[/b:918d5493b8] insulting!!! When you say ANY, it's insulting to all the girls that you mention... And that girl that you chatted with... again, if she's for real... she NOT a whore... but she's just very troubled...

ImrkevinpakI

07-06-2002, 10:21 PM

Ok fine. Next time i'll just keep it to myself. Sorry for that post then. But since i got banned from being a mod, i can't delete that post.

I am sorry.

Just makes you wonder if theres freedom to say anything you want in the US these days..

karizma

07-06-2002, 11:48 PM

>> yes there is freedom of speech in america...but with that freedom you need to take responsibility for your words and face up to the people who disagree with you. and believe me...on this topic there are A LOT of people who disagree with you. youve made a lot of inflammatory remarks throughout this site but omg this straight pissed me off...what kind of sheltered life do you live?

>> [quote:075c9050ab]I know alot of girls who got pregnant and some even had abortions....why can't girls control their hormones and wait til they get married?[/quote:075c9050ab]

- same thing goes for guys...its not like the girls are always the ones who initiate the sex...

>> [quote:075c9050ab]And this isn't to label all girls as whores. No, I meant the ones who do drugs, have sex under the age of 21, dress half naked like they are hookers and so on[/quote:075c9050ab]

- oh i get it so...only the girls who have sex under the age of 21 are whores I GET IT...and drugs? since when do drugs = sex? i can smoke weed every day if i wanted to but that still wouldnt make me a whore. mister if youre going to stereotype people you should at least make it remotely true.

>> ok ok so my point is...you are very very very clueless for your age. 'nuff said.

princess

07-07-2002, 01:49 AM

>> [quote:ccf46198e5]I know alot of girls who got pregnant and some even had abortions....why can't girls control their hormones and wait til they get married?[/quote:ccf46198e5]

yeah that double standard bothers me. guys are never called on to bear the job of a pregnancy. for the hormones thing, guys are pegged to be juss as hormonal as girls, if not more.

ImrkevinpakI

07-07-2002, 07:32 AM

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achtungbaby

07-07-2002, 12:36 PM

[quote:7464ef4419="ImrkevinpakI"]

Maybe my stereotype doesn't go on in california, but in charlotte, i drive around the city alot and i've seen girls who do coke and smoke who have had sex with alot of guys. Those are whores.

[/quote:7464ef4419]

So what are guys who do coke and smoke and have sex with a lot of girls?

jizza

07-07-2002, 12:40 PM

man-whore? :lol:

achtungbaby

07-07-2002, 12:59 PM

Thanks for clearing that up. I'd been wondering about that all morning.

ImrkevinpakI

07-07-2002, 01:27 PM

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achtungbaby

07-07-2002, 01:29 PM

[quote:167eff7ce7="ImrkevinpakI"]

Playas or pimps as you would call them.[/quote:167eff7ce7]

What would you call them?

ImrkevinpakI

07-07-2002, 01:31 PM

[quote:d267977389="achtungbaby"][quote:d267977389="ImrkevinpakI"]

Playas or pimps as you would call them.[/quote:d267977389]

What would you call them?[/quote:d267977389]

Playas or pimp. Either of those terms works.

wylin

07-07-2002, 02:18 PM

fuked up comments and topic. dude...this one espcially offended the shit outa me one of my best friends got pregnant when she was 16...i had to take her to abortion and all that bs...shez no whore nor drugs. Just a wack ass boyfriend who pressured her constantly for unprotected sex that was much older then the both of us (i was 18, she was 16, he was 21-22 cant remember). yes it does take 2 to tango and make babies...but u dont see the pressure young girls of any race/ nationality have to have sex, put out, and be sexually active w/ boyfriends. i doubt in korea or china or wherever its any different just different cultural stigma's keep people from having premaritial sex. Why just under 21? why not blanket all premarital sex as bad for oneself like the bible does. atleasts God's even handed w/ both genders. Pregnacy isnt sumthing u take lightly...esp if u actually understood the reasons and problems that get young men and women there.

and ya not alota men step up and be fathers...u sure stepped up to put it in, u should step up take care of ur buisness...too many girl-friends had to be single moms in my life....i see it far too often false promises of i'll be there or i'll marry u. But honestly i couldnt step up i met a girl b4 i really liked and she had a daughter about 3-4 yrs old at the time...i honestly couldnt be the guy who would take not just good care of the girl and her child...tho i was pretty young...so i just said forget it and said "i aint raising sumone elses kid" it was immature and stupid but the typical reaction of a 19-20yr old college kid...tisk? wat u think girls....

tisk...sorry to rant and flame...but dude...this pisses me off

wylin

07-07-2002, 02:26 PM

[quote:265da95455="ImrkevinpakI"][quote:265da95455="achtungbaby"][quote:265da95455="ImrkevinpakI"]

Playas or pimps as you would call them.[/quote:265da95455]

What would you call them?[/quote:265da95455]

Playas or pimp. Either of those terms works.[/quote:265da95455]

um thats a stereotype... i'd call them bastards if they do their buisness and leave their ladies pregnant disrought emotionally... tisk

wylin

07-07-2002, 02:27 PM

[quote:bde289f91b="jizza"]man-whore? :lol:[/quote:bde289f91b]

male + prostitute = Mastitute

male + hoochi = moochi

ImrkevinpakI

07-07-2002, 03:05 PM

haha

angelnympho

07-07-2002, 08:53 PM

Hey who erased ImrkevinpakI's posts? I really wanted to see what he had to say about girls like me... and I'd like to know why I'd be categorized into the "whore' category then.

ImrkevinpakI

07-07-2002, 08:56 PM

Drop this talk ok? i erased them myself. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but somehow , no one liked my opinions....so i erased them. There goes freedom of speech. :cry:

I think the girls here misinterpreted what i was saying about the statements earlier in the posts. Talking about it in public is easier than typing it over the net because people will misread or misunderstand the main reason and will try to put it in their own words.

Here are some things to clear this up.

1. Not all girls are whores.
2. Drugs led to sex. Take example, girls who do heavy clubbing at raves. You got nasty drugs that will make you have sexual urges. Like GHB or exstacy.
3. Having sex under the age of 18 or 21 is not only a mistake, but will have a dramatic effect on a girl's life in the future.

Any comments? feel free to flame this topic anytime.

karizma

07-08-2002, 01:14 AM

>> as wylin would say.."you're adding oil to the fire" bub...the more you try and explain yourself the deeper in a pile of doodoo you dig yourself.

[quote:72f94c1ef5]1. Not all girls are whores.
2. Drugs led to sex. Take example, girls who do heavy clubbing at raves. You got nasty drugs that will make you have sexual urges. Like GHB or exstacy.
3. Having sex under the age of 18 or 21 is not only a mistake, but will have a dramatic effect on a girl's life in the future.
[/quote:72f94c1ef5]

>> i dont know any girl who takes GHB voluntarily...could swore that was a date rape drug...xtc on the other hand yea maybe the girls might get horny but its not like thats the only thing it does...

>> having sex under the age of 18 or 21?...wouldnt having sex under 21 include sex under 18 lol...are we supposed to circle one? how do you know it has dramatic effects on a girl's future? out of all the girls i know under 21 i can count the number of virgins on one hand...now are you telling me that the rest of them are going to live a totally different life from the virgins? what exactly do you think is going to happen to a girl when she has sex? have you even HAD sex??? not that its bad to be a virgin or anything...

achtungbaby

07-08-2002, 01:47 AM

[quote:94b92c4044="ImrkevinpakI"]

1. Not all girls are whores.
2. Drugs led to sex. Take example, girls who do heavy clubbing at raves. You got nasty drugs that will make you have sexual urges. Like GHB or exstacy.
3. Having sex under the age of 18 or 21 is not only a mistake, but will have a dramatic effect on a girl's life in the future.

[/quote:94b92c4044]

I don't mean to needlessly add fire to all of this, but I wanted to point out that while you've talked at some length about your definition and judgment of "bad" girls, in other threads, you've talked about your preference for these very same "bad" girls -- the ones in pornos.

LilCPChik

07-08-2002, 08:27 AM

i'm a good lil gurl!!

DaBestSpooner

07-08-2002, 08:59 AM

you erased them because you're a fucking idiot who made stupid generalizations/comments like your normally do in the other threads and you cant live with the negative backlash. Do you even reread your posts before you submit them? Of course people will misinterpret what you say cus everyone interprets things differently but I think comments like "girls who get pregnant under the age of 21 are whores" have little room for misinterpretation.

[quote:ae85146b19="ImrkevinpakI"]Drop this talk ok? i erased them myself. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but somehow , no one liked my opinions....so i erased them. There goes freedom of speech. :cry:

I think the girls here misinterpreted what i was saying about the statements earlier in the posts. Talking about it in public is easier than typing it over the net because people will misread or misunderstand the main reason and will try to put it in their own words.

Here are some things to clear this up.

1. Not all girls are whores.
2. Drugs led to sex. Take example, girls who do heavy clubbing at raves. You got nasty drugs that will make you have sexual urges. Like GHB or exstacy.
3. Having sex under the age of 18 or 21 is not only a mistake, but will have a dramatic effect on a girl's life in the future.

Any comments? feel free to flame this topic anytime.[/quote:ae85146b19]

achtungbaby

07-08-2002, 09:34 AM

Obviously I can appreciate that this topic has touched a nerve, but please refrain from making "overt" personal attacks/insults. It's one thing to absolutely crush another person's argument or viewpoint, it's quite another thing to tear that person down.

karizma made a very good point earlier about the difference between exercising your free speech and being responsible; please observe, thanks :D

DaBestSpooner

07-08-2002, 09:54 AM

I'm sure he's losing sleep over my comments.

[quote:ac6ed8945a="achtungbaby"]Obviously I can appreciate that this topic has touched a nerve, but please refrain from making "overt" personal attacks/insults. It's one thing to absolutely crush another person's argument or viewpoint, it's quite another thing to tear that person down.

karizma made a very good point earlier about the difference between exercising your free speech and being responsible; please observe, thanks :D[/quote:ac6ed8945a]

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 01:38 PM

[quote:99b85d3381="karizma"]>> as wylin would say.."you're adding oil to the fire" bub...the more you try and explain yourself the deeper in a pile of doodoo you dig yourself.

[quote:99b85d3381]1. Not all girls are whores.
2. Drugs led to sex. Take example, girls who do heavy clubbing at raves. You got nasty drugs that will make you have sexual urges. Like GHB or exstacy.
3. Having sex under the age of 18 or 21 is not only a mistake, but will have a dramatic effect on a girl's life in the future.
[/quote:99b85d3381]

>> i dont know any girl who takes GHB voluntarily...could swore that was a date rape drug...xtc on the other hand yea maybe the girls might get horny but its not like thats the only thing it does...

>> having sex under the age of 18 or 21?...wouldnt having sex under 21 include sex under 18 lol...are we supposed to circle one? how do you know it has dramatic effects on a girl's future? out of all the girls i know under 21 i can count the number of virgins on one hand...now are you telling me that the rest of them are going to live a totally different life from the virgins? what exactly do you think is going to happen to a girl when she has sex? have you even HAD sex??? not that its bad to be a virgin or anything...[/quote:99b85d3381]

Me and my gf wait til we get married to have sex and have a child. We want to get college out of the way first. Then, once i get a good job, i will fully support my firstborn child.

Yes, i made a mistake when i said girls under the age of 21 included 18 ok? i was tired and sick when i typed that. Its common sense for you to know what i meant.

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 01:42 PM

[quote:ceb4dc3bc1="DaBestSpooner"]you erased them because you're a fucking idiot who made stupid generalizations/comments like your normally do in the other threads and you cant live with the negative backlash. Do you even reread your posts before you submit them? Of course people will misinterpret what you say cus everyone interprets things differently but I think comments like "girls who get pregnant under the age of 21 are whores" have little room for misinterpretation.

[quote:ceb4dc3bc1="ImrkevinpakI"]Drop this talk ok? i erased them myself. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but somehow , no one liked my opinions....so i erased them. There goes freedom of speech. :cry:

I think the girls here misinterpreted what i was saying about the statements earlier in the posts. Talking about it in public is easier than typing it over the net because people will misread or misunderstand the main reason and will try to put it in their own words.

Here are some things to clear this up.

1. Not all girls are whores.
2. Drugs led to sex. Take example, girls who do heavy clubbing at raves. You got nasty drugs that will make you have sexual urges. Like GHB or exstacy.
3. Having sex under the age of 18 or 21 is not only a mistake, but will have a dramatic effect on a girl's life in the future.

Any comments? feel free to flame this topic anytime.[/quote:ceb4dc3bc1][/quote:ceb4dc3bc1]

No smartguy. I erased them because i didn't want to get involved in this issue no more. This topic was also what i've been debating over at my college class last year. The statement where i meant not all girls are whores , but the ones who have sex under the age of 21 are. All the girls in my debate class seemed to agree. What else would you label them as? - one girl stated.

Another girl stated - " isn't that how asian parents are going to think in their mind? "

At least some people at my college agree with this topic.

And yes i do reread what i post. As i mentioned for the 100th time, i talk better than i write whats on my mind.

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 01:44 PM

[quote:d7f8b41419="Chasiubao_Boy"]Hey some girls just "bloom" earlier. I don't think anyone has the right to judge, what a woman does is her business. On a side note, God bless you early bloomers, those tumultuous pubescent years would have been hell without you <sniff><sniff>.[/quote:d7f8b41419]

I agree that you should'n't judge a girl and her business, but its sad to see a bright girl ruined her school career and future by dropping out at an early age to take care of a child that she has had at an early age. I know some female friends who been tru this and they told me that their bf also dropped out of school with them to support their baby.

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 01:46 PM

[quote:d6819317b3="achtungbaby"]Obviously I can appreciate that this topic has touched a nerve, but please refrain from making "overt" personal attacks/insults. It's one thing to absolutely crush another person's argument or viewpoint, it's quite another thing to tear that person down.

karizma made a very good point earlier about the difference between exercising your free speech and being responsible; please observe, thanks :D[/quote:d6819317b3]

The second statement i agree. I do take responsibilities for the statements i make. People have different viewpoints. Even though alot of people might think my comments were harsh, thats my opinion.

Heres a saying - " not all beautiful words are truthful and not all truthful words are beautiful " ...something in that line.

achtungbaby

07-08-2002, 01:52 PM

[quote:1a428273cc="ImrkevinpakI"] All the girls in my debate class seemed to agree. What else would you label them as? - one girl stated.

[/quote:1a428273cc]

Wow, this was a debate class? That's pretty scary.

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 01:59 PM

Yep. it was. during my second year at uncc. What as scary about it? Like i said, some people have different viewpoints. Not all girls answer the same.

DaBestSpooner

07-08-2002, 02:03 PM

You're still implying that all women who have sex under the age of 21 are whores. I would label them as women. FYI all the girls in your class are idiots. Show me scientific evidence or studies that lead to the conclusion that women who have sex before they are 21 arent as social adept as those who have sex after 21. I would watch my back when I'm around the ones who waited. You comments are as valuable as the bible spewers out there, maybe you should get a job blowing up planned parenthood clinics.

[quote:98fe32fb4e="ImrkevinpakI"]

No smartguy. I erased them because i didn't want to get involved in this issue no more. This topic was also what i've been debating over at my college class last year. The statement where i meant not all girls are whores , but the ones who have sex under the age of 21 are. All the girls in my debate class seemed to agree. What else would you label them as? - one girl stated.

[/quote:98fe32fb4e]

achtungbaby

07-08-2002, 02:06 PM

[quote:68c4965fc6="DaBestSpooner"]FYI all the girls in your class are idiots. [/quote:68c4965fc6]

But I bet they weren't [i:68c4965fc6]dirty[/i:68c4965fc6]!

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 02:09 PM

[quote:c214d0c725="DaBestSpooner"]You're still implying that all women who have sex under the age of 21 are whores. I would label them as women. FYI all the girls in your class are idiots.

[quote:c214d0c725="ImrkevinpakI"]

No smartguy. I erased them because i didn't want to get involved in this issue no more. This topic was also what i've been debating over at my college class last year. The statement where i meant not all girls are whores , but the ones who have sex under the age of 21 are. All the girls in my debate class seemed to agree. What else would you label them as? - one girl stated.

[/quote:c214d0c725][/quote:c214d0c725]

Women in my dictionary are ones who are successful in life, shows repect, take care of others in need and are open minded about other people's problem. So you're saying girls who are at the charlotte finest college are idiots? Have you know that they had 4.0 gpa and graduated top 10 in their hs. But, you probably don't care.

DaBestSpooner

07-08-2002, 02:10 PM

wasnt there a study that showed a correlation between females and strong academics enviorments were more open minded about sex and were more open to experimentation.

[quote:be7a859889="achtungbaby"][quote:be7a859889="DaBestSpooner"]FYI all the girls in your class are idiots. [/quote:be7a859889]

But I bet they weren't [i:be7a859889]dirty[/i:be7a859889]![/quote:be7a859889]

DaBestSpooner

07-08-2002, 02:14 PM

First of all booksmarts does not equate to common sense

I'm sure the flyovers finest would compete well in the global economy.

[quote:e617285ed0="ImrkevinpakI"]

Women in my dictionary are ones who are successful in life, shows repect, take care of others in need and are open minded about other people's problem. So you're saying girls who are at the charlotte finest college are idiots? Have you know that they had 4.0 gpa and graduated top 10 in their hs. But, you probably don't care.[/quote:e617285ed0]

kasia

07-08-2002, 02:26 PM

ipaki:

the best thing for you to do is: 1) listen to what the others have to say, 2) evaluate their perspectives in relation to your own, 3) decide whether your perspective can still hold given the points the others have made (in other words, try to come up with defenses for your perspective.) if you find it difficult or close to impossible to defend what you previously put forth given what the others said, perhaps you should change your point of view. doesn't that sound reasonable?

example of how this works:

Girl: I think guys who can't take hints and continually IM people are retarded. In addition, I think 20 year old guys who discuss sex with 15 year old girls are rather perverse and pathetic.

Guy: That's not nice.

Girl: I don't know how else to classify guys like that.

Guy: Well, think of it this way--Perhaps they're just a bit lonely and troubled. Many people who are blinded by loneliness do really weird things. That doesn't make them inherently retarded or pathetic.

Girl: You make a valid point. I guess you're right. :wink:

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 03:24 PM

Fine fine. I cannot win this stupid debate. Lets just stop this right now.

Sheesh. My opinions will be forever same.

kasia

07-08-2002, 03:35 PM

[quote:9d87887691="ImrkevinpakI"]My opinions will be forever same.[/quote:9d87887691]

why? because they are right? and if they are right, why can't you defend them?

this isn't a personal attack. but this is a debate forum and we're all here to learn--why not admit your mistakes?

karizma

07-08-2002, 05:57 PM

[quote:4b644f2309]You comments are as valuable as the bible spewers out there, maybe you should get a job blowing up planned parenthood clinics.
[/quote:4b644f2309]

>> hahaha thats so funny...

>> bah...after all this bashing i wonder if there is a reason for kpak's comments...maybe its a totally different world way over there in north carolina...tell me...do you guys wear pants on your head and shirts on you're legs?...

>> i dont understand how you can still insist that girls who have sex under 21 are whores...hasnt anything we've said opened you're eyes the least bit? or are you too stubborn to admit that the rest of the yw world is right and you and you're friends are wrong? every girl who has sex will not get pregnant...although there is a teenager giving birth probably every couple minutes...give credit to the ones who've been able to have sex responsibly and not become impregnated...and they arent all whores[/b:4b644f2309], and it isnt proven that having sex at a young age will be detrimental to one's future...youve been watching too many afterschool programs buddy...

>> there was actually a scientific research where girls who started sex at a younger age [not talking about like 12 or anything but around 16-18] tended to be more happier later in life and may do a little better in college and whatnot. not trying to advocate having sex at a young age but hey...isnt that the coolest? hahaha...

[quote:4b644f2309]Women in my dictionary are ones who are successful in life, shows respect, take care of others in need and are open minded about other people's problem. So you're saying girls who are at the charlotte finest college are idiots? Have you know that they had 4.0 gpa and graduated top 10 in their hs. But, you probably don't care.[/quote:4b644f2309]

>> you're saying women are defined as open-minded? i guess those girls arent women than if they think that any girl who has sex under 21 is a whore because thats mos def not open-minded.

>> weeee....im rambling. wheres mrazntre in all this?

jizza

07-08-2002, 06:47 PM

hmmmm, am i the only one here that has a hard time believing Paki is a college student? no offense lil guy, but it seems VERY obvious from the way you talk and express ur opinions that ur still very young. either that or I'm just way off and u've lived a very very sheltered life.

angelnympho

07-08-2002, 07:19 PM

[quote:491e1dbe2a="ImrkevinpakI"]Drop this talk ok? i erased them myself. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but somehow , no one liked my opinions....so i erased them. There goes freedom of speech. :cry:

I think the girls here misinterpreted what i was saying about the statements earlier in the posts. Talking about it in public is easier than typing it over the net because people will misread or misunderstand the main reason and will try to put it in their own words.

Here are some things to clear this up.

1. Not all girls are whores.
2. Drugs led to sex. Take example, girls who do heavy clubbing at raves. You got nasty drugs that will make you have sexual urges. Like GHB or exstacy.
3. Having sex under the age of 18 or 21 is not only a mistake, but will have a dramatic effect on a girl's life in the future.

Any comments? feel free to flame this topic anytime.[/quote:491e1dbe2a]

1. I agree
2. Drugs and sex are two completely different things. They don't always go hand in hand. I had sex LONG before I ever even THOUGHT about touching a drug.
3. It's not always a mistake. I had sex because I was in love, and I thought the timing would be right. I don't regret losing my virginity at ALL.

And why is it that suddenly on a girl's 18th birthday, she's totally ready to have sex? Having sex the day before her birthday constitutes you to call her a slut? Let me define SLUT for you... a SLUT is a girl who has sex with multiple partners within a small span of time. A SLUT is a girl who's disgustingly easy to get into bed with. Just because I had sex at an early age and because I continue to do so with the guys of my choice does not mean I'm wholly eager to jump into bed with anybody... Learn the meaning of a word before you use it.

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 08:02 PM

Im sorry ok? Sorry , sorry everyone. Happy? I made a mistake. Sheesh. And yes im a college student. As i state for the 100th time, i speak better than i write online.

I was talking to my buddy at hapkido today about pissing some people off online about this topic and he told me to tell him about it. I told him that in my opinion i said that girls who get pregnant before the age of 22 are whores and will look down upon by many parents. Whats suprising was he said this " You're wrong about it ". I was shame. I told him it was my personally opinion. Then he said " even though its your opinion, people will still think its rude and insulting". I asked him to explain . He stated " Maybe the girls were pressured to have sex at an early age, and that doesn't mean they are whores. They just made a wrong decision in their life and doesn't mean you should have labeled them as whores in the first place..."

Again i was shameful.

I asked him about the drugs = sex issue and he stated " Yes, there are drugs that will make girls vulnerable to having sex and also that doesnt label them as whores..."

So i said, thank you for teaching me.

He said " Don't worry. I understand you learn info from other people, people who might've taught you wrong".

So there you have it. Im sorry.

I know this has nothing to do with this sex/relationship topic but..here some things about me

1. Born in strict, very strict korean family.
2. Racist parents
3. I am an outcast. I don't many friends. Only 2
4. I am forbidden to date anyone except korean
5. Forbidden to have any friends of any race except korean
6. I learn by myself, no one there to support me
7. Want to succeed as a computer tech or antiterrorist personnel

One more thing. I hate to apologize. Even though girls think guys are mature when they state that they are wrong. Its embarassing enough for me. Why apologize if you make the same mistake over and over again? I feel ashamed when i make mistakes...over and over again.

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 08:05 PM

[quote:abd9ed1b15="jizza"]hmmmm, am i the only one here that has a hard time believing Paki is a college student? no offense lil guy, but it seems VERY obvious from the way you talk and express ur opinions that ur still very young. either that or I'm just way off and u've lived a very very sheltered life.[/quote:abd9ed1b15]

Yes. i live in a sheltered life. No friends. Just myself in the open world.

kasia

07-08-2002, 08:09 PM

well, so now you know.

your friend basically told you what the rest of us were telling you, no?

:wink:

ImrkevinpakI

07-08-2002, 08:13 PM

I guess. I just hate making mistakes. I know we all make them, but i make them over and over again. Talk about having no friends huh? That why i was always IMing people to have a conversation.

I seem to have an attitude problem. my sister would ask, damn why are you so pissed off alot? no friends, make repeated mistakes..you get the picture.

Kasia, thanks for not bashing me out. I personally thank you for it.

angelnympho

07-09-2002, 01:32 PM

i still cant understand where you could get that kind of fucked up logic. a girl is a whore because some sperm connected with some fucking eggs... had the guy pulled his dick out before he nutted in her, she would be a perfect little angel. whatever.

oh yeah, and "I'm sorry ok? Happy?" didn't sound like much of an apology to me. call me a cold bitch but im still hugely offended by what you had to say.

jizza

07-09-2002, 02:04 PM

lol, i like the way angelnympho talks... its rare that u hear a girl refer to ejaculating as nutting. i love it.

DaBestSpooner

07-09-2002, 02:06 PM

that is grand!

[quote:708db4c475="jizza"]lol, i like the way angelnympho talks... its rare that u hear a girl refer to ejaculating as nutting. i love it.[/quote:708db4c475]

wylin

07-09-2002, 02:31 PM

[quote:2b283d83e8="angelnympho"]i still cant understand where you could get that kind of fucked up logic. a girl is a whore because some sperm connected with some fucking eggs... had the guy pulled his dick out before he nutted in her, she would be a perfect little angel. whatever.

oh yeah, and "I'm sorry ok? Happy?" didn't sound like much of an apology to me. call me a cold bitch but im still hugely offended by what you had to say.[/quote:2b283d83e8]

cease and desist the flame wars. We should stop flaming kevin pak because one theres no point to. Yes hez a backwards person and most of u feel hez a S.O.B. and he offended you. but, 5 days and 5 pages of flames toward his views give him a break.

"can't we-all just getta along" Rodney King 1992

ImrkevinpakI

07-09-2002, 02:37 PM

[quote:478fbc2a0e="angelnympho"]i still cant understand where you could get that kind of fucked up logic. a girl is a whore because some sperm connected with some fucking eggs... had the guy pulled his dick out before he nutted in her, she would be a perfect little angel. whatever.

oh yeah, and "I'm sorry ok? Happy?" didn't sound like much of an apology to me. call me a cold bitch but im still hugely offended by what you had to say.[/quote:478fbc2a0e]

That was an apology and like i stated before...drop this issue. Is it that hard to understand?